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  Topic:  Nikah

  • Ahkam-e-Nikah (752 Questions)
  • Mahar (12 Questions)
  • Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 1 (815 Questions)
  • Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2 (429 Questions)
  •   Ques. ID 56738

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      Question As salam un alaikum., Mera sawal hai k mai ek.shia syed ladki.s nikah krna chahta hu. Or kisi ko gawah ni bnaba chahta na kisi ki ijazat lena chahta hu.,qki mjhe darr h k mjhse zinakari na ho islie mai nikah krna chahta hu allah ko.gawah maan k ,to kya mai nikah kr skta hu.,kya ladki k baap ya dada ki ijazat zruri h ??  
      Country  lucknow - india
      Answer Wssalam o alykum, G han, baap ya dada ki ijazat zarori hai or ijazat k bger nikah jaiz nahi hai. (Ref : Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2341,2342 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 3  
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      Ques. ID 61232

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      Question Sallam, maira sawal ya hy k mairi shaadi ko 3 saal ho gaya hay mairi wife ko baby nahi ho raha hay, mairi wife chati hay k mai us ki sister say shaadi karlu laykin mai apni wife ko nahi chorna chata hu, koi haal baya mai kia karu? do behno say nikha ho saqta hay? shukria.  
      Country  Karachi - Pakistan
      Answer Agar koe shakhs kisi aurat se nikah kare tu chahae wo nikah daimi ho ya ghair daimi jab tak wo aurat is ki mankohah(bivi) hay oski behen k sath nikah nahi ker sakta. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2355 ) Agar koi darj zail asmae husna ko talab e aulad ki niyat sai 40 roz tk har namaz k baad bila-nagah 40 martba prhay to wo sahib e aulad ho ga. Asma e husna ye hain “ ﯿﺎﺍﻭﻞ ﯿﺎﺑﺎﺮﺉ ﯿﺎﻤﺻﻮﺮ ﯿﺎﺨﺎﻟﻕ ﯿﺎﻤﺑﺪﺉ ” (Ref : Naway e Salaheen pg # 401) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 1  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 56755

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      Question Assalam walekum mera sawal hai ki kya koi musalmaan ladki kisi Hindu ladke se sex kiya ho to kya vo ladki kisi musalmaan ladke se shadi kar sakti hai plzz jawab de dijye  
      Country  delhi - india
      Answer Wssalam o alykum, G hank r sakti hai. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2364 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 4  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 61225

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      Question Assalam-u-Alaikum... Qibla mera nikah ho chuka hai magar abhi shadi nahi hui aur meri wife apnay parents kay ghar hai. Kia is soorat mein apni bv kay sath sohbat kar sakta hoon. Aur agar aisa karta hoon to ye gunah consider ho ga ya nahi? Rehnumai farmaye. Allah ap ko sehat aur lambi zindagi ata karay. Ameen  
      Country  Lodhran, Punjab - Pakistan
      Answer Nikah ka baad mard aur aurat aik dosere per halaal ho jaate hai. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul beore masail 31st edition, maslah #2328 ) Agar Riwaj yahi ho k jab tak rukhsati nahe hoti is waqt tak larki apnay aap ko apnay sohar k0 (jima) k lie paish nahi karti, is tarah sai k ise aik zimne shart samja jata ho to phir aurat k lie nikah k bad rukhsati se phelay sohar k lie apne aap ko paish karna wajib nahi hai. (Ref : Mujtahid se pochay gaey sawalaat, part # 4, sawaal # 149, pg # 72). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid 4  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 61217

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      Question assala o alaikum meri beti syed he or uska rishta gher syed larke se aya hoa he larka bht namaazi parheez gaar he mola ka sacha a azadaar he us larke ki maa syed hen baap iraani hen gher syed me kia me apni beti ki shadi us larke se karsakti hun jaaiz he?? plzzz answer de dijie me apki taqlid me hun  
      Country  karachi - pakistan
      Answer syedah shia aurat ka nikah ghair syed shia mard k saath ho sakta hay (Ref : Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Minhaajus saliheen Part # 3, Maslah # 221). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 4  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 61213

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      Question Salam. jnab agr pehli b.v sy ijazat liey baghair aur apne khandan se chori dosri shadi karna jaiz hai?  
      Country  Layyah - Pakistan
      Answer Mard k lie aik se ziyada musalmaan aurat se shadi karna riwayat ki roshni me mustahab hai. Aur dosre shadi karna makrooh nahe hai. Aur phele biwi se ijaazat ki zarorat bhi nahe hai. (Ref : Mujtahid se pouchey gay sawalat part # 3, ques # 105, pg # 53) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 1  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 9791

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      Question mjy yeh puchna hai k kya kisi chat room my agr koi do frnd ik dusry ko yeh keh day k han kabool hai.i mean mazak my yeh kahy k han yeh rishta kabool hai tou kya nikaah ho jata hai?  
      Country  lahore - pakistan
      Answer G Nahi.(Ref : Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail , edition # 1414 , maslah # 2335 , 2341 , 2342 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 9816

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      Question Mera Masla ye hai k main ek Hindu Larke ce peyar karta hun aur us ce shadi karna chahta hun magar mere mumy dady nahi man rahi hai aur me bahot pareshan hun. Khuda ke waste mere madad karo aur muje kuch wazaif batao main us larke ke bena nahi reh sakta  
      Country  delhi - india
      Answer Allah Taala ki di hoi Shariat e Muqaddasa main uske musalmaan hone se pehle us se shadi karna jaiz nahi hai.(Ref : aqa sistani,Jadeed faqhi masail , masala # 393 , eidition # 5 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid  
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      Ques. ID 9813

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      Question mei ak lrkay sa pyar krti hon hum na ak dinbeth k Allah or nabi pak ko apna gahwa bana k nikah kr lia. mene arbi mei pucha k mei tm ko khud py mehram krti hon us na kaha qabolto kia hmra nikah ho gaya?  
      Country  faisalabad - pakistan
      Answer Ager ap ke walid ya dada zinda hai or wo is shadi se razi nahi the to ye nikah sahi nahi hai. (Ref : Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2341 , 2342 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid  
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      Ques. ID 9825

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      Question AGAR LARKI KO SHAADI SE PEHLE MEHAR ADA KAR DIYA JAYE TO KYA US SE SHAADI SE PEHLE HUMBISTARI JAYEZ HAI.  
      Country  MUMBAI - India
      Answer G nahi nikah se pehle jaiz nahi. (Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30,eidition 1430 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid  
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      Ques. ID 9883

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      Question mutth marna galat h.aur biwi ki sath phone sex kar sakte h??  
      Country  jaipur - india
      Answer Musht-zani (muth) haraam o guhnaah e kabeera main se hai. or bivi ke sath phone-sex kar sakte hain.(Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30,eidition 1430 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid my que.  
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      Ques. ID 9882

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      Question shadi ki pahli raat mai agar shauhar sohbat mai makam ho jata hai to kya uska walima jayez nahi hai  
      Country  lucknow - India
      Answer Is main koi harj nahi hai.(Ref : Kitab Islam aue Jinsiaat pg # 157 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid  
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      Ques. ID 9874

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      Question as-salamualaikum..mere ye sawal hai ki biwi apne shohar ki penis ko munh me le skti hai ki nhi....ye sawal maine dawateislami.net pe poocha tha to unhone ise haram bataya hai...kya aap mere is sawal k jawab hadees k mutabiq batayege tafseer se plz mai apka shukr guzar rahunga  
      Country  Lucknow - Uttar pradesh
      Answer Wssalam o alykum, jaiz hai, lekin uuz e tanasul se nikalne wali ratobat ko pena haraam hai.(is liye miyan biwi apas men har qism ki lazzat hasil kr sakte hen)(Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Istiftaat I-2,I-15 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid  
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      Ques. ID 10014

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      Question Ya ali madad mera swal hai k agar shadi shuda larki k sath zinha kiya jaye to keya uski talaq ke bad us k sath nikha jaiz hai  
      Country  Hafizabad - Pakistan
      Answer Ehtiyaat e wajib ke madd e nazar jaiz nahi hai.(Ref : Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail , edition # 31 , maslah # 2367 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid Ayat ullah sistani sab  
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      Ques. ID 10094

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      Question Kia biwi ko barhana dekh sakte hain?  
      Country  Hyderabad - India
      Answer G han miyan biwi ek dusre k pure jism ko dekh sakte hen.(Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2400 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid  
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      Ques. ID 61281

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      Question Mugh sy ak bhoat bra gunah ho gaya ha me bhoat pershan hu plz Sir me ny apni wife ki back side use ki h kia mera nikah tooth gaya h mughy kia krna chahyia Allah pak sy mughfrat ki dua h k mughy muf farmay me ap k answr ka muntazir hu  
      Country  karachi - pakistan
      Answer Ehtiyaat e lazim k taur per aurat ki pust ki janib se mujamiat (intercourse) ki janib se mujamiat haram hay khah wo haiz ho ya nah ho.(Ref : Ayatullah khoe(r.h) Tauze ul masael, maslah # 456. (Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid 2  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 61282

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      Question Assalamo alaikum....mujhe ye btaen k kya hm virgin ladki se mutta kr sakte hain...agr hm vigin ladki se muta kr len to koi gunah to nai hoga...mutta kis tarah se hoga..plz reply soon.  
      Country  Amroha - India
      Answer Wssalam o alykum, ager niche di gaae sharaait mojood hon to kanwari(virgin) lerki se muta kerna jaiz hai, 1 – ager larki kawari ho or us ke baap ya dada ya pardada zinda hon to ye is nikah se razi hon, 2 – mard o orat izdiwaaj per razi hon, 3 – jo siga phar raha ho zarori hai ke wo aaqil ho, or ager apne liye siga phar raha ho to balig hona bhi zarori hai, 4 – siga pharne wale ke nazdeek mard o orat muayaan hon , 5- ehtiyaat e wajib ki bina per nikha ka siga arabi main para jaae, 6 – mard o orat ya in ke wakeel jo siga phar rahe hon wo nikha ke sige ke zarye se mard o orat ke dermiyaan izdiwaaji rishte ko qaaim karne ki niyat rakhte hon. (Ref : Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail , edition # 1414 , maslah # 2335 , 2341 , 2342 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 4  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 61299

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      Question Aoa, i am a depression patient and have some psycho problems . My parents are saying me for marrying but i don't want to spoil life of any by marrying her. what islam says about that.what should i do for my sexual desire, getting away from sins.  
      Country  Karachi - Pakistan
      Answer Shadi karna un mustahabat mai sai hai jin ki islam mai bohat ziada takeed ki gae hai is lie Rasool e Akram s.a.w.w. nai farmaya hai k “Jo shakhs shadi kar leta hai wo apna adha deen bacha leta hai.” is k alawa aur bhi be-shumar hadees moujood hain jin mai shadi karnay ki takeed ki gae hai laikin Jo shakhs shadi na krnay ki wajah sai fail e haram mai mubtila hota ho os par shadi krna wajib hai. (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Ayat ullaha Sistani d.b. Masla # 385 pg # 231) (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2407)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 4  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 56213

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      Question mera sawal ye hy keh haiz ka khun husband dekh sakta hy kia ????? plzzzz mujhe jaldi ans de dein  
      Country   - pakistan
      Answer koi harj nahi hai (is aytbaar se k miyan biwi dono ek dusre se har qism lazzart hasil kr sakte hen or ek dusre ko dekh sakte hen). (Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30,eidition 1430 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid 1  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 56217

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      Question Agar shohar Bv ko ignore kray aur Bv k baar bar bulanayat per b usk qareeb na aye,even mahinay say zada sex k liye b na aye tou Bv ko kya krna chahiye aur shohar ko gunnah hay ya nai  
      Country  islamabad - pakistan
      Answer Jab jab ap apne shohar ke saamne aain to ya waliyo or raat ko bawazoo ho kar bistar per leetne se neend aane tak ya manioo (“oo” ka arabi talaffuz arabi ke een se karain) ka wird kijye. (Ref : nawaa e saleheen , pg # 292 , 298 , ALLAH TAALA hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid 4  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 56224

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      Question If a boys sucks breasts of a girl but no milk comes out can they marry eachother later?  
      Country  srinagar - India
      Answer Yes he can, but this act is haraam and guhnaah e kabeera so do toba.(Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30,eidition 1430) , (Ref : Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail , edition # 31 , maslah # 2364 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 1  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 56230

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      Question bivi ko pyar karte waqt kuch word bolna jaise chodna ,land ,chut. kya yeh sahi hai ya nhi. pls rely.  
      Country  Bhadohi - India
      Answer Manqolah Hadees main Imaam Jaffer o Sadiq (a.s) se marvi hai ke Ager jima ke waqt baat ki jaae to khoof hai ke bacha goonga peda ho.(or riwayat k mutabiq walden ki bolchal ka asar hone wale bachhe per hota hai)(Ref : tehzib ul islaam , baab # 4 , topic # mubashirat ke aadaab , pg # 130 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid 1  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 56236

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      Question Assalamu alaikum mera sawal ye hai ke mujhe Apni Sagi Maami ( maamu's wife) ki sister se pyar ho gaya hai kya islam is rishte me shadi karne ka ijazat deta hai..?  
      Country  delhi - india
      Answer Wssalam o alykum,Agr apki mami ki behn kisi aytbar se apki mehram na ban rahi hon to phir apk liye shadi krna jaiz hoga.(Ref : Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail , edition # 31 , maslah # 2349 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 1  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 56274

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      Question Aslam janab maine bahut se question ask kiya par koi question ka jawab nahi mila Mera question hai kya biwi ko bathroom main Sohbat Karna jayej hai ya nahi Agar biwi raaji Ho to Janab ye important quuestion please mere mail par iska jawab jarur bheje Apke jawab ka hame behat intajaar rahega Email ID mnnafisahmad@gmail.com  
      Country  lucknow - india
      Answer Wssalam o alykum,G han jaiz hai. (Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30,eidition 1430 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid 2  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 61774

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      Question sir mene apni wife k sath piche se sex kar liya hai kya is ki mafi hai  
      Country  karachi - pakistan
      Answer Biwi k peechay(back) ke maqam(maqam e pakhana) main jimaa(intercourse) krna biwi k raazi na honay ki sorat men ethiyaat-e-wajib ki bina pr haram hai,agr biwi razi ho tu jaiz hay lekin shadeed makrooh hay.(Ref: Ayatullah Seestani(D.B) Al-masail e mutakhaba, maslah # 67). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid 2  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 57894

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      Question agr me apne piyar k sath bhag jao maa baap se bina poche nikah kro molvi mera nikah pare to mera nikah hoga maa bap k bina  
      Country  makkah - saudia
      Answer G nahi kunwari larki ka wali(bap ya dada) ki ijazat k bger nikah nahi hosakta.(Ref : Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail , edition # 1414 , maslah # 2335 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 1  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 14668

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      Question I am a shia syed girl. Can i marry with sunni syed boy His name is Nadir Hasan Rizvi  
      Country  Delhi - India
      Answer It is lawful for a shia boy to marry with non-shia girl except nasibi(enemy of 12 imam A.S), like this, it is lawful for a shia girl to marry with non-shia boy except nasibi but with abominate(makhrooh), But when shia girl or shia boy feels fear of astray from deen then this marry will be unlawful. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Minhajus saliheen, part#3, maslah #215 ). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 4  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 61805

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      Question BE PARDA AOURAT SE NIKAH JAIZ HA? USE PARHANA DAKHA HO TO KIYA KARA JAY?  
      Country  KARACHI - PAKISTAN
      Answer Be parda ourat se nikah jaiz ha.Laikin Mard ko chaye ke aisi ourat se shadi kare jo pak daman, shareef-ul-asl or naik ho or dunyawi or okhravi mu’amilaat me os ki madadgar sabit ho.(Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Masla # 386 pg # 232). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 1  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 61855

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      Question Me shiya nahi hu me sunni but agar aap mujhe bata sakte he ki feb me qamar dar aqrab me nikaah kyo nahi kar sakte he soo plzzz its important.  
      Country  indore - india
      Answer 1)Imam Jafer Sadiq a.s se manqool ha k jo sakhs qamar-dar-aqrab me nikah kare ga wo is nikah main khair nahi pay ga. (Ref: Tehzeeb-ul-islam, pg # 127) 2)Qamar dar aqrab main nikah kerna makhrooh hay. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Minhajus saliheen, part#3, maslah #3 ). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye) Note: is din nikah kerna faqat makhrooh hay haram ya najaiz nahi.  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 4  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 61825

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      Question Asslam ali kum sir mera ye swal he k mere parents mere zbrdsti shadi krwana chathi he uno ne mje bht mjbor kr dya he ab koi rasta nh mje shadi krne he huge lkn me kbi apne husband k hq pore nh kr pauge plz mje btae mje kia krna chaiye agr parents k hq nbate hu to husband k hq me pore nh hu pauge plz help me  
      Country  Badin - Pakistan
      Answer 1)Jab bhi waaledain ki taraf se koi hukum ya rok tok mohabbat ki wajah se ho aur os ki mukhalafat se onhein azeeyat hoti ho to aulaad ke liay on ki mukhalafat karna haraam hai.(Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31st edition, Maslah # 1387 ) 2)Jis aurat ka daimi nikah ho jay is k lie haram he k sohar ki ijazat k begair ghar se bahir nikle chahae is ka nikalna sohar k haq k manafi nab hi ho. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31st edition, maslah # 2376) 3)Bivi k liay zarori(wajib) hay k jab bhi shohar os say jinsi lazzat(sex) hasil kerna chahay tu oski khahish pori karay or shar’e uzr(any Islamic reson,i.e:in periods) k baghair shohar ko hambistari say nah rokay. (Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2376). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye) Note: Lihaza munasib yehi ha ke waldain ko pyar muhabbat se apni baat pe razi kiya jay or koi aisa kaam na kiya jay jo unki azyat ki waja banay.  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 1  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 61817

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      Question Agar koi larki pregnant ho or jis ka bacha ho us larkey se nikah kr le to kya is halat men nikah ho jata ha?  
      Country   -
      Answer 1)Agar koe shaks kisi aisi bay shohar aurat k sath zina kare jo iddat main nah ho to ehtiyat e wajib ki bina wo shaks is(aurat) k tauba kerne se pehle is se shadi nahi ker sakta.(Ref:Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31th edition,maslah #2364) 2) Ehtiyaat e mustahab ye hay k agar koe shaks zina kaar aurat se jis se khud os ne ya kisi doosre ne monh kala kia ho( zina kia ho) shadi kerna chahay tu haiz aane ka sabr kare or haiz aane k baad os k sath shadi kerle. (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Tauzee hul masail, maslah #2364) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 1  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 61418

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      Question kya hindu ldka muslim ldki se saadi kr sakta hai?to kya kya jroori hai plz btao? ldki b raazi h?  
      Country  chandigarh - india
      Answer Musalman aurat ka nikah kafir(maslan Hindo) mard se nahi ho sakta . (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31st edition, maslah # 2362) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye). Note: agar lerka musalman ho jay tu musalman lerki se nikah ho sakta hay.  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 1  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 61437

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      Question Assalam-O-Alikum mera sawal ye hai ke mera nikah mere khala zaat bhai ki beti se ho sakta hai ????  
      Country  karachi - pakistan
      Answer khala zaat bhai ki beti se nikah jaiz hai. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31st edition, maslah #2349 ) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 1  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 61439

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      Question Mera sawal h ke ager mere mamu ki joh saali h kia un ke sath mera nikal jaiz hai  
      Country  Rahim Yar Khan - Pakistan
      Answer Maamo ki saali se nikah jaiz hai. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31st edition, maslah # 2349,2354,2355) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 1  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 61456

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      Question A.o.a mera sawal ye hai k m ek larkai ko bht pyar karti hn m Nai apnay ghar walo se chup k nikah Karelia h tou kya mera nikah jaiz h??? Aur hum logo ka bht jhagra hota hai ab ek bar mere shohar nai mjy gussa m mjy bola m tumhai talaaq daita hun sirf ek br bola call pa m Nai ye alfaz suntai he call katdi phr unho Nazi my shemafi mangi  
      Country  karachi - pakistan
      Answer 1)Nikah main sigah (nikah k bool) perhna zarori hai (chahay phone par ho ya samnay beth kar)aurat aur mard ka faqat razi hona aur isi terh nikah nama likhna ehtiyat e wajib ki bina par kafi nhi hai. Aqd e nikah ki kuch shrait hain jin mai sai kuch ye hain k:- 1). Ehtiyaat e wajib he nikah ka sigah sahih arabi me parha jaay,or agar khud merd or aurat sighah arbi main nah perh saktay hon tu arbi k alawa kisi dosri zaban main perh saktay hain or kisi ko vakil banana lazmi nahi hay. 2. sigha parhne wala aqal mand ho or agar apne lie perh raha ho to baligh hona bhi zurari he . 3. ye k merd or aurat or uska vakil sigha parhte waqt qasd e insha(nikah ka irada) rakhte hon. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2328+2335) 2)Kunwari(virgin) lerki os waqt tak nikah(daimi / mutah) nahi ker sakti jab tak k lerki ka Baap ya Dada lerki ko nikah ki ijazat nah day day.or yehi hokum ehtiyaat e wajib ki bina(base) per os sorat main bhi hay k jab larki khud mukhtar or balig bhi ho. agar lerki kawari nah ho tu os k liay baap ya dada ki ijazat ki zororat nahi hay.(yahaan kawari nah honay say muraad sirif ye hay k aisi lerki jo talaaq yaafta ho ya baywah ho or oskay shohar nay oskay saath hambistari /jima(intercourse) kia ho or os kay kawaray pan ko khatam kia ho or oski iddat bhi khatam ho chuki ho. agar zina ya aisay hi kisi kaam say oska kawarapan khatam hoa ho tu ye kawari hi kehlaay gi. isi terah agar baap ya dada os merd k sath osay shadi kernay ki ijzat nah daitay hon jo sharan(Islam ki nazar main) or urfan(mea’ashay ki nazar main) os k brabri(equal) ka ho tu ijazat ki zarorat nahi, isi terah baap ya dada maujood nah hon ya kisi doosri wajah say ijazat laina mumkin hi nah ho or lerki ka nikah kerna bohat zarori ho tab hi baap ya dada say ijazat laina lazmi nahi hay jis jagha aurat k lie baab ya dada se ijazat lena zarori hai agar wo ijazat lie beghair nikah kare to us ka nikah batil hai laikjn agar baab baad me ijazat de de to nikah sahe ho jaay gha. . (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2341,2342) )(ref: sistani.org,arbi, )Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 1  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 61488

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      Question Salam, Agha Sahib, sb sy pehly ham Rab e Kareem sy Doa Goo hy k apko iss Azeem kam k krny pr ajr e Azeem Ata Farmayee. Ameen. Molana sahib mera ak question hy kindly jawab jald sy jald send kr dena ap ki mehrbani hoo gii ta ham islam pr amal pera hoo sky. Agha Sahib mera swal ye hy k kia ak insan jis ka nikah hoo chuka hoo magr abi Rukhsti na howi ho matlb abi Shadi na howi hoo aur us ki wife abi apny Parents k gaar ho to kia woo walden parents sy chup kr rat ko ya kisi bi waqt donoo mill skty hy maa baap ko dhoka dy kr ku k abi hamry moshara to uny milny ki ijezaat ni deta ku k abi un ki shadi ni howi just nikah howa hy ? kindly jawab zaroor de dy jald sy jald. kia agr wo donoo chup kr milly aur just kiss hug etc kry to koi gunha to ni hy ku k un k parents to abi ye bardasht ni kry gy naa ? plz give me the answer with detail. Allah paak apki Tofeiqaat mein Izafa farmayee ameeen.  
      Country  Lahore - Pakistan
      Answer 1)Sigah nikah k zarie mard aurat per aur aurat mard per halal ho jate hai(yani mian biwi wale talukat qaim ker sakte hai) (Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) before Masla # 2328) 2)Agar riwaj yehi ho k jab tak rukhsati nahi hoti is waqt tak larki apnay aap ko apne sohar k lie pash nahi karti is tara se k ise aik zimne sart samja jata ho to phir aurat k laye nikah k baad rukhsati se phele shohar k lie apnay aap ko pesh karna wajib nahi hai.(Ref : Mujtahid se pochay gaey sawalaat, part # 4, sawaal # 149, pg # 72) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid 4  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 61489

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      Question As salam o alikum mera sawal yeh ha kay mein 22 age ma ek larkay se bat krti thi or hum interestd thy,hum fone pe bat kar rahy thy ek book rakhi thi mere pass jo Kay ab muje nhi mil rahi, us book ma likha tha ky agar larki larka yeh parhle unka nikkh hojaega, mein ne wo qurani ayat parhli or usko bhi parha di 3 dafa or phir yeh kam kar kay mein bhool gae kuin kay ma ne yeh bat serious nhi li thi or us larkay ne bola bhi kay waqi nikkah hogaya ha per ma ne serious nhi liya.Ab bataen humhara nikkah hogya yeh nhi? Mera kuch months phele nikkah hoa ha proper moulana ne sejhe parhe signture hoye ha mere father ki razamandi se wo koi or ha. Muje achanak yeh bat yad agae kay me ne aisa kara tha Ab samjh nhi araha kay konsa nikkh h konsa nhi Mujhe as ghalati se bahar nikalne ma madad kijiye.  
      Country  Karachi - Pakistan
      Answer Nikah faqat irade ya dua perhne se nahi ho jata balkeh o ski khuch sharait hain jo ye hain: 1)Nikah chahay daimi ho ya ghair daimi(yani muta) is main seeghah (nikah k bool) perhna zarori hay.aurat or merd ka faqat raazi hona kafi nahi, or isi terah (nikah naama) likhna ehtiyaat e wajib ki bina per kaafi nahi hay. Aqd e nikah ki khuch shara,it hain jin me se khuch ye hain k:- 1)Ehtiyaat e wajib he nikah ka seeghah sahih arabi me parha jaay,or agar khud merd or aurat sighah arabi main nah perh saktay hon tu arbi k Alawa kisi dosri zaban main perh saktay hain or kisi ko vakil banana laazimi nahi hay. 2) sigha parhne wala aqal-mand ho or agar apne lie perh raha ho to baligh hona bhi zurari hai . 3)Merd or aurat or uska vakil sigha parhte waqt qasd e insha(nikah ka irada ) rakhte hon. (ref : tauzeeh e ul masayl ayat ullaha sistani (d.b.) masla # 2328+2335) Agar merd or aurat khud ghair daimi nikah(muta) ka seegah perhna chahain to, nikah ki muddat aur meher taay karney k baad pehlay aurat kahay k (زوجتک نفسی فی المدۃ المعلومۃ علی المھر المعلوم)(Zauwajtoka nafsee fil muddatil ma’loomati alal mahril ma’loom) Or os k baad merd furan kahay (قبلت)(qabilt) tu nikah ho jaay ga. (ref : tauzeeh e ul masayl ayat ullaha sistani (d.b.) masla # 2334).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 4  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 61490

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      Question kya bibi ka chuchi aur chut peene se nikah toot jata hai  
      Country  gujrat - india
      Answer Shohar or biwi aik dosray ki sharamgaah ko monh(mouth) laga saktay hain,magar ye k sharamgaah say nikalnay wali ratoobat Halaq mian nah jaay.Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Istiftaat I-2,I-15) 2)Shohar biwi ki breast suck(choos) ker sakta hay,leikin agar shohar biwi ke breast ko suck karey aur moo mai doodh aa jaye, toh ehtiyaat wajib ye hay k biwi ka doodh nah piaya jaay(yaani halaq say neechay nah utara jaay.)(Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), E-Mail from Answers@najaf.org).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid 1  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 61494

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      Question Salam.. mera sawal yi ha ki ma aik larky si muta karna chahta ho likin us ny 2 bar sex kia howa ha already apny boyfriend ki sath. isky liya usky father se ijazat liny zarori ha ya nahi... likin ijazat lina bhot mushkil baat ha.... ha aur larky kamaty be ha (job karty ha ) larky ahli sunnat si talooq rakty ha.plz bht jaldi reply dy.... thanks  
      Country  jakarta - Indonesia
      Answer Kunwari(virgin) lerki os waqt tak nikah(daimi / mutah) nahi ker sakti jab tak k lerki ka Baap ya Dada lerki ko nikah ki ijazat nah day day.or yehi hokum ehtiyaat e wajib ki bina(base) per os sorat main bhi hay k jab larki khud mukhtar or balig bhi ho. agar lerki kawari nah ho tu os k liay baap ya dada ki ijazat ki zororat nahi hay.(yahaan kawari nah honay say muraad sirif ye hay k aisi lerki jo talaaq yaafta ho ya baywah ho or oskay shohar nay oskay saath hambistari /jima(intercourse) kia ho or os kay kawaray pan ko khatam kia ho or oski iddat bhi khatam ho chuki ho. agar zina ya aisay hi kisi kaam say oska kawarapan khatam hoa ho tu ye kawari hi kehlaay gi. isi terah agar baap ya dada os merd k sath osay shadi kernay ki ijzat nah daitay hon jo sharan(Islam ki nazar main) or urfan(mea’ashay ki nazar main) os k brabri(equal) ka ho tu ijazat ki zarorat nahi, isi terah baap ya dada maujood nah hon ya kisi doosri wajah say ijazat laina mumkin hi nah ho or lerki ka nikah kerna bohat zarori ho tab hi baap ya dada say ijazat laina lazmi nahi hay jis jagha aurat k lie baab ya dada se ijazat lena zarori hai agar wo ijazat lie beghair nikah kare to us ka nikah batil hai laikjn agar baab baad me ijazat de de to nikah sahe ho jaay gha. . (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2341,2342) )(ref: sistani.org,arbi, )  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 4  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 61510

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      Question mje pochna ha k meri bari bahan ki 2 betia ha or uske husband ki death hogai ha uski idat k bad uske or mere beach sex hua ha hala k ye galat ha but hogya ab kia koi tarika ha jis se mara us se nikkah jaiz ho jae plz jawab zaroor di jiye ga bcz wo pregnet ho gai or mje smjh nii aa raha k ma kia karo wo b bht tension ma ha urgent masla ka hal batye ga or toba ka tarika b  
      Country  lahore - pakistan
      Answer Insaan ki behan us ki mehram hoti hai aur us k sath shadi karna jaiz nahi hay. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31st edition, maslah #2349 ) Zina krna gunah e kabeera hai . (Ref : Minhaj us salaheen Ayat ullah sistani d.b. part # 1, masla # 30) shoar aur biwi k ilawa kise aur tariqe se jinse lazzat hasil karna kerna gunah e kabira hay . .(Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30), Jo shaks shadi na hone ki waja se fale haraam me mubtela hota ho is per wajib ha k shadi kar le.(Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2407) Jis insaan se ghuna hoya ho wo Sub se pehlay shermindagi ka ehsaas karain or Allah se maghfirat talab karain or khud se ehed or wada karain k is gunah ko dobara anjaam nahi dain gay, or hameshah yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko daikh raha hay, or is gunah ko anjaam day ker aap shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na-fermani ker rahay hain.aap koshish karain k khuch mufeed kamo main khud ko masroof ker lain jaisay sport, perhai waghaira, or har os cheez se bachain jo aap ki jinsi khahish ko ubharay ya baydaar karain. Agar aap khud par qabo nah paa saktay hoon to roza rakhain q k roza ghunahoo k muqabilay mai dhal ka kaam karta hai. (E-mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: Sep 27, 2010). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 1  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 60717

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      Question kya shadi ki pahli rat ko orat or mard ko apas my mubashrat karna zarori ha?  
      Country  Gujranwala - pakistan
      Answer Shadi k pehli raat hambistari kerna wajib nahi hay. (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), email rcvd) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid 1  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 60757

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      Question Assalamo alikum sir. Sir agr kese ke mangne howe ho or larke ka gar say rohsate na howe ho or wo ph0ne pe ek dosary say baton mai laraye ho gaie o 3 bar talaq de mbile pe to kaia ye talaq h0 gaie. Or agr ho gaie to sa ka saza kaia hai or sa ka g0naha ka magfi kayse mangne chahe plz sir tafseal say batayen.  
      Country  swabi - pakistan
      Answer Mangi kerne se nikah nahi ho jata is liay talaq kehne se talaq nahi hogi, talaq nikah k baad kehna durust hoti hay os se pehle nahi. (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Tauzee hul masail, maslah# 2462 to 2464 & pg#460) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 1  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 11446

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      Question a.s. Me ek ladki ko chahta hu mene uske sath nikah krliya h, hmare nikah ke bare me sirf 4 log jante he, hum dono or hamare 2 dost, jinke samne humne nikah kiya tha. Nikah me humne phle apne ap us ldki se ijajt li or usne mere nikah me ane ki ijazt dedi or fir humne usko nikah me rkhna kabool kr liya. Bakayda is bat ko hmare dono dosto ne hum dono k same sari bato ko suna bi or wo nikah k gawah h. aor na hamare ghr wale, aor na ladki k ghr wale hamare nikah k bare me jante h. aor hum dono insah allha ekk sath jindagi gujarne ka irada bi kiya h. aor hum dono k ghr wale ek am tarike se hamai vidai kr de iski dua krte he. chahte h ki hmare gh walo ko pta na chale aor hamara bat krna bi jayiz ho jaye, Kya hum is nika ke jariye jo bate krte he ye gunah to nai he?  
      Country  lucknow - india
      Answer 1)Nikah chahay daimi ho ya ghair daimi(yani muta) is main seeghah (nikah k bool) perhna zarori hay.aurat or merd ka faqat raazi hona kafi nahi, or isi terah (nikah naama) likhna ehtiyaat e wajib ki bina per kaafi nahi hay. Aqd e nikah ki khuch shara,it hain jin me se khuch ye hain k:- 1)Ehtiyaat e wajib he nikah ka seeghah sahih arabi me parha jaay,or agar khud merd or aurat sighah arabi main nah perh saktay hon tu arbi k Alawa kisi dosri zaban main perh saktay hain or kisi ko vakil banana laazimi nahi hay. 2) sigha parhne wala aqal-mand ho or agar apne lie perh raha ho to baligh hona bhi zurari hai . 3)Merd or aurat or uska vakil sigha parhte waqt qasd e insha(nikah ka irada ) rakhte hon. (ref : tauzeeh e ul masayl ayat ullaha sistani (d.b.) masla # 2328+2335) Agar merd or aurat khud ghair daimi nikah(muta) ka seegah perhna chahain to, nikah ki muddat aur meher taay karney k baad pehlay aurat kahay k (زوجتک نفسی فی المدۃ المعلومۃ علی المھر المعلوم)(Zauwajtoka nafsee fil muddatil ma,loomati alal mahril ma,loom) Or os k baad merd furan kahay (قبلت)(qabilt) tu nikah ho jaay ga. (ref : tauzeeh e ul masayl ayat ullaha sistani (d.b.) masla # 2334). 2) kawari(virgin) lerki os waqt tak nikah nahi ker sakti jab tak k lerki ka Baap ya Dada lerki ko nikah ki ijazat nah day day.or yehi hokum ehtiyaat e wajib ki bina(base) per os sorat main bhi hay k jab larki khud mukhtar or baligh bhi ho. agar lerki kawari nah ho tu os k liay baap ya dada ki ijazat ki zororat nahi hay.(yahaan kawari nah honay say muraad sirif ye hay k aisi lerki jo talaaq yaafta ho ya baywah ho or oskay shohar nay oskay saath hambistari /jima(intercourse) kia ho or oskay kawaraypan ko khatam kia ho or oski iddta bhi khatam ho chuki ho.agar zinaa ya aisay hi kisi kaam say oska kawaraypan khatam hoa ho tu ye kawari hi kehlaay gi. isi terah agar baap ya dada os merd k saath osay shaadi kernay ki ijzat nah daitay hon jo sharan(Ismlam ki nazar main) or urfan(maa,aashay ki nazar main) os k brabari(equal) ka ho tu ijazat ki zarorat nahi, isi terah baap ya dada ki maujood nah hon ya kisi doosri wajah say ijazat laina mumkin hi nah ho or lerki ka nikah kerna bohat zarori ho tab hi baap ya dada say ijazat layna laazmi nahi hay. (Ref : Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2341,2342).( aur jagha aurat k lie baab se ijazat lena zarori hai agar aurat ijazat na le to ehteyate wajib k bina per nikah batil hai( ref: sistani.org, urdu ) per jo kohe Shi nikah k bagair hambistri krna haram hai. q k wo zina ho jae ga aur zina gunah e kabeera mai shumar hota hai. (Ref : Minhaj us salaheen Ayat ullah sistani d.b. part # 1, masla # 30,eidition,2009) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid shadi  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 11444

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      Question i have done mutta with a virgin girl without her fathers permission it is a sin?and what is its kafaaraa?  
      Country  lahore - pakistan
      Answer kawari(virgin) lerki os waqt tak nikah nahi ker sakti jab tak k lerki ka Baap ya Dada lerki ko nikah ki ijazat nah day day.or yehi hokum ehtiyaat e wajib ki bina(base) per os sorat main bhi hay k jab larki khud mukhtar or baligh bhi ho. agar lerki kawari nah ho tu os k liay baap ya dada ki ijazat ki zororat nahi hay.(yahaan kawari nah honay say muraad sirif ye hay k aisi lerki jo talaaq yaafta ho ya baywah ho or oskay shohar nay oskay saath hambistari /jima(intercourse) kia ho or oskay kawaraypan ko khatam kia ho or oski iddta bhi khatam ho chuki ho.agar zinaa ya aisay hi kisi kaam say oska kawaraypan khatam hoa ho tu ye kawari hi kehlaay gi. isi terah agar baap ya dada os merd k saath osay shaadi kernay ki ijzat nah daitay hon jo sharan(Ismlam ki nazar main) or urfan(maa,aashay ki nazar main) os k brabari(equal) ka ho tu ijazat ki zarorat nahi, isi terah baap ya dada ki maujood nah hon ya kisi doosri wajah say ijazat laina mumkin hi nah ho or lerki ka nikah kerna bohat zarori ho tab hi baap ya dada say ijazat layna laazmi nahi hay. (Ref : Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2341,2342). Jis jagha per aurat k lie baab se ijazat lena zarori ho agar aurat baab se ijazat na le to nikah batil hai laikin agar aurat ka waalid baad me ijazat de de to nikah sahe hogha.(sistani.org,arbi,oliyahe aaq,que:1) Shi nikah k bagair hambistri krna haram hai. q k wo zina ho jae ga aur zina gunah e kabeera mai shumar hota hai. (Ref : Minhaj us salaheen Ayat ullah sistani d.b. part # 1, masla # 30) Toba karein Parwar digar ne quran me wadah kia he k wo toba karney walon ki toba ko qabool karta he aur aisa hargiz nahi ho sakhta he k wo apne wadeh per amal na karey. Aur ghuna se bachney k lie mazboot irada chahiea. (Ref : sistani.org ques # 1 , toba) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid shia  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 11476

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      Question kia aurat k peche sex karne se us ko hamal ho sakta  
      Country  gujranwala - pakistan
      Answer 1)Jee nahi is se hamal nahi hota. (ref: Ayatullah Seestani(D.B) Al-masail e mutakhaba, maslah # 67). Is silsi;le me docter se ruju kare. 2)Biwi k peechay k maqam(maqam e pakhana) main hambistari kerna biwi k raazi nah honay ki sorat main ethiyaat e wajib ki bina per haram hay, agar biwi raazi ho tu jaiz hay laikin shadeed makrooh hay.(Ref : Ayatullah Seestani(D.B) Al-masail e mutakhaba, maslah # 67). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 11469

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      Question Assalam O Alykum Sir Mera Sawal Yeh Hain ke Biwi Ko Peechey Kerne Se Nikha Batil Ho Jata Hai.  
      Country  Karachi - pakistan
      Answer Biwi k peechay k maqam(maqam e pakhana) main hambistari kerna biwi k raazi nah honay ki sorat main ethiyaat e wajib ki bina per haram hay, agar biwi raazi ho tu jaiz hay laikin shadeed makrooh hay.(Ref : Ayatullah Seestani(D.B) Al-masail e mutakhaba, maslah # 67) Is se nikah nahe toota. (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid Ayatullah Sistani  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 11489

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      Question Islam mien mohabbet ki shadi jaiz hai ya nahi ager larka aur larki apis mien aik dusry ko dil o jaan say pasand karty hon aur gher waly na manty hon to phir kia karna chahiye? Jb k haqieqet yai hai k hum donon aik dusry k bina nahi rah sakty hamien koi rasta bataien  
      Country  Peshawar - Pakistan
      Answer Jins e mukhalif sai is had tak dosti karna k mohabbat ki had tak pounch jay, ye jaiz nahi hai q k ghunnah mai hubtilla honay ka khof mojoud hay. (Ref : Nigah aur libas sawal # 106 pg # 69) Kunwari(virgin) lerki os waqt tak nikah(daimi / mutah) nahi ker sakti jab tak k lerki ka Baap ya Dada lerki ko nikah ki ijazat nah day day.or yehi hokum ehtiyaat e wajib ki bina(base) per os sorat main bhi hay k jab larki khud mukhtar or balig bhi ho. agar lerki kawari nah ho tu os k liay baap ya dada ki ijazat ki zororat nahi hay.(yahaan kawari nah honay say muraad sirif ye hay k aisi lerki jo talaaq yaafta ho ya baywah ho or oskay shohar nay oskay saath hambistari /jima(intercourse) kia ho or os kay kawaray pan ko khatam kia ho or oski iddat bhi khatam ho chuki ho. agar zina ya aisay hi kisi kaam say oska kawarapan khatam hoa ho tu ye kawari hi kehlaay gi. isi terah agar baap ya dada os merd k sath osay shadi kernay ki ijzat nah daitay hon jo sharan(Islam ki nazar main) or urfan(mea,ashay ki nazar main) os k brabri(equal) ka ho tu ijazat ki zarorat nahi, isi terah baap ya dada maujood nah hon ya kisi doosri wajah say ijazat laina mumkin hi nah ho or lerki ka nikah kerna bohat zarori ho tab hi baap ya dada say ijazat laina lazmi nahi hay. (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2341,2342) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 11483

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      Question kya apni biwi pet main ker sakhtay hai  
      Country  faisalabad - pakistan
      Answer Biwi k peechay k maqam(maqam e pakhana) main hambistari kerna biwi k raazi nah honay ki sorat main ethiyaat e wajib ki bina per haram hay, agar biwi raazi ho tu jaiz hay laikin shadeed makrooh hay.(Ref : Ayatullah Seestani(D.B) Al-masail e mutakhaba, maslah # 67). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 11518

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      Question mere age 21 year hai aur mai jis sai nikah krna chahta ho wo mujh sai 24 sal bri han,,hum dano ik dosry ko bhot chahty han,hum gunah nhe krna chahty kia hum nikah kr sakty han?  
      Country  islamabad - pakistan
      Answer Musalmaan mard apne se bare umar wali musalmaan aurat se nikah karsakta hai. Muslman, muslman ka kafo(barabar,manind) hai aur momin mard momin aurat ka kafo hai. (Ref : Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Minhaajus saliheen Part # 3, Maslah # 221). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 11517

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      Question shadi ki phli raat ko agr peechay say ho jay bivi ko nikah toot jay ga kia?light na honay ki wajah say mard 2uh nahi dekh paya or orat bhe kamsin ya phir atna shaorr nahi yeah smjh laian in short dono ko pta bad main chala k pechay ho gaya ...thori roshni dalain ...plzz  
      Country  sialkot - pak
      Answer Biwi k peechay k maqam(maqam e pakhana) main hambistari kerna biwi k raazi nah honay ki sorat main ethiyaat e wajib ki bina per haram hay, agar biwi raazi ho tu jaiz hay laikin shadeed makrooh hay.(Ref : Ayatullah Seestani(D.B) Al-masail e mutakhaba, maslah # 67). Note:(Is se nikah nahe toota.) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 11543

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      Question sir mera question yeh hay k periods main wife sath humbistari jaiz hay .aour kin halat main avoid karna chaheya .plz reply  
      Country  lahore - pakistan
      Answer Halat e haiz or nifaas mai jima aurat ki agli ki sharamgaah me jima krna mard aur aurat dono k lie haram hai. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 448). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid yes  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 11534

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      Question sir, mera sawal ye he k apni bivi ko skun punchane k liay us ki breast mu me chosna jaez he k nahen? aor agar bivi bachey ko dod pilati ho aor breast chosne k doran dod shohar k mu me chala jay to kya karna chahiay? please mere sawal ka jawab e.mail per he send karen shukria.  
      Country  Peshawar - Pakistan
      Answer Shohar bivi k breast suck(choos) ker sakta hay,laikin agar shohar biwi ke breast ko suck karey aur moo mai doodh aa jaye, toh ehtiyaat wajib ye hay k bivi ka doodh nah piaya jaay(yaani halaq say neechay nah utara jaay.).(Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), E-Mail from Answers@najaf .org). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)Note : wo suck kar saktay hain magar doodh halaq mai na jae.  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 11523

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      Question AULAD KAY LIYE KYA TARIKA HY HAMBISTARI KA  
      Country  KARACHI - PAKISTAN
      Answer 1)Bivi k saath jima (intercourse) ka islami tariqa ye hai k jima k waqt mustahab hai k bismillah perhi jaay, or baa wuzu hon khaas taur per jab biwi haamla ho,or jima k waqt jo kaam makrooh hain un main say kuch ye hain 1.soraj or chaand gerhan ka hona,2. zawaal e aaftab ka hona siwaay jumeraat k din k, 3. groob e aaftaab k waqt ka hona, 4.chand ki aakhri 3 raaton main jima kena, 5.fajar k baad soraj nikalnay say pehlay, 6.islami mahinay ki pehli taarikh siway Ramazan ki pehli raat(Chaand raat)main , 7. islami mahinay ki darmiani or aakri taarikh main jima kerna, 8.qiblay ki taraf rukh ya pusht kerna, 9.berhana (naked) halat main jima kerna, 10.ehtilaam k baad baghair wuzu k jima kerna, 11.jima k waqt bivi ki sharamg ko dekhna makrooh hai. (Ref : Minhaj us salaheen Ayat ullah sistani d.b. part # 3 masla # 5 ) Shohar ko chahiay k jima se pehlay masaas(orgasm) kare, yaad rakhna chaiay k masaas or dastbaazi k is amal main merd khososi tawajjah rakhe, yani wo piyaar o muhabbat ki baato k sath sath aurat ko good main lay , boos o kinaar kare, pistano(brest) ki niple ko masle, pistano ko dhere dhere dabae,honto ya zabaan ko ahista ahista chosay, baghal, guddi, raan waghera main ungliyaan phere, sharamgaah k ander ungli dakhil ker k halke hlake harkat day , apna uzo e tanasul(penis) aurat k hath main day takeh wo ose dhere dhere dabae or inteshaar(yani uzu e tanasul main tanao) paida hone per apne jazbaat or khahishaat ko os waqt tak qabo main rakhe jab tak aurat ki saansain ukharhni nah shuru ho jain, is k baad jab jima shuru kia jaay tu jab jima k doran aurat k munzil hone (discharge) k bilkul qareeb ho yani wo baytabana harakaat karay, merd se chumtay, liptay, apne hatho ya taango se merd ko kas ker daba,ay. Tab merd bhi jaldi jaldi dkhool(inserting of penis) or ikhraaj(emiting of penis) ker k farigh ho jaay, agar ittefaaq se aurat is waqt tak munzil nah ho or wo apne haatho ya taango se merd ko kas k daba rahi ho takeh merd alag nah ho tu merd ko chahiay k is waqt tak apne aala e tanasul(penis) ko aurat ki sahramgaah se bahar nah nikalay jab tak k aurat munzil nah hojaay, phir khuch dair baad penis ko nikaal ker merd aahistagi se aurat se alag hojaay. .(Ref:Islam or jinsiyaat, mu,allif doctor muhhammed taqi ali abdi, pg#150-151). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 60872

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      Question Mera 1 Question hai...main ny bht kuch parha is baary me but main yaqeen nai kr skti jab tak main Quran Pak me Na parh lun..mujhy ye bt poochni hai k syed larki agr kisi Nonsyed sy pyar krti h aur vo larka b bht pyar krta and 2no shadi krna chahty hain to kya ye shadi ho skti h..hamary khandan valon k mutabiq ye h k syed larki ka nikah non syed sy jayiz nhi Infact Gunah hai..plz Quran ki roshni sy Detail btai jaye plzzz its very Important...  
      Country  Karachi - Pakistan
      Answer Mujtahideen k diye howe 1 hukum ko samajne k liye kafi Uloom ko phar kar samajna zarori hai (maslan Mantiq, Ilm e Usool, Ilm e Fiqh, Ilm e Rijaal ect) pas is wajah se is hokum ki illat o sabab ko yahan bayaan karna or ap ka samajna mushkil hai, keh Syed Shia larki ka nikah Shia larke se jaiz hai, chahe ye larka syed ho ya nah ho. (Ref : Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Minhaajus saliheen Part # 3, Maslah # 221 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 1  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 60897

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      Question Mai 1 Syed shia larki hn. 10 saal se 1 shak mje muhabat krta hai par ab wo kehta hai k mai tm se tbi shadi krn ga, jb tm apna fika chor do auR sunni ho jao. mai asa ni kr skti kyn k mai 14. MASOMMAIN A.S se bohat pyar krti hn mai ne har mumkin khosih ki k wo samaj jaye usy majalis b sunwain mgar us ka dil ni badla. mera us se koi zahiri jismani taluaq ni, mgr wo phone pe mje se baat krta tha aur mje anpi biwi manta tha. wo muje phone pe pyar krta tha, mai bohat ghabrati ti, mgr wo kehta tha k kuch ni hota mai uski biwi hon, gunah ni milta, mgar ab wo shaks badal gia hai. mai us k sath isi ly thi ta k usko IMAM HUSSAIN a.s ki pehchhan karwaon magar us ko hidayat ni ani mai ab us se alag hona chati hn. muje ALLAH pak se bohat dar lagta hai aur is baat ka b sachay dil se ahssas hai. bus mai yai chati hn k Allah pak mje maaf kr dy aur IMAM HUSSAIN a,s mje se razi ho jain muje aur kuch ni chaiye. mai depression mai chali gia hn bohat bimar hn, mje lagta hai zindgi khatam ho gia. ap please meri rehnumai krain mje is masalay ka haal aur kafra batain k mai kia kron mai hath jorti hn meri madad krain. agr mai is shak ko chor k kisis aur insan se shadi krti hn to kia mje usy pehly apni suchai batani hogi? kyn k mai kisi momin se jhoot bhoolna ni chati ap meri rehnumai kr k mje mere masalay ka complete haal batain  
      Country  lahore - pakistan
      Answer 1)Agar shia aurat ko apne shia mazhab k tabdeel na hone ka khouf nah ho to sunni mard se shadi kar sakte hai .Laikin phir bhi aurat k liay shadi karna makhroh hai, aur agar shia mazhab k tabdeel ho jane ka khouf ho to jaiz nahi hai (Ref : Minhaj us salaheen Ayat ullah sistani d.b. part # 3 masla # 215,eidition4th) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye). (Ref : Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail , edition # 31 , maslah # 01) , (Ref : Mujtahid se pochay gaey sawalaat, part #1 , sawaal #134, pg # 70). 2) Doosro k saamne gunah ka iqraar kerna jaiz nahi hay. (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), mujtahid se pochay gay sawalaat, part#2, maslah #223) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 4  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 60923

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      Question agar koi larki apni marzi say shadi na karay to is ka koi guna hai  
      Country  lahore - pakistan
      Answer Rasool Allah (s.a.w) se marvi hadees ke mutabiq ager Rasool Allah (s.a.w) ki itaat ki chahat hai to shadi karni chahiye. (Ref : Aqa Sistani,Jadeed faqhi masail , masala # 385 , eidition # 5 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 1  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 57955

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      Question mera sabaal ye hai ki.aksar log bibiki sak kartai hai aur bibi sohar kovi..kya aisa karna gunah hai yah kya hai plz yeska answer chaiye  
      Country  bhairahwa - nepal
      Answer Shohar or biwi aik dosray ki sharamgaah ko monh(mouth) laga saktay hain, magar ye k sharamgaah say nikalnay wali ratoobat halaq mian nah jaay. (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Istiftaat I-2,I-15 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid 2  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 10829

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      Question a.a sir me and my friend want do nikah without permission of our parents.our age is 26 each..plz tell me how can we do nikah with Islamic rules???with out court mer rage...and can we do telephonic nikah?  
      Country  islamabad - pakistan
      Answer Wssalam o alykum, ye nikah jaiz nahi hai(Or Islamic nikah men larki k wali(walid ya dada) ki ijazat zaruri hai).(Ref : Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail , edition # 1414 , maslah # 2335 , 2341 , 2342 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid about nikah  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 10872

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      Question As salam alaykum hambistari ki dua bataye please  
      Country  Aurangabad - India
      Answer Wssalam o alykum, Bivi k saath jima (intercourse) ka islami tariqa ye hai k jima k waqt mustahab hai k bismillah perhi jaay, or baa wuzu hon khaas taur per jab biwi haamla ho,or jima k waqt jo kaam makrooh hain un main say kuch ye hain 1.soraj or chaand gerhan ka hona,2. zawaal e aaftab ka hona siwaay jumeraat k din k, 3. groob e aaftaab k waqt ka hona, 4.chand ki aakhri 3 raaton main jima kena, 5.fajar k baad soraj nikalnay say pehlay, 6.islami mahinay ki pehli taarikh siway Ramazan ki pehli raat(Chaand raat)main , 7. islami mahinay ki darmiani or aakri taarikh main jima kerna, 8.qiblay ki taraf rukh ya pusht kerna, 9.berhana (naked) halat main jima kerna, 10.ehtilaam k baad baghair wuzu k jima kerna, 11.jima k waqt bivi ki sharamg ko dekhna makrooh hai. Hambistari ki dua: Mustahabb hai k hambistari say pehlay apna haath biwi ki peishani k baal (hair of forehead) par rakhay aur ye dua perhay: ﺍﻠﻠﻬﻢ ﻋﻠﻰ ﻛﺘﺎﺑﻙ ﺘﺰﻮﺠﺘﻬﺎ ﻮ ﻔﻰ ﺍﻤﺎﻨﺘﻙ ﺍﺨﺬﺘﻬﺎ ﻮ ﺑﻛﻠﻤﺎﺘﻙ ﺍﺴﺘﺤﻠﻠﺖ ﻔﺮﺠﻬﺎ ﻔﺎﻦ ﻘﻀﻴﺖ ﻠﻰ ﻔﻰ ﺮﺤﻤﻬﺎ ﺷﻴﺌﺎ ﻔﺎﺟﻌﻠﻪ ﻤﺴﻠﻤﺎ ﺴﻮﻴﺎ ﻮ ﻻﺘﺠﻌﻠﻪ ﺸﺮﻚ ﺍﻠﺸﻴﻄﺎﻦ (Alla humma alaa kitaabeka tazwwajtoha, wa fee amanateka akhaztoha, wa bekalematekastahlalto farajaha, fa in qazayta lee fee rahmeha shyan fajalhoo musliman saweeyyan wa laa tajalahoo shirkashshaitan) Tarjuma: Yaa Allah main nay teri kitaab k mutabiq is say nikah kia or teri amanat mai is ko lia hai or teray kalimaat k zarie sai is ki sharam gaah ko halaal kia, pas agar tu nai is k raham mai meray lie koi cheez ka faisla kia hay to is ko musallam aur kaamil qarar dai aur is main shitan ki shrkat na qarar dai. (Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Minhaajus saliheen Part # 3,maslah # 4 ,5) Note : Hambistri karne ka Islami tareeqa maloom krnay k lie aap kitab islam aur jinsiaat mai sai parh saktay hain. ( Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid Mujtahid  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 10861

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      Question assalamualaikum main ne ek ladki ke saath sex kiya aur ab mein us ke saath shaadi karna chahata hoon uske baare mujhe kuch bataiye  
      Country  hyderabad - india
      Answer Wssalam o alykum, ehtiyaat e wajib ki bina per jab tk wo larki toba na krle ap dono nikah nahi kr swakte, lehaza dono Allah Taala se apne bure kaam ki waja se toba karain. (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Ayat ullaha Sistani d.b. Masla # 403 pg # 235 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 10857

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      Question Aslam o Alaikum.. mera sawal yeh haai k agr larka aur larki shadi krna chahty hain chup k aur sari umer nibhana b chahtye hain is rishty ko. aurrishty ko halal tareeqy se nibhana chahty hain mtlb dosti naai rkhty q k allah ny manah kia hua.. to agr gawah aur wali k bagair allah ko hazir nazir jaan k nikah parh laen khud e to kia nikah ho jata haai??? aur unko gunnah k ho jany ka andesha b ho to kia us se bachny k lye nikah jaiz ho ga aisa???  
      Country  Gujrat - +92
      Answer Wssalam o alykum,G nahai ye nikah Batil hai.(Ref : Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail , edition # 1414 , maslah # 2335 , 2341 , 2342 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 10846

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      Question kia apne husband ko aisee mails likhna jis se usko jinsi sukoon hasil ho wo likh kar bhaijna or usko web cam par aisa kuch dikhana jaiz hai jis se ke usko jinsi sukoon hasil ho.  
      Country  Karachi - pakistan
      Answer kiya apne husband ko aisee mails likhna jis se usko jinsi sukoon hasil ho wo likh kar bhaijna or usko web cam par aisa kuch dikhana jaiz hai jis se ke usko jinsi sukoon hasil ho. Answer G han jaiz hai.(Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30,eidition 1430 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 10888

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      Question salam,mera sawal ye hai ke me ak larki ko pasand kerta hoo ar wo bi bht kerti hai me shiya ho r syed hoo ar wo syeda hai mager sunni hai tw hamara nikah jaiz hai ar us ke abu nahi maan rahey hai ar keh rahe hai ke nikah jaiz nahi hai tw aap bta sakte hai ke nikah kis tarike se hona chaiye ya sunni tarike se ya shiya tarike se plzzz is ka jaldi koi hal btade ar dosra sawal ye ke sunni r shiya ke nikah me farak kya hai?  
      Country  karachi - pakistan
      Answer Wssalam o alykum,Ap ka us larki se nikah krna jaiz hai lekin ager is shadi ki waja se ap ke Deen o Iemaan main tabdili ka imkaan ho to phir jaiz nahi hai.(Ref : Mujtahid se pochay gaey sawalaat, part #1 , sawaal #134, pg # 70).Or larki k walid ki ijazat ke bageer nikah krna ehtiyaat e wajib ke madd e nazar sahi nahi hai.(Ref : aqa sistani,Jadeed faqhi masail , masala # 394 , eidition # 5).or zarori hai ke nikah main niche di gaae tamaam sharait hon, 1 – ager larki kawari ho or us ke baap ya dada ya pardada zinda hon to ye is nikah se razi hon, 2 – mard o orat izdiwaaj(shadi) per razi hon, 3 – jo siga(nikah) phar raha ho zarori hai ke wo aaqil ho, or ager apne liye siga phar raha ho to balig hona bhi zarori hai, 4 – siga pharne wale ke nazdeek mard o orat muayaan hon , 5- ehtiyaat e wajib ki bina per nikha ka siga arabi main parha jaye,6 – mard o orat ya in ke wakeel jo siga phar rahe hon wo nikha ke sige ke zarye se mard o orat ke dermiyaan izdiwaaji rishte ko qaaim karne ki niyat rakhte hon.(Ref : Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail , edition # 1414 , maslah # 2335 , 2341 , 2342 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid sistani  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 10877

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      Question kya islam me shadi krna frz he. iski frziyat detail se bta deyn plz sir.me shadi ni krna chahti.pr merey maa baap ko meri shadi ki bht jaldi he .me shadi ni krna chahti ..  
      Country  lahore - pakistan
      Answer Islaam main shadi ik esa mustahab amal hai jis ki bohat ziyada takeed ki gaae hai, yahan tak ke Rasool Allah (s.a.w) se marvi Hadees hai ke jo shaks meri sunnat ki peravi karna chahta hai to meri sunnat main se ik shadi bhi hai (yani wo shadi kare) lehaza ap shadi karain.(Ref : aqa sistani,Jadeed faqhi masail , masala # 385 , eidition # 5 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).Or insan shadi na krne ki waja se Haram kaam men mubtala hojaye us per to shadi krna wajib hai.(Ref : aqa sistani,Tozih ul Masaail, Masla#2407)(Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai)  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah
      Mujtahid shadi  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 10916

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      Question i am newly married. i want to know about "hum bistar ki dua" and more about married life.kindly help me out.  
      Country  hyderabad - india
      Answer Bivi k saath jima (intercourse) ka islami tariqa ye hai k jima k waqt mustahab hai k bismillah perhi jaay, or baa wuzu hon,or jima k waqt jo kaam makrooh(na-pasandeedah) hain un main say kuch ye hain 1.soraj or chaand gerhan ka hona,2. zawaal e aaftab ka hona siwaay jumeraat k din k, 3. groob e aaftaab k waqt ka hona, 4.chand ki aakhri 3 raaton main jima kena, 5.fajar k baad soraj nikalnay say pehlay, 6.islami mahinay ki pehli taarikh siway Ramazan ki pehli raat(Chaand raat)main , 7. islami mahinay ki darmiani or aakri taarikh main jima kerna, 8.qiblay ki taraf rukh ya pusht kerna, 9.berhana (naked) halat main jima kerna, 10.ehtilaam k baad baghair wuzu k jima kerna, 11.jima k waqt bivi ki sharamg ko dekhna makrooh hai. Hambistari ki dua: Mustahabb hai k hambistari say pehlay apna haath biwi ki peishani k baal (hair of forehead) par rakhay aur ye dua perhay: ﺍﻠﻠﻬﻢ ﻋﻠﻰ ﻛﺘﺎﺑﻙ ﺘﺰﻮﺠﺘﻬﺎ ﻮ ﻔﻰ ﺍﻤﺎﻨﺘﻙ ﺍﺨﺬﺘﻬﺎ ﻮ ﺑﻛﻠﻤﺎﺘﻙ ﺍﺴﺘﺤﻠﻠﺖ ﻔﺮﺠﻬﺎ ﻔﺎﻦ ﻘﻀﻴﺖ ﻠﻰ ﻔﻰ ﺮﺤﻤﻬﺎ ﺷﻴﺌﺎ ﻔﺎﺟﻌﻠﻪ ﻤﺴﻠﻤﺎ ﺴﻮﻴﺎ ﻮ ﻻﺘﺠﻌﻠﻪ ﺸﺮﻚ ﺍﻠﺸﻴﻄﺎﻦ (Alla humma alaa kitaabeka tazwwajtoha, wa fee amanateka akhaztoha, wa bekalematekastahlalto farajaha, fa in qazayta lee fee rahmeha shyan fajalhoo musliman saweeyyan wa laa tajalahoo shirkashshaitan) Tarjuma: Yaa Allah main nay teri kitaab k mutabiq is say nikah kia or teri amanat mai is ko lia hai or teray kalimaat k zarie sai is ki sharam gaah ko halaal kia, pas agar tu nai is k raham mai meray lie koi cheez ka faisla kia hay to is ko musallam aur kaamil qarar dai aur is main shitan ki shrkat na qarar dai. (Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Minhaajus saliheen Part # 3,maslah # 4 , 5) Note : Hambistri karne ka Islami tareeqa maloom krnay k lie aap kitab islam aur jinsiaat mai sai parh saktay hain.(Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 57697

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      Question aslkm:-meri age 28 hai,mai meri khala ki beti se mohabbat karta hu lekin wo mujh se 8yrs choti hai,kya mai us ladki se shadi karsakta hu.  
      Country  hyd - india
      Answer G han shadi kr sakte hen lekin jab tk us larki ki umar 9 saal ko na pohnch jaye us se pehle us se mujamiat(intercourse)nahi kr sakte.(Ref : Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail , edition # 1414 , maslah #2474, 2335 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 1  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 60950

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      Question Asalam O Alaikum! Qibla me yeh pochna chahta hon k ek baligh aur rozgar wala larka pehli b.v aur apne tamam khandan se chup kar unhen bataey baghair dosri shadi kar lay to kia yeh shariat me jaiz h? Plz reply. Regards.  
      Country  Layyah - Pakistan
      Answer 1)Wssalam o alykum,Lerkay ko shadi k liay kisi ki ijazt ki zarorat nahi hoti. (Ref : Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail , edition # 1414 , maslah # 2335 , 2341 , 2342) 2) Nikah sahi nahi hoga kunke nikah mai shrt ye hai k kawari (virgin) lerki os waqt tak nikah nahi ker sakti jab tak k lerki ka wali (Baap ya Dada) larki ko nikah ki ijazat nahi deden.or yehi hokum ehtiyaat e wajib ki bin (base) per os sorat main bhi hay k jab larki khud mukhtar or baligh bhi ho. agar lerki kawari nah ho tu os k liay baap ya dada ki ijazat ki zororat nahi hay.(yahaan kawari nah honay say muraad sirif ye hay k aisi lerki jo talaaq yaafta ho ya baywah ho or oskay shohar nay oskay saath hambistari /jima(intercourse) kia ho or oskay kawaraypan ko khatam kia ho or oski iddta bhi khatam ho chuki ho.agar zinaa ya aisay hi kisi kaam say oska kawaraypan khatam hoa ho tu ye kawari hi kehlaay gi). (Ref : Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2341,2342). (Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 4  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 61042

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      Question agar larki ki enagement zabardasti ho ux ky parents ky khany py or larki razi no ho tou wo kia kry?  
      Country  lahore - pakistan
      Answer Nikah k sahi hone me aik shart ye bhi hai k aurat aur mard shadi per raazi ho aur raazi nahi to nikah sahi nahe hay. (Ref: Ayatullah khoie Tauzeehul masail 31st edition, maslah #2379 ) Jo koe kisi hajat k lie surah yaseen ki ayat no:40 ko 7 baar perhe to is ki hajar pure hoghe. ( ref: payaam shifa, pg: 249) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 2  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 57713

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      Question a.o.a sir mra sawal ye hey k agr lrki dbao m a kr nikah kre aur rukhsti na hoi ho to khula kesy lya jye. koi esa trika hey k khula raz hi rhy. koi trika bta Dan mra dosra swal ye hey k kya khuda ho hariz mane k kise ko khwand tasleem Karna apni mrzi se aur 3 br kehna k kbol hey to kya nikah ho gya  
      Country  sailkot - pakistan
      Answer Wssalam o alykum, ager larki nikah ke liye razi nahi hai to khula ki zarorat hi nahi kun ke ye nikah sahi nahi hai q k nikah k liye larke or larki ka razamand hona shart hai. or Allah ko hazir maan kar 3 baar qabool kehne se nikah nahi hota nikah ki or bhi sharten hen.(Ref : Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail , edition # 1414 , maslah # 2335 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 2  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 57718

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      Question sir , apni wife k saath back side se jama karne se nikah toot jata he k nahi ?  
      Country  peshawar - pakistan
      Answer Nahi tootta, lekin ager bivi razi na ho to ehtiyaat e wajib ke tor per back se karna haraam hai. (Ref : Ayatullah Seestani(D.B) Al-masail e mutakhaba, maslah # 67 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid 1  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 57723

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      Question ASSLAM O ALEKUM .YA ALI a.s MADAD kia mard apni bivi ki sharm gaah ko chom sakta hai ya chose sakta hai . agar chose le to gunah hai plz hilp me  
      Country  Multan - Pakistan
      Answer Wssalam o alykum, jee han choose sakta hai, mager sharam-gaah se nikalne wali ratobat ko pena (halq se neeche le jana) jaiz nahi hai.(Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Istiftaat I-2,I-15 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid 4  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 57730

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      Question main ghr walon se chup k nikkah krna chahti hn kia main or jise main psand krti hn hm 2no bgair ksi gawah k qurran pe hath rkh k Allah or us k Rasool ko gawah man k nikkah kr skte hain kia aise humara nikkah ho skta ha?  
      Country  islamabad - wah cannt
      Answer G nahi ye nikaah nahi hosakta q k larki k liye apne wali (bap ya dada) ki ijazat k k bger nikah nahi hosakta. (Ref : Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail , edition # 1414 , maslah # 2335 , 2341 , 2342 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 1  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 57738

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      Question agar kisi aurat ko talaq ho jaye to uska nikha kisi or sy ho par rukhsati na ho to talaq ho jaye to kiya us se pehla khawand dobara nikha kar sukta hai ?  
      Country  pindi - pakistan
      Answer G hank r sakta hai.(Ref : Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Minhaajus saliheen Part # 3, Maslah # 520 , eidition # 4th , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 1  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 57755

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      Question Aoa sir kya razai behn Bhai ka nikah ho skta h????  
      Country  islamabad - pakistan
      Answer G nahi. (Ref : Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Minhaajus saliheen Part # 3, Maslah # 106 , eidition # 4th , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 1  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 57795

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      Question I am going to marry a girl but she told me that she is not virgin and already did Sex with her old BF. I forgive her... what about Islamic point of it is OK to marry her ??? is any Sharih-e-Hadd for her ?? Please give me detail answer I am confused and she promised me she will never do it again. I need help to solve this question Salam Ali  
      Country  Karachi - pakistan
      Answer Yes, you can marry.(Ref : Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail , edition # 31 , maslah # 2364 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 4  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 57863

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      Question kya syed larki ka nikkah sunni larke se jaiz hy?  
      Country  karachi - pakistan
      Answer Ager is larki ke deen o imaan main tabdeli ka imkaan ho to jaiz nahi hai wrna jaiz hai. (Ref : Mujtahid se pochay gaey sawalaat, part #1 , sawaal #134, pg # 70 , ALLAH TAALA hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 1  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 57864

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      Question kya aek hi husband se do bar nikkah ho sakta hy?  
      Country  karachi - pakistan
      Answer Ager pehla nikah sahi hai to dosra nikah phar to sakte hain lekin is ke pharne ka koi faaeda nahi hai.(Ref : Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail , edition # 31 , maslah # 2339 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 1  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 57867

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      Question ASSALAM-OOALAIKUM sir,me ne apse sawal kya tha Question ID#57829 to apne kaha tha k kawari larki apne baap ya dada ki ijazat k bgair nikah nh kr skti ya agr wo krti ha to sahi nh ha to sir mera next question ye ha k jo larkian bagh kr ya court merriage krwati ha un me b larki ka baap ya dada agree nh hota to kya ye nikah nh ho ga jo court merriage ya bagh kr kya jaye or un k darmiyaan jo relationship yani intercourse ho ga wo halal ho ga ya haram zina me aye ga plzz tell me  
      Country  lahore - pakistan
      Answer Wssalam o alykum, jee han ye nikah bhi (court ya bhag kr ho) galat hai, (Ref : Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail , edition # 1414 , maslah # 2335 , 2341 , 2342).Ager larka o larki dono nahi jaante the ke nikah ke sahi hone main larki ke walid ki ijazat honi chahiye to maloom hone se pehle jitni baar bhi jima (intercourse) kiya hai wo halal shumaar ho ga, or in ke sabab peda hone wali olaad bhi halaal zada kehlaae gi.Or ager dono is shart ko jaante the ya shak main the ke nikah ke sahi hone main ye shart hai ya nahi to ye zina kelaae ga or peda hone wali olaad haraam ki olaad kehlaae gi.Or ager dono main se koi ik (masalan larki) is shart ke bare main nahi jaanta tha or dosra(masalan larka) jaanta tha ya mutaraddid yani shak main tha ke is ke sahi hone main ye shart hai ya nahi to larki ke liye jima or olaad halaal shumaar ho gi, or larke ke liye zina or olaad haraam ki olaad shumaar ho gi. (Ref : aqa sistani,Jadeed faqhi masail , masala # 439, eidition # 5) , (Ref : Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Minhaajus saliheen Part # 3, Maslah # 379 , eidition # 4th , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 1  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 57869

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      Question Assalam walekum ..sir mujhe ye puchna tha ki ek ladk aur ladki ka zina hua hai kisi wajah se wo dono ki shadi nai ho sakti to kya wo ek dusre k alawa kisi aur se nikah kar sakte hai ..kya wo dono ek dusre k alawa kisi se nikah nai kar sakte..plz ans its quiet urgent  
      Country  khed - india
      Answer Wssalam o alykum, Zina Guhnaah e Kabeera hai, lehaza un dono ko Rasool Allah (s.a.w) se marvi Hadees ke mutabiq Sura e Talaaq (Sura no 65) ki tilawat karte howe Allah Gafoor o Raheem ki Baargaah e Muqaddasa main toba o istigfaar karni chahiye. (Ref : Dunya Wa Akhirat ki 100 Pareshanion ka hal pg # 37) , (Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30,eidition 1430). Jee ye dono kisi or larke o larki se nikah kar sakte hain. (Ref : Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail , edition # 31 , maslah # 2364 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 1  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 57871

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      Question mera sawal yi hai ap se k mere wife bar bar mujhse talaq mangti hai  
      Country  karachi - pakistan
      Answer Ap (s.a.w) se marvi Hadees ke mutabiq Ager ap un ke sath apne rawaiye o aklaak (jese bolne ka andaaz, un ki zaroriyaat ki chezoon ka kayaal wageera) acha bana lain to wo ap se mohabbat karne lagain gi. (Ref : Nawadir ul Ahadees , jild # 1 , Topic # behtreen shaks ki nishaandahi , pg # 62 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid 1  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 57876

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      Question Assalam walekum mere sawal hai k shadi ko 11 saal hogaye hain or husband ne biwi ko khush rakha hai or chupke se 7 saal se afair chala rahe hain ab jab wo larki dosri gagah devorse le k agayi k shadi mai ap se hi karongi to husband ne biwi ko bata diya k muje gilt tha k afair hai ab mai us se nikah karna chahata ho to biwi ne ijazat nai di is doran mai husband ne biwi ko kaha k milna(sex) mana hai take teri tub khul jaye q k wo pregnant nai ho sakti.par biwi ko lagta hai k jis husband ne kabhi us ko pregnancy k liye nai kaha wo aj q kahe raha hai. Mera sawal hai k kya ye dosra nikah karne se pahele paheli biwi k sath milna (sex)nai karna chahiye kuch madad k liye? .or dosra sawal jab nikkah k liye nai mani to wo phir dhoka dene laga or biwi ghar chor k chali gayi.jab husband ne kalma-e-pak parh kar use chora to biwi wapis ayi to kya us admi par bharosa kya ja sakta hai? jisne itna dhoka diya ho?plz madad kijiye or ab biwi ki koi care nai pahele chupane k liye care karte thay  
      Country  karachi - pakistan
      Answer Wssalam o alykum, Dosre nikah se pehle bivi ke sath jima(sex) kar sakte hain. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 448, 504). Ye sahi hai ke Husband ne ik anjaan larki (namehram) se affair kar ke haraam kaam kiya, lekin ik musalmaan bivi ko apne shohar ko 2nd shadi karne se nahi rookna chahiye kun ke Riwayat ki roshni main mard ka ik se ziyada shadiyan karna Allah Taala ko pasand hai.(Ref : Nigah aur libas sawal # 106 pg # 69) , (Ref : Mujtahid se pochay gaey sawalaat, part # 4, sawaal # 215). Or ager wo bivi chahti hai ke apne shohar ke nazdeek us hi terhan mehboob ho or us ka shohar us ka us hi terhan kayaal rakhe to apne kirdaar o Aklaaq ko us terhan bana le jis terhan affair ke maloom hone se pehle tha balke us se bhi ziyada ache Aklaaq ka muzahira kare. (Ref : Nawadir ul Ahadees , jild # 1 , Topic # behtreen shaks ki nishaandahi , pg # 62 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid 1  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 57885

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      Question A-s-a sir meri shadi ko 2 saal hony ko hn or ak byti b hy 10 mah ki magar mery husband hm sy juri ko zimmay-dari pori nae karty garh ma b hr waqat larayn rahti hn meri sas b in larayn ma barpoor kirdaar ada karti hn mera wahn rahna mushkil ho gaya hy or ak mah pahly meri ami mujy apny garh ly a e the or a b tak koe lyny nae aya jb k mery husbnd ny kaha tha ma aon ga or ab ma wahn jana nae chah rae asal ma mujy ye janna hy k mery liay kaya theek hy ???????? Plz help me ma us garh ma nae jana chahti par ma apny husbnd ko chorna nae chahti plz help me  
      Country  gujranwala - pakistan
      Answer Wssalam o alykum, Hadees main manqool hai, jis main ka baaz ye hai ke arz(ik orat ne) kiya, ya Rasool Allah! Shohar ka haq zoja per kya hai (ya bivi per kya kya cheezain farz hain)? Farmaya, lazim hai ke us ki itaat kare, kisi waqt or kisi hal main us ki nafarmaani na kare, jis waqt wo mubashirat ka irada kare inkaar na kare chahe wo unoot ki pusht per hi kun na sawaar ho, phir us(orat)ne arz ki, ya Rasool Allah! Mard per kis ka haq sab se bara hai? farmaya, baap ka, arz ki (orat ne) orat per sab se bara haq kis ka hai? farmaya, shohar ka, arz ki (orat ne) shohar per mera haq itna nahi hai(jitna mere per shohar ka hai)?farmaya, nahi. or ik dosri Hadees main manqool hai ke (orat per farz hai ke )kisi raat is halat main na sooe ke us ka sohar us se naraaz ho, us orat ne arz kiya, ya Rasool Allah! Chahe us orat ke shohar ne kitna hi zulum kiya ho? Farmaya han chahe kitna hi zulum kiya ho. (Ref : tehzib ul islaam , baab # 4 , topic # hoqooq e zojain , pg # 140 , 141). Note in manqool hadeesoo ko bayaan karene ka maqsad ye hai ke ap ke ik Musalmaan orat hain to ap per lazim hai ke ALLAH o RASOOL(s.a.w) ke bayaan karda hokum per amal kar ke apne koobsorat se ghar ko ghar ja ke or ziyada kobsoorat banane ki koshish karain yahan tak ke ap apni in tamaam zehmatoo ka ajar ALLAH TAALA se hasil karain jannat main. (ALLAH TAALA hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid 1  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 5700

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      Question As Salaam-u-alaikum.Mufti Sahab mera sawaal ye he ki agar ladka or larki k maa baap shaadi k liye raazi na ho or ladka ladki baligh ho to kya wo nikah kr skte hain...??  
      Country  JAIPUR - INDIA
      Answer kawari(virgin) lerki os waqt tak nikah nahi ker sakti jab tak k lerki ka Baap ya Dada lerki ko nikah ki ijazat nah day day.or yehi hokum ehtiyaat e wajib ki bina(base) per os sorat main bhi hay k jab larki khud mukhtar or baligh bhi ho. agar lerki kawari nah ho tu os k liay baap ya dada ki ijazat ki zororat nahi hay.(yahaan kawari nah honay say muraad sirif ye hay k aisi lerki jo talaaq yaafta ho ya baywah ho or oskay shohar nay oskay saath hambistari /jima(intercourse) kia ho or oskay kawaraypan ko khatam kia ho or oski iddta bhi khatam ho chuki ho.agar zinaa ya aisay hi kisi kaam say oska kawaraypan khatam hoa ho tu ye kawari hi kehlaay gi. isi terah agar baap ya dada os merd k saath osay shaadi kernay ki ijzat nah daitay hon jo sharan(Ismlam ki nazar main) or urfan(maa,aashay ki nazar main) os k brabari(equal) ka ho tu ijazat ki zarorat nahi, isi terah baap ya dada ki maujood nah hon ya kisi doosri wajah say ijazat laina mumkin hi nah ho or lerki ka nikah kerna bohat zarori ho tab hi baap ya dada say ijazat layna laazmi nahi hay. (Ref : Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2341,2342).( aur jagha aurat k lie baab se ijazat lena zarori hai agar aurat ijazat na le to ehteyate wajib k bina per nikah batil hai( ref: sistani.org, urdu ) per jo kohe Shi nikah k bagair hambistri krna haram hai. q k wo zina ho jae ga aur zina gunah e kabeera mai shumar hota hai. (Ref : Minhaj us salaheen Ayat ullah sistani d.b. part # 1, masla # 30,eidition,2009) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 5593

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      Question kia koe syed sunni larki kisi sahi sunni larkay say shadi kar sakti hay k nhe.plz give me answer in urdu and with the refernce of QURAAN AND HADITH. AND ALSO GIVE ME ANSWER IN URDU. THANKS  
      Country  Islamabad - pakistan
      Answer Shia mard ko agar apne shia mazhab k tabdeel ho jane ka khouf na ho to wo sunne larki se shadi kar sakta hai aur agar shia mazhab k tabdeel ho jane ka khouf ho to jaiz nahe hai (Ref : MinhajusSalaheen Ayatullah Sistani d.b. Part #3 , masla # 215,200,4th eidition) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 5616

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      Question bivi se humbistri ka tarika  
      Country  moradabad - india
      Answer Shohar ko chahiay k jima se pehlay masaas(orgasm) kare, yaad rakhna chaiay k masaas or dastbaazi k is amal main merd khososi tawajjah rakhe, yani wo piyaar o muhabbat ki baato k sath sath aurat ko good main lay , boos o kinaar kare, pistano(brest) ki niple ko masle, pistano ko dhere dhere dabae,honto ya zabaan ko ahista ahista chosay, baghal, guddi, raan waghera main ungliyaan phere, sharamgaah k ander ungli dakhil ker k halke hlake harkat day , apna uzo e tanasul(penis) aurat k hath main day takeh wo ose dhere dhere dabae or inteshaar(yani uzu e tanasul main tanao) paida hone per apne jazbaat or khahishaat ko os waqt tak qabo main rakhe jab tak aurat ki saansain ukharhni nah shuru ho jain, is k baad jab jima shuru kia jaay tu jab jima k doran aurat k munzil hone (discharge) k bilkul qareeb ho yani wo baytabana harakaat karay, merd se chumtay, liptay, apne hatho ya taango se merd ko kas ker daba,ay. Tab merd bhi jaldi jaldi dkhool(inserting of penis) or ikhraaj(emiting of penis) ker k farigh ho jaay, agar ittefaaq se aurat is waqt tak munzil nah ho or wo apne haatho ya taango se merd ko kas k daba rahi ho takeh merd alag nah ho tu merd ko chahiay k is waqt tak apne aala e tanasul(penis) ko aurat ki sahramgaah se bahar nah nikalay jab tak k aurat munzil nah hojaay, phir khuch dair baad penis ko nikaal ker merd aahistagi se aurat se alag hojaay. .(Ref:Islam or jinsiyaat, mu,allif doctor muhhammed taqi ali abdi, pg#150-151). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 5618

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      Question kia mard apni biwi ki shrngah chatt skta h?  
      Country  dera ghazi khan - pakistan
      Answer Shohar or biwi aik dosray ki sharamgaah ko monh(mouth) laga saktay hain,magar ye k sharamgaah say nikalnay wali ratoobat Halaq mian nah jaay.Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Istiftaat I-2,I-15) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 5620

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      Question salam alaikum.janab mera sawal ye hai ki kya money ki majboori ki wajah se ghar na ja pata ho.jab ki bivi bar bar bulati ho to kya shauhar gunahgar hai aur agar bivi koi galat kadam utha le to iski gunah kiske uper jayegi.main saudi mein rahta hon aur do sal se pahle ghar nahi ja sakta hon.thanks.  
      Country  jaunpur - india
      Answer Shohar apni jawaan bivi say 4 mahinay say ziyada muddat(time period) k liay hambistari(intercourse) tark nahi kersakta magar ye k(except) hambistari os k liay nuqsandah ya ziyada takleef ka sabab(reason) ho ya oski bivi khud 4 mahinay say ziyada muddat k liay hambistari tark kernay par raazi ho ya nikah kertay waqt nikah k zimn(agreement) main 4 mahinay say ziyada muddat k liay hambistari tark kernay ki shart rakhi gae ho. Laikin is se nikah nahi batil nahi hota.(tauzeehul masail,ayatollah Seestani,maslah #2382) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid sayyed ali sistani  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 59778

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      Question meri bivi meri baat nahi sunti hamesha zagda ka rukh apnati hai koe gulti ki to toke to zagda karti hai mere 3 ladke hai 17 sal '14 sall'aur 8 saal main hamesha pareshan rahta hun maine to uska zina tak maaf kar diya lekin main use talak nahi dena chahta kyonki mere bachon ko usne aapne controlme pyar ke zaal me rakha hai main dusri shadi mentaly phisicaly suport ke liye karna chahta hun main sarkari mulazim hu pl aisi surat me kya main pahle bivi ke raja mandi ke bagair dusri shadi kar sakta hun shariyat kya kahti hai  
      Country  Gadchiroli - India
      Answer G han kar sakte hain.(Ref : Mujtahid se pochay gaey sawalaat, part # 3 , sawaal # 105 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 1  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 59839

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      Question woman is death Hasband is Mehram & Na-Mehram  
      Country  karachi - pakistan
      Answer Mehram.(Ref : Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail , edition # 31 , maslah # 548 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid 4  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 59841

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      Question kya ik shai larky ka esi lrki se nikha krna jo suni ho or shadi k bad bi sunniyo ki he numaz ada kry sahe ho ga  
      Country  lahore - pakistan
      Answer G han jaiz hai albatta (chahe shia larka ho ya larki)agr apne mazhab ke tabdeel ka imkaan ho to phir jaiz nahi hai.(Ref : Mujtahid se pochay gaey sawalaat, part #1 , sawaal #134, pg # 70 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 1  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 59842

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      Question agr larki ka bap ya dada zinda na ho to wo bagir kisi ki ijazt k nikha kr skti hai  
      Country  lahore - pakistan
      Answer Ager bap o dada dono or na hi par-dada (or jitna ye silsila dada ke etibaar uper chala jaae) zinda hon to kar sakti hai. lekin ager koi bhi 1 ho to ijazat lena zarori hai. (Ref : Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail , edition # 1414 , maslah # 2335 , 2341 , 2342 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 1  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 10540

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      Question ASLAM O ALIKUM molana sahib ap say mujy sohagrat ki dua ka puchna ha ap mujy who dua bata dain Jazaq Allah  
      Country  Haroonabad - pakistan
      Answer Hambistari ki dua: Mustahabb hai k hambistari say pehlay apna haath biwi ki peishani k baal (hair of forehead) par rakhay aur ye dua perhay: ﺍﻠﻠﻬﻢ ﻋﻠﻰ ﻛﺘﺎﺑﻙ ﺘﺰﻮﺠﺘﻬﺎ ﻮ ﻔﻰ ﺍﻤﺎﻨﺘﻙ ﺍﺨﺬﺘﻬﺎ ﻮ ﺑﻛﻠﻤﺎﺘﻙ ﺍﺴﺘﺤﻠﻠﺖ ﻔﺮﺠﻬﺎ ﻔﺎﻦ ﻘﻀﻴﺖ ﻠﻰ ﻔﻰ ﺮﺤﻤﻬﺎ ﺷﻴﺌﺎ ﻔﺎﺟﻌﻠﻪ ﻤﺴﻠﻤﺎ ﺴﻮﻴﺎ ﻮ ﻻﺘﺠﻌﻠﻪ ﺸﺮﻚ ﺍﻠﺸﻴﻄﺎﻦ (Alla humma alaa kitaabeka tazwwajtoha, wa fee amanateka akhaztoha, wa bekalematekastahlalto farajaha, fa in qazayta lee fee rahmeha shyan fajalhoo musliman saweeyyan wa laa tajalahoo shirkashshaitan) Tarjuma: Yaa Allah main nay teri kitaab k mutabiq is say nikah kia or teri amanat mai is ko lia hai or teray kalimaat k zarie sai is ki sharam gaah ko halaal kia, pas agar tu nai is k raham mai meray lie koi cheez ka faisla kia hay to is ko musallam aur kaamil qarar dai aur is main shitan ki shrkat na qarar dai. (Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Minhaajus saliheen Part # 3,maslah # 4 , 5)  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid Dua  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 10544

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      Question kia 2 gawahoon ki moujoodgi mein nikah ho skta,agar ho skta he to larki ka dosra nikah ho jaye ga pehley nikah ko khatam kiye baghair agar ho skta he to pahley wala talaq de deta he to dosra nikah barqarar rahe ga plz jawab zroor send krna ap ko ALLAH ka wasta kia wo guneh gar honge jinhon ne dosra niakah krwaya he  
      Country  Mana wala - Pakistan
      Answer Nikah ke sahi hone ya galat hone main Sharan gawahoon ki koi haisiyat nahi hai, pas ager nikah main niche di gaae sharait mojood hain to nikah sahi hai, Nikah ki sharaait 1 – ager larki kawari ho or us ke baap ya dada ya pardada zinda hon to ye is nikah se razi hon, 2 – mard o orat izdiwaaj per razi hon, 3 – jo siga phar raha ho zarori hai ke wo aaqil ho, or ager apne liye siga phar raha ho to balig hona bhi zarori hai, 4 – siga pharne wale ke nazdeek mard o orat muayaan hon , 5- ehtiyaat e wajib ki bina per nikha ka siga arabi main para jaae, 6 – mard o orat ya in ke wakeel jo siga phar rahe hon wo nikha ke sige ke zarye se mard o orat ke dermiyaan izdiwaaji rishte ko qaaim karne ki niyat rakhte hon. (Ref : Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail , edition # 1414 , maslah # 2335 , 2341 , 2342). Or shadi shuda orat ke liye dosre se nikah karna jaiz nahi hai. Bad men hone wala nikal batil or galat hai.(Ref : Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail , edition # 31 , maslah # 2366 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 10519

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      Question Meri pasand ki shadi 2sal phle mre husband se hui thi.pr un k ghar wale mghe khas pasnd nh krte the,shadi k 3month m hi hmare jhagre shru hugae,or waqt guzrta gya Allah k bhrose duaen mang mang k,fr mra shohar mg p hath b utha ne lge apne ghar walon ki bat p or bad m ro ro k mafi mangte or m maf krdti ,even hum dono bht phare likhe hain.ab hum Abroad agae or Allah k karm se hum dono bht achi job p hain lakin aj b whi halat hy mre husband wo mre sath ho k b mre pas nh hote choti choi bat p jhagre,hmare bete p in baton ka asar parta hy,jb m un se khti hn mg chorden m sakoon chati hn,to wo kuch nh khte,m apne ghar ko bachana chati hn,apne shohar bete ko ksi kemat p khona nh chati.please mg koi wazefa btaen jo apne ghar ko acha krsakon,apne husband ko acha krsakon.  
      Country  Kowloon - abroad
      Answer Jab jab ap apne shohar ke saamne aain to ya waliyo or raat ko ba-wazoo ho kar bistar per leetne se neend aane tak ya manioo (“oo” ka arabi talaffuz arabi ke een se karain) ka wird kijye. (Ref : nawaa e saleheen , pg # 292 , 298). Or apne shohar o bacho ke sath ache aklaak se pesh aain. (Ref : Nawadir ul Ahadees , jild # 1 , Topic # behtreen shaks ki nishaandahi , pg # 62 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 10522

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      Question Asalam o Aleikum mei aik shadi shuda hoon.Aur meri shadi love marriage ke sath hogya hai.Kya mei apni bivi ke sath nanga sex kar sakta hoon plz reply me what should I do?  
      Country  Quetta - Pakistan
      Answer Wssalam o alykum, kar sakte hain, lekin makroo hai. (Ref : Minhaj us salaheen Ayat ullah sistani d.b. part # 3 masla # 5 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid Sistani  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 56630

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      Question Assalamu alekum, Maine galti se meri biwi ka doodh piliya ab iska kya kaffara hai and me humbitari me bht jald free ho jata hu  
      Country  mumbai - india
      Answer 1)Ehtiyat-e-Wajib ye hay k Biwi ka doodh nah piya jaye is ka koi kaffara nahi albatta tauba karlay. (Ref: Ayatullah Seestani(d.b),E-Mail from Answers@najaf.org)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye) 2)Imam a.s. farmatay hein k jis ka nutfa kam ho ya kamzoor ho os k chahaea k sab se pehlay khuda ki bargah me istegfar karay aur is k bad anday(egg) aur piaz kasrat se khaien. (ref : kitab tib e islam pg # 54) 3)Homoeopathic Medicine damiana pentarkan drops(Made in Germany Dr. willmar schwabe karlsruhe) subah, dopeher, raat 10 qatray aik ghoont pani main daal ker istemaal karain insha allah jald hi tamaam jinsi bimariyan khatam ho jay gi. (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid 1  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 10574

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      Question biwi to peechay say karsaktay hain or biwi ki jaga ko suck karsaktay hain or biwi ko mou may day saktay hain  
      Country  karachi - Pakistan
      Answer G han biwi se har qism ki lazzat hasil kr sakte hen, lekin peche se jima karna bivi ki razamandi per moqoof hai yani agr wo razi na ho to is surat men jaiz nahi hoga, isi tarah sharamgah se nikalne wali ratubat kom gale se neeche lena jaiz nahi hai. (Ref : Ayatullah Seestani(D.B) Al-masail e mutakhaba, maslah # 67) , (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Istiftaat I-2,I-15 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 10565

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      Question salam!!! my problem is my husband, he doesnt ever want sex with me, he chats to other women all day, he dnt give me the love n respect a husband shouldgive his wife, i am already reading ya wadoodu... any sujesions on reading something for him to want me to have sex withme...  
      Country  birmingham - united kingdom
      Answer Wssalam o alykum, jab jab ap apne shohar ke saamne aain to ya waliyo or raat ko bawazoo ho kar bistar per leetne se neend aane tak ya manioo (“oo” ka arabi talaffuz arabi ke een se karain) ka wird kijye. (Ref : nawaa e saleheen , pg # 292 , 298). Or behtar se behtar aklaaq ko kirdaar ka muzahira karain. (Ref : Nawadir ul Ahadees , jild # 1 , Topic # behtreen shaks ki nishaandahi , pg # 62 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid  
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      Ques. ID 56616

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      Question Salam, Agha Sahib, sb sy pehly ham Rab e Kareem sy Doa Goo hy k apko iss Azeem kam k krny pr ajr e Azeem Ata Farmayee. Ameen. Molana sahib mera ak question hy kindly jawab jald sy jald send kr dena ap ki mehrbani hoo gii ta ham islam pr amal pera hoo sky. Agha Sahib mera swal ye hy k kia ak insan jis ka nikah hoo chuka hoo magr abi Rukhsti na howi ho matlb abi Shadi na howi hoo aur us ki wife abi apny Parents k gaar ho to kia woo walden parents sy chup kr rat ko ya kisi bi waqt donoo mill skty hy maa baap ko dhoka dy kr ku k abi hamry moshara to uny milny ki ijezaat ni deta ku k abi un ki shadi ni howi just nikah howa hy ? kindly jawab zaroor de dy jald sy jald. kia agr wo donoo chup kr milly aur just kiss hug etc kry to koi gunha to ni hy ku k un k parents to abi ye bardasht ni kry gy naa ? plz give me the answer with detail. Allah paak apki Tofeiqaat mein Izafa farmayee ameeen.  
      Country  Lahore - Pakistan
      Answer ye dono nikha k baad hasband o wife hain, lekin ager riwaaj ye ho ke jab tak ruksati nahi hoti us waqt tak larki apnea p ko apne shohar ke liye pesh nahi karti, is terhan ke is ko goya ik zimni shart samjha jata ho to phir orat per apne is shohar ki is muaamle main itaat wajib nahi hai. (Ref : mujtahid se poche gaae sawalaat , part # 4 , masala # 150 , ALLAH tofiqaat main izafa farmaae).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid 4  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 10558

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      Question hazrat me ye janna chahta ho k agar shadi se pehle sex ho jai to kiya baad me nikah nahi hota ya nikah haram ho jata he and agar Larka or larki milte ho par sex (Jama) na kiya hua to is k bare me kya hukum he and kya nikah k liye lazmi he k gawah mojod ho kya esa mumkin he k bina Qazi or Gawaho k nikah kiya ja sake  
      Country  Karachi - Pakistan
      Answer Ager zani shakhs zaniya orat se shadi karna chahe to ager zaniya orat is fail e zina per nikah se pehle Allah Qadir o Tawana ki Bargaah e Muqaddasa main toba kar le to nikah sahi hai, or is hi terhan jima ke bageer nikah se pehle larki o larke ka dosti o mohabbat karna haraam hai lehaza toba karni chahiye albatta is k bad nikah sahi hojayega. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2364) , (Ref : Nigah aur libas sawal # 106 pg # 69). Ager niche di gaae tamaam sharait nikah hote waqt hon to nikah sahi hai. Nikah ki sharaait 1 – ager larki kawari ho or us ke baap ya dada ya pardada zinda hon to ye is nikah se razi hon, 2 – mard o orat izdiwaaj per razi hon, 3 – jo siga phar raha ho zarori hai ke wo aaqil ho, or ager apne liye siga phar raha ho to balig hona bhi zarori hai, 4 – siga pharne wale ke nazdeek mard o orat muayaan hon , 5- ehtiyaat e wajib ki bina per nikha ka siga arabi main para jaae, 6 – mard o orat ya in ke wakeel jo siga phar rahe hon wo nikha ke sige ke zarye se mard o orat ke dermiyaan izdiwaaji rishte ko qaaim karne ki niyat rakhte hon. (Ref : Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail , edition # 1414 , maslah # 2335 , 2341 , 2342 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai)  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 10555

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      Question AS SALAM-O-ALYKUM JANAB me apni wife se 2 years se dur hon mujhy. kya itne time alag hone se nikkah tootta hai? aur please sahi explain karke batayega. thanks  
      Country  congo - africa
      Answer Wssalam o alykum, abhi tak Sharan wo apki zoja hain or chahe kitna hi arsa guzr jaye is se nikah nahi toot`ta. (ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Tauzee hul masail, 31st edition, maslah # 2462 to 2472 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 10554

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      Question Mera ap se ye sawal hy k bivi ka doodh q ni p skty agr bivi ka dhoodh halaq se neechy utaar lia jaye yani p liye jaye to wo gunah hy ya nikah toot jata hy detail se batain  
      Country  Karachi - Pakistan
      Answer Allah Taala ki di hoi Shariat e Muqaddasa main mana kiya gaya hai, lekin nikah nahi toota. (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), E-Mail from Answers@najaf .org) , (Ref : Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail , edition # 31 , maslah # 2438 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 10664

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      Question I am a married man and i am having an affair with a married woman to the extent that we have already had sexual relation. We want to get married once my new partner is divorced from her husband. I will not divorce my wife as she has nobody to look after. So what is the ruling on this. Plz reply asap.  
      Country  Mumbai - India
      Answer you can not marry with this girl forever, and except this you can marry with without giving divorce the first wife. (Ref : Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail , edition # 31 , maslah # 2367 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid Agha Seestani  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 10699

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      Question AOA.meri biwi meray na chahtay huway apni marzi sy apni ammi k ghar chali gi hy.jab k koi larai bhi nahi huwi.hum ne 10 din pehlay jimma kia tha.ab main jimma karnay k liay bahot pereshan hoon.mujhe batain k main kia karoon.  
      Country  multan - pakistan
      Answer Wssalam o alykum, ache aklaak ka izhaar karte howe un ke ghar ja kar un ko le kar aa jaain.(Or islam men ek biwi k kiya ahkamat hen wo unhen btaen)(Ref : Nawadir ul Ahadees , jild # 1 , Topic # behtreen shaks ki nishaandahi , pg # 62 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid seestani sahib  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 10729

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      Question A.S.W MERI BIWI SHADI SEE PHELE HINDU BRHAMAND THI JISE MAIN NE ISLAM ME LAYA HU. AAP DIYE GAEY EK BHAI KO JAWAB ME AAP NE KAHATHA KI HAME GER MAJHB YANI HINDU SEE SHADI NAHI KARNA CHAIYE, AUR WHO APNE GHAR WALO SE AGAR MILNA CHAHE TO KIYA HUKUM HAI. AKHIR KAR MAINE KISIKO ISLAM ME HI TO LAYA HAI. MUJHE AAP MOHMMED S.A.W KE HAWALE SE JAWAB DE MAIN EK SUNNI MUSLMAN HU BARHE MEHAR BANI MUJHE SAHI JAWAB DE WARNA ME AAP AKHIRAT MEPAKDUGA. ALLHA HAFIZ  
      Country  MUMBAI - INDIA
      Answer Wssalam o alykum, Ager wo shadi se pehle musalmaan hogaae thi to nikah o shadi sahi hia (lekin agr nikah k wqt wo hindu thi to phir wo nikah sahi nahi hoga) or wo apne waaldain se mil sakti hai lekin shari ehkamaat – jese khane pene main o nijasat o taharat main – ka khiyaal rakhna hoga.(Ref : Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail , edition # 1414 , maslah # 2335 , 2341 , 2342 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 10725

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      Question ASLAM O ALIKUM KYA NET PAR SKYPE PA NIKAH HO SAKTA HA?  
      Country  nottingham - england
      Answer G han hosakta hai.(Ref : Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail , edition # 1414 , maslah # 2335 , 2341 , 2342 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 10751

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      Question Kin cheezon se nikah toot jata hag.  
      Country  Islamabad - Pakistan
      Answer Talaaq ke zarye ager is main tamaam sharait mojood hon to. (ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Tauzee hul masail, 31st edition, maslah # 2462 to 2472 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 59667

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      Question Mai ne pochna hay k.. Aftr marrige jab miyan biwi k drmyan iktilaf a jai aur miyan k liyai bohat nafrat q k ush ki activities aise hay k nafrat dil mai bohat parh gai.. Aur woh sex just chata hy aur buwi ka dil nai pass janai ko b tw yeh haram hu jata hay amal.. Biwi srf bachu ki vaja sai guzara kar rae hay... Ap k khyal mai yeh kia hu ga.. Aur buwi kia karay.. Aziyat mai hay biwi kaisay khatm karay yeh aziyat..  
      Country  Abbottabad - Pakistan
      Answer Hadees manqool hai, jis main ka baaz ye hai ke arz(ik orat ne) kiya, ya Rasool Allah! Shohar ka haq zoja per kya hai (yani bivi per kya kya cheezain farz hain)? Farmaya, lazim hai ke us ki itaat kare, kisi waqt or kisi hal main us ki nafarmaani na kare, jis waqt wo mubashirat ka irada kare inkaar na kare chahe wo unoot ki pusht per hi kun na sawaar ho, phir us(orat)ne arz ki, ya Rasool Allah! Mard per kis ka haq sab se bara hai? farmaya, baap ka, arz ki (orat ne) orat per sab se bara haq kis ka hai? farmaya, shohar ka, arz ki (orat ne) shohar per mera haq utna nahi hai(jitna mere per shohar ka hai)?farmaya, nahi. or ik dosri Hadees manqool hai ke (orat per farz hai ke )kisi raat is halat main na sooe ke us ka sohar us se naraaz ho, us orat ne arz kiya, ya Rasool Allah! Chahe us orat ke shohar ne kitna hi zulum kiya ho? Farmaya han chahe kitna hi zulum kiya ho. (Ref : tehzib ul islaam , baab # 4 , topic # hoqooq e zojain , pg # 140 , 141). Note in manqoolah hadeesoo ko bayaan karene ka maqsad ye hai ke ap ik Musalmaan orat hain to ap per lazim hai ke ALLAH o RASOOL(s.a.w) ke bayaan karda hokum per amal kar ke apne koobsorat se ghar ko or ziyada kobsoorat banane ki koshish karain yahan tak ke ap apni in tamaam zehmatoo ka ajar ALLAH TAALA se hasil karain jannat main.(Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid 1  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 59670

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      Question Jis sy zina kia ho usi sy shadi ho jay & Zina Sy Toba Kasy ki jay main apni ek czn ko pasand karta hun ur usy main ny purpose shadi karny ki niat sy kia hy us ny b mara sath dia. Shadi ki bat b chal rai hy lakin main us k sath zina karta raha hu. ab main us k sath sub kuch kar chuka hun jo shadi k bad kia jana chaiye tha. kia jb main shadi us sy kar loon ga tu ya jo kuch hum ny apas main kia kia ya zina main aya ga. abi hum ny zina chor dia hy q k ab humari shadi hony wali hy. plz mjy batian k is ka kia ans hy ur agar shadi k bad b ya sub jo hum ny apas main kia zina hy tu is ki mafi kasy mily ge.  
      Country  wahcantt - pakistan
      Answer Ager wo larki jis ke sath ap ne zina kiya hai Shadi se pehle toba na kare to ehtiyaat e wajib ki bina per nikah batil hai. pas dono apne is guhnaah ki waja se Allah Taala se toba karain. (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Ayat ullaha Sistani d.b. Masla # 403 pg # 235 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 1  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 59676

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      Question main aik syed zadi hun our mari shadi aik gair syed sy hoi ha kia mara nikkah sahi ha ya nahi plz must replay  
      Country  karachi - pakistan
      Answer Agr nikaah ki tmam sharten mojood thin to theek hai.(syed ki gher syed se shadi jaiz hai)(Ref : Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Minhaajus saliheen Part # 3, Maslah # 221 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 4  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 56642

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      Question Sir mujhy yehi pochna tha k agr kisi lrki k sath zinah kiya ho, usi se phr nikah krne ja rhe hon to kch requirements hoti hain ya straigh away nikah kr sakte hain..?  
      Country  Dubai - UAE
      Answer Agar koe shaks kisi aisi bay shohar aurat k sath zina kare jo iddat main nah ho to ehtiyat e wajib ki bina wo shaks is(aurat) k tauba kerne se pehle is se shadi nahi ker sakta.(Ref:Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31th edition,maslah #2364) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 1  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 56637

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      Question Assllam O Allekum sir mera ye sawal he k agr ek shadi shuda larki se shadi ki jaye or woh umar ma bari ho to kya shadi jaiz he or kya shadi shuda larki se shadi kar skten hen...plz tell me in details.thankss  
      Country  sukkur - pakistan
      Answer Shadi Shuda Aurat se shadi karna jab k wo kisi k nkah main haram hai. Or agar wo bewa ya talaq yaafta ho tu os se iddat pori hone k baad shadi kerna jaiz hay. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 33rd Edition,Maslah#2366)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein Izafa farmaye)  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 2  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 59691

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      Question Plzzz mery question ka ans dai kai girl or girl shadi karsaty ha k nhr or nails bary honay se namz hojati ha ya nhe  
      Country  Lahore - Pakistan
      Answer Ye shadi jaiz nahi hai. (Ref : Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Minhaajus saliheen Part # 3, Maslah # 01 , eidition # 4th). Jee Bare nails se masla nahi, namaaz ho jati hai. (Ref : Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail , edition # 31 , maslah # 1113 to 1142 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 1  
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      Ques. ID 59695

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      Question jis aurat ko talaq ho jaye us aurat ko kitney dino baad shadi karni chahiey  
      Country  kashmore - pakistan
      Answer Iddat ki muddat men nikah nahi kiya ja sakta.agr talaaq ke waqt is orat ki umar 9 saal se kam thi ya yaisa thi to koi iddat nahi hai.agr talaaq ke waqt 9 saal pure hon chuke hon or yaisa bhi na hon or shohar ne hambistari na ki ho to koi iddat nahi hai. Or ager jima kiya ho to ager is ke 2 haiz ka darmiyaani fasaila 3 mahino se kam ho to jab sahi talaaq ke baad tesri baar haiz aaye ga to iddat katam hojaae gi. Us k bad nikha kr sakti hai, Or ager 2 haiz ka dermiyani fasila 3 mahine ke barabar ya is se ziyada ho ya haiz hi na aata ho lekin umar haaezah orato ki umar jisi ho to 3 qamri mahine ke barabar iddat hai. Or ager hamila ho or ye hamal talaaq dene wale shohar ka ho to iddat ki muddat waz e hamal ya isqaat e hamal hai.(Ref : Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail , edition # 31 , maslah # 2474 to 2478 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 1  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 11554

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      Question ager mard or urat kahi asi jaga ho jaha na koi masjid ho na koi molvi wo nikha kerna chahte hoo to kesy kere gey.ager un ke pas quran majeed majood hoo to kya tariqa hai nikha kerne ka kya quran ko gahwa banye gay ya quran may koi aisi surat majood hai jis ko donoo pehre lay to nikha ho jay ga .molvi ke bagher quran ke mojdgi may nikha kase ho ga .  
      Country  multan - pakistan
      Answer 1)Nikah chahay daimi ho ya ghair daimi(yani muta) is main seeghah (nikah k bool) perhna zarori hay.aurat or merd ka faqat raazi hona kafi nahi, or isi terah (nikah naama) likhna ehtiyaat e wajib ki bina per kaafi nahi hay. Aqd e nikah ki khuch shara,it hain jin me se khuch ye hain k:- 1)Ehtiyaat e wajib he nikah ka seeghah sahih arabi me parha jaay,or agar khud merd or aurat sighah arabi main nah perh saktay hon tu arbi k Alawa kisi dosri zaban main perh saktay hain or kisi ko vakil banana laazimi nahi hay. 2) sigha parhne wala aqal-mand ho or agar apne lie perh raha ho to baligh hona bhi zurari hai . 3)Merd or aurat or uska vakil sigha parhte waqt qasd e insha(nikah ka irada ) rakhte hon. (ref : tauzeeh e ul masayl ayat ullaha sistani (d.b.) masla # 2328+2335) Agar merd or aurat khud ghair daimi nikah(muta) ka seegah perhna chahain to, nikah ki muddat aur meher taay karney k baad pehlay aurat kahay k (زوجتک نفسی فی المدۃ المعلومۃ علی المھر المعلوم)(Zauwajtoka nafsee fil muddatil ma,loomati alal mahril ma,loom) Or os k baad merd furan kahay (قبلت)(qabilt) tu nikah ho jaay ga. (ref : tauzeeh e ul masayl ayat ullaha sistani (d.b.) masla # 2334). kawari(virgin) lerki os waqt tak nikah nahi ker sakti jab tak k lerki ka Baap ya Dada lerki ko nikah ki ijazat nah day day.or yehi hokum ehtiyaat e wajib ki bina(base) per os sorat main bhi hay k jab larki khud mukhtar or baligh bhi ho. agar lerki kawari nah ho tu os k liay baap ya dada ki ijazat ki zororat nahi hay.(yahaan kawari nah honay say muraad sirif ye hay k aisi lerki jo talaaq yaafta ho ya baywah ho or oskay shohar nay oskay saath hambistari /jima(intercourse) kia ho or oskay kawaraypan ko khatam kia ho or oski iddta bhi khatam ho chuki ho.agar zinaa ya aisay hi kisi kaam say oska kawaraypan khatam hoa ho tu ye kawari hi kehlaay gi. isi terah agar baap ya dada os merd k saath osay shaadi kernay ki ijzat nah daitay hon jo sharan(Ismlam ki nazar main) or urfan(maa,aashay ki nazar main) os k brabari(equal) ka ho tu ijazat ki zarorat nahi, isi terah baap ya dada ki maujood nah hon ya kisi doosri wajah say ijazat laina mumkin hi nah ho or lerki ka nikah kerna bohat zarori ho tab hi baap ya dada say ijazat layna laazmi nahi hay. (Ref : Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2341,2342).( aur jagha aurat k lie baab se ijazat lena zarori hai agar aurat ijazat na le to ehteyate wajib k bina per nikah batil hai( ref: sistani.org, urdu ) per jo koe Shi nikah k bagair hambistri krna haram hai. q k wo zina ho jae ga aur zina gunah e kabeera mai shumar hota hai. (Ref : Minhaj us salaheen Ayat ullah sistani d.b. part # 1, masla # 30,eidition,2009) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid  
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      Ques. ID 59699

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      Question  
      Country  India - hasan.kazmi.5209@facebook.com
      Answer G han jaiz hai, lekin is se nikalne wali ratobat ko pena jaiz nahi hai. (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Istiftaat I-2,I-15 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid 4  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 59707

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      Question  
      Country  India - hasan.kazmi.5209@facebook.com
      Answer Sharan halat e haiz o nifaas ke ilawa jima kiya ja sakta hai.(Albatta moharram k dino men jima(sex) krna ya na krna ap k aqeede or ehtraam se taluq rakhta hai.(Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 448, 504).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid 4  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 59720

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      Question Moharram mn kitny dinno tk biwi k sth humbistari nhn kr saktry?? aur woh kon kon sy hain??  
      Country  karachi - pakistan
      Answer Sharai tor pe to halat e haiz o nifaas ke dino k elawa jima kiya ja sakta hai (Albatta Moharram ul Hram k mahine men jimaa ko tark krna apke apne aqeede or ehtrram se taliq rakhta hai).(Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 448, 504).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid 4  
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      Ques. ID 59725

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      Question kia lrki baap ki marzi k baghair nikah kr skti hy? isky sharai ahkamaat kia hyn?  
      Country  lahore - pakistan
      Answer G nahi larki apne wali (bap ya dada) ki ijazat k bge nikha nahi kr wakti.(Ref : aqa sistani,Jadeed faqhi masail , masala # 394 , 439 , eidition # 5 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 1  
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      Ques. ID 59733

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      Question Salam 110. Main nay pehlay b question kia tha. Dobara araz kr raha ho. Meherbani ferma kr jald jawab they. Takay mai kissi gunah ka murtakib na ho jao. Youm e ashora k bad mai apni b.v k sath humbistri kr sakta ho ya nhi. Aur agar nhi u kitni dair tuk mamaniat hai. Jub k meri shad b moharam say 1 hafta pehlay hui hai  
      Country  lahore - pakistan
      Answer Wssalam o alykum, G han jaiz hai. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 448 , 504 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid 1  
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      Ques. ID 11626

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      Question mara sawal ye ha kia islam ma apni bewi ke bhanje se neka jaiz ha jab ke wo bhai ke bewa b how  
      Country  islamabad - pakistan
      Answer Insan apni biwi ki ijazat k baghair us ki bhanji ya bhateji sai shadi nahi kar sakta hai. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2357 (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid  
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      Ques. ID 11653

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      Question kia koi shia larki agr ksi sunni larky ko pasand krti ha aur wo dono shadi krna chahty hen to kia shia larki us se shadi kar sakti ha? agrchay usk shia khandaan ma se bhi rishty a chuky hen.. phir kis ko wo tarjeeh day? aur shadi k baad bucho ko unki marzi ka mazhab ikhteyar krny ko kaha ja skta ha?  
      Country  Rawalpindi - pakistan
      Answer Agar shia aurat ko apne shia mazhab k tabdeel na hone ka khouf nah ho to sunni mard se shadi kar sakte hai .Laikin phir bhi aurat k liay shadi karna makhroh hai, aur agar shia mazhab k tabdeel ho jane ka khouf ho to jaiz nahi hai (Ref : Minhaj us salaheen Ayat ullah sistani d.b. part # 3 masla # 215,eidition4th) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid Aitula seestani  
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      Ques. ID 11650

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      Question Kia main Anal Sex Kar sakta hoon bivi ke sath agar wo menses me hai.  
      Country  Karachi - Pak
      Answer 1)Haiz ( manses) k ayyaam (days) main aurat (women) ki farj mein jima karna mard aur aurat dono k liay haram hai, chahay dukhool sirf supari(paishab ki nali ka shuru ka chikna hissa) ki had tak hi ho aur mani bhi kharij na ho, balkah ehtiyaat-e-wajib yeh hai k supari se kam miqdar main bhi dukhool na kia jae. Albetta ye hokum aurat sai dubr mai jima k lie nhi hai laikin dubr mai jima, aurat k razi na honay ki surat mai ehtiyat e wajib ki bina par jaiz nhi hai chahae wo haa,iz ho ya na ho. 2)Wo aurat jo haiz ki halat mai ho os sai jima k alawa doosri lutf-andozio maslan bas o kinar ki mumaneat nhi hai. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 448-451)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid  
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      Ques. ID 11649

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      Question Mein apni wife ka vagina choom sakta hoon aur kia wo mera penis suck kar sakti hai. Ham bohat chahte hain ye karna  
      Country  Karachi - Pak
      Answer Shohar or biwi aik dosray ki sharamgaah ko monh(mouth) laga saktay hain,magar ye k sharamgaah say nikalnay wali ratoobat Halaq mian nah jaay.Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Istiftaat I-2,I-15) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid  
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      Ques. ID 11685

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      Question shabe juma humbistari karna mustahab kyun kaha hai  
      Country  abudhabi - u.a.e
      Answer Agar koe mard shabe jumma apne biwi se jima(humbistri) karta hai to jo baccha paida ho gha wo fasahat e bayaani aur sheeri zabaan me mashoor ho ga or koe khateeb oski hamsari nah ker sake ga. (ref: tehzeeb ul islam, allama, baqir majlese, pg: 134) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid agha sistani  
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      Ques. ID 11684

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      Question jab wife ko husband sex k liey bolay aur wo na jay to farishtay lanat krtay hain wife pay keya husband wife k pas sex k liey na ay to husband py b lant hoti hai  
      Country  silakot - pakistan
      Answer 1) Bivi k liay zarori hay k jab bhi shohar jinsi lazzatain hasil kerna chahay tu oski khahish pori kare or share majbori(maslan periods) k baghair shohar ko hambistari se nah roke.Agar koi aurat hambistri aur jinsi lazzat k silsilay me shohar ka sath na day kar is ki khuwaish puri na karay to phir shohar par bhi bivi ki roti,kapray aur makaan ka zimadar nahi hai Agarchay wo shohar kay paas hi rahay.(Ref: Tauzeehul Masail Ayatullah Sistani (d.b), Masla# 2376-7) .(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye). 2) Shohar apni jawaan bivi say 4 mahinay say ziyada muddat(time period) k liay hambistari(intercourse) tark nahi karsakta magar ye k(except) hambistari os k liay nuqsandah ya ziyada takleef ka sabab(reason) ho ya oski bivi khud 4 mahinay say ziyada muddat k liay hambistari tark kernay par raazi ho ya nikah kartay waqt nikah k zimn(agreement) main 4 mahinay say ziyada muddat k liay hambistari tark kernay ki shart rakhi gae ho. Laikin is se nikah nahi batil nahi hota. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31st edition, maslah # 2382) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye). Note: in do fatwo ki roshni main aap per wazeh ho gaya hoga k shohar jab hambistari kerna chahay tu bivi ka mana kerna haram hay siwaay share majbori k lakin agar bivi hambistari ka mutalba kare tu shahor per wajib nahi hay wo har waqt o ski khahish ko pora kare. Haan 4 mahine se ziyada hambistari terk kerna shohar per bhi haram hay.  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid  
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      Ques. ID 60648

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      Question AsA mera swal hy kia shohar apni bewi pr pabandi lgay k wo apny maa baap sy na mily to kia bewi ko shohar ki baat mani chahiy jb k maa baap ka koi qadur bhi nahi aur jo shohr apni bewi pr hath uthay un ka kia anjam hy  
      Country  quetta - pakistan
      Answer Wssalam o alykum, Allah Taala ki di gaae Shariat e Muqaddasa main ap ka apne shohar ki mukhaalifat kar ke ghar se bhaar nikalna jaiz nahi hai, lehaza apne ap ko ache aklaak o kirdaar wala banaain, or un cheezo ko pehchaan kar jin se shohar ko gussa aata hai, un ko Allah Taala ki kushnudi ke liye chorne ki koshish karain yahan tak ke Allah Taala ap ke aklaak o kirdaar ki waja se un ko pori tarhan se ap se razi kar de. (Ref : Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail , edition # 31 , maslah # 2376) , (Ref : Nawadir ul Ahadees , jild # 1 , Topic # behtreen shaks ki nishaandahi , pg # 62 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid 4  
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      Ques. ID 11661

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      Question Salam agar shohar condom use karey or shehwat na jaey biwi k andaroni maqam me tab ghusul wajib hoga biwi per ya nhi? Or agar mukammal sex na karen sirf uper se pyar krny per shoher or biwi k muqamat se jo pani kharij hota hai us se kaprey napak ho jatey hain? Or ghusul wajib hota hai?  
      Country  Karachi - Pakistan
      Answer Ehtiyaat e wajib ye hai k ( comdom ) istemal karne se phele sohar apni biwi se ijazat li jay.(aqa sistani jaded fiqhe masail ,masla 465,pg # 254) Agar koe shakhs aurat se jimma(intercourse) karay aur azo e tanasul supari ki miqdar tak ya is se ziada dhakil ho jay to chahae ye dkhool fraj(agli sharamgaah) me ho ya pichlay maqam me aur chahae wo baligh ho ya na baligh aur chahae mani kharij ho ya na ho donoo junub ho jatay hein or dono per ghusl wajib ho jata hay.(aur donoo per ghusl e janabat wajib ho hata he.) (Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 348)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid All Islamic  
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      Ques. ID 60687

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      Question salam allqum mai muslim hu kay mai apna say badi larki say shadi kar sakta hu islam aaisa kuch hai kay  
      Country  delhi - india
      Answer Wssalam o alykum, jaiz hai. (Ref : Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail , edition # 1414 , maslah # 2335 , 2341 , 2342 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 1  
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      Ques. ID 60692

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      Question mera sawal yeh hai ky meri mangni bachpan say mery mamo ki beti say howe hai... meri umer 31 ki hai or us ki 22 ki hai. mai pehly usy oper oper sy sex karta tha or usi ky ander free ho jata tha...1 2 sal toh aisa he kiya pir aik din wo pregnat ho gae hala ky mai ny uss sy sahe wala sex b nahe kiya... pir us ka obortion karwaya... bohot taqleef daa marahil say wo guzri....pir mai ny or us nikha kar liya wo b iss trha ky hum ny quran ko samny rakha or us par hath rakh ky qasam khai ky mai usy qabol ho or wo mujy or hum ny aik page par b apny apny signature kiye...or usi ki choti behen b hamary sat thi....ab hum hamesha wife and husband wala sex karty hai....bataye yeh tek hai yah nahe mery gar waly meri shadi nahe karwaty jab tak meri job na ho jaye or muj say sabar nae hota...or wo aik yateem bachi hai... wo hamesha mujy mana karti hai par aksar mai us sy zabardasti kar jata ho bataye mai kya karo.....  
      Country  islamabad - pakistan
      Answer Shuru se ap tak ki sari ki sari harkatain haraam hain, or ye shadi bhi sahi nahi hai, ager wo larki toba kar le un tamaam harkatoo ki waja se or phir ap us se nikah ki niche bayaan karda tamaam sharait ke sath nikah kar lain to wo Islaami lehaaz se ap ki zojiyat main aa jaain gi. (wrna wo abhi apki biwi nahi hai) Nikah ki sharaait 1 – ager larki kawari ho or us ke baap ya dada ya pardada zinda hon to ye is nikah se razi hon, or ager baap o dada zinda na hon to maa o bhaiyoon o behnoo se ijazat lena zarori nahi hai 2 – mard o orat shadi per razi hon, 3 – ehtiyaat e wajib ki bina per nikha ka siga arabi main para jaae, 4 – mard o orat ya in ke wakeel (Molana) jo siga phar rahe hon wo nikha ke sige ke zarye se mard o orat ke dermiyaan izdiwaaji rishte ko qaaim karne ki niyat rakhte hon. (Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30,eidition 1430) , (Ref : Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail , edition # 1414 , maslah # 2335 , 2341 , 2342 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 1  
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      Ques. ID 11697

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      Question Sir i want to ask that, is anal sex with wife is allowed in islam ? coz some people say its haram.  
      Country  Lahore - Pakistan
      Answer Biwi k peechay (back) k maqam(maqam e pakhana) main jimaa(anal sex) krna biwi k raazi na honay ki sorat men ethiyaat-e-wajib ki bina pr haram hai,agr biwi razi ho tu jaiz hay lekin shadeed makrooh hay.(Ref: Ayatullah Seestani(D.B) Al-masail e mutakhaba, maslah # 67). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid islam  
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      Ques. ID 57528

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      Question Mera sawal ye hai k meri Biwi k ghar walon ka or mera bohat jhagra rehta tha, tung aa ker main nay apni biwi say kaha k main tumko talaq nahi dena chahta laikin ager tum khula chahti ho to lay sakti ho us ney do din sochnay k baad apnay ghar walon k dabao main aa ker mujhay likh ker de dia k wo alhaidgi chahti hai or apnay baap k sath chali gai. us waqt wo pregnent thi kuch mahino baad shariat board nay mujhey uski darkhwast per notice bheja or sulha kerwaney ki koshish ki. mager wapis anay k liey meri biwi ney wo sharaiat rakhin jo main poori nahi ker sakta tha. main ney un sharait ko mannay say inkaar kia or ye likh ker de dia k is ney mujh sey alhaidgi ka mutalba kia hai lehaza ager ye ana bhi chahti hai to main nahi rakhna chahta. us ney wahan kaha k meray shohar nay zabardasti likhwaya hai or main khula nahi chahti ager ye talaq dena chahtey hain to den. main ney kaha k ager ye khula chahti hain to lain main talaq nahi doon ga or main ney kabhi ye nahi kaha k main talaq dena chahta hon. taqreeban 6 mahinay baad meri beti paida hoi jis ki mujhey khabar nahi di gai. main ney apni biwi ko khat likha k main dusri shadi ker raha hon apna haq mehar lay lo or khula lay lo us ney likha main khula nahi chahti or usi khat main bataya k meri beti ho chuki hai 3 mahinay ki hai. ye sun ker main apni Bivi or bachi sey milnay us k ghar gaya mujhey milnay nahi dia gaya. phir main ney dusri shadi ker li. bohat mahinon hamara rabta nahi hwa main her 4 ya 5 mahinay bad khat bhejta tha k meri beti sey milnay do mager us ney na kabhi mujhey phone kia or na kbhi ghar ana chaha kyon k wo adalati bayan hotey they k main ana chahti hon. ab ye case court main hai us ko gay hway 4 saal ho gay hain main ab bhi us k ghar phone kerta hon mager wo baat nahi kerti. meray sawalat ye hain: wo haq e zojiyat ada nahi kerna chahti kyon k na us ney kabhi aney ki koshish ki na rabtey ki or na meray rabta kerney per koi musbat jawab dia sirf adalaton main ye kaha k wo ana chahti hai wo bhi sharait per. Kia mujh per us ka 4 saal ka naan nafqa wajib hai? adalat ney meray khilaf faisla dia hai k mujhey 4 saal ka naan nafqa dena hai. mujhey shariat ka jawab chahiey. kia wo sharai aitebar sey meri BiVi hai jab k 4 saal se hum alag hain. Meri beti sey milney per pabandi lagana ya meri merzi k khilaf naam rakhna un logon k liey jaiz hai kyon k main kuch or naam rakhna chahta hon unhon ney kuch or rakha, jab k main ney her jaga kaha k main apni beti ka maintenance amount deney per tayar hon. Shukria  
      Country  Karachi - Pakistan
      Answer Ab tak wo ap ki zojiyat main hain, agche un ka 4 saal ka naan o nufqa dena ap per wajib nahi hai, or ap ki beti un ki bhi beti hain to wo us ka naam rakh sakti hain lekin ap ko us se milne na dena jaiz nahi hai. (ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Tauzee hul masail, 31st edition, maslah # 2462 to 2472 , 2377 , 2422 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid 5  
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      Ques. ID 57531

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      Question Salam kya phoopi ki ladki se nikah kar sakte hai?  
      Country  mumbai maharashtra - mumbai maharashtra
      Answer G han bilkul kr sakte hen.(Ref : Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail , edition # 31 , maslah # 2349 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 4  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 57563

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      Question Agr koe kawara larka or larki bgair ksi ki ijazat k apas me nikah kr chuke hon to us nikkah k baary me kya hukum hai?  
      Country  karachi - pakisatan
      Answer Ager kawari larki ke walid ya dada is se razi nahi hai to nikah batil hai. (Ref : Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail , edition # 1414 , maslah # 2335 , 2341,2342 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai)  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 4  
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      Ques. ID 57569

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      Question Assalamualaikum mujhe ye puchna h ki do log apas me nikah krna chate h pr ldke k walid razi nhi h aur wo apas me contact bhi rakhte h to aise me un dono ko kya krna chahiye aur iska sbse zyada gunehgaar kun h  
      Country  sultanpur - india
      Answer Wssalam o alykum, kawari larki ke walid ya dada ki ijazat ke bageer ager nikah baqi tamaam sharait ke sath kar bhi liya jaae to batil hai. (Ref : Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail , edition # 1414 , maslah # 2335 , 2341 , 2342). Sura e Ahzaab (sura # 33) ko hath say likh kar aik dabbay(box) mai band kar ke apnay ghar may hifazat say rakh dain aur is sura ko har rooz aik bar parh kar dua mangain to hisb e manshah rishta distiab ho ga. (Ref : Naway e salaheen pg # 352). Wazifa batanay k sath aap ko aik fiqhi maslay ki taraf mutawajah kia jata hai: or is terhan ki dosti o mohabbat jaiz nahi hai. (Ref : Nigah aur libas sawal # 106 pg # 69 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai)  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 1  
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      Ques. ID 57571

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      Question Mera sawal yehy k meri pasand ki shading hui y 3 sail hoye hyn or 2bachy hay.mere shohar meri baat nae sunty na mujh se koi bat share krty hyn. Or apny ghar walo PR sab pesy kharch karty hyn.mjhy pesy nae deity na baat manty hyn. Me susral se ab alag hona chahte hun  
      Country  karachi - pakistan
      Answer Jab jab ap apne shohar ke saamne aain to ya waliyo or raat ko ba-wazoo ho kar bistar per letne se neend aane tak ya manioo (“oo” ka arabi talaffuz arabi ke een se karain) ka wird kijye. (Ref : nawaa e saleheen , pg # 292 , 298) Hadees manqool hai, jis main ka baaz ye hai ke arz (ik orat ne) kiya, ya Rasool Allah! Shohar ka haq zoja per kya hai (yani bivi per kya kya cheezain farz hain)? Farmaya, lazim hai ke us ki itaat kare, kisi waqt or kisi hal main us ki nafarmaani na kare, jis waqt wo mubashirat ka irada kare inkaar na kare chahe wo unoot ki pusht per hi kun na sawaar ho, phir us(orat)ne arz ki, ya Rasool Allah! Mard per kis ka haq sab se bara hai? farmaya, baap ka, arz ki (orat ne) orat per sab se bara haq kis ka hai? farmaya, shohar ka, arz ki (orat ne) shohar per mera haq utna nahi hai(jitna mere per shohar ka hai)?farmaya, nahi. or ik dosri Hadees manqool hai ke (orat per farz hai ke )kisi raat is halat main na sooe ke us ka sohar us se naraaz ho, us orat ne arz kiya, ya Rasool Allah! Chahe us orat ke shohar ne kitna hi zulum kiya ho? Farmaya han chahe kitna hi zulum kiya ho. (Ref : tehzib ul islaam , baab # 4 , topic # hoqooq e zojain , pg # 140 , 141). Note in manqoolah hadeesoo ko bayaan karene ka maqsad ye hai ke ap kun ke ik Musalmaan orat hain to ap per lazim hai ke ALLAH o RASOOL(s.a.w) ke bayaan karda hokum per amal kar ke apne khoobsorat se ghar ko or ziyada kobsoorat banane ki koshish karain yahan tak ke ap apni in tamaam zehmatoo ka ajar ALLAH TAALA se hasil karain jannat main.(Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai)  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid 1  
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      Ques. ID 57575

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      Question mere 3 bivi hai a jaiz hai ky  
      Country  bangalore - india
      Answer G han jaiz hai.(Ref : Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Minhaajus saliheen Part # 3, Maslah # 200 , eidition # 4th , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 2  
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      Ques. ID 57580

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      Question ASalam.o.alikum mujha yeh bataen mufti sahab k b.v ka dood pee na jaiz ha yan na-jain ha and agar hum kisi asi orat ka dood peeta hn jius k sath humhara nika nahi hova to asi surat ma shariyat kia kahati ha ?plz mujha aga karen  
      Country  rawalpindi - pakistan
      Answer Wssalam o alykum, ehtiyaat e wajib ke madd e nazar bivi ka doodh pina jaiz nahi hai. or esi orat jis ke sath nikah nahi howa is ka doodh pena haraam hai. (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), E-Mail from Answers@najaf .org) , (Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30,eidition 1430 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid 1  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 11695

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      Question shohar apni biwi ka doodh kyun nhi pi sakta hai  
      Country  bhopal - india
      Answer Shohar biwi k breast suck(choos) ker sakta hay, laikin agar shohar biwi ke breast ko suck karey aur moohn mai doodh aa jaye, to ehtiyat wajib ye hay k biwi ka doodh nah piaya jay(yaani halaq say neechay nah utara jaay.) .Aur is sai nikah batil nhi hota hai. (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), E-Mail from Answers@najaf .org). (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2335) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid  
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      Ques. ID 11693

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      Question Sir mera sawal ye he ki mard apni zoja se 1 hafte me kitne den ham bistari kar sakta he or kon se konse din or ham bistari k foran bad ghusal krna zarori he kia Allah aap ko jazaye kher de (Ameen)  
      Country  karachi - pakistan
      Answer 1) Shohar apni jawaan biwi sai 4 mahinay sai ziada muddat(time period) k lie hambistari(intercourse) tark nahi kar sakta magar ye k(except) hambistari os k lie nuqsandah ya ziyada takleef ka sabab(reason) ho ya oski biwi khud 4 mahinay sai ziada muddat k liay hambistari tark karnay par razi ho ya nikah kertay waqt nikah k zimn(agreement) main 4 mahinay say ziyada muddat k liay hambistari tark kernay ki shart rakhi gae ho. Laikin is se nikah nahi batil nahi hota.(tauzeehul masail,ayatollah Seestani,maslah #2382). 2) Shaohar ka apni bivi se haiz or nifaas k khoon anae ka dino main hambistari kerna haram hay. Is k alawa baqi dino main jaiz hay. Bivi k saath jima (intercourse) ka islami tariqa ye hai k jima k waqt mustahab hai k bismillah perhi jaay, or baa wuzu hon khaas taur per jab biwi haamla ho,or jima k waqt jo kaam makrooh hain un main say kuch ye hain 1.soraj or chaand gerhan ka hona,2. zawaal e aaftab ka hona siwaay jumeraat k din k, 3. groob e aaftaab k waqt ka hona, 4.chand ki aakhri 3 raaton main jima kena, 5.fajar k baad soraj nikalnay say pehlay, 6.islami mahinay ki pehli taarikh siway Ramazan ki pehli raat(Chaand raat)main , 7. islami mahinay ki darmiani or aakri taarikh main jima kerna, 8.qiblay ki taraf rukh ya pusht kerna, 9.berhana (naked) halat main jima kerna, 10.ehtilaam k baad baghair wuzu k jima kerna, 11.jima k waqt bivi ki sharamg ko dekhna makrooh hai. (Ref : Minhaj us salaheen Ayat ullah sistani d.b. part # 3 masla # 5 )  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid Hujjat ul Islam Aqa Saistani  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 11689

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      Question as salam o alikum muhay apsay yeh poochna tha k bacha paida karnay ka kiya tareeka hai ku k na hi tu mujhay pata hai na meray husband ko  
      Country  london - england
      Answer Shohar ko chahiay k jima se pehlay masaas(orgasm) kare, yaad rakhna chaiay k masaas or dastbaazi k is amal main merd khososi tawajjah rakhe, yani wo piyaar o muhabbat ki baato k sath sath aurat ko good main lay , boos o kinaar kare, pistano(brest) ki niple ko masle, pistano ko dhere dhere dabae,honto ya zabaan ko ahista ahista chosay, baghal, guddi, raan waghera main ungliyaan phere, sharamgaah k ander ungli dakhil ker k halke hlake harkat day , apna uzo e tanasul(penis) aurat k hath main day takeh wo ose dhere dhere dabae or inteshaar(yani uzu e tanasul main tanao) paida hone per apne jazbaat or khahishaat ko os waqt tak qabo main rakhe jab tak aurat ki saansain ukharhni nah shuru ho jain, is k baad jab jima shuru kia jaay tu jab jima k doran aurat k munzil hone (discharge) k bilkul qareeb ho yani wo baytabana harakaat karay, merd se chumtay, liptay, apne hatho ya taango se merd ko kas ker daba,ay. Tab merd bhi jaldi jaldi dkhool(inserting of penis) or ikhraaj(emiting of penis) ker k farigh ho jaay, agar ittefaaq se aurat is waqt tak munzil nah ho or wo apne haatho ya taango se merd ko kas k daba rahi ho takeh merd alag nah ho tu merd ko chahiay k is waqt tak apne aala e tanasul(penis) ko aurat ki sahramgaah se bahar nah nikalay jab tak k aurat munzil nah hojaay, phir khuch dair baad penis ko nikaal ker merd aahistagi se aurat se alag hojaay. .(Ref:Islam or jinsiyaat, mu,allif doctor muhhammed taqi ali abdi, pg#150-151). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 57600

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      Question Sir mera swal ye hy k agr kisi larki k waliden uski shadi zbrdsti se krwai jae or bad me wo lrki talaq lea bghair apne pasnd pr shadi krne ki haq rakhti hy. Reply Must  
      Country  sanghar - sendcv97@gmail.com
      Answer Agr wo larki waqai shadi per razi na ho to is surat men ye shadi sahi nahi hai, lekin ager us ki pasand ki shadi per us ke walid or dada razi na hon to wo apni pasand ka nikah bhi nahi kar sakti, or ager nikah kar le to wo nikah batil hai, or ager walid ya dada main se koi ik bhi razi ho jaae to nikah sahi hai.(lekin agr walid or dada men se koi bhi zinda na ho to phir kisi or se ijazat lena zaruri nahi hia)(Ref : Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail , edition # 1414 , maslah # 2335 , 2341 , 2342 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 1  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 57604

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      Question Assalam o alaikum agar wife apny husband ko beta keh dy tu kia talaq ho jati ha yaa phir kuch nahi hota please jaldi answer chahiye  
      Country  Abu Dhabi - United Arab emirates
      Answer Wssalam o alykum, koi harj nahi hai.(Ref : Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Minhaajus saliheen Part # 3, Maslah # 639 , eidition # 4th , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid 1  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 57605

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      Question Assalamo alaikum sahab mera sawaal hai k ek ladka ek shadi shuda aurat se zina kiya hai jabke wo aurat aur uska shohar 1saal se alag rehte the kyunki un dono ke beech banti nahi thi aur wo aurat ne uske shohar se talaaq maanga tha magar uske shohar ne usko talaq nahi diya aur wo 1saal se alag reh rahe the tab ek ladke ne us aurat ke saath sex kiya dono ki razamandi ke saath aur ab us aurat ko apne shohar se talaq mil gaya hai to wo ladka aur aurat shadi karna chahte hai... kya ye dono shadi kar sakte hai?  
      Country  bangalore - india
      Answer Wssalam o alykum, ehtiyaat e wajib ke tor per nahi kar sakte ye orat is larke per hamesha k liye haram hogai hai. (Ref : Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail , edition # 31 , maslah # 2367 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 4  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 57606

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      Question Mera Shawal Ye hai ki meni Suna hai kiye Husband aur wife ko Sex kiye doran Bolna nhi chye agr wo bolyn to ise sye un ki Olad biye zuban piyda ho gye ise baat mn kitni Shachi hai Plz  
      Country  Gujrat - Pakistan
      Answer G han, Hazrat e Imaam Jaffer o Sadiq (a.s) se manqoolah hadees main warid hai, mager warid ye hai ke Ager jima ke waqt baat ki jaae to mumkin( imkan ) hai ke bacha gnooga peda ho ga zarori nahi hai k aysa ho. (Ref : tehzib ul islaam , baab # 4 , topic # mubashirat ke adaab , pg # 130 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid 3  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 57611

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      Question Penis & Vagina fucking allowed or not between husband and wife  
      Country  Karachi - Pakistan
      Answer (Allowed) jaiz hai. (Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30,eidition 1430 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid 5  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 58739

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      Question Kya husband apne biwi ko pechy ke turf sy hambistre kr skta ha ya nh?  
      Country  Rawalpindi - Pakistan
      Answer Biwi k peechay (back) k maqam(maqam e pakhana) main jimaa(intercourse) krna biwi k raazi na honay ki sorat men ethiyaat-e-wajib ki bina pr haram hai,agr biwi razi ho tu jaiz hay lekin shadeed makrooh hay.(Ref: Ayatullah Seestani(D.B) Al-masail e mutakhaba, maslah # 67). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid 1  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 58741

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      Question i want to know about the limits of shelter between husband and wife. 2. Can husband and wife see each other nacked, or its not allowed in islam.3. And what about kiss's limits, whole body or some area.4 can wife suck penis, or use to rub or catch by hand.thanks  
      Country  peshawar - pakistan
      Answer 1- Biwi k peechay (back) k maqam(maqam e pakhana) main jimaa(intercourse) krna biwi k raazi na honay ki sorat men ethiyaat-e-wajib ki bina pr haram hai,agr biwi razi ho tu jaiz hay lekin shadeed makrooh hay.(Ref: Ayatullah Seestani(D.B) Al-masail e mutakhaba, maslah # 67).Shohar or bivi aik doosray k badan ko berhana(Nacked) daikh saktay hain.Berhana(naked) ho ker jima kerna makhrooh hay.( Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),minhajus saliheen,part#, maslah #5+11) 2-Jima k doran baat kerna makhrooh hay.Shohar or bivi aik doosray se ye tamaam lazzaat hasil ker saktay hain. (( Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),minhajus saliheen,part#, maslah #5+11).Shohar or biwi aik dosray ki sharamgaah ko mon(mouth) laga sakte hain, mgr ye k sharamgaah say nikalnay wali ratoobat Halaq mian nah jaay.Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Istiftaat I-2,I-15)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid 5  
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      Ques. ID 58246

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      Question agr shohr job pr ho to 1 sal tk bivi wait krti hai to agr bivi munh se apna hq mangy to shoher ko kya krna chahiye mtlb shoher ko waps ana chahiye ya apna kam zroori smjna chahiye ye islam mein jaiz hai?  
      Country  lahore - pakistan
      Answer Biwi ki giza, libas, rehaish aur zandigi ki baqi zarooriat ka intezam shohar par wajib hai. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2376-78) Sohar apni jawan biwi sai 4 mahinay sai ziada muddat(time period) k lie hambistari(intercourse) tark nahi kar sakta magar ye k(except) hambistari os k lie nuqsandah ya ziyada takleef ka sabab(reason) ho ya oski biwi khud 4 mahinay sai ziada muddat k liay hambistari tark karnay par razi ho ya nikah kertay waqt nikah k zimn(agreement) main 4 mahinay say ziyada muddat k liay hambistari tark kernay ki shart rakhi gae ho. Laikin is se nikah nahi batil nahi hota.(tauzeehul masail,ayatollah Seestani,maslah #2382). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid 1  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 58241

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      Question Assalam o alaikum !! me chahti hu k mujhey koi aisa wazifa batahe jis se mere dad shadi k liye razi ho jahe mein our Ali ek dosre se boht pyar karte hai our shadi karna chahte hai us ka proposal bhi ayea hai mere liye magar mere dad nahi man rahe plz koi aisa wazifa batahe jis se woh razi ho jahe.  
      Country  Milan - Italy
      Answer Kunwari larki us waqt tak Nikah nahi kar sakti jub tak baap/dada Nikah ki Ijazat na day day. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail, Maslah# 2341) Surah-e-Ahzaab ko hath say likh kar aik dabbay(box) mai band kar k apnay ghar may hifazat say rakh dain aur is Surah ko har rooz aik bar parh kar dua mangain to hisb-e-Manshah Rishta dastiyaab hoga. (Ref: Naway-e-Saaleheen, pg #352)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 1  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 58264

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      Question Assalam.o.alaikum mera ye sawal ha k agar Court marriage kar li jay or kuch arsay k bad usi larki se agar gar walay man jayen tou dobar Nikah kia ja sakta larka be wahi or larki be wohi ho jinho ne pehlay court marriage ki ho? In short kia nikah pe nikah kia ja skta ha usi larki se jis se court ma be nikah kia ho? Main Or Larki Sunnii Hain. Please Ans me.  
      Country  Lahore - Pakistan
      Answer Note : Is Website per Fiqhae Jaffaria kay mutabiq Jawabaat diay jatay hein.  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 1  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 58751

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      Question 2 meri wife government job karti ha kia uski tankhaw mje haq bannta ha ya in?  
      Country  karachi - pakistan
      Answer Agar wife zinda ho to wife k salary (milkiyat) me shoar ka haq nahi hota. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31st edition, maslah #2607 )  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid 4  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 58753

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      Question Kia ek syedzadi aur ek ummati ka nikah ho sakta hai? Plz Quran ki ayat k sath ans dy  
      Country  islamabad - pakistan
      Answer Agar shia aurat ko apne shia mazhab k tabdeel na hone ka khouf na ho to sunni mard se shadi kar sakte hai .laikin phir bhi aurat k lye shadi karna makrooh hai. aur agar shia mazhab k tabdeel ho jane ka khouf ho to jaiz nahe hai, albatta shia gher syed se shadi krna men koi harj nahi hai.(Ref : Minhaj us salaheen Ayat ullah sistani d.b. part # 3 masla # 215,eidition4th) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 1  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 58754

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      Question Salam mera sawal ye hai k larki agr Shia Syed zada ho aur larka shia ghair e sadat ho tu kia shia syed larki se shahdi karna jaez hai agr hai tu please koi reference dan q k yahan per logo ka concept bht he ghlt hai ka shia syed larki shia ghair-e-sadat se larkay se shahdi jaez ni hai  
      Country  Islamabad - Pakistan
      Answer Syedah shia aurat ka nikah gair syed shia mard k saath ho sakta hay.(Ref : Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Minhaajus saliheen Part # 3, Maslah # 221). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 5  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 58756

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      Question Aoa. Mai aik larki se shadi krna chahta hu, uss ka Nikah uss k parents ne uss ki razamandi k bagher kahin kr dia tha. 1- kya uss ka wo nikah jaiz hay? 2- Ab kya wo apne parents se lar k nikah khatam krwa k mujhse shadi krwae to kya Islam iss ki ijazat deta hay?  
      Country  Lahore - Pakistan
      Answer Nikah ki shriat mai sai hai k mard aur aurat dono shadi pr razi hon isi liye ye nikah sahi nahi hai (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2335) Agar aurat aur mard ko ya in me se kise aik ko izdewaj (shadi) per majboor kiya jaay aur nikah k baad wo ijazat de den (means apne nikah per razi hojaen) to nikah sahi hai.laikin behter ye hai k dobara nikah perha jaay.(Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31st edition, maslah #2335,2339)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 4  
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      Ques. ID 58769

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      Question if wife says her husband brother then what effect on nikah  
      Country  multan - pakistan
      Answer Agar shohardar aurat zina kray to ehtiyat e wajib ki bina par wo zani par hamisha k liye haram ho jati hai laikin sohar par haram nhi hoti hai aur agar toba aur istegfar na karay aur apnay amal par baqi rahay (yani zina kari trk na karay) to behtr ye hai is ka sohar isay talaq day dai. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31st edition, maslah # 2367) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 1  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 58779

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      Question Salam. Sir. mein bohat pareshan hun. mein ne apni bivi ko kissi se phone pe baat karte huyay pakra hai. aur wo ajnabi hai. ab meri bivi mujh se sorry keh rahi hai aur allah se bhi sachi toba kr lee hai. but mein ne usse talaq ka socha hai. mere bachay b hein. kindly rehnumai farmayen. reply urgent. thanks.  
      Country  Lahore - Pakistan
      Answer Ap usko samjaen, jis ne gunah kiya hai wo Toba karen Parwardigar ne quran me wadah kia he k wo toba karney walon ki toba ko qabool karta he aur aisa hargiz nahi ho sakhta he k wo apne wadeh per amal na karey. Aur ghuna se bachney k lie mazboot irada chahiea. (Ref : sistani.org ques # 1 , toba)  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid 3  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 58782

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      Question sir mujy shadi sy dar lgta ha.ma shadi nhi kerna chahti but mry parents mri shadi ker rhy hain.mujy shadi sy khoof ata ha.ma kia kru?  
      Country  gujrat - pakistan
      Answer Shadi karna taaqeed k saath mustahab hai. (Ref : aqa sistani,Jadeed faqhi masail , masla # 385 , pg # 231, eidition 5) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah
      Mujtahid 1  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 58783

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      Question A.O .A mera que ye hai k razai behan ki choti behan k sath nikah ho sakta hai??  
      Country  rahim yar khan - pakistan
      Answer Razaai behan ki behan se mehram hai aur us se nikah karna jaiz nahe hai. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31st edition, maslah #2428,2349 ) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 1  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 58787

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      Question jis aurat se zina kiya jaye kya us ki beti ke sath shadi jauz hai? kya saas ke sath zina krne se biwi ke sath nikkah toot jata hai?  
      Country  rawalpindi - pakistan
      Answer Agar koi shakhs kisi aurat se (jo us ki phopi ya khala k alawa ho ) say zina karay to ehtiyat e mustahabb(behter) ye hai k is ki beti k sath shadi na karay.(laikin phir bhi shadi kar sakta hai) (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2361 ) 2) kise aurat k saath shadi hojane k baad us ki mah (saas) k saath zina karne se us aurat aur mard ka nikah nahe tootta(Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31st edition, maslah #2360 ).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 1  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 58812

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      Question nikah ki had kia hai ? nikha pr nikah tu nhi ho skta pr agar koi kr lay tu kia hal ho skta hai yan us ki koi saza wgaiira ?? plzzz answer ?  
      Country  lahore - pakistan
      Answer Mard k lie Aik se ziyada shadi karna riwayat ki roshni me mustahab hai. Aur dosere shadi karna makro nahe hai.(Ref : Mujtahid se pouchey gay sawalat part # 3, ques # 105, pg # 53) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 4  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 58335

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      Question i'm imran me ek ladki se bhut pyaar karta hu vo bhi mujhe bhut pyaar karti hai or hum dono sadhi karna chate hai magar meri gf ka khana ki me bhag kar sadhi karke aapne maa baap ko dukh nhi phochana chati hu hum dono alag religion alag hai vo hindu hai sir mujhe koi aesha tareka bato ki uske maa baap sadhi ke liye raaji ho jaye humare baare me sirf uski badhi sister ko pata hai sir plz koi tareka bataiye ki uske maa baap raji ho jaye or hum dono mil ke ek new life jiye  
      Country   -
      Answer Musalman Mard ghair ehl e kitab Kafir(hindu) aurat say nikah nahi kar sakta. (Ref: Tauzeehul Masail Ayatullah Seestani (d.b) Masla# 2362) (Khuda aapki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 1  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 58334

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      Question A.O.A agar kascy larki ki marzi k baghair shadi waldain ki marzi ya family base pa zabadasti ki gai ho or ruksati k bad un ki na-itfaqi and shaki ki base p aladagi ho gai ho larki or larkay ka apes main koi azwaji talok b na ho to.larka ne 5 sal k bad dosrai shadi kar k ana or zid sae intikam lay ra ho k ma fasala(divorces) nai dayta or khud shadi kar li ho uss iss baat ko 8 saal guzar jaein to larki agar court sae khula lay lay. phir b alama harzrat nae bohat try ki ho k seeghau k lia larkay ko agree karnay ki try b 1 year sae kar ray hon wo larka wada kar k un sae contact karna chor da or sab sae khata phiray k intikam lay ra jab larki nae kabi accept e na kiya ho or is sourat a hal maein kia kiya jahya.keou k sab family k logu and har tra sae larkay ko convince kiya gha phir b uss laraky k dil m intikam khud to shadi kar li uss main se bachay b ho ghay. 1)kia court sae khula ho jahate ala e tashaiou k nazdeek 2)kia asa nekha ho jahat? 3)or in halaat mein seeghu k lia koi mashwara dain? 4)1 saal (year)sae mulana sab k pas case pending no design? 5)ascay halat maein iddat zarori na unn ka koi azwaji talok tha just nekha hua?  
      Country  karachi - pakistan
      Answer Agar Aurat Nikah karnay par Razi nahi thi to nikah sahi nahi hai albatta nikah kay baad Aurat nikah ki ijazat de day (ijazat kay liye koi aisi baat kahay ya koi kaam aisa anjaam day jo raza mandi par dalalat karay to kafi hai) to nikah sahi hai or agar baad main bhi razi nahi thi tu nikah batil hay or talaq ki bhi zarorat nahi hay, aur agar aurat nikah k baad razi ho tu nikah sahi hay aur Shohar Biwi kay Izdiwaaji huqooq say inqaar karay aur talaaq denay par bhi aamaada na ho aur hakim e shara(mujtahid) ki taraf say in dono me say kisi aik ka paband bananay k bawajood shohar is par amal na karay to zauja hakim e sharah say talaq ka mutalba kar sakti hai jo is ka seegha talaq jari karay. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 33rd edition, maslah #2335,2338)(Ref: Jadeed Fiqhi Masail, masla#428) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 6  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 58324

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      Question SalAm mujay aap say ye sawal hay agar shohr apni bivi say lazzate khuaish chahta ho ur us ki bv mana kary to aesy may shrai masla kia hay  
      Country  karachi - pakistan
      Answer Bivi k liay zarori hay k jab bhi shohar jinsi lazzatain hasil kerna chahay tu oski khahish pori kare or share majbori(maslan periods) k baghair shohar ko hambistari se nah roke.Agar koi aurat hambistri aur jinsi lazzat k silsilay me shohar ka sath na day kar is ki khuwaish puri na karay to phir shohar par bhi bivi ki roti,kapray aur makaan ka zimadar nahi hai Agarchay wo shohar kay paas hi rahay.(Ref: Tauzeehul Masail Ayatullah Sistani (d.b), Masla# 2376-7) .(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid 5  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 58321

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      Question asalamoalikum...May nikah k bad apny husband say humbister ho sakte hun jab k mare ruksate nai hui sirf nikah hoa hay  
      Country  karachi - pakistan
      Answer Agar Riwaj yahi ho k jab tak rukhsati nahe hoti is waqt tak larki apnay aap ko apnay sohar k lie paish nahi karti, is tarah sai k ise aik zimne shart samja jata ho to phir aurat k lie nikah k bad rukhsati se phelay shohar k lie apne aap ko paish karna wajib nahi hai. Haan agar aurat razi ho tu jaiz hay.(Ref : Mujtahid se pochay gaey sawalaat, part # 4, sawaal # 149, pg # 72)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 2  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 58878

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      Question Slam alama Sab.. Mara sawal hy kiya B.V k sat sex Katy waqt un k sharm ga ko dakha ja sakta hy ?or un say Apni sharm ga ko Sak karwaya ja sakta hy? Or akhri sawal pichy say b kiya ja sakta hy kiya? Shukrya  
      Country  Lahore - Model tow
      Answer 1) Shohar or bivi aik doosray k badan ko berhana daikh saktay hain.Berhana(naked) ho ker jima kerna makhrooh hay.( Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),minhajus saliheen,part#, maslah #5+11) 2-Jima k doran baat kerna makhrooh hay. Shohar or bivi aik doosray se ye tamaam lazzaat hasil ker saktay hain. (( Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),minhajus saliheen,part#, maslah #5+11 ) 2) Jima k doran bivi ki sharamgaah per nazar kerna makhrooh hay. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Minhajus saliheen, part#3, maslah #5 ) 3) Shohar or biwi aik dosray ki sharamgaah ko monh(mouth) laga saktay hain,magar ye k sharamgaah say nikalnay wali ratoobat Halaq mian nah jaay.Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Istiftaat I-2,I-15) 4)Biwi k peechay (back) k maqam(maqam e pakhana) main jimaa(intercourse) krna biwi k raazi na honay ki sorat men ethiyaat-e-wajib ki bina pr haram hai,agr biwi razi ho tu jaiz hay lekin shadeed makrooh hay.(Ref: Ayatullah Seestani(D.B) Al-masail e mutakhaba, maslah # 67). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid 4  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 58893

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      Question Kaya mard orat ki sharm gha ko chom chat sak ha k nahi . jab k orat bi razee ho or kahay k chato mujay maza ata ha  
      Country  lahore - pakistan
      Answer Shohar or biwi aik dosray ki sharamgaah ko monh(mouth) laga saktay hain,magar ye k sharamgaah say nikalnay wali ratoobat Halaq mian nah jaay.Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Istiftaat I-2,I-15) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid 6  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 58894

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      Question kia 1 bakra aur kanwari larki ka sharee haqq nhe ha k wo apni marzi aur pasand ka shoher karay.. jb k uski age 18 years ho.. aur agr wo janti ho k usska baap kabi b ussko uska sharee haqq nhe dey ga to phirr ussay kiaa krna chahye.. aise halat main agr wo kisi k sath baap ki marzi k begair nikah krr laitee ha to kia hukam ha?  
      Country  sheikhupura - pakistan
      Answer 1)Nikah chahay daimi ho ya ghair daimi(mutah) is main seeghah (nikah k bool) perhna zarori hay. Aurat aur mard ka faqat razi hona kafi nhi hai. Aur gawahoo ka hona zaroori nhi hai is k alawa mehar ko tay krna zaroori hai. 2) kawari(virgin) lerki os waqt tak nikah nahi ker sakti jab tak k lerki ka Baap ya Dada lerki ko nikah ki ijazat nah day day.or yehi hokum ehtiyaat e wajib ki bina(base) per os sorat main bhi hay k jab larki khud mukhtar or baligh bhi ho. agar lerki kawari nah ho tu os k liay baap ya dada ki ijazat ki zororat nahi hay.(yahaan kawari nah honay say muraad sirif ye hay k aisi lerki jo talaaq yaafta ho ya baywah ho or oskay shohar nay oskay saath hambistari /jima(intercourse) kia ho or oskay kawaraypan ko khatam kia ho or oski iddta bhi khatam ho chuki ho.agar zinaa ya aisay hi kisi kaam say oska kawaraypan khatam hoa ho tu ye kawari hi kehlaay gi. isi terah agar baap ya dada os merd k saath osay shaadi kernay ki ijzat nah daitay hon jo sharan(Ismlam ki nazar main) or urfan(maa,aashay ki nazar main) os k brabari(equal) ka ho tu ijazat ki zarorat nahi, isi terah baap ya dada ki maujood nah hon ya kisi doosri wajah say ijazat laina mumkin hi nah ho or lerki ka nikah kerna bohat zarori ho tab hi baap ya dada say ijazat layna laazmi nahi hay. (Ref : Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2341,2342).( aur jagha aurat k lie baab se ijazat lena zarori hai agar aurat ijazat na le to ehteyate wajib k bina per nikah batil hai( ref: sistani.org, urdu ) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 4  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 58935

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      Question assalamoalekum.... kya biwi penis ko hatho se sehla sakti he...........  
      Country  khachrod - india
      Answer 1)Shohar or bivi k liay jaiz hay k wo aik dosray k jism k tamaam hisso(parts) ko jism k kisi bhi hissay(part) say choo(touch) saktay hain.ye choona chaahay lazzat k iraday say ho ya baghair lazzat k, jaiz hay.(ref: Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Minhaa jus saliheen,maslah #11). 3) Shohar or 2)Biwi aik dosray ki sharamgaah ko monh(mouth) laga saktay hain,magar ye k sharamgaah say nikalnay wali ratoobat Halaq mian nah jaay.Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Istiftaat I-2,I-15) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid 1  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 58937

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      Question asssalamwaleku mera question yes hai ke mai ek ladke se pyaar karti hun or hum logo ne yeh faisla kiya hai ke hum dono ek dusre se shadi karna chahte hai kya to kya hum log shara ke hisab se personal bate ek dusre se kar sakte hain  
      Country  LUCKNOW - INDIA
      Answer 1)Nikah main sigah (nikah k bool) perhna zarori hai (chahay phone par ho ya samnay beth kar)aurat aur mard ka faqat razi hona aur isi terh nikah nama likhna ehtiyat e wajib ki bina par kafi nhi hai. Aqd e nikah ki kuch shrait hain jin mai sai kuch ye hain k:- 1). Ehtiyaat e wajib he nikah ka sigah sahih arabi me parha jaay,or agar khud merd or aurat sighah arbi main nah perh saktay hon tu arbi k alawa kisi dosri zaban main perh saktay hain or kisi ko vakil banana lazmi nahi hay. 2. sigha parhne wala aqal mand ho or agar apne lie perh raha ho to baligh hona bhi zurari he . 3. ye k merd or aurat or uska vakil sigha parhte waqt qasd e insha(nikah ka irada) rakhte hon. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2328+2335) 2)Kunwari(virgin) lerki os waqt tak nikah(daimi / mutah) nahi ker sakti jab tak k lerki ka Baap ya Dada lerki ko nikah ki ijazat nah day day.or yehi hokum ehtiyaat e wajib ki bina(base) per os sorat main bhi hay k jab larki khud mukhtar or balig bhi ho. agar lerki kawari nah ho tu os k liay baap ya dada ki ijazat ki zororat nahi hay.(yahaan kawari nah honay say muraad sirif ye hay k aisi lerki jo talaaq yaafta ho ya baywah ho or oskay shohar nay oskay saath hambistari /jima(intercourse) kia ho or os kay kawaray pan ko khatam kia ho or oski iddat bhi khatam ho chuki ho. agar zina ya aisay hi kisi kaam say oska kawarapan khatam hoa ho tu ye kawari hi kehlaay gi. isi terah agar baap ya dada os merd k sath osay shadi kernay ki ijzat nah daitay hon jo sharan(Islam ki nazar main) or urfan(mea,ashay ki nazar main) os k brabri(equal) ka ho tu ijazat ki zarorat nahi, isi terah baap ya dada maujood nah hon ya kisi doosri wajah say ijazat laina mumkin hi nah ho or lerki ka nikah kerna bohat zarori ho tab hi baap ya dada say ijazat laina lazmi nahi hay. (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2341,2342) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 4  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 58830

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      Question Asslemalaikum, Meri problem ye hai ki meri job saudi me lgi hai or mere husband ki saudi me doosri jagah, pehle to wo tayar the ki main join ker lu, but ab kuch logo ne unko behka diya meri taraf se, ab keh rhe hai tum mat jao, or mere sath ghar per bhi theek se behave nhi ker rhe, unke parents bhi kuch nhi samjhate hain, main job join kerna chahti hu taki yha se niksl jaye to problem khatam ho, plz dua btaye kya kru.....  
      Country  NEW DELHI - India
      Answer Jis aurat ka daimi nikah ho jay is k lie haram he k sohar ki ijazat k begair ghar se bahir nikle chahae is ka nikalna sohar k haq k manafi nab hi ho. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31st edition, maslah # 2376) Mian biwi ki aik doosray se mohabbat o ulfat k lie har namaz k bad surah e mumtahina ki ayat # 7 ko 7 martaba parha karain. Is se donoo me bai-misal mohabbat qaim ho jay gi. (ref : kitab naway salaheen pg # 404) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid 1  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 58939

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      Question A/m ji hm ek ldke se pyr krte the obhi hmhe se bhd pyr krte the o hmse cout mrrige krjeh saudiarab chle gye hain pr unha jke o bdl gye hai na hmse thik se bt krte hain na koi khyl rkhte hme ghrse bhga kr le gye the ab hm bht prsn hai pls aap koi esa wazifa ya amal btaiye jisse o phle jesa hmse behd muhhobt kre hm bht hi prsn hai hm apne ghr bhi.nhi ja skte plzzzz koi jldi se wazifa btaiye..  
      Country  orissa - indiao
      Answer 1)Nikah main sigah (nikah k bool) perhna zarori hai (chahay phone par ho ya samnay beth kar)aurat aur mard ka faqat razi hona aur isi terh nikah nama likhna ehtiyat e wajib ki bina par kafi nhi hai. Aqd e nikah ki kuch shrait hain jin mai sai kuch ye hain k:- 1). Ehtiyaat e wajib he nikah ka sigah sahih arabi me parha jaay,or agar khud merd or aurat sighah arbi main nah perh saktay hon tu arbi k alawa kisi dosri zaban main perh saktay hain or kisi ko vakil banana lazmi nahi hay. 2. sigha parhne wala aqal mand ho or agar apne lie perh raha ho to baligh hona bhi zurari he . 3. ye k merd or aurat or uska vakil sigha parhte waqt qasd e insha(nikah ka irada) rakhte hon. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2328+2335) 2)Kunwari(virgin) lerki os waqt tak nikah(daimi / mutah) nahi ker sakti jab tak k lerki ka Baap ya Dada lerki ko nikah ki ijazat nah day day.or yehi hokum ehtiyaat e wajib ki bina(base) per os sorat main bhi hay k jab larki khud mukhtar or balig bhi ho. agar lerki kawari nah ho tu os k liay baap ya dada ki ijazat ki zororat nahi hay.(yahaan kawari nah honay say muraad sirif ye hay k aisi lerki jo talaaq yaafta ho ya baywah ho or oskay shohar nay oskay saath hambistari /jima(intercourse) kia ho or os kay kawaray pan ko khatam kia ho or oski iddat bhi khatam ho chuki ho. agar zina ya aisay hi kisi kaam say oska kawarapan khatam hoa ho tu ye kawari hi kehlaay gi. isi terah agar baap ya dada os merd k sath osay shadi kernay ki ijzat nah daitay hon jo sharan(Islam ki nazar main) or urfan(mea,ashay ki nazar main) os k brabri(equal) ka ho tu ijazat ki zarorat nahi, isi terah baap ya dada maujood nah hon ya kisi doosri wajah say ijazat laina mumkin hi nah ho or lerki ka nikah kerna bohat zarori ho tab hi baap ya dada say ijazat laina lazmi nahi hay. (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2341,2342) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye). Mian biwi ki aik doosray se mohabbat o ulfat k lie har namaz k bad surah e mumtahina ki ayat # 7 ko 7 martaba parha karain. Is se donoo me bai-misal mohabbat qaim ho jay gi. (ref : kitab naway salaheen pg # 404)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 1  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 58961

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      Question Asalam u alikum . Ayatullah sahab.. Allah pak ap ko sehat aur salamti ata farmye.. Mera sawal hai k main shia ho and me bachpan se jis se mohabt karta ho wo bhi shia hai Alhamdulilah. Hum dono adult hai and 18 sal se ziada k bhi hai .. hum dono ne larki k ghar walo ko manane ki boht koshish ki par wo nahi man rahy jab k mere ghar waly razi hai .. to kia hum nikah kar sakte hai apni marzi se .. plz ans zaror famiye ga me boht pareshan ho .. aur haan larki ka kehna k me khud ko mar dogi agar end me esa nahi howa to....  
      Country  khi - pakistan
      Answer Kunwari(virgin) lerki os waqt tak nikah(daimi / mutah) nahi ker sakti jab tak k lerki ka Baap ya Dada lerki ko nikah ki ijazat nah day day.or yehi hokum ehtiyaat e wajib ki bina(base) per os sorat main bhi hay k jab larki khud mukhtar or balig bhi ho. agar lerki kawari nah ho tu os k liay baap ya dada ki ijazat ki zororat nahi hay.(yahaan kawari nah honay say muraad sirif ye hay k aisi lerki jo talaaq yaafta ho ya baywah ho or oskay shohar nay oskay saath hambistari /jima(intercourse) kia ho or os kay kawaray pan ko khatam kia ho or oski iddat bhi khatam ho chuki ho. agar zina ya aisay hi kisi kaam say oska kawarapan khatam hoa ho tu ye kawari hi kehlaay gi. isi terah agar baap ya dada os merd k sath osay shadi kernay ki ijzat nah daitay hon jo sharan(Islam ki nazar main) or urfan(mea,ashay ki nazar main) os k brabri(equal) ka ho tu ijazat ki zarorat nahi, isi terah baap ya dada maujood nah hon ya kisi doosri wajah say ijazat laina mumkin hi nah ho or lerki ka nikah kerna bohat zarori ho tab hi baap ya dada say ijazat laina lazmi nahi hay. (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2341-42) Surah e ahzaab ko hath say likh kar aik dabbay(box) mai band kar k apnay ghar may hifazat say rakh dain aur is surah ko har rooz aik bar parh kar dua mangain to hisb e manshah rishta distiab ho ga. (Ref : Naway e salaheen pg # 352) Wazifa batanay k sath aap ko aik fiqhi maslay ki taraf mutawajah kia jata hai: Jins e mukhalif sai is had tak dosti karna k mohabbat ki had tak pounch jay, ye jaiz nahi hai q k ghunnah mai hubtilla honay ka khof mojoud hay. (Ref : Nigah aur libas sawal # 106 pg # 69) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 4  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 58955

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      Question Mera sawal ye hai k mery shohar sex k amal me khud discharge hony k baad so jaaty hen jb k mery andar becheni barh jaati hai, isliay me khud kisi na kisi tareeqy se ya koi tv ka scene dekh kr discharge hoti hoon, tab jaakr mery andar se becheni khatam hoti hai, mera sawal hai k kia esa karny se mujhe gunaah hoga?  
      Country  Hyderabad - Pakistan
      Answer Ehtiyaat e wajib k toor per fahash filmoo(porn movies) aur tasveeron(porn pictures) ko dekhna haram he agar chahah shak aur lazzat k bagair dekha jay. (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Ayat ullaha Sistani d.b. Masla # 463 pg # 254) Shohar ko chahiay k jima se pehlay masaas(orgasm) kare, yaad rakhna chaiay k masaas or dastbaazi k is amal main merd khososi tawajjah rakhe, yani wo piyaar o muhabbat ki baato k sath sath aurat ko good main lay , boos o kinaar kare, pistano(brest) ki niple ko masle, pistano ko dhere dhere dabae,honto ya zabaan ko ahista ahista chosay, baghal, guddi, raan waghera main ungliyaan phere, sharamgaah k ander ungli dakhil ker k halke hlake harkat day , apna uzo e tanasul(penis) aurat k hath main day takeh wo ose dhere dhere dabae or inteshaar(yani uzu e tanasul main tanao) paida hone per apne jazbaat or khahishaat ko os waqt tak qabo main rakhe jab tak aurat ki saansain ukharhni nah shuru ho jain, is k baad jab jima shuru kia jaay tu jab jima k doran aurat k munzil hone (discharge) k bilkul qareeb ho yani wo baytabana harakaat karay, merd se chumtay, liptay, apne hatho ya taango se merd ko kas ker daba,ay. Tab merd bhi jaldi jaldi dkhool(inserting of penis) or ikhraaj(emiting of penis) ker k farigh ho jaay, agar ittefaaq se aurat is waqt tak munzil nah ho or wo apne haatho ya taango se merd ko kas k daba rahi ho takeh merd alag nah ho tu merd ko chahiay k is waqt tak apne aala e tanasul(penis) ko aurat ki sahramgaah se bahar nah nikalay jab tak k aurat munzil nah hojaay, phir khuch dair baad penis ko nikaal ker merd aahistagi se aurat se alag hojaay. .(Ref:Islam or jinsiyaat, mu,allif doctor muhhammed taqi ali abdi, pg#150-151). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid 1  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 58954

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      Question Mera sawal ye hai k shohar aur bivi bar bar janabat karty hon jesy raat me kiya phir subah me kiya phir ghusul kr k phir kuch waqt k baad sex kiya tau kiya hr dafa ghusul waajib hoga? Aur kiya aurat ko sir k baal bhi dhona laazim hai? Agar sakht sardi ho aur shohar bar bar sex karta ho tau aurat ko baal dhony me bohat masla hota hai qk aurat k baal bary hoty hen, iss se sardi lagny ka khatra bhi hota hai, kia bina baal dhoey poory jism ko dhony se ghusul nh hota? Plz rahnumaai farmaaen  
      Country  Hyderabad - Pakistan
      Answer 1)Aik jima k baad doosra jima kerne k liay ghusl kerna wajib nahi isi janabat ki halat main dobara jima kerna jaiz hay or makhrooh bhi nahi hay. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Minhajus saliheen, part#3, maslah #5 ) 2) Ghusl me in chote chote baalo ko jo badan ka juz shumaar hote hain dhona zarori hai aur lambhe baalo ka dhona zarori nahi hai balkeh agar pani ko jild tak is tara pouchae k lambhe tar(ghele) na ho to ghusl sahi hai laikin agar inhain dhohe beghair jild tak paani pouchana mumkin na ho to inhe bhe dhona zarore hai taake paani badan tak pouch jaay. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31st edition, maslah #378 ) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid 1  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 60128

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      Question meri behan jiska nam misbah nazeer hai uski shadi ko 5 saal ho gaye par wo apnay susural nahi rehna chahti sb boht pareshan hn jb k uska husband usko pasand b krta hai wo hamaray chachu ka beta hai plz plz koi hal btaiye jise wo apnay susral chali jaye aur khush rahay plz plz help me  
      Country  multan - pakistan
      Answer Apne ghar main ya kisi or jaga per jahan Deni Mefiloo ka ehtimaam hota hai, jin main Allah o Rasool o Masomeen (a.s) ke farameen ki roshni main shohar ke haqooq ko biviyoon per wazih kiya jata hai, esi mehfiloo mian ap behan ko le kar jaain. (Ref : Noor e Imaan , Topic # Hadees e Saqlain , Pg # 175 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid 1  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 60146

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      Question kia biwi forplay ma shohar ka lund mou mai lay saktee hai  
      Country  kphat - pakistan
      Answer G han miyan biwi apas men har qism ki lazzat hasil kr sakte hen,lekin is se nikalne wali ratobat ka pina haram hai. (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Istiftaat I-2,I-15 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid 1  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 60161

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      Question Salam Aleykum, Muje kuch sawal poochna hai jo shadi shuda ke leya jaroori hai. 1) Shadi ke pahle raat jo dua humbistari se pahle parte hai naik aulad ke leya , kya wo sirf pahle baar jima ke waqt para jata hai ya harwaqt parsakte jab aulad chaheya??? 2)Sawal thoda ganda hai..per zaroori hai malum kerna..Kya biwi ko apne upar betha ker jima(intercource) kersakte hai?? aur agar usse hamila hojayge tau bache per asar padeyga? 3) Kya biwi se doggi style se jima(intercourse) kersakte hai. Kya isse honay wale bache per asar perta hai? 4)Meya kya biwi ke private part ko jabaan (toung) lagasakta hai, choos sakta hai?? kya isse maa ya bache per koe bura asar hoga??yeh janta hu ke Liquid nahi pena chaheya...gale se nahi utarna chaheya. 5) Kya biwi meya ke private part ko chuus sakte hai?? usse biwi ya hone wale bache per asar hoga?? yeh janta hu ke Liquid nahi pena chaheya...gale se nahi utarna chaheya. 6) Jima(intercourse) ke waqt baat kersakte hai?? 7)private part jima(intercourse) ke bad daiksakte hai...janbuz ker nahi...per bena lajat ke agar daikre ..safai kerne.kya daaiksakte hai? Please muje khulker batayea. Hum meya-biwi yeh sab yeh roksakte hai. So please khulkar bateya. Agar aapse sawaal na karo atau kisse kare phir? isleya plz khulkar batayea. Allah hafiz  
      Country  Dubai - UAE
      Answer Wssalam o alykum, 1 – duaein mukhtalif hain, ager dua ki hidayat main jima se pehle likha hai to shohar ko chahiye ke jab jab jima kare wo dua phare, or ager sirf shadi ki pehli raat likha hai to is dua ko is hi raat pharna hai. (Ref : Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail , edition # 31 , maslah # 973). 2 – kar sakte hain. 3 – kar sakte hain. (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Ayat ullaha Sistani d.b. Masla # 406 pg # 236, email rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b)+ e-mail rcvd from A.Sistani d.b, dated: Jan 20, 2012). 4 – laga sakta hai. 5 – choos sakti hai. (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Istiftaat I-2,I-15). 7 – dekh sakte hain. (Ref : Minhaj us salaheen Ayat ullah sistani d.b. part # 3 masla # 5). Note Question no 6 or bache per kya kya chezain asar andaaz hoti hai in ko jaanne ke liye kitaab e Tehzeeb ul Islaam baab no 4 ka mutalia (study) karain.(Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid 4  
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      Ques. ID 58965

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      Question mujhse sacha pyaar kartha use muslim bannana chahti hoon toh shaadi karna chahta hai hindu hai yeah mujhe pasand nahi use muslim banna hai toh kya karein pls reply karein  
      Country  bangalore - india
      Answer Hindu jab muslman ho jae to os k sath shadi jaiz ho gi albetta Kunwari(virgin) lerki os waqt tak nikah(daimi / mutah) nahi ker sakti jab tak k lerki ka Baap ya Dada lerki ko nikah ki ijazat nah day day.or yehi hokum ehtiyaat e wajib ki bina(base) per os sorat main bhi hay k jab larki khud mukhtar or balig bhi ho. agar lerki kawari nah ho tu os k liay baap ya dada ki ijazat ki zororat nahi hay.(yahaan kawari nah honay say muraad sirif ye hay k aisi lerki jo talaaq yaafta ho ya baywah ho or oskay shohar nay oskay saath hambistari /jima(intercourse) kia ho or os kay kawaray pan ko khatam kia ho or oski iddat bhi khatam ho chuki ho. agar zina ya aisay hi kisi kaam say oska kawarapan khatam hoa ho tu ye kawari hi kehlaay gi. isi terah agar baap ya dada os merd k sath osay shadi kernay ki ijzat nah daitay hon jo sharan(Islam ki nazar main) or urfan(mea,ashay ki nazar main) os k brabri(equal) ka ho tu ijazat ki zarorat nahi, isi terah baap ya dada maujood nah hon ya kisi doosri wajah say ijazat laina mumkin hi nah ho or lerki ka nikah kerna bohat zarori ho tab hi baap ya dada say ijazat laina lazmi nahi hay. (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2341-42) Agar kafir shahadatain perh le yani kisi bhi zaban main Allah ki wahdaniyat(unity) or khatimun nabiyeen(Last God's prophit) ki nubuwat ki gawahi day day tu musalman ho jata hay. (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Tauzee hul masail, maslah #205) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 1  
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      Ques. ID 58972

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      Question main non muslim thi lekin ab maine islam qubool kiya hai, main nikaah karna chahti hu iske liye mere father tayyar nhi honge.. main nikaah kaise karu.. kya kya zaroori hoga  
      Country  moradabad - india
      Answer Kawari(virgin) lerki os waqt tak nikah nahi ker sakti jab tak k lerki ka Baap ya Dada lerki ko nikah ki ijazat nah de day.or yehi hokum ehtiyaat e wajib ki bina(base) per os sorat main bhi hay k jab larki khud mukhtar or baligh bhi ho. agar lerki kawari nah ho tu os k liay baap ya dada ki ijazat ki zororat nahi hay.(yahaan kawari nah honay say muraad sirif ye hay k aisi lerki jo talaaq yaafta ho ya baywah ho or oskay shohar nay oskay saath hambistari /jima(intercourse) kia ho or oskay kawaraypan ko khatam kia ho or oski iddta bhi khatam ho chuki ho.agar zinaa ya aisay hi kisi kaam say oska kawaraypan khatam hoa ho tu ye kawari hi kehlaay gi. isi terah agar baap ya dada os merd k saath osay shaadi kernay ki ijzat nah daitay hon jo sharan(Ismlam ki nazar main) or urfan(maa,aashay ki nazar main) os k brabari(equal) ka ho tu ijazat ki zarorat nahi, isi terah baap ya dada ki maujood nah hon ya kisi doosri wajah say ijazat laina mumkin hi nah ho or lerki ka nikah kerna bohat zarori ho tab hi baap ya dada say ijazat layna laazmi nahi hay. (Ref : Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2341,2342). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 2  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 60178

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      Question Main ek ladki se pyar karta hu mujhe nhi pata k vo mujhse karti hai ya nhi vo hindu. hai please bataiye mein kya karu  
      Country  unnao - india
      Answer Hindu se shadi karna jaiz nahi. (Ref : Aqa Sistani,Jadeed faqhi masail , masala # 393 , pg # 278 , eidition # 5). Imaam Jaffar o Sadiq (a.s) se marvi riwayat ke mutabiq, her raat ko sone se pehle sura yaaseen ki tilawat karain. (Ref : mafaati ul jinaan , topic # Fazilat e Sura e Yaseen , pg # 04 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 1  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 57263

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      Question mjy pochna tha k m js larky sy mohabat krti hon us ny phone pr kalma parh kr Allah ko hazir jan kr bola k m usy qabool hon 3 br aor m ny b aesa kia>to kya hamara nikah ho gaya hy?  
      Country  Lahore - Pakistan
      Answer 1)Nikah chahay daimi ho ya ghair daimi(yani muta) is main seeghah (nikah k bool) perhna zarori hay.aurat or merd ka faqat raazi hona kafi nahi, or isi terah (nikah naama) likhna ehtiyaat e wajib ki bina per kaafi nahi hay. Aqd e nikah ki khuch shara,it hain jin me se khuch ye hain k:- 1)Ehtiyaat e wajib he nikah ka seeghah sahih arabi me parha jaay,or agar khud merd or aurat sighah arabi main nah perh saktay hon tu arbi k Alawa kisi dosri zaban main perh saktay hain or kisi ko vakil banana laazimi nahi hay. 2) sigha parhne wala aqal-mand ho or agar apne lie perh raha ho to baligh hona bhi zurari hai . 3)Merd or aurat or uska vakil sigha parhte waqt qasd e insha(nikah ka irada ) rakhte hon. (ref : tauzeeh e ul masayl ayat ullaha sistani (d.b.) masla # 2328+2335) Agar merd or aurat khud ghair daimi nikah(muta) ka seegah perhna chahain to, nikah ki muddat aur meher taay karney k baad pehlay aurat kahay k (زوجتک نفسی فی المدۃ المعلومۃ علی المھر المعلوم)(Zauwajtoka nafsee fil muddatil ma,loomati alal mahril ma,loom) Or os k baad merd furan kahay (قبلت)(qabilt) tu nikah ho jaay ga. (ref : tauzeeh e ul masayl ayat ullaha sistani (d.b.) masla # 2334). 2) kawari(virgin) lerki os waqt tak nikah nahi ker sakti jab tak k lerki ka Baap ya Dada lerki ko nikah ki ijazat nah day day.or yehi hokum ehtiyaat e wajib ki bina(base) per os sorat main bhi hay k jab larki khud mukhtar or baligh bhi ho. agar lerki kawari nah ho tu os k liay baap ya dada ki ijazat ki zororat nahi hay.(yahaan kawari nah honay say muraad sirif ye hay k aisi lerki jo talaaq yaafta ho ya baywah ho or oskay shohar nay oskay saath hambistari /jima(intercourse) kia ho or oskay kawaraypan ko khatam kia ho or oski iddta bhi khatam ho chuki ho.agar zinaa ya aisay hi kisi kaam say oska kawaraypan khatam hoa ho tu ye kawari hi kehlaay gi. isi terah agar baap ya dada os merd k saath osay shaadi kernay ki ijzat nah daitay hon jo sharan(Ismlam ki nazar main) or urfan(maa,aashay ki nazar main) os k brabari(equal) ka ho tu ijazat ki zarorat nahi, isi terah baap ya dada ki maujood nah hon ya kisi doosri wajah say ijazat laina mumkin hi nah ho or lerki ka nikah kerna bohat zarori ho tab hi baap ya dada say ijazat layna laazmi nahi hay. (Ref : Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2341,2342).( aur jagha aurat k lie baab se ijazat lena zarori hai agar aurat ijazat na le to ehteyate wajib k bina per nikah batil hai( ref: sistani.org, urdu ) per jo kohe Shi nikah k bagair hambistri krna haram hai. q k wo zina ho jae ga aur zina gunah e kabeera mai shumar hota hai. (Ref : Minhaj us salaheen Ayat ullah sistani d.b. part # 1, masla # 29 ) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 1  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 57258

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      Question Asalam O Alaikum, Mera naam muhammad shahid hai or men karachi pakistan ka rehaishi hun, ap ki khidmat men aik masla pesh kar k ap ki rehnumai hasil karna chahta hun, hazrat meri 2 zojaat hen or men puri tarha se dono ka haq ada kar raha hun yani naan nafqa ho ya zoji haquq dono ko barabari se chala raha hun lakin meri pehli bivi se meri nok jhonk bohot zyada ho jati hai or ye tab se hai jb meny dusri shadi nahi ki the or har masly k ikhtatam per wo aik hi jawab deti hen k men gussy men the or mujhy samajh nahi aya or galti ho gai is galti men mujh se or mery maan baap se batamizi or gali galoch shamil hai chand din pehly mery bety ki salgira the us per meri pehli bivi or mery bech nok jhonk hui or sab mehmanon k samny meri bivi ne mujh per hath uthaya mujhy thapar mary or phir gireban se pakar kar dhaka diya jis k jawab men chup raha per bad men behes is had tak barhi k mera hath utha apni bivi is per chand din bad mery susar ne mujhy dhamkian di or kaha men larki ka baap hun usy ghaseet kar le jaun ga chahy wo khud any per amada ho ya nahi ya tum ijazat do ya nahi wo ay or meri bivi ko zabardasti le gay meri ijazat k bina or meri bivi ne ja kar kaha k men bohot khush hun yahan ab mery walid mohtaram ne ye fesla kia hai k wo mujhy meri dusri bivi k sath apny ghar se nikal rahy hen or humen nikal kar meri pehli bivi ko ghar bula kar rehny ko kahen gy is bat per mery susral ko bhi aiteraz nahi hai to janab is per sharai hukam bataye, kya aik susar apny bety ki ijazat k bina apni bahu ko apny ghar rehny ki ijazat de sakta hai? Apka Khidmat Guzar Muhammad Shahid  
      Country  Karachi - Pakistan
      Answer jis aurat ka daimi nikah ho jay is k lie haram he k sohar ki ijazat k begair ghar se bahir nikle chahae is ka nikalna sohar k haq k manafi nab hi ho. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31st edition, maslah # 2376) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 3  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 60185

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      Question Asllam alikum sir muje aap se ek sawal pocha he sir mere engengd ho chuki he 2 sal hoge he par hamre shadi phelal nahi ho rahi he kese famly problem ki waja se abi tym he to hum apas me larka larki melte he love he hamare to humare bech bht payar ho chuka he par had par nahi ki he wo jese zina kehte par ek 2 ko bht payar kiya he sath so ke to ye be ek guna he ab hum chahte he ke hum chup ke se kese ko bate nekha kare take hamara melna julna payar karna ghunha na bane hum wo nekha kese kare dono or aagar chup ke se nekha kar be le to jo rukhsati ke tym nekha para jaega wo to jahiz hoga na phe ye chup ke nekha karne ke badbplz muje bate take hum gunha se bache  
      Country  karachi - pakistan
      Answer Wssalam o alykum, nikah se pehle is terhan ke kaam haraam o guhnaah e kabera main se hai (mangetar bhi na –mehram hi hai jab tak nikha nahi hojata). (Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30,eidition 1430). Or ager larki ke walid o dada zinda hain or nikah ki tamaam sharait hain to nikah ke sahi hone ke liye in main se kisi 1 ki ijazat lena zarori hai, pas ap apne waaldain ko samjha ker nikah ke liye razi kar lain. (Ref : Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail , edition # 1414 , maslah # 2335 , 2341 , 2342).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 4  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 57290

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      Question kia apni bivi ki behn say nikah kia ja sakta hai or dono ko akhtay rakha jaa sakta hai?islaam or hadees k mutabic jawaab dain  
      Country  lahore - pakistan
      Answer aik shakhs aik waqt mai in donoo sai shadi nahi kar sakta hai chahae daimi nikah karay ya gair daimi(mutaa). (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2355 ) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 3  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 57323

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      Question aslaam o alikum, ap ne bohut se logon ko jvb dia he ap k jvab thk b hain lakin ap tasali bakhsh jvab nai dy rahy hain, mera bohut serious masla he agr ho sky to mail kr dyna mei id b likh dungi, mera masla ye he k meri shadi ko 6 months ho gaey hain shadi k shuru k 20 din hm sath rahy hain aur us k 2 mahiny bd 10 din sath rahy hain, mery shohar mery pas nai hoty hain, mje un se sexualy koi satisfaction nai he un k penis ka size b kafi chota he aur bohut jaldi discharge ho jaty hain, aur sperm b blkl pani he aur quantity mei b kamhe, mei unhy check up krany ka bohut bar keh chuki hun wo meri bt nai sun rahy hain mje khrcha nai bhyjty mei ami abu k pas rehti hun mei un se bohut tang ah chuki hun hmari shadi b zbrdsti hoi thi, mei un se aledgi chahti hun meri liye islaam mei kya hukam he? ameenmariam26@yahoo.com  
      Country  quetta - pakistan
      Answer Agar shohar ne biwi se judaaiy ikhteyaar ki ho aur is se kinara kash hoa ho to biwi apna muaamla le kar mujtahid k paas jasakte hai jo shoar ko do bato me se aik ka paband kare . ya biwi ko ghar laa kar basaay ya ise khushi se talaaq de de ta keh wo kise aur se shadi kar le . Agar shohar in dono se inkaar kare aur ise in dono me se kise aik per majboor na kiya jaa sake to mujtahid biwi k mutaalbe per is ka sigha jaari kar sakta hai aur agar is se jodaae ka sabab biwi bani ho jis ka koe share jawaaz nah ho to ise mujtahid se talaaq dene ka koe rasta nahe hai. (Ref : Jadeed faqhi masail ,aqa sistani, masla # 428, 429,pg # 241,242, eidition 5). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye) jis aurat ka daimi nikah ho jay is k lie haram he k shohar ki ijazat k beghair ghar se bahir nikle chahae is ka nikalna shohar k haq k manafi nah hi ho. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31st edition, maslah # 2376) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid 1  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 57317

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      Question agar biwi badchalan ho to marad ko kya karna chahiye ?  
      Country  karachi - pakistan
      Answer 1)Agar shohar dar aurat zina kray to ehtiyat e wajib ki bina par wo zani par hamisha k lie haram ho jati hai laikin shohar par haram nahi hoti hai aur agar toba aur istegfar na karay aur apnay amal par baqi rahay (yani zina kari trk na karay) to behter ye hai is ka shohar isay talaq day dai. (Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2367, )(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid 2  
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      Ques. ID 57313

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      Question kya beve ke gand marna jayez hai apne shawher k leye  
      Country  peshawer - Pakistan
      Answer Biwi k peechay k maqam(maqam e pakhana) main hambistari kerna biwi k raazi nah honay ki sorat main ethiyaat e wajib ki bina per haram hay, agar biwi raazi ho tu jaiz hay laikin shadeed makrooh hay.(Ref : Ayatullah Seestani(D.B) Al-masail e mutakhaba, maslah # 67) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid 1  
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      Ques. ID 57308

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      Question Assalam 0 Alai kum sir mera ye 2nd msg hai me bht pareshan hu bht zada mri is problm ko shayd ap door kr saken plax mri help karn me ye janna chahti hu k agr shadi se phle kahin br zina ho chuka ho or us se shadi na ho paye kisi wajuhat ki waja se tou kia kisi or shaks se shadi ho tou us shaks ko kia pta jaega shadi ki rat plx me bht Pareshan hu mje ans den taky me is gunnah ki mafi maang saku ALLAH se plx  
      Country  Karachi - Pakistan
      Answer Agar koe shaks kise aise aurat se zina kare jo bay shohar ho mager iddat me na ho to ehteyat e wajib ki bina per tuba karne se phele is se shadi nahi kar sakta. Jo aurat zina kaar mashoor ho to ehteyat e wajib ki bina per is aurat k toba karne se phele is k saath shadi karna jaiz nahe hai. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31st edition, maslah # 2364) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 6  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 57302

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      Question Mein apni girlfriend sy bht love krta hu or wo bhi mjh sy hmary relation ko 2 saal o gaye hein hm chahty hein k hm nikkah kr lien taky kabhi ek dosry ko chor na paien lekin msla ye ha k jb hmary ghr waly man jaye gy hmari shadi k liye or hmary nikah ki bat o ge to kia hm un ko na bta ky ek or nikkah kr skty hein kindly mjhy bta dien jld e k kia hm ek abhi nikkah or ek maa baap k samny kr skty hein?  
      Country   lahore - Pakistan
      Answer 1)Nikah main sigah (nikah k bool) perhna zarori hai (chahay phone par ho ya samnay beth kar)aurat aur mard ka faqat razi hona aur isi terh nikah nama likhna ehtiyat e wajib ki bina par kafi nhi hai. Aqd e nikah ki kuch shrait hain jin mai sai kuch ye hain k:- 1). Ehtiyaat e wajib he nikah ka sigah sahih arabi me parha jaay,or agar khud merd or aurat sighah arbi main nah perh saktay hon tu arbi k alawa kisi dosri zaban main perh saktay hain or kisi ko vakil banana lazmi nahi hay. 2. sigha parhne wala aqal mand ho or agar apne lie perh raha ho to baligh hona bhi zurari he . 3. ye k merd or aurat or uska vakil sigha parhte waqt qasd e insha(nikah ka irada) rakhte hon. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2328+2335) 2)Kunwari(virgin) lerki os waqt tak nikah(daimi / mutah) nahi ker sakti jab tak k lerki ka Baap ya Dada lerki ko nikah ki ijazat nah day day.or yehi hokum ehtiyaat e wajib ki bina(base) per os sorat main bhi hay k jab larki khud mukhtar or balig bhi ho. agar lerki kawari nah ho tu os k liay baap ya dada ki ijazat ki zororat nahi hay.(yahaan kawari nah honay say muraad sirif ye hay k aisi lerki jo talaaq yaafta ho ya baywah ho or oskay shohar nay oskay saath hambistari /jima(intercourse) kia ho or os kay kawaray pan ko khatam kia ho or oski iddat bhi khatam ho chuki ho. agar zina ya aisay hi kisi kaam say oska kawarapan khatam hoa ho tu ye kawari hi kehlaay gi. isi terah agar baap ya dada os merd k sath osay shadi kernay ki ijzat nah daitay hon jo sharan(Islam ki nazar main) or urfan(meaashay ki nazar main) os k brabri(equal) ka ho tu ijazat ki zarorat nahi, isi terah baap ya dada maujood nah hon ya kisi doosri wajah say ijazat laina mumkin hi nah ho or lerki ka nikah kerna bohat zarori ho tab hi baap ya dada say ijazat laina lazmi nahi hay. (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2341,2342) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 1  
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      Ques. ID 57330

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      Question Aslam-o-Alaikum sir mein apni cousin ko but psnd karta ho or so b Mujhe. hmara relation bht agay tk phnch gya hua hy. Hm Sab kch kar chuky hyn. Ab main nikah Jena chahta ho. Q k mere gunah or na ho or hm easily jo b kryn Dar na ho. Ap Batayn k nikah k kese kryn...? Nikah k faraiz...? Or main chahta ho kisi ko na bhai. Agar btaya to why'd na krny den Abu. Lekin m ab or gunah nhi chahta.  
      Country  lahore - pakistan
      Answer Answer Agar koe shaks kise aise aurat se zina kare jo bay shohar ho mager iddat me na ho to ehteyat e wajib ki bina per is aurat k tuba karne se phele is se shadi nahi kar sakta. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31st edition, maslah # 2364) Nikah mai shart ye hai k kawari (virgin) lerki os waqt tak nikah nahi ker sakti jab tak k lerki ka wali (Baap ya Dada) larki ko nikah ki ijazat nahi deden.or yehi hokum ehtiyaat e wajib ki bin (base) per os sorat main bhi hay k jab larki khud mukhtar or baligh bhi ho. agar lerki kawari nah ho tu os k liay baap ya dada ki ijazat ki zororat nahi hay.(yahaan kawari nah honay say muraad sirif ye hay k aisi lerki jo talaaq yaafta ho ya baywah ho or oskay shohar nay oskay saath hambistari /jima(intercourse) kia ho or oskay kawaraypan ko khatam kia ho or oski iddta bhi khatam ho chuki ho.agar zinaa ya aisay hi kisi kaam say oska kawaraypan khatam hoa ho tu ye kawari hi kehlaay gi). (Ref : Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2341,2342). Toba karein Parwar digar ne quran me wadah kia he k wo toba karney walon ki toba ko qabool karta he aur aisa hargiz nahi ho sakhta he k wo apne wadeh per amal na karey. Aur ghuna se bachney k lie mazboot irada chahiea. (Ref : sistani.org ques # 1 , toba) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 1  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 51998

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      Question jnb man nay parha hai kay uraat ko pechy say intercourse kar saktay hain jaysa ka hukam hai urat tumhary kheti hai jis taraf say marzi dakhil ho jao  
      Country  lahore - pakistan
      Answer Agar biwi razi ho tu back side par intercourse kerna jaiz hai magr shaded makrooh hai aur agr biwi razi na ho tou ehtiyat e wajib ki bina par jaiz nahi hai.(ref:book,masaail-ul-muntakhaba,aytullah Sistani d.b.,masla#70). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid sastani sb  
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      Ques. ID 52052

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      Question salam, janab mera aik dost he or wo aik larki ko pasan karta he per us me aik masla aya he k wo larki pehle 19/20 ya es se zaid martaba apne kazan se zina kar chuki he kia mera dost us larki se shadi karsakta he larki ne usy sab kuch batadia he kia es halat me wo shadi karsakta he ya nahi rehnumai farmay  
      Country  khi - pak
      Answer Gee haan os lerki se shadi ki jaskti hai. (Tauzeh-ul-masail,ayatullah Sistani d.b.,33th edition,mslah#2364). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye) Mustahab hay k paak daaman aurat se shadi ki jay. (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Minhajus saliheen, part#3, maslah #1) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 52035

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      Question as salamalikum my ek talakshudahuo mujhe 2 bache hi meri ammi hi mujhe ek hindu ladka pasand kartahi my bhi karthi huo lekin use shadi pe yakeen nahi hi mujhe koi isa wajeefa batalijiye ke o mujheese nikha karsake plese plese plese plese plese jaldise nikha hojaye  
      Country  india - india
      Answer Musalmaan aurat kafir mard say nikah nahi kersakti. (Tauzeh-ul-masail,ayatullah Sistani d.b.,33th edition,mslah#2362). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid  
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      Ques. ID 52076

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      Question Nikah k baad jab k rukhsati nahi huwi ho kia mia biwi sex krskte hai? Agar krskte hai tou usse pehle namaz prhne ka hukum hai?  
      Country  Karachi - Pakistan
      Answer 1)Sigha nikah k zaria mard aurat per aur aurat mard per halal ho jate hai(yani mian biwi wale taluqat qaim ker sakte hai) .(nikah k baad rukhsati hona zaroori nahi hai). (Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) before Masla # 2328) 2)Agar Riwaj yahi ho k jab tak rukhsati nahe hoti is waqt tak larki apnay aap ko apnay sohar k lie paish nahi karti, is tarah sai k ise aik zimne shart samja jata ho to phir aurat k lie nikah k bad rukhsati se phelay sohar k lie apne aap ko paish karna wajib nahi hai.(Ref : Mujtahid se pochay gaey sawalaat, part # 4, sawaal # 149, pg # 72)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye). Mustahab hay k shab e zifaaf(dulhan k rukhsati ki raat) hambistari se pehle 2 rakat namaz perhi jaay .(yani hasband or wife dono namaz perhain).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid Aga e sistani  
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      Ques. ID 52083

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      Question aoa.. kia islam mein shadi k bad main biwi jb intercourse karty hain to kiya husband biwi ko sex karty huay jhatky laga skta hai. q k meri biwi kehti hai k aisi najaiz hai. plz tell  
      Country  lahore - pak
      Answer Husband or wife har qisim ka sex ker sakte hain jis per wo dono razi hoon. Ye amal wase bhi haram nahi hay. (Ref: E-mail rcvd from Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b),) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid dnt kno  
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      Ques. ID 52146

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      Question Salam g mera sawal yeah hae k kia Ek shadi shuda aurat islam ki rooh say kia kisi ki londi bun sakti hae jab k ous ka shoher bhi mojood ho kia is bary may shoher ko ilm hona lazmi hae?  
      Country  okara - pakistan
      Answer Aaj kal londi or ghulam ka wujood hi nahi hay or isi liay in k koe ehkaam biyaan kerne ka koe faida nahi . (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Minhajus saliheen, part#3, pg #11) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid is ka matleb nai pata  
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      Ques. ID 52141

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      Question kia mery bhai ki shadi apny chacha zad bhi ki beti ke sath ho sakti he ya nai ,es ka jwab mujhy mail kr dy paleeeeeeeeez.  
      Country  mianwali - pakistan
      Answer Merd k liay apne Haqiqi bhai ya behen ki baiti(bhatiji ya bhanji) se nikah kerna hat=ram hay Q k ye oski mehram hain Laikin chacha zaad , khala zaad or mamo zaad bahi ya behen ki baiti se nikah kerna jaiz hay or ye merd k liay na-mehram hay . (Ref:Ayat Ullah basher najafi(d.b), almustafa deenul qayyum, pg #271) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid bashear hussain najfi  
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      Ques. ID 52158

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      Question Assalamoalikum mere apse ye sawal ha ki kya shohar or biwi dono ko sex kese karna chahiye islam ke mutabik  
      Country  Bhopal - India
      Answer 1)Bivi k saath jima (intercourse) ka islami tariqa ye hai k jima k waqt mustahab hai k bismillah perhi jaay, or baa wuzu hon khaas taur per jab biwi haamla ho,or jima k waqt jo kaam makrooh hain un main say kuch ye hain 1.soraj or chaand gerhan ka hona,2. zawaal e aaftab ka hona siwaay jumeraat k din k, 3. groob e aaftaab k waqt ka hona, 4.chand ki aakhri 3 raaton main jima kena, 5.fajar k baad soraj nikalnay say pehlay, 6.islami mahinay ki pehli taarikh siway Ramazan ki pehli raat(Chaand raat)main , 7. islami mahinay ki darmiani or aakri taarikh main jima kerna, 8.qiblay ki taraf rukh ya pusht kerna, 9.berhana (naked) halat main jima kerna, 10.ehtilaam k baad baghair wuzu k jima kerna, 11.jima k waqt bivi ki sharamg ko dekhna makrooh hai. (Ref : Minhaj us salaheen Ayat ullah sistani d.b. part # 3 masla # 5 ) a)Hambistari ki dua: Mustahabb hai k hambistari say pehlay apna haath biwi ki peishani k baal (hair of forehead) par rakhay aur ye dua perhay: ﺍﻠﻠﻬﻢ ﻋﻠﻰ ﻛﺘﺎﺑﻙ ﺘﺰﻮﺠﺘﻬﺎ ﻮ ﻔﻰ ﺍﻤﺎﻨﺘﻙ ﺍﺨﺬﺘﻬﺎ ﻮ ﺑﻛﻠﻤﺎﺘﻙ ﺍﺴﺘﺤﻠﻠﺖ ﻔﺮﺠﻬﺎ ﻔﺎﻦ ﻘﻀﻴﺖ ﻠﻰ ﻔﻰ ﺮﺤﻤﻬﺎ ﺷﻴﺌﺎ ﻔﺎﺟﻌﻠﻪ ﻤﺴﻠﻤﺎ ﺴﻮﻴﺎ ﻮ ﻻﺘﺠﻌﻠﻪ ﺸﺮﻚ ﺍﻠﺸﻴﻄﺎﻦ  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid Husband wife  
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      Ques. ID 52156

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      Question please mujhe yeh batae key mey shadi shuda hou aur mujhe eik christian larki pasand hein aur us larki ka eik boy friend bhi hein to hum mutah karsakte hein aur agar nai to us ka kya solution hein  
      Country  madagascar - madagascar
      Answer Ehtiyaat e wajib ki bina par musalman biwi k hotay huway ehle kitab(esai aur yahodi) say mutah\nikah nahi keya jaskta.(ref:jadid fiqhi masail,ayatollah Sistani d.b.,masla#401)  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid  
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      Ques. ID 47232

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      Question kia islam mi sootaily mummani k sath nikah hosakta hai  
      Country  p - pakistan
      Answer Ager in ki talaaq k baad unki iddat katam ho chuki hai to jaiz hai.(Ref : Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail , edition # 1414 , maslah # 2349 , 2475 , ALLAH tofiqaat main izafa farmaae).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid mujtahid  
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      Ques. ID 47219

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      Question nikha he mutah/daimi vergin larki se karna jaiz hai sms k ariye? sahe hai  
      Country  madeji - pak
      Answer Ager nikha ki saari sharten mojood ho to vergin larki se mutah o daimi nikha dono sahi hen.Lekin sms ke zarye nikah sahi nahi hai.(Ref : Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail , edition # 1414 , maslah # 2335 , 2341,2342 , Allah Taala tofiqaat main izafa farmaae).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid ali sistani  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 47218

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      Question KIYA KANWARI LARKI SE PHONE PA CALL PE NIKAH KIYA JA SAKTA HAI OR USKE BAP OR DADA IS DUNIYA MEN HON LEKEN BHAI HO KIYA USKE BHAI SE IJAZAT K BEGHAIR NIKHA KIYA JA SAKTA HAI ? CALL PE LARKI OR LARKA KN SA SEEGHA PARHEN? WO ALFAZ BHI LIKHEN  
      Country  MADEJI - PAK
      Answer Phone per nikha kiya jasakta hai, or bap dada ke zinda hone ki sorat main in se ijazat leni hogi bhai se ijazat lena zarori nahi, or nikah k seegon ke jaanne ke liye kitaab Tozeeh ul masail ya kitaab tuhfaht ul Awaam main dekye.(Ref : Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail , edition # 1414 , maslah # 2335 , 2341,2342 , Allah Taala tofiqaat main izafa farmaae).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid ALI SISTANI  
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      Ques. ID 47239

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      Question Asslam o alikum. Kia musalman or shia(ahl-tashi) ky darmian Nikkah Jaiz hy?  
      Country  Multan - Pakistan
      Answer G han jaiz hai , q k musalman musalman ka kufw (hampala) hota hai or momin momin ka kufw hota hai (hampala) , or shia or musalman koi alag chiz nahi hen balke shia musalman bhi hai or momin bhi hai.(Ref : Minhaj-ul-Salhieen, Ayat-ul-Allah Sistani db, Masla No#221)(Allah apki tofeeqat men izafa)  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid Muslim  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 47238

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      Question kya shohar apni biwi ka nanga jism ya koe hissa dekh sakta hai? or kya owrat apny shohar k penis ko pakar ya hath laga sakti hai? plzzz ans zarur dijiye ga.  
      Country  lahore - pakistan
      Answer jee, dono cheezain jaiz hain. (Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2400) , (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Istiftaat I-2,I-15 , ALLAH TAALA tofiqaat main izafa farmaae).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid mard  
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      Ques. ID 47234

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      Question kia hum apni wife ki brest ko kissing kr sakte han  
      Country  lahore - pakistan
      Answer jee, kar sakte hain, lekin ehtiyaat e wajib hai ke bivi ka dood nahi pi sakte. (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), E-Mail from Answers@najaf .org , ALLAH TAALA tofiqaat main izafa farmaae).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 53954

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      Question Kia aik bivi k samny dousri sy humbistari kr sakty hain? Aur aik rt main 2 bivian aik kmry main rkh kr bari bari mubashrt kr sakty hain ?  
      Country  Karachi - Pakistan
      Answer Ager koi or haraam na ho raha ho  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid 5  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 54044

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      Question Aslamualikam main aik hindu larki say shadi karna chahta hoon woh bhi mujh say shadi karna chahti hay or us ka pehla shohar us say nahi milta or woh muslim ho kar hi mujh say shadi karna chahti hay kya hum nikah kar saktay hain or us ke muslim hone ke baad kya us ko pehlay hindu shohar say talaq lena zaroori hy hamaray liye kya huqam hy hum aik dosray ke baghair nahi reh saktay khudara hamar rahnumai farmaye  
      Country  sharjah - united arab emirets
      Answer Wssalam o alykum, jab orat Islaam Qabool kare gi to ye us hindu mard k nikah se khud ba khud nikal jaae gi, to ager us hindu mard ne is orat se jima kiya hai to ehtiyaat wajib ki bina per ye 3 haiz ki iddat k barabar iddat rakhe gi, or phir iddat k katam hone ke baad ap os se Islami tariqe se nikah kar sakte hain. Or ager us hindu mard ne is se jima nahi kiya ho to is ke liye koi iddat nahi hai, or Islaam k qabool karne k baad aap is orat se Islaami tor per nikah kar sakte hain. (Ref : aqa sistani , Jadeed faqhi masail , masala # 433 , pg # 243 , eidition # 5 , ALLAH TAALA tofiqaat main izafa farmaae).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 1  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 47309

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      Question Q-1: A/A, can a couple do intercourse during Haiz(Periods) by using condom? Q-2: Using of condom for intercourse is Halal or Haram?  
      Country  Gujranwala - Pakistan
      Answer 1  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid Ayat-ullah Sistani  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 47305

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      Question salaam i wana ask like im a syed can i marry i non syed man but his a muslim but diffrent cast his rajja cast but i like him i need help plz can u hep me thank you  
      Country  wolverhampton - emgland
      Answer Wssalam o alykum, yes, can be married with shia geer syed boy.(Ref : Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Minhaajus saliheen Part # 3, Maslah # 221 , Allah Taala tofiqaat main izafa farmaae).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid ali masjid  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 47376

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      Question as salam janab mai ye janana chahati hu ke shohar agar khud ki hawas puri karane ke liye khud ki hi biwi ko biwi ke marzi k bagair paraye mard ke sat jeena karane kahe to biwi ko kya karana chahiye?  
      Country  delhi - india
      Answer Wssalam o alykum,Yaqeenan is bat men shohar ki baat manna jaiz nahi hai q k shohar ke elawa ksi se jinsi lazzat hasil karna gunaah e kabeera hai.(Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30 , ALLAH TAALA tofiqaat main izafa farmaae).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 47341

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      Question Assalamualikum. This is for your information that now I want to get marry and I am looking for spouse but there is a so so much pious divorced women(due to unpious husband) in our village of age 28 yrs 2 yrs greater than me and weight appox duble than me. Suddenly I feel that if I married her then it will better for me for here and hereafter. So I fall in love. And her brother the imam of our masjid is my intemate friend and he is also too pious. And the whole family of her also love me very much for my piety and the whole villagers also love me. And she is too pious that(she seen many times the prophet(pbuh) in dream ) for last 16 yrs I have never seen her even in her home so due to so much love I have told a lie to her brother that I seen a dream where I proposed your sister for me for knowing the circumstance then he told me that his sister also seen dream 1 yr back that she came and raised to 70th flor of my house with me (actually my house is one store) and once she had seen me with torn camij and told her brother that I am looking good. And her brother also seen dream two times that we got married but my father slightly dissipointed about this marriage but brother imam keep it in his mind and never tell me about for having respect to me. And I believed totally he had said is true . Now what should I do. If I married her then can I satisfy her because she is older as well as have much weight than me. Please reply soon in english.  
      Country  Assam. - India
      Answer You should have a marry with her because she is pious except your father say to you that do not marry with her because your father love you alot and if you marry so it is torment for him so in this condition according to Sharia you can not marry with her, more over you marry so your marry is right. (Ref : Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail , edition # 1414 , maslah # 1387) , (Ref : aqa sistani,Jadeed faqhi masail , masala # 386 , pg # 232 , eidition # 5 , ALLAH TAALA tofiqaat main izafa farmaae).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid Marriage  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 47458

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      Question Asalam Alaikum, mera shokar dosri larkiyon se batein karta tha or un k sath us k affair bi chalte the. jo cheez mujhe bht hi buri lagti thi. jis ki waja se bht laraiyan hoti thi aik din mere shohar ne half utha ke kaha tha k us ki life me koi or larki nahi hai or na hi ainda wo kisi larki se affair rakhe ge ... magar us k 2 hafte baad mujhe maloom hoa k us ka affair chal raha hai kisi ... to is surat me wo kasma hoi k nahi hoi... ya is ki saza kya hogi  
      Country  karachi - pakistan
      Answer Agr unhon qasm ki sharait k sath qasm khai hai to phir uski mukhalifat kren ki surat men apk shohar gunahgar bhi hen or unko kaffar hi dena hoga. .(Ref : Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail , edition # 1414 , maslah # 2633, ALLAH tofiqaat main izafa farmaae). Or jhoot bolna gunah e kabira main se hai .(Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30). Note : Ap k liye zaruri hai k ap deen or shareea`t k daire men rehte hue ayse kamon ko anjam den jis se apka shohar apki tarf raghbat kre or apnea p ko apne shohr k liye makhsoos krden, Or Allah se apne taluqat ko behtar bnane k liye dua kren.  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid dont know  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 54146

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      Question A.o.A kia shia larka ho or suni larki ho dono ka nikah kar diejiye larki kay maa baap ko batatay hovay per unki marzi k khilaf jatay hovay kia Nikah jaizz hoga ...jub kay larki kay maa baap yeh fatwa nikalwa chukay ho [(apnay knowledge kay bina pe jo unho apna zehan bana rakha hai shia kay mutabiq)] kay Shia Larkay (boy) se Sunni Larki (girl) ka nikah jaizz nahi or jo karaiyega uska bhi nikah toot jaiyega chahiye woh baap ho ya rishtay daar. phir bhi agar larka or us kay ghar walay or Suni larki Nikah kar lay kia woh ek dusre k lie najayaz hongay NIKAH karnay k bad bhi ...:???  
      Country  Karachi - Pakistan
      Answer Wssalam o alykum, ager is shadi o nikha ki waja se shia larke ke deen o imaan main gumrahi ka koof na ho to is ka ik suni larki se nikha Shariat e Muqaddasa main jaiz hai, or nikha ke baad ye dono Sharan husband o wife hain. (Ref : Mujtahid se pochay gaey sawalaat, part #1 , sawaal #134, pg # 70). Han ager ye larki chahe shia ho ya geer shia kawari ho chahe apne muaamlat main khud mukhtaar ho ya na ho or is k wali (yani baap ya dada) ijazat nah dain to ye nikah sahi nahi ho ga, or ager is terah nikah ho chukka hai to nikha batil hai. (Ref : aqa sistani,Jadeed faqhi masail , masala # 394 , pg # 234 , eidition # 5 , ALLAH TAALA tofiqaat main izafa farmaae).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 3  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 51880

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      Question agr m apni b.v ko back sa cross karun or meri energy andar chali jaye to kua wo pregent ho jaye gi.? agr ni hogi to us ke effect b btayen.? or sex karne sa period ki date pe ku asar parta hai?  
      Country  lahore - pakistan
      Answer Pregent nahi ho gi, bivi ki razamandi ke bageer back se karna haraam hai (ethiyaat e wajib ki bina per),or jima ki waja se date ke tabdeel hone ke bare main Doctor se maloom karain. (Ref : Ayatullah Seestani(D.B) Al-masail e mutakhaba, maslah # 67 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid sex  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 51956

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      Question Sallam aga mera sawal ye h ke agar kisi ourat ka shohar mar jaae to kya wo shohar k bhanje (behen ke bete ) sy shadi kar sakti he? Plz rply  
      Country  Shahdadkot - Pakistan
      Answer G han ijazat han.(Ref : Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail , edition # 31 , maslah # 2349 , ALLAH Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid Aga sistani  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 51929

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      Question Mara question ye ha kah mm nay larki ki maan sy zinnah Kia ha or ab Mary ghr waloan nay uski beti sy mara rashta kr dia ha Kia Mara nikha hoga or mujhy nikha karnay ky liay kia karna hoga ya nikha ho he nhn sakta mujhy aksar alamn nay ye batia ha ap Kia kehty hn plzzzz reply me  
      Country  khushab - pakistan
      Answer Ehtiyaat e mustahab hai ke na karain.(Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2361 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid zinnah  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 54193

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      Question Can a sunni molvni conduct nikah of shia man?  
      Country  Pak - Pak
      Answer If all trem and conditions of nikha like sentence of nikah in Arabic etc (except the molvi is sunni) is exsist so it will be conducted. (Ref : Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail , edition # 1414 , maslah # 2335). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 4  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 54213

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      Question i m a shia girl of age 26. i want to marry a sunni man. Is it allowed? my parents are not accepting him. but there is no issue in his family. can i marry him widout my parents permission?  
      Country  Karachi - Pakistan
      Answer Baap ya dada ki ijazat k bagair kuwari lrki nikah nahi kr skti(chahay apni maa sy bhi ijazat ly li ho)laikin baap ya dada us mard k sath usy shadi ki ijazat na daitay hon jo mashray k lihaaz sy aur shariat k lihaaz sy us ki matching ka ho tou phir ijazat lena zarori nahi hai. (Ref:Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31th edition,maslah #2341) Muslmaan muslman sy shadi krsakta hai chahay lrka shia ho aur lrki sunni ho ya lrka sunni ho aur larki shia ho is sy koi faraq nahi parta. Al-batta baaz afraad jo ehlabait a.s sy dushmani rakhtay hain aur apnay aap ko muslmaan smjhtay hain,wo kafir hain aur un sy shadi nahi ho sakti. (Ref:Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31th edition,maslah #103,2362,2341)  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 1  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 54242

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      Question asslam-o-allaikum sir mera ap say yey sawal hai k aik muslim lrka aik muslim lrke ko nikah k liay passand kr skta hai agar kr skta hai to koe aisa wazifa btaiay jis say us lrkay ka us lrke k sath rishta bho jaiay plz ignore mt ke jay ga mujay ap k jawab ka intazar rhay ga  
      Country  lahore - pakistan
      Answer Hazrat Imam jafar e Sadiq a.s. farmatay hain k surah e taha ko likh kar sabz rashmi libas may lepat kar apnay pas rakhay aur shadi k qasad say kisi k pass jay (apni waldain ke sath us larki ke waldain ke paas rishta le kar jaae) to osay na kaam nahi lotna paray ga aur wo shadi ho kar rahay gi. inshAllah (Ref : Dunya Wa Akhirat ki 100 Pareshanion ka hal pg # 18 , Allah Taala tofiqaat main izafa farmaae).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 1  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 54249

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      Question Assalamalaikum MERA SAWAL SIMPLE HAI KIA AK SYED ZADI KA NIKAH AK RAJPUT SE JAIZ HAI?  
      Country  Lahore - Pakistan
      Answer Wssalam o alykum, shia larka or larki ik dosre se shadi kar sakte hain chahe larki syeda ho or larka rajput ya larka syed or larki rajput, han ager in dono main se aik ghair shia ho to shia ke liye ghair shia se shadi karna jaiz nahi hai ager is ki waja se is ko gumraah hone ka khoof ho. (Ref : Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Minhaajus saliheen Part # 3, Maslah # 221) , (Ref : Mujtahid se pochay gaey sawalaat, part # 1, sawaal # 134,pg # 70 , Allah Taala tofiqaat main izafa farmaae).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 1  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 54251

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      Question kya msg pe talaq hojati hy?  
      Country  lahore - pakistan
      Answer Talaaq ki chand shartain hain jin ki pabandi nah ki jaay tu talaaq nahi hoti. 1.talaq k waqt aurat haiz or nifaas say paak ho or is paaki k doran merd nay jima(intercourse) nah kia ho. 2.talaq zabani dijaay.yani likh ker talaq dayna batil hay or talaq nahi kehlaay gi. 3. Talaq ka seegha sahi arabi main lafz e طالق k saath perha jaay. 4.talaaq do adil(jo zaahiran gunahgaar nah hoon,or wajib kaamo per amal kertay hon or haram kaamo say bachtay hon) gawahoo ki maujoodgi main di jaay. 5.zarori hay k merd talaq apne ikhteyaar se day or agar osay apni bivi ko talaq daine par majoboor kia jaay tu talaq batil hay. 6.Merd talaaq k waqt talaq ki niyat rakhta ho,layhaaza agar wo maslan mazaaq ya nashay ya ghussay ki halat main talaq day tu,talaaq sahi nahi hogi. (ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Tauzee hul masail, maslah# 2462 to 2464 & pg#460) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid 1  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 54255

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      Question swal,plz plz urgent reply 1 kea husbnd 4 mah tak hambisstri na kry to tlaq hti ha ya ne? 2 kea ase larki sa muta kea ja skta ho 2 sal sa husbnd sa nraz ho,or bap k gher ho?  
      Country  Rawalpindi - pakistan
      Answer 1  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid 4  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 38966

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      Question salam aqa e sistani sab mainy bhag k shadi ki thi 6 din main or meri bivi sath rhy us k baad humny ghar walon ko batya tou wo maan gae or kha tm log ajao hum rukhsati karengy nikha hum kr chuky thy wapis aae tou larki k ghr walon ny larki ko pressure main dal kr kha k khula lo lari ni mani tou dhamki di usko jis sy usny molvi k samny yes kha mager na tou molvi ny koi sigha parha na us sy koi paper signature karwe na hi mjhe batya gaya main tou chata hi tha usky sath rhna or wo b chati ha mere sath rhna kia hamrhi khula hue ha??????????hum sath rhsakty hain ya nikha phr krna hoga plzzzzz mjhe jawanb daen wrna wo larki khud ko marlegi  
      Country  karachi - pakistan
      Answer Wssalam o alykum, Ager nikah ke waqt jo apne kiya tha larki ke walid ya dada zinda the or wo us ke ap ke sath nikah se razi na the to wo nikah hi sahi nahi tha to khula ki zarorat hi nahi,Han ager larki ke walid or dada or pardada zinda nahi the or nikah ki baqi tamaam sharait mojood thi to nikah sahi tha or is terhan ki di hoi khula batil (sahi nahi) hai or wo ap ki zojiyat main hain.(Ref : Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail , edition # 1414 , maslah # 2335 , 2341 , 2342 , 2462 to 2472 , 2367, 2492 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid aqa e sistani sb  
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      Ques. ID 38962

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      Question sir mera ye Ques? hai k wife ko Back side se sex krna islam m jaiz hai ya nai,khas kr jb wo menses ki halat mein ho...?  
      Country  lahore - pakistan
      Answer Ager wo razi na ho to ehtiyaat e wajib ke tor per haraam hai chahe wo halat e haiz main ho ya na ho han lekin agr wife razi hon to harj nahi hai. (Ref : Ayatullah Seestani(D.B) Al-masail e mutakhaba, maslah # 67 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 38936

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      Question agr ek sunni larka shia larki sy shadi kr lay to kya ye jaiz hai ..?  
      Country  lahore - pakistan
      Answer Ager tamam sharait e nikah na hon jese kawari larki ka wali (baap o dada) se nikah ke liye ijazat lena ect. Lekin agr tmam sharait hon lekin is larki ke deen o imaan ki tabdele ka imkaan hai to bhi us se nikah jaiz nahi hai lekin agr nikah hochuka hai to ye nikah sahi hai lekin larki ko apne deen ki hifazat krna wajib hai.(Ref : Mujtahid se pochay gaey sawalaat, part #1 , sawaal #134, pg # 70) , (Ref : Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail , edition # 1414 , maslah # 2335 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 39151

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      Question Is it halal or haram to have sex with my husband at the end of haiz but without having ghusl e haiz. just one night before having ghusl e haiz we had intercourse. I am worried,. is this wrong. and how to perform ghusl for both haiz and janabat at the same time. plzz reply soon. i am very worried. may allah forgive me and my husband.  
      Country  Bangalore - India
      Answer Jaiz hai, mager ehtiyaat e wajib ke tor per zarori hai ke jima se pehle sharam gaah ko dhooin. Or ager jima ke baad gusal main gusle e haiz o janabat dono ki niyat kar lain to ik gusal kafi hai. (Ref : Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail , edition # 31 , maslah # 387 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai)  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid Help  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 39147

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      Question aslamoalaikum mai aalma ka kors karna chahti hun per mera shoher ijazat nahi deta or meri dili khuahish hai k my islam k bary me zeada sy zeada ilm hasil krun kya ap bta skty hen k mujy kya karna chahye  
      Country  lahore - pakistan
      Answer Wssalam o alykum, ap ghar main beeth kar Masomeen (a.s) se mutaalliq kitaboo ka mutallia karian or agr internet use karti hen to social media k zariye bhi ap deen ki both ziyada malumat hasil kr sakti hen is tarah apki khwahish bhi puri hojayegi or shohar ki ita`at bhi hojayegi (q k shohar ki ijazat k bger orat ka ghr se bahir nikalna haram hai)(Ref : Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail , edition # 31 , maslah #2376 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai)  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 39118

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      Question aoa. sii, mera sawal ye hai k ager meri biwi ko mensis hon tou kiya pechay se dakhool kar sakta hoon.. ya agr dakhol farj me kiya jay mager galti se dubar me ho jae tou kya jaiz hai... plz answer  
      Country  multan - pakistan
      Answer Wssalam o alykum, ager wo halat e haiz main hain to farj main dukool jaiz nahi hai. or ager wo dubur (back) main dukool karne per razi na hon to ehtiyaat e wajib ke tor per dubur main dukool haraam hai.(Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 448, 504) , (Ref : Ayatullah Seestani(D.B) Al-masail e mutakhaba, maslah # 67 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid sajjad_php@yahoo.com  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 39102

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      Question Salaam alaikum sawal hai :- kya intercourse ek bar karne ke baad second time karne ke liye ghusal lena zaroori hai kya?  
      Country  Hyderabad - India
      Answer Wssalam o alykum, G nahi zaruri nahi hai albatta bger wazu k duubara intercourse krna makrooh (na-pasandeedah) hai .(Ref : Minhaj us salaheen Ayat ullah sistani d.b. part # 3, masla # 5 , Allah Taala hi tfoqiaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid Ayatullah sistani sahab qibla  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 39273

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      Question Quran ki raushni mein daily intercourse harmful hai mard aur aurat dono ke liye?Quran kya kehta hai is baare mein?  
      Country  New Delhi - India
      Answer Wo time jin main bivi ke sath jima karna haraam hai, 1  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid Intercourse  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 54281

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      Question Bhai saab mera taluq ek muhazab gharane se hai, meri biwi bohut modern hai kya main apni biwi ke sharam gah choom sakta hun.  
      Country  karachi - Pak
      Answer Shohor or biwi aik dosray ki sharamgaah ko monh(mouth) laga saktay hain, magar ye k sharamgaah say nikalnay wali ratoobat halaq mian nah jaay. (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Istiftaat I-2,I-15 , Allah Taala tofiqaat main izafa farmaae). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid 1  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 54266

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      Question assalamualykum sir mera sawal ye hai k ek gair muslim ladka ek musalman ladki se shadi kr skta hai ba sarte k dono apni apni majhab ko manenge is me koi restriction nhi hogi aur shadi b dono tarah me hogi nikah b aur fere b to kya ye mumkin hai aur is shadi ko naam mil sakti hai.. kya ye dono apni zindagi bita sakte hain inse jo aulad honge unke liye kya behtar hoga plz mujhe batayie..  
      Country  rourkela - india
      Answer ye shadi sahi nahi hai or ager larka o larki dono ye na jaante honk e musalmaan orat ka ghair muslim mard k sath nikha sahi nahi hai or is ko sahi samjte howe jahalat ki waja se is terah nikha kiya to bacha halaal zada hai, or ager dono ye jaante hon ke is terah nikha sahi nahi hai to ye zina hai or bacha haraam zada hai, or ager dono main se koi ik jaanta ho or dosra nahi jaanta ho to jaanne wale ke liye haraam zada or najaane wale ke liye halaal zada hai. (Ref : aqa sistani,Jadeed faqhi masail , {masala # 393} {Question # 439} , eidition # 5 , ALLAH TAALA tofiqaat main izafa farmaae).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 1  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 39211

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      Question Salam, during the period of has husband can force his wife for hand practice? it is allowed?  
      Country  Lahore - Pakistan
      Answer Wssalam o alykum,G han jaiz hai, mager bivi ko aziyat dena or sakt rawayye se pesh aana jaiz nahi hai.(Ref : Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail , edition # 31 , maslah # 2376 , 448 , 504 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid Sistani  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 39542

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      Question a.o.a sir mn pehly b sawal poch chuki hn plzz mujy jaldi jawab dia jaye meri zindge azab bani hui hy or mujy isy sahi krny ka ek moka chahye mn jo b guna kiye hn sachy dil sy mafi mang chuki hn or uska irtkaab b nahi kia plzzz panjtan pak k sadly mujhy sahi rasta btya jaye bht shukat guzar rahun ge or jaldi az jaldi ans dia jaye mn apny cuz ko pasand krti thi us ny mujhy chor dia phr mera contact ek larky sy hua jisk sth meri attachment bht bar gae par kabi fahash bat nahi ki mn shia maslak sy hn or wo suni hum ny ek dusry ko mian bv man lia panjatan pak ko gawa bna kr par us ny bad mn search etc ki to us ny mujy kaha aisy nikah nahi hta nikah k seeghy hty hn jo k ek shia hoty huy mujhy nahi pta tha mn just mazak mn wo seeghy par liye par kabi dil sy mani nahi phr mera us sy contact khtm hua mera nikah mry cuz sth hua mn molvi sahab sy pocha k mn ek larky sth aisy seegha pary thy to unhun nu kaha k aisy nhi hta tmhara nikah sahi nahi mn satisfied ho gae k mery cuz sth nikah sahi hy par us larky ny mujhy bht tang kia jisk sth seeghy parhy thy jiski wja sy mry cuz ny b mujhy divorce dy di sub mujhy jotha samjhty hn hala k mri niyat ghalat nahi thi ab ap batyen k mera us larky sth rishta hy ya nahi or wo mujhy kisi surat b chorny ko razai nahi or mujhy bar bar cuz sy nikah krny py zalil krta mera usk sth bilkul b guzara nhi plzzz mujhy kch aisa btyen k wo mujhy khud chor dy agr mn such mn uski bv hn to plzzz mujhy jaldi az jaldi jawab dia jaye plzzz  
      Country  lhe - pk
      Answer Ager nikah ke sege pharte waqt niche bataae gaae tamaam sharait thi to ap us ki zojiyat main hain, or ager in main se 1 shart bhi nahi thi to us ka ap se koi taalluq nahi hai. 1#Ehtiyaat e wajib ki bina per nikha ka siga arabi main para jaye 2  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid imam sistani  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 39866

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      Question salam mera yeh sawal hay ky meney apney husband kou apney pahley pyar ky barey mey btadiya hay to ab wou mjhe ghalat smjhta hay tou kyah mene yeh ghalat kiya hay plz koi solution btaein  
      Country  khi - pakistan
      Answer Wssalam o alykum, un ke sath sache dil se ache Aklaaq o Kirdaar se peesh aain to wo ap se sachi mohabbat karne lage ge. (Ref : Nawadir ul Ahadees , jild # 1 , Topic # behtreen shaks ki nishaandahi , pg # 62 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 39846

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      Question A.o.a kibla sahab, ma aik shea or syed larka hn ma aik ahl e sunnat larki s apne dil s payar krta hn or wo b mje payar krti h .ma usay kafi martba kch chuka hn k wo shea ho jae, jbke wo mje khti h k thek h ma sb kch namaz roza etc fiqa e jafaria k tarz s krun ge mgr wo matam nahi kre ge nd wo mje b rokti h k ma b matam na krun or khti h k hamari olaad b sheo wala sb kch kre ge mgr matam nahi kre ge, or phr e c baat ke wja s hm me takraar hti h nd akhir me hm dono apni olaad paida na krne pr rzamand ho jate hen, ab mje ap s puchna h k es surat me kya wo hakiki shea khlai jae ge? Or olaad ko jan buj kr na paida krne k bare me islam kya khta h? Or islam k concept s mje us larki s shadi krni chahye ya nahi jbke hm aik dusre k bgair ni rah skte?  
      Country  Pakistan - Faran_bukhari@yahoo.com
      Answer Wssalam o alykum, Ager wo Mazhab e Shia ke Aqaid ka izhar karti hai or un ko qabool karti hai masalan Matam o Azadari ka inkaar na karti ho balke sirf zangeer ya kama ke matam ko na karne ko kehti ho or majlesoo main jati ho hath ka matam karti ho o namaaz wagera shia mazhab ke tareqe se phrti ho to wo shia hai. (Ref : Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail , edition # 33 , maslah # 01). Or olaad ke na hone ke liye kisi cheez ka istamaal karna jaiz hai (olad peda krna wajib nahi hai). (Ref : aqa sistani,Jadeed faqhi masail , masala # 415 , pg # 238 , eidition # 5). Ager us se shadi se ap ke deen main tabdeli ka imkaan ho to us se shadi jaiz nahi. (Ref : Mujtahid se pochay gaey sawalaat, part #1 , sawaal #134, pg # 70 , ALLAH TAALA hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid Lahore  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 41771

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      Question A.o.A kya muslim mard apni biwi ki sharam gah ko chat sakta hai. Ratoobat ka matlab mazi se hai sperm se.  
      Country  RANCHI - India
      Answer shohar or biwi apas men har qism ki lazzat hasil kr sakte hen albatta bivi ki sharam gaah se nikalne wali ratobat (har qisam ka pani jo bivi ki sharam gaah se nikalta hai) ko nahi pe sakte. (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Istiftaat I-2,I-15). Note : Ratobat ke hukmon ke iktilaaf ki waja se mana tabdeel ho sakte hain, ho sakta hai kisi jaga is se murad mazi o mani dono ho or kisi or jaga mani ke ilawa mazi o dosri ratobatain.(Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 53724

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      Question aik aurat ne aik bachay ko feed kia ho to kya wo bacha us aurat ki photi ke sath nikah kar sakta hai??  
      Country  islamabad - pakistan
      Answer 1-bachay ko doodh is qadar pilaya jaey k uski haddia us doodh sy mazboot hoon aur badan ka gosht bhi us sy banay aur agar is baat ka ilm na ho k is qadar doodh piya hai ya nahi tou agr us ny aik din aur aik raat ya 15 dafa pait bhar kr doodh piya ho tab bhi mehram honay k leye kafi hai. 2- bachay ki umar k 2 saal mukammal na hue hoon aur uski ume k 2 saal mukammal honay k baad usay doodh pilaya jaey tou wo kisi ka mehram nahi bnta. Agar sharait k sath doodh pilaya hai tu wo lerka us aurat ki poti say shadi nahi ker sakta Q k wo mehram ban jati hai. (Tauzeh-ul-masail,ayatullah Sistan d.b.,33th edition,mslah#2428,2438). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 1  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 53787

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      Question mera 3 saal say larki k sath affair chl rha ha or mainay usay wada bhe kya tha k main usay shadi kronga.hum dono k darmyan almost sab kuch ho chuka ha.ab problem ye ha k hum dono k ghr bhe sabko hum dono ka pta ha lakin meri family mjhy usay shadi krny ke ijazat nhi deti kuen k family difference bohat zyada ha uska family background financially weak ha or background village ka ha.is situation main mjhy kya krna chahye main ab bhe usay shadi krna chahta hon lakin ghar valon k against bhe nhi ja sakta kuen k main apnay maa baap ko naraz nhi krna chahta mjhy kya krna chahye?  
      Country   - pakistan
      Answer Baap ya dada ki ijazat k baghair kunwari lerki nikah nahi ker sakti(chahay apni maa say bhi ijazat ly li ho)laikin baap ya dada us mard k sath usay shadi ki ijazat nah daitay hon jo mashray k lihaaz say aur shariat k lihaaz say us ki matching ka ho tu phir ijazat lena zarori nahi hai. (Ref:Ayatullah sistani(d.b), Tauzeehul masail 31th edition,maslah #2341). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye) . (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid 1  
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      Ques. ID 53768

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      Question kya ek ladka do bahan se shadi karsakta hai.kya ye rishta jaiz hoga sariyat se  
      Country  pune - india
      Answer Insan 2 behno say aik waqt mai nikah nahi ker sakta chahay wo doodh penay ki wajah say hi aik dusri ki behnay bani hon. (Tauzeh-ul-masail,ayatullah Sistani d.b.,33th edition,mslah#2447). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)