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  Topic:  Nikah

  • Ahkam-e-Nikah (801 Questions)
  • Mahr(Dowry) (13 Questions)
  • Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 1 (815 Questions)
  • Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2 (463 Questions)
  •   Ques. ID 61913

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      Question As salam o alikum, Sir me puchna chahta hun q k me bohat pareshan hun, meri mangni ko 6 months ho chukay hain or aub mujay aahishta aahista pata lug raha hai k meri mangaiter k affairs chal rahay thay us ne 3, 4 larkon k sath physical relation rakha tha or mobile pe bhi akser sexy batain karti thi or aub bhe karti hai ye nahi pata or physical relation matlab wo kam nahi jo mard or biwi k darmiyan hota hai bus uper uper sub kiya hai, aub us ne is galti ko bhe qabool kar liya hai q k saboot mil chukay hain aub mujay batao kiya mujay usay mauf kar k shadi kar laini chaiye ya usko chor daina chaiye mujay kuch samaj nahi araha.. or mera dil nahi manta aub us k sath shadi karnay ka laiken mujay us ki fikar lagi rehti hai k mene usay chor diya to usko koi or apnaye ga ya nahi q k us per dag lug jaye ga or me us se boht pyar karta hun mujay iska jawab do pls.  
      Country  Karachi - PAkistan
      Answer Mard ko chahae k jis aurat se shadi karna chahta he os me on sifaat aur khososiyaat ko pesh e nazar rakhay jo aik misali khatoon me honi chahae jo pak daman, shareef ul asal aur naik ho aur dunyavi aur ukhravi maamlaat me shohar ki madadgaar sabit ho. Update on dated 17-04-2015. (Ref : Ayatullah Sistani, Jadeed faqhi masael , Mafhoom e maslah #386 , Pg #232 , Eidition# 5). Update on dated –2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 1  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 51947

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      Question asslam o alaikum sir Sir ap se puchna tha k shadi k bad hambistry krte waqt kin cheezon ka ehtiyat krna parta ha mtlb kiya aml hum kr sakte hain aur kiya kiya ni  
      Country  Liaquatpur - Pakistan
      Answer 1-Biwi say halat e haiz(period) or nifaas main hambistari kerna haraam hay. (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Tauzee hul masael,Edition# 35,Mafhoom e Maslah #448,504). 2-Biwi k pechay k maqam(maqam e pakhana) main hambistari karna biwi k razi nah honay ki sorat main ethiyat e wajib ki bina par haram hay, aur agar biwi razi ho tu jaiz hay laikin shadeed makrooh hay.(Ref: Ayatullah Seestani(D.B) Al-Masael e Muntakhaba, Mafhoom e Maslah # 67). Update on dated 17-03-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid Syed Sadiq sheerazi  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 16157

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      Question Meri biwi ko ghar k kaam kaaj k lie kisi khadima ki zaroorat hai jo is ka hath bta sakay, kia meray lie wajib hai k mai apni biwi k lie khadima ka intezam karoo?  
      Country  Karachi - Pakistan
      Answer Agar biwi ki kefiyat ye ho k osay khadima ki zarorat ho to shohar par is ka intezam karna wajib hai.(Ref : Mujtahid se pochay gaey sawalaat, part # 1, Mafhoom e sawaal # 148, pg # 74) Update on dated 17-03-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid Ayatullah Sistani  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 47285

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      Question shohar ke huqooq in islam  
      Country  Thane - India
      Answer Riwayat ki roshni men biwi or shoahr per ek dusre k kai huqooq hen, shoahr k huqooq men se ye hia k biwi shohar ki ijazat k baghair ghar se bahar nah nikale, chahe biwi ka ghar se nikalna shohar k haq se takro rakhe ya na rakhe, isi tarah biwi k liye zaruri hai k jab bhi shohar jinsi lazzat hasil kerna chahe to uski khwahish puri kare, or jab tak shara`ee uzar nah ho tab tak shohar ko hambistri se mana nahi ker sakte.(Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Tauzee hul masael,Edition# 35,Mafhoom e Maslah # 2376). Update on dated 17-03-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 58749

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      Question assalam u alaikum. sawal ya ha k bewi ko kis trh leta k chodna chahye. Islamic tareka plz meri 2 mahina bud shadi ha plz plzzz wazaht kejega  
      Country   - pakistan
      Answer 1,2) jima se pehlay masaas(orgasm) k baad jab jima shuru kia jaay tu jab jima k doran aurat k munzil hone (discharge) k bilkul qareeb ho yani wo baytabana harakaat karay, merd se chumtay, liptay, apne hatho ya taango se merd ko kas ker daba,ay. Tab merd bhi jaldi jaldi dkhool(inserting of penis) or ikhraaj(emiting of penis) ker k farigh ho jaay, agar ittefaaq se aurat is waqt tak munzil nah ho or wo apne haatho ya taango se merd ko kas k daba rahi ho takeh merd alag nah ho tu merd ko chahiay k is waqt tak apne aala e tanasul(penis) ko aurat ki sahramgaah se bahar nah nikalay jab tak k aurat munzil nah hojaay, phir khuch dair baad penis ko nikaal ker merd aahistagi se aurat se alag hojaay.(Ref: Mafhoom e Islam or jinsiyaat, mu,allif doctor muhhammed taqi ali abdi, pg#151). Update on dated 17-03-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid 4  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 10611

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      Question kya muslman khade hokar humbistar ho sakta hai?  
      Country  jaipur - india
      Answer Jaiz hay.( Ref: Mafhoom e E-mail Rcvd from A.sistani d.b) Update on dated 17-03-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 10566

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      Question assalam o alaikumapni wife ko bilkul nanga roshni main daikhna kaisa aur suhag raat ki detal plz thanx  
      Country  karachi - pakistaan
      Answer Jaiz hay. (Ref : Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Minhaajus Saliheen Part # 3, Mafhoom e Maslah # 11 , Eidition 1417 hij). Bivi k saath jima (intercourse) ka islami tariqa ye hai k jima k waqt mustahab hai k bismillah perhi jaay, or baa wuzu hoon khaas taur per jab biwi haamla ho,or jima k waqt jo kaam makrooh hain un main say kuch ye hain 1.soraj or chaand gerhan ka hona,2. zawaal e aaftab ka hona siwaay jumeraat k din k, 3. groob e aaftaab k waqt ka hona, 4.chand ki aakhri 3 raaton main jima kena, 5.fajar k baad soraj nikalnay say pehlay, 6.islami mahinay ki pehli taarikh siway Ramazan ki pehli raat(Chaand raat)main , 7. islami mahinay ki darmiani or aakri taarikh main jima kerna, 8.qiblay ki taraf rukh ya pusht kerna, 9.berhana (naked) halat main jima kerna, 10.ehtilaam k baad baghair wuzu k jima kerna, 11.jima k waqt bivi ki sharamg ko dekhna makrooh hai. (Ref : Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Minhaajus Saliheen Part # 3, Mafhoom e Maslah #4,5 , Eidition 1417 hij). Update on dated 17-03-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 10573

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      Question kya apni bivi ko khade hokar ya baith kar sex kiya ja sakta hai?  
      Country  surat - india
      Answer Jaiz hay.( Ref: Mafhoom e E-mail Rcvd from A.sistani d.b) Update on dated 17-03-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 57849

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      Question salam mer 2 sawal hain(10 meri shadi honay wali hai bivi kay sath kaise sex kro k hamal ho jaye aur kitni dafa sex kro (2) sex krtey howe phele bivi ki dischager hona chaey ya mard ko?  
      Country  Islam - pakistan
      Answer 1,2) jima se pehlay masaas(orgasm) k baad jab jima shuru kia jaay tu jab jima k doran aurat k munzil hone (discharge) k bilkul qareeb ho yani wo baytabana harakaat karay, merd se chumtay, liptay, apne hatho ya taango se merd ko kas ker daba,ay. Tab merd bhi jaldi jaldi dkhool(inserting of penis) or ikhraaj(emiting of penis) ker k farigh ho jaay, agar ittefaaq se aurat is waqt tak munzil nah ho or wo apne haatho ya taango se merd ko kas k daba rahi ho takeh merd alag nah ho tu merd ko chahiay k is waqt tak apne aala e tanasul(penis) ko aurat ki sahramgaah se bahar nah nikalay jab tak k aurat munzil nah hojaay, phir khuch dair baad penis ko nikaal ker merd aahistagi se aurat se alag hojaay.(Ref: Mafhoom e Islam or jinsiyaat, mu,allif doctor muhhammed taqi ali abdi, pg#151). Update on dated 17-03-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid 2  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 59579

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      Question Mera Sawal yeah hy k shadi k bad wife aur hony Waly bachy pr kharch Kis ko krna chaiye agr wo Apny waldain k ghar hu shadi k bad wife k Nan-o-nafka ki zimadari shohr ki h ya ya shohar k ghar waloo'n ki agr shohar out of country hu  
      Country  M.B.Din - Pakistan
      Answer Daimi nikah(Permanent Marriage) k baad biwi ki ghiza, libaas, rehaish aur zandigi ki baqi zaroriyaat ka intezaam shohar par wajib hai or isi tarah bache k akhrajaat shohar per wajib hote hai. (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Tauzee hul masael,Edition# 35,Mafhoom e Maslah # 2014,2376). Update on dated 17-03-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid 1  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 43853

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      Question mera sawal yeh ha k orat p hath uthana ya us ko maswak sy marna jayiez ha k nahi plz tell me  
      Country  muscat - oman
      Answer Aurat k huqooq main se aik ye bhi hay k merd osay aziyat o azaar nah pohchaey or kisi shar’ee wajah k baghair os k sath sakhti or ghusse se paish nah aay. (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Tauzee hul masael,Edition# 35,Mafhoom e Maslah #2376). Update on dated 07-03-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 61975

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      Question Sir , mai ye poucha chahta hoon kah agar aek banda ( Adult ) kisi aurat yaa apni biwi (Adult ) ka dhood pita hai , to kiya ye jaiz hai ya najaiz . PLZ jaldi bata dain  
      Country  Lahore - pakistan
      Answer Shohar biwi ki breast suck(choos) ker sakta hay,leikin agar shohar biwi ke breast ko suck karey aur moo mai doodh aa jaye, toh ehtiyaat wajib ye hay k biwi ka doodh nah piaya jaay(yaani halaq say neechay nah utara jaay.)(Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), E-Mail from Answers@najaf.org). Shohar or bivi k ilaawa namehram aurat k jism k tamaam hisso(parts) ko touch karna haraam hai .(ref: Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Minhaa jus saliheen,maslah #16) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid 1  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 61580

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      Question Assalamualekum wa rehmatullahi wa barkatahum : hazrat mera sawal yeh hai ki 7 saal pehle mera ek ladki se contact hua woh bhi musalman hai. Uss waqt mera rishta apne hi rishtedaro mai hua tha. Uss ladki ne kaha bhi ki rishta chudwalo aur mujhse nikah karlo. Par uss waqt ke halat dekh kar aisa nahi hua aur meri shadi mere rishte daro mai ho gayi shadi ke 15 din baad woh larki phir contact mai aa gayi. Jisse meri shadi huyi thi usse 2 judwa bache bhi ho gaye. Phir wih ladki aur mai milne bhi lage. Dono ne faisla kiya ki hum dono gunah kar rahe hai to dono ne nikah ka faisla kiya. Aur 2 saal pehle nikah karliya. Nikah se pehle ladki ki shart thi ki tum pehli biwi ke pass nahi rahoge to maine kaha ki aisa nahi ho sakta waha bache bhi hai unka bhi haq hai to hafte mai 2 raate waha rukne ki baat par nikah ho gaya. Woh ladki job bhi karti hai. Iss nikah ke bare mai ladki ki 2 behne hai unko pata hai aur meri pehli biwi ko bhi pata hai. 2 mahine se jisse maine nikah kiya tha woh mujhse baat nahi kar rahi hai. Baat na karne ki wajah yeh hai uska kehna hai ki tum pehli biwi ke saath humbistri karte ho aur mai yeh bardhast nahi kar sakti aur sab mujhe dusri wali kahege. Aur 15 din se woh city se bhi bahar chali gayi hai maine bahut koshish karli uske dosto se aur behno se puchne ki par koi nahi bata raha ki kaha hai woh. Aur jane se pehle jab baat huyi thi to keh kar gayi thi ki dono biwiyo mai se ek ko rakhna padega. Mai dono mai se kisi ko nahi chodna chahta. Uske ghar mai maa bimar hai phir bhi woh ghar se chali gayi. Aur mere ghar mai jo meri biwi hai woh meri haalat dekh kar kehti hai ki agar woh yeh kehti hai ki mujhe talak dedo to usko manzur hai par usko jaha bhi gayi hai dhund kar uske ghar le aao. Iss halat mai mai kya karu. Aur jo bahar gayi hai usme nikah nama bhi phad diya. Deen ki roshni mai app hazrat se guzarish hai ki masle ka solution bataye.  
      Country  Saharanpur - India
      Answer Wssalam o alykum, Marvi Riwayat ki roshni main ap ke liye dono ko rakakhna mustahab hai, lehaza 1st bivi or bacho ke sath achi zindagi guzaarye, ager 2nd bivi Shariat e Muqaddasa ke hokum se razi ho jayae to dono biviyon ko kush rakhye, or ager na mane to usko talaaq dena jaiz hai (q k unka mutalba gher-sharaee hai). (Ref : Mujtahid se pochay gaey sawalaat, part # 3 , sawaal # 105 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid 1  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 61591

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      Question My aur ek ladki ek doosre se bht pyar karte hai aur hum dono ne phne me qubool hai teen baar boldiya..kya isse hamari shadi hogayai..phir kuch saal baad humne phne me talaaq b dedi kya isse talaaq hogaya..plse jwb tafseel se do  
      Country  bellary - india
      Answer Shadi nahi hoi, lehaza talaaq ki zarorat nahi, lekin is terhan ki dosti o mohabbat jaiz nahi hai q k haram men jane ka khoaf hai. (Ref : Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail , edition # 1414 , maslah # 2335 , 2341 , 2342) , (Ref : Nigah aur libas sawal # 106 pg # 69 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai)  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 1  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 61593

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      Question kia syed larki kisi gair syed sey shadi kar sakti hai  
      Country  d.i.khan - pakistan
      Answer G han koi harj nahi hai.(Ref : Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Minhaajus saliheen Part # 3, Maslah # 221 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid 4  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 61641

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      Question kya shadi ki pehli raat sex krna zruri hai???  
      Country  lahore - lahore
      Answer G nahi zaruri nahi hai.(Ref : Kitab Islam aue Jinsiaat pg # 157 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid 1  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 61608

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      Question my daughter syeda we got one boy suni but he love shia and his molaai boy fathers like my daughter he want marriege with my daughter so how can we do nika  
      Country  kuala lumpur - malaysia
      Answer Ager is shadi se beti ke deen o emaan main tabdili ka imkaan na ho to nikah ke sahi hone main niche di gaae sharait ka hona zarori hai, 1 – ager larki kawari ho or us ke baap ya dada ya pardada zinda hon to ye is nikah se razi hon, 2 – mard o orat izdiwaaj per razi hon.(Ref : Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail , edition # 1414 , maslah # 2335 , 2341 , 2342). Or ager Deen o Emaan main tabdili ka imkaan hia to sunni larke se shadi jaiz nahi hai. (Ref : Mujtahid se pochay gaey sawalaat, part #1 , sawaal #134, pg # 70 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 4  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 62028

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      Question kia husband wife se sex na karein 15 din ke andar.. tu nikah toot jata hai  
      Country  lahore - pakistan
      Answer Bivi se hambistari kerne se nikah nahi toot ta.. (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Tauzee hul masail, 31st edition, maslah # 2462 to 2472 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid 1  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 62034

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      Question A.o.a . Main ya poucna chati hn k .. Mera nakka ko 3 months ho gy hai Mera nakka zabardasti howa. Likn aj thk main my us k sath kuch nhi kiya. Main his k sath nhi rah skti or main his sy talak bi lhna chatI ho hn plzz bhai meri help krey  
      Country  karachi - pakistan
      Answer Wssalam o alykum, ager ap nikah ke waqt razi nahi thi or nikah se le kar ab tak ap dono ke dermiyaan koi esi cheez (chahe bato ke lihaaz hai ho ya kisi or tareqe se) nahi hoi jo ap dono ke zooj o zoja hone ko sabit kare to talaaq ki zarorat nahi hai Q k nikah k sahi hone main orat ki riza mandi bhi shart hai. Or ager baad main razi ho gaae thi to wo ap ke shohar hain. (ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Tauzee hul masail, 31st edition, maslah # 2338 , 2462 to 2472 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 1  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 62917

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      Question shadi k liye tareekh ya din kiya rakhna chahye? kia hafte (saturday) ki shab mai rukhsati sahi hai? kindly reply as soon as possible.  
      Country  karachi - pakistan
      Answer Nikah k sighay perhna qamar dar aqrab ya jab chand mehaaq (chand ki akhri teen takeekhain jin main chand chup jata hay 27, 28, 29) me ho tu nikah karna makrooh he. (saturday) ki shab mai nikah karna sahe hai (Ref : Minhaj us salaheen Ayat ullah sistani d.b. part # 3, masla # 3) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 4  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 62938

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      Question ek ladki or ladke ke bich zina ho gaya or woh ladki 7 month pregnant hai or ladki ke ghar wale ussi lake se uski shaadi kara rahe hai kya unka nikaah jayez hai  
      Country  mumbai - india
      Answer Agar koe shaks kise aise aurat se zina kare jo be shohar ho mager iddat me nah ho to ehteyat e wajib ki bina per us aurat k tuba karne se phele is se shadi nahi kar sakta. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31st edition, maslah # 2364) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 1  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 62955

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      Question aswk mai ap ko apna sawal send keya bt ab tak apna reply nai deya...plzzz mere ek sawal ya hai ke mare ek cosin sister hai bt us se mere do rishta hai ek khalere sister hai(yane khala ke ladke hau)aur ek yo mere tayere sister hai (yane taya ke ladke hai) ek ladke se do relation hai to kya mai us ladke se shadi kar sakta plzzzzx reply me soon plzzzz...mere mail par send karye app  
      Country  maharashtra - INDIA
      Answer Jee haan,aap ki apni is cousin se shadi ho sakti hai. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31st edition, maslah #2349 ) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 4  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 61702

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      Question Hazrat main ek baray pecheeda maslay main phansa hoon Main married hoon mera ek beta hay 5 months ka or meri wife meray sath or main s k sath rehna nahi chahtay wo pichlay 5 months say apnay ghar per bethi hay,wo aana nahi chahti na us k ghar walay bhejna chahtay hain,bat is qdar barh gae hay k meray walid shb b usay nahi rkhna chahtay or mjh per is qdar tohmain lagai gae meri wife ki taraf say k ab mera b us k sath guzara nahi, dosri taraf main ksi ko pasand b karnay laga hon is qadar k us k siwa kuch dikhae nahi deta or wo ksi or say engaged hay magar wo mjhsay shadi karna chahti hay or us tk pohanchnay ka b door door tk koi rasta nahi hay,main ab shadi karna chahta hon us say,mjhay smjh nahi arha kcuh b yeh sb kia hogya meri zindagi main mera hasnta ghr ujar gya or ab main us larki k sath rehna chahta hon..mjhay kia karna chahye or konsa rasta behta hoga??in sb ki wajha kia hay??  
      Country  Karachi - Pakistan
      Answer Ap ko apne ghar ko bachane ki koshish karni chahiye, lehaza apni zoja ko wapas lane ki koshish karain, or us larki se dori iktiyaar karain, kun ke is terhan ki dosti o mohabbat jaiz nahi hai. (Ref : Nigah aur libas sawal # 106 pg # 69 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid 1  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 59380

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      Question Asslam-O-Alikum Sir, Mera swal yeh hy k ik larki ka ik larky sy afair tha before merry sex kerliya or wo 4 month Pregnant hogai usk bad usi larky ny Nikkha kerliya to ayya ye Nikkha PREGNANCY mian jaiz hay ya ni????  
      Country  Karachi - Pakistan
      Answer Wssalam o alykum, Ager nikah larki ke toba o nadamat (us bure kaam per pashemani) se pehle kiya gaya hai to ehtiyaat e wajib ke madd e nazar nikah batil hai q k jab tak larki toba nahi kr leti wo usi larke se shadi nahi kr sakti.(Ref : aqa sistani,Jadeed faqhi masail , masala # 550 , pg # 278 , eidition # 5 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 1  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 62155

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      Question Ya Ali as madad mje ye pouchna hy k Kya Zina yafta girl se shadi jaiz hy?? or isk kya ehkaam hen shohr k lye? or bv k lye??  
      Country  Hyderabad - Pakistan
      Answer Agar koe shaks kisi aisi aurat k sath zina kare jo bay shohar ho or iddat main nah ho to baad main os se aqd(nikah) ker sakta hay laikin ehtiyat e wajib ye hay k jab tak is aurat ko haiz ka khoon aay intezaar kare or baad main is se aqd kare or koe doosra shaks is aurat se aqd kerna chahay tu phir ye ehtiyaat e mustahab hay. (Ref:Ayatullah Khoe (r.a),Tauzeehul masail,maslah #2408) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 2  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 62195

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      Question Assalamuwalaikum. Mai puchna chahta hun ke bina talaq aur bina koi gawah ke nikha kar liya ku ke shohar se pyar nahe mil raha hai aur dusre nikha ke bhare me shohar ko pata na ho aur unki olad hote huye dusre mard ki jo gawah ke bigair nikha kiya hai uski olad ho aur wo aurat dono mard ke sath ho to uska kya hal hai aur iska koi azab hai.  
      Country  karwar - india
      Answer Shadi shuda aurat sai shadi krna haram hai,. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2366) Agar shohar dar aurat zina kare to ehteyate wajib ki bina wo zaani (mard ) per hamesha k liay haram ho jate hai.. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31st edition, maslah # 2367) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 1  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 62198

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      Question sair mera question yahe hai mere shadi ko 9 fb ko 1 year ho jaye ga or mere husband mujhe piya to karte h but wo aapne maa ke kahene me chalte h or mujhe koi kharch nhe dete unki maa papa jo bolde wo sahe ho jata h wo log chhuta bolte h mere husband biwi ke faraz bhul gye h bus koi bhe kam ammi or papa ke liye h mere liye kuch nhe main bahut pirshan hun plz koi dua bataye ...main aapni taraf se 100% pr deti hun wo nhe dete na kahe hun log gye na ab taak koi kapadha na kuch or bus maa papa ka pura karna h  
      Country  kolkata - India
      Answer Auratoo k hoqooq mai sai hai k mard isay aeziat aur aazar na pounchay aur kisi sharie wajah k bagair is k sath sakhti aur tarsh rawi sai pesh na aye. Aur aurat bhi koi aisa kaam na kray jo shohar k haq k manafi ho. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2376) Mian biwi ki aik doosray se mohabbat o ulfat k lie har namaz k bad surah e mumtahina ki ayat # 7 ko 7 martaba parha karain. Is se donoo me bai-misal mohabbat qaim ho jay gi. (ref : kitab naway salaheen pg # 404)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 1  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 62208

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      Question meri mangni hue we he,mera mangatar bht pyar krta he,humri shadi me ak saal he mgar humni aapas me nikah kr lia he,kia yeh nikah jaiz he?or humera rishta b miya biwi wala he  
      Country  karachi - Pakistan
      Answer agar niche di hoi sharaait k mutabibiq nikaha hoa hai to sahe hai. 1)Nikah main sigah (nikah k bool) perhna zarori hai (chahay phone par ho ya samnay beth kar)aurat aur mard ka faqat razi hona aur isi terh nikah nama likhna ehtiyat e wajib ki bina par kafi nhi hai. Aqd e nikah ki kuch shrait hain jin mai sai kuch ye hain k:- 1). Ehtiyaat e wajib he nikah ka sigah sahih arabi me parha jaay,or agar khud merd or aurat sighah arbi main nah perh saktay hon tu arbi k alawa kisi dosri zaban main perh saktay hain or kisi ko vakil banana lazmi nahi hay. 2. sigha parhne wala aqal mand ho or agar apne lie perh raha ho to baligh hona bhi zurari he . 3. ye k merd or aurat or uska vakil sigha parhte waqt qasd e insha(nikah ka irada) rakhte hon. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2328+2335) 2)Kunwari(virgin) lerki os waqt tak nikah(daimi / mutah) nahi ker sakti jab tak k lerki ka Baap ya Dada lerki ko nikah ki ijazat nah day day.or yehi hokum ehtiyaat e wajib ki bina(base) per os sorat main bhi hay k jab larki khud mukhtar or balig bhi ho. agar lerki kawari nah ho tu os k liay baap ya dada ki ijazat ki zororat nahi hay.(yahaan kawari nah honay say muraad sirif ye hay k aisi lerki jo talaaq yaafta ho ya baywah ho or oskay shohar nay oskay saath hambistari /jima(intercourse) kia ho or os kay kawaray pan ko khatam kia ho or oski iddat bhi khatam ho chuki ho. agar zina ya aisay hi kisi kaam say oska kawarapan khatam hoa ho tu ye kawari hi kehlaay gi. isi terah agar baap ya dada os merd k sath osay shadi kernay ki ijzat nah daitay hon jo sharan(Islam ki nazar main) or urfan(mea’ashay ki nazar main) os k brabri(equal) ka ho tu ijazat ki zarorat nahi, isi terah baap ya dada maujood nah hon ya kisi doosri wajah say ijazat laina mumkin hi nah ho or lerki ka nikah kerna bohat zarori ho tab hi baap ya dada say ijazat laina lazmi nahi hay jis jagha aurat k lie baab ya dada se ijazat lena zarori hai agar wo ijazat lie beghair nikah kare to us ka nikah batil hai laikjn agar baab baad me ijazat de de to nikah sahe ho jaay gha. . (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2341,2342) )(ref: sistani.org,arbi, ) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 1  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 62210

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      Question Pehi biwi sa ijazt key baghr dusri Shari hoti h ??  
      Country   attock - Pakistan
      Answer Mard k lie Aik se ziyada musalmaan aurat se shadi karna riwayat ki roshni me mustahab hai. Aur dosere shadi karna makro nahe hai. aur agar jis se shadi kar raha ho wo musalmaan aurat ho to phele biwi se ijaazat ki zarorat bhi nahe hai .(Ref : Mujtahid se pouchey gay sawalat part # 3, ques # 105, pg # 53) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 1  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 62212

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      Question Meri koi real sister ni haha. . Or men ne dil o jaan say aik larki ko apni behn bnaya ha. . Men usy sagi behnu ki trah treat krta hon. . Men jan'na chahta hon k Islam is bary main kia kehta ha.? Kia mera ye kaam theak ha?  
      Country  karachi - pakistan
      Answer jo aurat insaan ki sagi behan na ho srif mou boli behen ho wo aurat insaan ki namehram hai aur mard Aik (namehram) khatoon se aise batain kar sakte hai jin ka natija kisi akhlaqi fasaad ki sorat me na nikal raha ho jab k koe aise baat bhi nah ki jarahi ho jis ka kise ajnabi khatoon k saath kiya jana munasib nahi hota . Isi tarah beghair lazzat k irade k is ki batain bhi soni jasakti hain jab k haram me bhi na perhne ka itmenaan ho. Albata aurat ki zimedari bhi hai k wo apne awaz ko itna khubsurat aur bareek na banaye jo isaan k jazbaat ko obharne wali ho. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31st edition, maslah #2349 ) (ref : Mujtahid se pouchey gay sawalat part # 3, ques # 115, pg # 57) (Ref : Mujtahid se pochay gaey sawalaat, part # 4, sawaal # 127,pg # 66) (Ref:nigha aur libas pg: 31 eidition 1) Na mehram aurat ka jism dekhna aur isi terah in k baloo ko dekhna chahae lazzat k iraday sai ho ya is k baghair, haram mai mubtila honay ka khof ho ya na ho, haram hai.in k chere per nigah daalna aur hatho ko kalayo tak dekhena agar laszat k irade se ho ya haram me mubtela hone ka khof ho to haram hai balke ehteyaate mustahab(is ehteyaat per amal karna wajib nahe hai) ye hai k lazzat k irade k beghair aur haram me mubtila hone ka khof nah ho tab bhi na dekhe aurat k liay namehram mard k jism per nazar daalna lazzat k irade se aur haram me mubtila hone k sath haram hai balke ehtiyaat e wajib ki bina per lazzat ka irada aur haram me mubtila hone ka khof nah bhi ho tab bhi mard k badan per nigah nahi daalne chahiay laikin agar aurat mard k jisam k in hisso maslan sar, dono hath aur dono pindliyo per jinhe umoman mard nahi chupate ,lazzat k irade k beghair nazar daale aur haram me mubtila hone ka khof na ho to koe haraj nahi hay.. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2397). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah
      Mujtahid 1  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 59410

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      Question Salamun ale kum mai pahle bhi sawal kar chuka hu lekin mujhe jawab nahi mila plz reply kare. Mera sawal ye hai ki agar wife k sath oral sex karte waqt fluid ka taste tounge pe aye aise ki halaq k niche na jaye to kya ye haram hai. Plz plz reply fast.  
      Country  LUCKNOW - INDIA
      Answer Wssalam o alykum, Ager is taste se muraad bivi ka doodh o us ke sharam-gaah se nikalne wali ratobat nahi hai to jaiz hai. (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), E-Mail from Answers@najaf .org) , (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Istiftaat I-2,I-15 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai)  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid 4  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 62251

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      Question ساحل اور اسکی وائف نے کورٹ میرج کی ہے کو کے لڑکی کے گھر والے ہماری شادی کے خلاف تے نکّہ کے بعد ہمنے اپنی شادی کو حلال کیا اور اپنے اپنے گھر آ گئے کے اب گھر والو کو مانا لینگے تا کے انکی بھی عزت خراب نہ ہو مگر ہوا الٹا لڑکی کے گھر می پتا لگتے ہی میرا اس کے ساتھ 6 مہینے تک رابطہ ختم ہو گیا اور وو لوگ مجھے دھمکیا دینے لگے کے طلاق دو پر لڑکی میرے کنٹیکٹ می اہی وو میرے ساتھ ہے میرے ساتھ آنا چا حتی ہے مگر 20 اکتوبر کو وو لوگ لڑکی کو ڈرا دھمکا کر لیے طلاق کروانے کے لئے اور آ کے مجھے اتنا مجبور کیا اور زبردستی مجھسے اتنا کھلوا لیا میری طرف سی طلاق ہے جس کی نہ میری نیّت تی نہ میری وائف کی کو نکے ہماری شادی پسند کی ہے میری وائف بھی پیچھے سے سر ہلاتی رہی کے طلاق نہ ہونے پہے اس لئے مہینے اس سورتحال سے نکلنے اور جان بچنے کے لئے اس قسم کے الفاظ کا استمال کیا اب آپ اسلام کی روشنی می اس کا حل بٹے سر پلیز ہم دونو ابی بی رابطے می ہے اور لڑکی یہی کہتی ہے کے مے طلاق نہی مانتی اس طلاق کو یہ جبر ہے اور اسلام مے جبر کی کوئی جگہ نہی ہے اعمال کا دارومدار نیّتو پر ہے مگر میں نے کہی اسے فتوے پڑھے ہے جس میں نیّت کو اہمیت نہی دی جاتی ہے آخر کو کیا یہی ہے اسلام ؟ کیا اس لئے ہی نبی پاک یہ کہ کر گئے تے ک "عمل کا دارومدار نیّتو پر ہے " ؟ آج کے معاشرے میں یہ کم ام ہے کے جو ہمی پسند نہ ہو اسے ڈرا دھمکا کر ختم کردو یا جو نہ ماننے اسے ختم کردو ور آج کے مولانا صاحب بھی بول دیتے ہے کے کے آپ نے زبان سی کو کھا یہ نہی سوچتے کے کل کو ان کے ساتھ بھی ایسا کچھ ہو سکتا ہے اسلام کا ملب ہے ہر دور کے حساب سے آسانی پیدا کرنا نہ کے اسے اتنا مشکل بنا دینا کے لوگ اسلام سی گافل ہو جاہے اسلام کی ساخ کو اس کے اپنو سی ہی خطرہ ہے جب اسلام کی روح کے حساب سی ان کنڈیشنز می طلاق نہی وتی تو پر مولانا کسی بی فرقے کا ہو کیسے بول سکتا ہے کے طلاق ہو گے ہے -:کنڈیشنز غصّے میں دی جانے والی طلاق ۱۰ مجبوری می دی جانے والی طلاق ۲۰ زبردستی کرہے جانے والی طلاق ۳۰ اور یہا ایک مجلس کی ۳ طلاقو کا چیپٹر بی شامل ہے جو کے نہی ہوتی ۴۰ بنا نیّت کے دی جانے والی طلاق ۵۰ یہ سب علامت میری طلاق کے ٹائم پر شامل تی کو کے می اپنی وائف سی بہت زدہ پیار کرتا ہو ور گھر والو سی بھی وو لوگ میرے گھر اہے اس کے چچا کے پاس گن لگی ہوئی تی مجھے میری جان کا خطرہ نہی تا می مجبور تا اپنی فیملی کو لے کر میری والدہ بیمار رہتی ہے ور بھابھی اس وقت حملہ حالت می تی میں نے بیگم سی عشرو می پوچھا تو اسنے کانپتے ھوے بس اتنا اشارہ کر دیا کے کوئی گلتی کرنے کا مت سوچنا ورنہ یحیٰ لاشے گر جھنگی جب میں نے یہ نازیبا الفاظ اپنی زبان سی ادا کے اس وقت میرے سوچنے سمجھنے کی صلاحیت ختم ہو گے تی می رو رہا تا ہاتھ پاؤ کانپ رہے تے لہجہ ساتھ نہی دی رہا تا کانو می سیٹیا بج رہی تی مجہے ٹھیک سی یاد بھی نہی کے مہینے کس تارہا ور کو اسے الفاظ ادا کے می بس اتنا جانتا ور مانتا ہو کے می ایک مسلمان ہو اس پورے مضمون میں میں نے جھوٹ کا سہارا نہی لیا ہے اب آپ اسلام کی روح سی اس کا جواب مجھے دی تا کے می اس چیپٹر کو کورٹ می چیلنج کر سکو اور اسلام کے جھوٹے دعویدارو کو بھی اھینا دکھاؤ کو کے یہ مزاق ہے کتاب اللہ کے ساتھ جو کے میں ہونے نہی دونگا آپکے ساتھ کی درکواست ہے براہے کرم اس کا جواب جلد از جلد دیجیے  
      Country  karachi - Pakistan
      Answer 1)Nikah main sigah (nikah k bool) perhna zarori hai (chahay phone par ho ya samnay beth kar)aurat aur mard ka faqat razi hona aur isi terh nikah nama likhna ehtiyat e wajib ki bina par kafi nhi hai. Aqd e nikah ki kuch shrait hain jin mai sai kuch ye hain k:- 1). Ehtiyaat e wajib he nikah ka sigah sahih arabi me parha jaay,or agar khud merd or aurat sighah arbi main nah perh saktay hon tu arbi k alawa kisi dosri zaban main perh saktay hain or kisi ko vakil banana lazmi nahi hay. 2. sigha parhne wala aqal mand ho or agar apne lie perh raha ho to baligh hona bhi zurari he . 3. ye k merd or aurat or uska vakil sigha parhte waqt qasd e insha(nikah ka irada) rakhte hon. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2328+2335) 2)Kunwari(virgin) lerki os waqt tak nikah(daimi / mutah) nahi ker sakti jab tak k lerki ka Baap ya Dada lerki ko nikah ki ijazat nah day day.or yehi hokum ehtiyaat e wajib ki bina(base) per os sorat main bhi hay k jab larki khud mukhtar or balig bhi ho. agar lerki kawari nah ho tu os k liay baap ya dada ki ijazat ki zororat nahi hay.(yahaan kawari nah honay say muraad sirif ye hay k aisi lerki jo talaaq yaafta ho ya baywah ho or oskay shohar nay oskay saath hambistari /jima(intercourse) kia ho or os kay kawaray pan ko khatam kia ho or oski iddat bhi khatam ho chuki ho. agar zina ya aisay hi kisi kaam say oska kawarapan khatam hoa ho tu ye kawari hi kehlaay gi. isi terah agar baap ya dada os merd k sath osay shadi kernay ki ijzat nah daitay hon jo sharan(Islam ki nazar main) or urfan(mea’ashay ki nazar main) os k brabri(equal) ka ho tu ijazat ki zarorat nahi, isi terah baap ya dada maujood nah hon ya kisi doosri wajah say ijazat laina mumkin hi nah ho or lerki ka nikah kerna bohat zarori ho tab hi baap ya dada say ijazat laina lazmi nahi hay jis jagha aurat k lie baab ya dada se ijazat lena zarori hai agar wo ijazat lie beghair nikah kare to us ka nikah batil hai laikjn agar baab baad me ijazat de de to nikah sahe ho jaay gha. . (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2341,2342) )(ref: sistani.org,arbi, ) Talaaq ki chand shartain hain jin ki pabandi nah ki jaay tu talaaq nahi hoti. 1.talaq k waqt aurat haiz or nifaas say paak ho or is paaki k doran merd nay jima(intercourse) nah kia ho. 2.talaq zabani dijaay.yani likh ker talaq dayna batil hay or talaq nahi kehlaay gi. 3. Talaq ka seegha sahi arabi main lafz e “طالق” k saath perha jaay. 4.talaaq do adil(jo zaahiran gunahgaar nah hoon,or wajib kaamo per amal kertay hon or haram kaamo say bachtay hon) gawahoo ki maujoodgi main di jaay. 5.zarori hay k merd talaq apne ikhteyaar se day or agar osay apni bivi ko talaq daine par majoboor kia jaay tu talaq batil hay. 6.Merd talaaq k waqt talaq ki niyat rakhta ho,layhaaza agar wo maslan mazaaq ya nashay ya ghussay ki halat main talaq day tu,talaaq sahi nahi hogi. (ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2462 to 2472) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 4  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 59467

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      Question Kea wife ko pichy sy krna jaiz hy  
      Country  lahore - pakistan
      Answer Ager razi ho to jaiz hai lekin shaded makrooh hai. (Ref : Ayatullah Seestani(D.B) Al-masail e mutakhaba, maslah # 67 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hia)  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid 1  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 62426

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      Question sir main ne bht sa larkon k sath ganda kam kia ha plz muijy iss buray kam sa baher naklein,maim thak gya hn gunnah kr kr k,main bht bura larka hn plz hel me,main na handpratice kr kr k apna pennis kharab kr dia ha ab main shadi k qabil b nahe rha plz mujy koi hal bata dein?  
      Country  islamabad - pak
      Answer Jo shaks shadi na hone ki waja se fale haraam me mubtela hota ho is per wajib ha k shadi kar le.(Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2407) istimna karna (kise tariqe se mani kharij) karna ghuna kabira hai.(Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30,eidition 2009 , Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 1553 ). Mard ka mard k sath bad faili karna ghuna kabira hai (Ref : Minhaj us salaheen Ayat ullah sistani d.b. part # 1masla # 30, 2009 edition). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 1  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 62429

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      Question mian biwi maan leny sy nikkah ho jata ha ? Agr dono future may shafi krny ka pka irada krty hon to  
      Country  Lahore - Pakistan
      Answer 1)Nikah chahay daimi ho ya ghair daimi(yani muta) is main seeghah (nikah k bool) perhna zarori hay.aurat or merd ka faqat raazi hona kafi nahi, or isi terah (nikah naama) likhna ehtiyaat e wajib ki bina per kaafi nahi hay. Aqd e nikah ki khuch shara,it hain jin me se khuch ye hain k:- 1)Ehtiyaat e wajib he nikah ka seeghah sahih arabi me parha jaay,or agar khud merd or aurat sighah arabi main nah perh saktay hon tu arbi k Alawa kisi dosri zaban main perh saktay hain or kisi ko vakil banana laazimi nahi hay. 2) sigha parhne wala aqal-mand ho or agar apne lie perh raha ho to baligh hona bhi zurari hai . 3)Merd or aurat or uska vakil sigha parhte waqt qasd e insha(nikah ka irada ) rakhte hon. (ref : tauzeeh e ul masayl ayat ullaha sistani (d.b.) masla # 2328+2335) Agar merd or aurat khud ghair daimi nikah(muta) ka seegah perhna chahain to, nikah ki muddat aur meher taay karney k baad pehlay aurat kahay k (زوجتک نفسی فی المدۃ المعلومۃ علی المھر المعلوم)(Zauwajtoka nafsee fil muddatil ma’loomati alal mahril ma’loom) Or os k baad merd furan kahay (قبلت)(qabilt) tu nikah ho jaay ga. (ref : tauzeeh e ul masayl ayat ullaha sistani (d.b.) masla # 2334). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye) 2) kawari(virgin) lerki os waqt tak nikah nahi ker sakti jab tak k lerki ka Baap ya Dada lerki ko nikah ki ijazat nah day day.or yehi hokum ehtiyaat e wajib ki bina(base) per os sorat main bhi hay k jab larki khud mukhtar or baligh bhi ho. agar lerki kawari nah ho tu os k liay baap ya dada ki ijazat ki zororat nahi hay.(yahaan kawari nah honay say muraad sirif ye hay k aisi lerki jo talaaq yaafta ho ya baywah ho or oskay shohar nay oskay saath hambistari /jima(intercourse) kia ho or oskay kawaraypan ko khatam kia ho or oski iddta bhi khatam ho chuki ho.agar zinaa ya aisay hi kisi kaam say oska kawaraypan khatam hoa ho tu ye kawari hi kehlaay gi. isi terah agar baap ya dada os merd k saath osay shaadi kernay ki ijzat nah daitay hon jo sharan(Ismlam ki nazar main) or urfan(maa’aashay ki nazar main) os k brabari(equal) ka ho tu ijazat ki zarorat nahi, isi terah baap ya dada ki maujood nah hon ya kisi doosri wajah say ijazat laina mumkin hi nah ho or lerki ka nikah kerna bohat zarori ho tab hi baap ya dada say ijazat layna laazmi nahi hay. (Ref : Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2341,2342) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 4  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 62436

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      Question Asalam o alikum . Mahool me jis trah burae aam hai, aur appeal behad barh chuki hai, chahy mard ho ya aurat ! me 22 saal ka hu, meri ek girlfriend hai jiske sath me mutah krna chahta hu. mamla bht sangeen hai. hum aik dosry me kafi ziada ghul mil chuky hain, aur zehen pe aik hi cheez sawar rehti hai ! agr agar mutah na kiya to me bht jald gunah kar bethu ga ! Nikah nahi krskta qk auqaat nahi hai abhi, na hi ghar walay is baat ki ijazat de gain. aur larki ke walid se mutah ki ijazat bhi nahi le skty ! please help me out with this . as soon as possible .  
      Country  karachi - Pakistan
      Answer kawari(virgin) lerki os waqt tak nikah nahi ker sakti jab tak k lerki ka Baap ya Dada lerki ko nikah ki ijazat nah day day.or yehi hokum ehtiyaat e wajib ki bina(base) per os sorat main bhi hay k jab larki khud mukhtar or baligh bhi ho. agar lerki kawari nah ho tu os k liay baap ya dada ki ijazat ki zororat nahi hay.(yahaan kawari nah honay say muraad sirif ye hay k aisi lerki jo talaaq yaafta ho ya baywah ho or oskay shohar nay oskay saath hambistari /jima(intercourse) kia ho or oskay kawaraypan ko khatam kia ho or oski iddta bhi khatam ho chuki ho.agar zinaa ya aisay hi kisi kaam say oska kawaraypan khatam hoa ho tu ye kawari hi kehlaay gi. isi terah agar baap ya dada os merd k saath osay shaadi kernay ki ijzat nah daitay hon jo sharan(Ismlam ki nazar main) or urfan(maa’aashay ki nazar main) os k brabari(equal) ka ho tu ijazat ki zarorat nahi, isi terah baap ya dada ki maujood nah hon ya kisi doosri wajah say ijazat laina mumkin hi nah ho or lerki ka nikah kerna bohat zarori ho tab hi baap ya dada say ijazat layna laazmi nahi hay. (Ref : Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2341,2342 Jins e mukhalif sai is had tak dosti karna k mohabbat ki had tak pounch jay, ye jaiz nahi hai q k ghunnah mai hubtilla honay ka khof mojoud hay. (Ref : Nigah aur libas sawal # 106 pg # 69)  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 4  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 59562

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      Question PlzZ ans my question kai ak girl or girl shadi krsakty h ky nhe  
      Country  Lahore - Pakistan
      Answer Girl ka girl k sath shadi karna jaiz nahe hai.(Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31st edition, before maslah #2328 )Jo shaks shadi nah kerne ki wajah se haram kaam main mubtila hota ho os per wajib hay k shadi karay. (Ref:Ayatullah Sistani(d.b), Tauzihul masail, Maslah # 2407). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 1  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 59563

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      Question Apni umar se badi ladki se shadi karna kesa he. Guzarish he ke hadish ki roshni bh sath me bayan kare.  
      Country  Surat - India
      Answer Musalmaan mard apne se bare umar wali musalmaan aurat se nikah karsakta hai. (Ref : Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Minhaajus saliheen Part # 3, Maslah # 221). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 1  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 59565

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      Question saali k sath sex  
      Country  rwp - pakistan
      Answer if anybody could be nabi after me( hazrat Muhammad s.w.a) is umar bin khattab ( ref: kanzul umaal, jild 11,pg:581,hadees,32761,32763) but its hadees is lie(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 1  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 62417

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      Question kisi larki ka nikah krdena jabke wo pehle se kisi k nikah me ho.is ki shariyat me kia saza ha  
      Country  rawalpindi - pakistan
      Answer Shadi shuda aurat sai shadi krna haram hai, chahae daimi ho ya mutah ho. Or ye dosra nikah batil shumaar hoga.(Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2366) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 1  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 59570

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      Question cousin sister se shaadi karna kyo jayaj hai. Aisi kya vajeh hai?  
      Country  Mmbai - India
      Answer G hai cousin se shadi jaiz hai. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31st edition, maslah #2349 ) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 1  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 59572

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      Question salam sir mera sawal ya hai kay agar aik larka yaan larki shadi sa phaly humbisdar hon to kia un ka shadi krna islam quran mai mana to nae  
      Country  lahore - pakistan
      Answer Agar koe shaks kise aise aurat se zina kare jo be shoar ho mager iddat me na ho to ehteyate wajib ki bina per tuba karne se phele is se shadi nahe kar sakta(Orat ka toba krna zaruri hai us k bager nikah nahi hosakta albatta behtar hai dono tba kren) (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31st edition, maslah # 2364) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 1  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 59578

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      Question larky ny larki ko court marriage papper diye aur us larki ny kisi sy pochy bina court marriage papper per sign kar diye. Larki ko nhi pata k larky ny un pappers per sign kiye hai k nhi. Aur larki 10 din k bad america a gai aur abh us sy koi taluq nhi. Aur larki abh kisi ghar walo ki marzi sy shadi karna chahti hai. Kis is soorat mai nikkah ya court marriage ho jati hai ya nhi.  
      Country  Boston - America
      Answer G nahi ye nikah sahi nahi hai q k nikah ki chand aham sharten hen is hawale se faqt court k kisi kaghaz ya nikah name ki koi hesiat nahi hai.lehaza ap apne walden ki marzi se nikah kr sakti hen abhi.(ref : tauzeeh e ul masayl ayat ullaha sistani (d.b.) masla # 2334). Q k Kunwari(virgin) lerki os waqt tak nikah(daimi / mutah) nahi ker sakti jab tak k lerki ka wali (Baap ya Dada) lerki ko nikah ki ijazat na deden, or yehi hokum ehtiyaat e wajib ki bina(base) per os sorat main bhi hay k jab larki khud mukhtar or balig bhi ho. (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2341,2342) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 1  
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      Ques. ID 59585

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      Question Kya syed zadi gher syed se jo k shis h magar syed ni hai...shadi uo skti hai??  
      Country  lahore - pakistan
      Answer Syeda shia aurat ka nikah ghair syed shia mard k sath jaiz hai.. (Ref : Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Minhaajus saliheen Part # 3, Maslah # 221). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 1  
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      Ques. ID 60418

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      Question salam kia syed lrki ka rishta ksi or cast me krna jaiz he?  
      Country  thatta - pakistan
      Answer Syeda shia aurat ka nikah ghair syed shia merd k saath hosakta hay. (Ref : Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Minhaajus saliheen Part # 3, Maslah # 221). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 1  
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      Ques. ID 60438

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      Question assalamalikum janb mai ek bewa se nikha karna chata hu or meri umar us bewa se kam hai kay ye nikha jiz hoga  
      Country  dhanbad - india
      Answer G han jaiz hai nikah hosakta hai.(Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31st edition, maslah #2335 )(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 1  
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      Ques. ID 62491

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      Question Sir quraan me tmhaari biwi tmhaari kheti h jis taraf se chaho dakhil ho Lekin ek sahaba ne Allah ke nabi se pocha mene apni biwi ke saati piche she humbistari Ki Allah ke nabi ne mana kr dya or ye haraam Bhi he ab aap is baat par roshni daaliye aap kis cheez ke according bta rhe ho isko isko biwi Ki marzi ke upar depend he  
      Country  Delhi - India
      Answer Biwi k peechay k maqam(maqam e pakhana) main hambistari kerna biwi k raazi nah honay ki sorat main ethiyaat e wajib ki bina per haram hay, agar biwi raazi ho tu jaiz hay laikin shadeed makrooh hay.(Ref : Ayatullah Seestani(D.B) Al-masail e mutakhaba, maslah # 67) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye). Note: Quran faqat jaiz hone k baat hay, laikin is se ye baat sabit nahi hoti k shaded makhrooh nah ho, Q k shadeed makhrooh bhi bahar haal kerna jaiz tu hay. Or Hamaray nabi s.a.w.w makhrooh kaam kernay ko mana kia kerte thay. Q k makhrooh kaam kerna koe acha kaam tu nahi hay.  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid 1  
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      Ques. ID 60465

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      Question agar larka larki aik dosray ko kahain, lrka QURAN e PAK pe hath rkh k ALLAH PAK aur ALLAH PAK k RASOOL (SAW) ko hazir rkh k lrki se kahay k tm mujy qabool ho qabool ho qabool ho, aur lrki b asay he lrkay se kahay k tm mujy qabool ho qabool ho qabool ho,,, to kya un ka nikah ho jata hai???? please is ka jwab den,,, aur agar nikah ho jata hai to kya un ka hum bistr hona zruri hai???  
      Country  gujrat - pakistan
      Answer Nikah chahe daimi ho ya ghair daimi (yani muta) is main kawari(virgin) lerki os waqt tak nikah nahi ker sakti jab tak k lerki ka Baap ya Dada lerki ko nikah ki ijazat nah day day, aur jis jaga aurat k liye baab se ijazat lena zarori hai agar aurat ijazat na le to ehteyate wajib k bina per nikah batil hai (ref: sistani.org, urdu )Or Sahi nikah k bagair hambistri krna haram hai. q k wo zina ho jae ga aur zina gunah e kabeera mai shumar hota hai. (Ref : Minhaj us salaheen Ayat ullah sistani d.b. part # 1, masla # 30,eidition,2009) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 1  
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      Ques. ID 60475

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      Question salam mera sawal hai k kia koi shia larka kisi sunni larki se shadi karsaqta hai jab k larka larki dono k ma or bap dono razi nahi hain or na koi ghar waley  
      Country  karachi - pakistan
      Answer Shia mard ko agar apne shia mazhab k tabdeel ho jane ka khouf na ho to wo sunne larki se shadi kar sakta hai aur agar shia mazhab k tabdeel ho jane ka khouf ho to jaiz nahe hai (Ref : MinhajusSalaheen Ayatullah Sistani d.b. Part #3 , masla # 215,200,4th eidition) Kunwari(virgin) lerki os waqt tak nikah (daimi / mutah) nahi ker sakti jab tak k lerki ka wali (Baap ya Dada) lerki ko nikah ki ijazat na dede, or yehi hokum ehtiyaat e wajib ki bina (base) per os sorat main bhi hay k jab larki khud mukhtar or balig bhi ho, jis jagha aurat k liye baab ya dada se ijazat lena zarori hai agar wo ijazat liye beghair nikah karen to us ka nikah batil hai laikin agar baab baad me ijazat de de to nikah sahe ho jayegha.(Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2341,2342) )(ref: sistani.org,arbi)Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 4  
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      Ques. ID 60490

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      Question Sir my question is "agar larki dili tor p Nikah k liye Razi nhn hai,,us se nikah k wakt han zabr dasti karwai jati hai to kya aesa nikah jaiz ho ga,,,jb k wo apne parents ko b bta chuki hai k wo kisi aur se shadi karna chahti hai mgr us k parents just cast ki waja se accept nhn kar rae hn,,,,to kya nikah jaiz ho ga,,,," Aur sath hi ye refrence b chahiye k kun Jaiz nhn hai,,,us k ilawa Quran majeed mn b shyed kaha gya hai k bachon ki raza mandi hasil kar k nikah karo,,,so us ayat ka b refrence chahiye(Jazak Allah)  
      Country  Lahore - Pakistan
      Answer Nikah ki shriat mai sai hai k mard aur aurat donoo shadi ar razi hoon isi lie ye nikah sahi nahi hai(Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2335) Agar aurat aur mard ko ya in me se kise aik ko isdewaj (shadi) per majboor kiya jaay aur nikah k baad wo ijazat de den (yani razi hojaen) to nikah sahe hai, laikin behter ye hai k dobara nikah perha jaye.(Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31st edition, maslah #2335,2339 ) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 1  
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      Ques. ID 60494

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      Question kiya sasur sa nikha jaiz ha aur nikah ka liye kiya ahkamat ha  
      Country  lahore - Pakistan
      Answer Orat k liye us k shoar ka baab (susar) mehram hai aur us se shadi karna haraam hai.(Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31st edition, maslah #2354 ) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 1  
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      Ques. ID 60321

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      Question AOA... mera sawal ye hai k biwi ki sharmgah ko choom/choos/chaat skte hen or sharmgah se nikalne wala pani pi sakte hen or vegina ,anal suck kr skte hen or fingures in krskte hen??????  
      Country  Karachi - Pakistan
      Answer Shohar or biwi aik dosray ki sharamgaah ko monh(mouth) laga saktay hain,magar ye k sharamgaah say nikalnay wali ratoobat Halaq mian nah jaye .(Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Istiftaat I-2,I-15) Shohar or biwi k liye jaiz hai k wo aik dosray k jism k tamaam hisso(parts) ko jism k kisi bhi hissay(part) say choo(touch) saktay hain.ye choona chaahay lazzat k iraday say ho ya baghair lazzat k, jaiz hay.(ref: Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Minhaa jus saliheen,maslah #11) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid 1  
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      Ques. ID 62583

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      Question Assalamoalaikum kya koi musalman mard apne sage mamun ki biwi jo ke bewa ho usse nikah jayz ho sakta hai jabke mamun ki nutfe ka aulaad bhi unki bew ke pas ha quran aur hadith ki raushni me jawab ka muntazir hoon  
      Country  new delhi - india
      Answer Bewa mumani se os ki iddat ki mukammal kernay ke bad nikah kerna jaiz hay. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31st edition, Maslah # 2349 ). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 1  
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      Ques. ID 60327

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      Question Kia pahali biwi Ki ijzat kae baqar dusari shaadi jaiz ha r hamaarae knoon mai is Ki kia saza h  
      Country  lhr - pakistan
      Answer Mard k liye Aik se ziyada shadi karna riwayat ki roshni me mustahab hai. Aur dosere shadi karna makrooh nahe hai.(aur is surat me pehli biwi se ijazat lena bhi zarori nahi hai.(Ref : Mujtahid se pouchey gay sawalat part # 3, ques # 105, pg # 53)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 1  
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      Ques. ID 60328

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      Question Shoher ki mojodgi ma kise or se mohabbat ho jaye or taluqat ho Jayee tu nikha Qayeem rehta ha  
      Country  Karachi - Pakistan
      Answer Agar sohar dar aurat zina kray to ehtiyat e wajib ki bina par wo zani(jis k sath taluqat hon) par hamisha k liye haram ho jati hai lekin shohar par haram nhi hoti (or nahi nikah tootta hai) aur agar toba aur istegfar na karay aur apnay amal par baqi rahay (yani zina karti rahe) to behtr ye hai is ka shohar isay talaq day dai.(Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31st edition, maslah #2364 ) shoar aur biwi k ilawa kise aur tariqe se jinse lazzat hasil karna kerna gunah e kabira hay . .(Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30),  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 1  
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      Ques. ID 60362

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      Question Assalam o Alaikum..... Kia husband nikah k baad apni wife say un alfaaz k ko bolnay pay insist kar sakta hai jo nazeeba alfaaz hon mtlb body parts k name punjabi mein ganday hotay hain to kia unkay name lene pay insist karna husband ka jaiz hai ya nhi jabkay wife un alfaaz ka name lene say gareez kar rai hun ya hasitation feel karay plz tell me about this........  
      Country  lahore - pakistan
      Answer Biwi se khud fahash batain ki ja sakti hai. (Ref : Minhaj us salaheen Ayat ullah sistani d.b. part # 2, masla # 34) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid 1  
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      Ques. ID 60363

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      Question mara sawal ya ha k main ak larki ko pasand karta hoon 5,6 sal sy or us k sb ghr waly razi hain mary sath shadi karwany main par meri walda nhe maan rahi k wahan nhe karni tu kaya main apni marzi sy us k sath nikaha kar sakta hoon...  
      Country  taxila - pakistan
      Answer G han ap k liye apki walida se ijazat lena zaruri nahi hai q k maa kabhi bhi wali nahi ban sakti , or agr ap baligh hochuke hen to phir to wali (bap or dada) ki ijazat ki bhi zarurrt nahi hai albatta larki k liye apne wali se ijazat lena zaruri hai(Ref:Ayat-ul-Allah Sistani, Minhaj-ul-saliheen, Part#03 Pg#28, Masla#67-68) Surah e ahzaab ko hath say likh kar aik dabbay(box) mai band kar k apnay ghar may hifazat say rakh dain aur is surah ko har rooz aik bar parh kar dua mangain to hisb e manshah rishta distiab ho ga. (Ref : Naway e salaheen pg # 352) Wazifa batanay k sath aap ko aik fiqhi maslay ki taraf mutawajah kia jata hai: Jinse mukhalif sai is had tak dosti karna k mohabbat ki had tak pounch jay, ye jaiz nahi hai q k ghunnah mai hubtilla honay ka khof mojoud hay.(Ref : Nigah aur libas sawal # 106 pg # 69)  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 1  
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      Ques. ID 60399

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      Question Mera 1 yeh bhi sawal hai k kiya nikah k bad (rukhsati se phle)husband wife 1.2sre k samne a skte hain bat kr skte hr trh ki.?humare kuch ristedar rukhsati se phle husband wife k milne ko bura smjte hein is bare mai islam kya khta h?aur shohr k k chahne p phone aur msgs pr sex?aur rukhsati se phle sex krne k bary mai kya ehkam hain?  
      Country  karachi - pakistan
      Answer Nikah k baad aurat aur mard aik dosere se baat cheet karsakte hai aur aik dosere k saamne aasakte hai (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31st edition, maslah # 2330) Agar Riwaj yahi ho k jab tak rukhsati na hoti is waqt tak larki apnay aap ko apnay shohar ko jima(sex) k lie paish nahi karti, is tarah sai k ise aik zimne shart samjha jata ho to phir aurat k liye nikah k bad rukhsati se phelay shohar k liye apne aap ko paish karna wajib nahi hai, (Ref : Mujtahid se pochay gaey sawalaat, part # 4, sawaal # 149, pg # 72)  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid 4  
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      Ques. ID 55886

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      Question Kya main ek shadi suda aurat se Nikah kar sakte Jab ki aurat humse bahut pyar karti hai aur puritarah razi hai  
      Country  Bhadohi - India
      Answer Aisi aurat jo kisi shaks k nikah main ho, os se nikah karna haraam hai . (Ref: Ayatullah khoie Tauzeehul masail, maslah #2411 ) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 2  
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      Ques. ID 55881

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      Question kiya biwi say pechay(back side) sex karni chahey k na he  
      Country  peshawar - pakistan
      Answer shohar ka bivi se peechay(back side) sex karna ehteyaat e lazim ki bina per haraam hai. (Ref: Ayatullah khoie Tauzeehul masail 31st edition, maslah # 456) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid 2  
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      Ques. ID 55880

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      Question salam kiya ramzan k rato main biwi say sex karna chahey k nahe ? plz answer me  
      Country  peshawar - pakistan
      Answer Ramzaan ki raato me biwi se sex karsakte hai laikin waqt e namaaz e fajar se phele ghusl e janabat kar lena zarori hai. (Ref: Ayatullah khoie Tauzeehul masail, maslah # 1581,1628) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid 2  
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      Ques. ID 55867

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      Question Bv se gand me mubashert karna islam me jiez he ya nehe me ne suna he k islam me bv se gand me mubashrat kaney se neka toto ta he  
      Country  Peshawer - Kpk
      Answer Biwi k peechay (back) k maqam(maqam e pakhana) main jimaa(intercourse) krna biwi k raazi na honay ki sorat men ethiyaat-e-wajib ki bina pr haram hai,agr biwi razi ho tu jaiz hay lekin shadeed makrooh hay.(Ref: Ayatullah Seestani(D.B) Al-masail e mutakhaba, maslah # 67). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye). Note: Bivi se anal sex kerne se nikah nahi toot ta.  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid 1  
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      Ques. ID 55865

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      Question assalamoalikum mera sawal yeh hay k kya kisi talak yafta larki sy nikah kia jasakta hay wali ki ijazat k bagair ?  
      Country  melbourne - australia
      Answer Agar os talaq yaafta aurat k sath hambistari ki gae ho ho to os aurat ko dosri shaadi k lie baab ya dada ki ijaazat ki zarorat nahi hay. (Ref: Ayatullah khoie Tauzeehul masail 31st edition, maslah #2386 ). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 2  
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      Ques. ID 60802

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      Question a.A mera swal hai kya admi apni b.v ki back side sy sex kary to kya nikah ttooott jata hai?  
      Country  lahore - pakistan
      Answer Biwi k peechay k maqam(maqam e pakhana) main hambistari kerna biwi k raazi na hone ki sorat main ethiyaat e wajib ki bina per haram hay, agar biwi raazi ho tu jaiz hay laikin shadeed makrooh hay albatta nikah dono suraton men nahi tootta.( is se nikah nahe toota )(Ref : Ayatullah Seestani(D.B.) Al-masail e mutakhaba, maslah # 67). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid 4  
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      Ques. ID 60803

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      Question kya b.v sy sucking karwai ja sakti hai or kya admi b bov ki sharmgah may zuban dal kar sucking kar sakta hai plzzz telll me?  
      Country  lahore - pakistan
      Answer Shohar or biwi aik dosray ki sharamgaah ko monh (mouth) laga saktay hain, magar ye k sharamgaah say nikalnay wali ratoobat Halaq mian na jaye (Miyan biwi ek dusre se har qism ki lazzat hasil kr sakte hen albatta agr biwi razi na ho to phir peeche ki side se sex krna jaiz nahi hai)Ref : Ayat Ullah Sistani(d.b), Istiftaat I-2,I-15)  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid 4  
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      Ques. ID 60806

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      Question main aik larki ko bohat pasand kerta hoon aur main ne chup ker uss larki se nikah b ker liya hai but main chahta hoon k larki k ghar wale khud uss larki ki shaadi mujhse ker dein but larki k ghar wale maan nahi rahe koi aese wazifa batayein k larki k ghar waloon k dil mein reham aajaye aur woh aram se mujhse uss larki ka rishta kr dein  
      Country  Lahore - Pakistan
      Answer kawari(virgin) lerki os waqt tak nikah nahi ker sakti jab tak k lerki ka Baap ya Dada lerki ko nikah ki ijazat nah day day (Ref : Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2341,2342). Jis jagha per aurat k lie baab se ijazat lena zarori ho agar aurat baab se ijazat na le to nikah batil hai laikin agar aurat ka waalid baad me ijazat de de to nikah sahe hogha.(sistani.org,arbi,oliyahe aaq,que:1) Sahi nikah k bagair hambistri krna haram hai. q k wo zina ho jae ga aur zina gunah e kabeera mai shumar hota hai. (Ref : Minhaj us salaheen Ayat ullah sistani d.b. part # 1, masla # 30)Suraurh e ahzaab ko hath say likh kar aik dabbay(box) mai band kar k apnay ghar may hifazat say rakh dain aur is surah ko har rooz aik bar parh kar dua mangain to hisb e manshah rishta distiab ho ga. (Ref : Naway e salaheen pg # 352)  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 1  
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      Ques. ID 60826

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      Question meri age 17 hai or mere parents ne mere mangni krdi lekn m use bulkil pasnd nai krti mai kisi or ko pasnd krti hn or wo b mujhe pasnd krta hai .. lekn mjhy umeed hai khuda se k meri usi se hogi jise m pasnd krti hn is mamle mai mujhe kia krna chaiye ?? or kia islam mai zabrdasti ki shadi jaiz hai ??  
      Country  hyderabad - pakistan
      Answer G han islam men na zabardasti shadi jaiz hai or nahi islam pasand ki shadi se mana krta lekin is lam men is qism k taluqat jaiz nahi hai yani Jinse mukhalif se is had tak dosti karna k mohabbat ki had tak pounch jay, ye jaiz nahi hai q k ghunnah mai hubtilla honay ka khof mojoud hay. (Ref : Nigah aur libas sawal # 106 pg # 69)  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 1  
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      Ques. ID 60863

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      Question Assalamaliekum, Mai shadi shuda hoo, alhumdollilah 3 bacchey hai, mai ek talak shuda se nikah karna chahta hoo our wo bhi chahti hai, kya hum nikaah kar saktey hai, kya hum dono ko walidein ki razamandi ki zarrurat hai, ager wo razamand na huey tou hum nikaah kar saktey hai?. Kindly reply me on email as soon as possible.  
      Country  Nagpur. - India
      Answer Mard k lie Aik se ziyada shadi karna riwayat ki roshni me mustahab hai. Aur dosere shadi karna makro nahe hai. .(Ref : Mujtahid se pouchey gay sawalat part # 3, ques # 105, pg # 53) Agar lerki kawari na ho tu os k liay baap ya dada ki ijazat ki zororat nahi hay.(Albatta larke k liye baligh hone ke bad nikah k liye walden ki ijazat lena zaruri nahi hia)(yahaan kawari na hone ka matlab sirf ye hay k aisi lerki jo talaaq yaafta ho ya baywah ho or oskay shohar nay oskay saath hambistari /jima (intercourse) kia ho or oskay kawaraypan ko khatam kia ho or oski iddta bhi khatam ho chuki ho, (Ref : Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2341,2342).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 1  
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      Ques. ID 61073

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      Question Asslamalikum ;mera sawal he hai ki mera ek ristedaar larka hai takreeban 30 saal ka hoga Jo 2 larkiyo ka baap bhi hai, usne apni chacheri bahan ke saath jina kiya aur ab shaadi karne ja raha hai , jina jabardasti nahi kiya balki do no raaji ho kar do saal tak jina kiye.  
      Country  mumbai - india
      Answer Un aurton k sath jo insan ki mehram ho azdawj(shadi) haram hai maslan maa, behn, beti, phupi, khala, bhateji, bhanji, saas.(Ref : Tauzeeh Ayatullah sistani d.b. masla # 2349) Osay sachay dil se toba karni chahea. Parverdigar ne quran majeed me wada kia hai k wo toba karney waloo ki toba ko qabool karta he. Aisa hargis nahi ho sakhta k wo apne waday per amal na karay. (ref : website ayatullaha sistani d.b. ques # 1 , toba http://sistani.org/local.php?modules=nav&nid=5&cid=888 ) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 1  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 62534

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      Question meri kazan ha hm dono 1 dosre ko pasand krte hain hm dono ki age main 8 saal ka difreence ha but meri walda ne osko bachpan main feed dia hakya hm dono shadi kr sakte hain because hm 1 dosre ko pasand b krte hain plz tell me sir??  
      Country  kahuta - pakistan
      Answer Kisi bachhe ka apni maa k elawa kisi or orat ka doodh peene ki waja se khud us doodh pilane wali orat or isi tarh uski olad or rishtedaron se mehramiyat ka rishta qaaim hojata hai lekin us doodh pilane ki chand sharaai hen. 1. Doodh ki wo miqdar jo jo mehram banne ka sabab banti hai wo us orat k ek hi shohar ka doodh ho, 2. Bacha us doodh ki wo miqdar jo abhi bayan hogi use kisi beemari ki waja se QE(Ulti) na krde. 3. Bache ko wo orat is qdr doodh pilaye k uski haddiyan us doodh se mazboot hon or badan ka gosht bhi us se bane or agr is bat ka ilm na ho k is qadr doodh piya hai ya nahi to agr us bachhe ne ek din or ek rat ya 15 dafa pet bhar kr doodh piya ho to (rishta e mehramiyat qaaim hone k liye) kaafi hai, lekin agr is bat ka ilm ho k us ki haddiyan us se mazboot nahi hui hen or uska gosht bhi us se nahi bana halanke bache ne ek din or ek rat ya phir 15 dafa doodh piya ho to aysi surat men Ehtiyate wajib ka khayal rakhna zaaruri hai yani aysi halat mne shadi na ki jaye mehrmana nazar se bhi na dekha jaye, 4. Or us din rat men 24 k andar is orat k elawa kisi or ka doodh na piya ho. Bs in sharait k peshe nazar agr koi bacha kisi orat ka doodh piye to khud us orat or us orat ki olad is k mehram ban jaenge or mehram se nikah nahi hosakta. Albatta akhaththe peena ya alag waqt men peena aysi koi shart nahi hai. Lehaza agr apki cousin ne apki walida ka biyaan ki gae sharait k mutabiq doodh nah piya ho to is surat men wo apki na-mehram hi hai or ap us se shadi kr sakte hen. Or agar oper biyaan ki gae sharait k sath dhodh pia ho tu wo aap ki mehram hain or on se shadi nahi ki jasakti (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail 33 Edition, masla #2428, 2438).(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 1  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 62538

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      Question kia shadi k bad bv k hath se maqad se sperm nklwaa skte hen .  
      Country   islamabad - Pakistan
      Answer Biwi k peechay(back) ke maqam(maqam e pakhana) main jimaa(intercourse) krna biwi k raazi na honay ki sorat men ethiyaat-e-wajib ki bina pr haram hai,agr biwi razi ho tu jaiz hay lekin shadeed makrooh hay.(Ref: Ayatullah Seestani(D.B) Al-masail e mutakhaba, maslah # 67). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid 1  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 62554

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      Question Assalamo.....Kya koi musalman mard apne sage mamun ki bewa se nikah kar sakta hai mamun ke 3 aulad bhi hain  
      Country  bombay - india
      Answer Iddat mukammal honay k bad bewa mumani se nikah kerna jaiz hay. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31st edition, Maslah #2349 ) . (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 1  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 61178

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      Question Kya Nikah k Seeghy or mutta ik hi hai???  
      Country  karachi - pakistan
      Answer Mutta bhi nikah hi hai albatta is k seghe or muddat men faraq hota, Aam tor per jo nikah hota hai us men koi muddat moyin nahi ki jati isko daami nikah kehte hen, or jab kuch muddat moyin k liye nikah kiya jaye to is ko Gher-Daaimi nikah ya phir muttah kaha jata hai.(Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31st edition, maslah #2333,2334 ) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah
      Mujtahid 1  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 61184

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      Question Assalam-o-Alaikum... Sir mera ap s ye swal hai k kya apni zaat sy bahir shadi krna jiaz nae hai kya???  
      Country  Lahore - Pakistan
      Answer G han jaiz hai.(Ref: Ayat ul Allah Seetani db, Tozeeh ul Masaail, Maslah#2349(Allah apki tofeeqat men izafa frmaye)  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 1  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 60519

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      Question Husband mujhay ami k ghar chor gay hain or koi rabta nahi ha oab meray ghar walay kahtay hain main kula lay lo lakin main asa nahi cahati plz koi wazifa bata dain  
      Country  islamabad - pakistan
      Answer Surah e Yaseen ko ibtida se pharna shuroo karain, jab 1st mubeen tak ponhche to 41 martaba darj zeel ayat phar kar dua maangain, phir doosre din phir shuru se Sura e Yaseen ko shuro se pharye yahan tak ke 2nd mubeen tak ponhach jaain to 41 martaba us hi ayat ko phar ka dua maangain jis ko 1st din phara tha, or jab Sura e Yaseen main 7 martaba lafz e mobeen aaya hai to 7 rooz tak ye hi amal karain.41 martaba pharne wali ayaat : 1 – Sura e Taha (sura no 20)ayat no 39 is ayat ke baad ye dua pharni hai allah umma sakkir li ----------------(dash main apne husband ka naam lain, or phir Allah Qadir o Tawana se dua karain ke Wo ap ko un ke saath sada kush rakhe) (Ref : nawaa e Saleheen , pg # 49). Note apne shohar se kud contract kar ke un se wapis jane ki kuhaish zahir karain, or apni zindagi main ache se ache aklaal o kirdaar ko apnane ki koshish karain. (Ref : Nawadir ul Ahadees , jild # 1 , Topic # behtreen shaks ki nishaandahi , pg # 62 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid 1  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 60533

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      Question kya najaiz ladki se nikha jaiz hai?  
      Country  karachi - pakistan
      Answer G han jaiz hai.(Ref : Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail , edition # 1414 , maslah # 2335 , 2341 , 2342 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 1  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 60536

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      Question agar nikah nama mein haq meher mansion na ho mgr nikah may bola jay to islam kya kehta hy haq mehar k baray mai husband or wife k ly?  
      Country  lahore - pakistan
      Answer Nikah name main mehar ke hone o na-hone ki koi ehmiyat nahi hai, ye zoja ka haq hai chahe to muaaf kar de ya chahe to na kre. (Ref : Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail , edition # 31 , maslah # 2384 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Mahr(Dowry)
      Mujtahid 1  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 60591

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      Question asalam o alikum sir main ny ap sy puchna tha k 1st night kya biwi ko nutfa sy touch krna zarori ha matlb k condum sy ki ye bagar , kya condum k sath kr skty ha , ma ny puchna tha k condum k sath kry to kya jaiz ha r next day walima jaiz hoga k naio ya nutfa ko bia ksi chez k dena ha biwi ko phr jaiz hai walima . plz haddes ki roshi ma btana or book ka raf bi dna plllllllllz  
      Country  multan - pakistan
      Answer Wssalam o alykum, pehli raat ko jima karna zarori nahi, or valima ke sahi hone main jima ka hona shart nahi hai, or ager bivi razi na ho to ehtiyaat e wajib ke madd e nazar condum ka istamaal jaiz nahi hai is k elawa condum use krne men koi harj nahi hai. (aqa sistani jaded fiqhe masail ,masla # 465 , pg # 254) , (Ref : Minhaj us salaheen Ayat ullah sistani d.b. part # 3 masla # 4 , 388 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid 1  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 62355

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      Question Aoa i wana ask k agr shadi psnd ki na ho ghr walo k oresur ma akr ki gai ho or shohar bv ko touch nai krta pas nai jata usky tu kya aisi sorat ma wo gunahgar hy?  
      Country  lahore - pakistan
      Answer 1) Agar aurat aur mard ko ya in me se kise aik ko isdewaj (shadi) per majboor kiya jaay aur nikah k baad wo ijazat de de to nikah sahe hai.laikin behter ye hai k dobara nikah perha jaay . (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31st edition, maslah #2335,2339 ) 2)Shohar apni jawaan bivi say 4 mahinay say ziyada muddat(time period) k liay hambistari(intercourse) tark nahi kersakta. Except oski bivi khud 4 mahinay say ziyada muddat k liay hambistari tark kernay par raazi ho. (Ref: Tauzeehul masail,ayatollah Seestani,maslah #2382) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 1  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 62371

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      Question mai apni fuppi ki beti se bahot pyar karta hon or wo bhi mujhse bahot pyar karti hai or mere parents kehne hain ki meri or us ladki ki shadi nahi ho sakti kya aisa hota hai islam me kya mai apne fuppi ki beti se shadi nahi kar sakta please aap jaldi reply karen  
      Country  goa - india
      Answer Phophi ki beti namehram hay or is se shadi jaiz he. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Minhajus saliheen, part#3, maslah #90 ) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 1  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 62398

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      Question Salamwalekum my shaadi shuda hoo, meri love marriage huie my ab paisa kamane gulf ko aa gaya aur meri aurat mujhe bohut yaad ati jai, my majboor hoon, aur my phone par sex ki baat karta hoon meri biwi se kya ye Jaiz hai Islam me please give me answer quieckly  
      Country  srinagar - India
      Answer Shohar or bivi aik doosray fehesh baat(sexy) ker sakte hain. ( Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),minhajus saliheen,part#, maslah #5+11). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid 1  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 56670

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      Question mary husband ko bohat adadt hai mari sharamgah may finger dal kay raknay ki yaha tak kay wo 4 fingurs dai kar tv dakty hai  
      Country  karachi - pakistan
      Answer Shohar or biwi apas men har qism ki jinsi lazzat hasil kr sakte hen albatta agr biwi agr back side se sex krne per razi na ho to shohar k liye back side sex krna jaiz nahi hai.(Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Ayat ullaha Sistani d.b. Masla # 406 pg # 236, email rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b)+ e-mail rcvd from A.Sistani d.b, dated: Jan 20, 2012 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid 2  
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      Ques. ID 56690

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      Question A.o.A kya syed lrki ka nikah kisi or cast waly lrky sy ho skta h jb k lrky k gr waly razi ho or lrki k nhi pr phr b lrka lrki apni mrzi sy nikah kr ly to kya nikah jayz kya lrki apny husbnd k sth reh skti h gr walo ki mrzi k khilaf  
      Country  jhelum - Pakistan
      Answer Wssalam o alykum, ager larki ke walid ya dada nikah se razi na ho to nikah batil hai. Lekin agr wo razi hojaen to phir is syed larki ka nikah gher syed se jaiz hai.(Ref : Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2335 , 2341,2342 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 1  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 62365

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      Question Aoa. 2 saal phalay manay court marrige ke . 4 ghawa or 1 wakeel or 1 molvi sahib ke mojudgi may kiya mara nikkah jaiz hay....  
      Country  Lahore - Pakistan
      Answer 1)Nikah main sigah (nikah k bool) perhna zarori hai (chahay phone par ho ya samnay beth kar)aurat aur mard ka faqat razi hona aur isi terh nikah nama likhna ehtiyat e wajib ki bina par kafi nhi hai. Aqd e nikah ki kuch shrait hain jin mai sai kuch ye hain k:- 1). Ehtiyaat e wajib he nikah ka sigah sahih arabi me parha jaay,or agar khud merd or aurat sighah arbi main nah perh saktay hon tu arbi k alawa kisi dosri zaban main perh saktay hain or kisi ko vakil banana lazmi nahi hay. 2. sigha parhne wala aqal mand ho or agar apne lie perh raha ho to baligh hona bhi zurari he . 3. ye k merd or aurat or uska vakil sigha parhte waqt qasd e insha(nikah ka irada) rakhte hon. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2328+2335) 2)Kunwari(virgin) lerki os waqt tak nikah(daimi / mutah) nahi ker sakti jab tak k lerki ka Baap ya Dada lerki ko nikah ki ijazat nah day day.or yehi hokum ehtiyaat e wajib ki bina(base) per os sorat main bhi hay k jab larki khud mukhtar or balig bhi ho. agar lerki kawari nah ho tu os k liay baap ya dada ki ijazat ki zororat nahi hay.(yahaan kawari nah honay say muraad sirif ye hay k aisi lerki jo talaaq yaafta ho ya baywah ho or oskay shohar nay oskay saath hambistari /jima(intercourse) kia ho or os kay kawaray pan ko khatam kia ho or oski iddat bhi khatam ho chuki ho. agar zina ya aisay hi kisi kaam say oska kawarapan khatam hoa ho tu ye kawari hi kehlaay gi. isi terah agar baap ya dada os merd k sath osay shadi kernay ki ijzat nah daitay hon jo sharan(Islam ki nazar main) or urfan(mea’ashay ki nazar main) os k brabri(equal) ka ho tu ijazat ki zarorat nahi, isi terah baap ya dada maujood nah hon ya kisi doosri wajah say ijazat laina mumkin hi nah ho or lerki ka nikah kerna bohat zarori ho tab hi baap ya dada say ijazat laina lazmi nahi hay jis jagha aurat k lie baab ya dada se ijazat lena zarori hai agar wo ijazat lie beghair nikah kare to us ka nikah batil hai laikjn agar baab baad me ijazat de de to nikah sahe ho jaay gha. . (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2341,2342) )(ref: sistani.org,arbi, )Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 1  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 56714

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      Question mera sawaal ye hain ke kya Husband biwi ki Pechle shahramga(Ass) main Ungli kar sakta hain ya biwi Husband ke Pechle shahramga(Ass) main ungli kar sakta hai ta ke biwi se sex main maza hasil kary plz tafsil se jvb de or mere sawal ka jvb zaror de tannxxxx  
      Country  Quetta - pakistan
      Answer G han miyan biwi ek dusre se har qism ki lazzat hasil kr sakte hen albatta agr biwi razi na ho to uski pichhli sharamgah men dukhool nahi ke sakte.(Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Ayat ullaha Sistani d.b. Masla # 406 pg # 236, email rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b)+ e-mail rcvd from A.Sistani d.b, dated: Jan 20, 2012 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid 1  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 56732

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      Question Assalamalikum. Kya biwi ke saath. Oral sex kar sakte. Hai Aur unki sharamgah me ungli dalsakte hai  
      Country  HyderabAd - India
      Answer Wssalam o alykum, G han miyan biwi apas men har qism ki lazzat hasil kr sakte hen albatta agr biwi razi na ho to us se backside se sex krna haram hai.(Ref : Minhaj us salaheen Ayat ullah sistani d.b. part # 2, masla # 34) , (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Ayat ullaha Sistani d.b. Masla # 406 pg # 236 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid 4  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 56738

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      Question As salam un alaikum., Mera sawal hai k mai ek.shia syed ladki.s nikah krna chahta hu. Or kisi ko gawah ni bnaba chahta na kisi ki ijazat lena chahta hu.,qki mjhe darr h k mjhse zinakari na ho islie mai nikah krna chahta hu allah ko.gawah maan k ,to kya mai nikah kr skta hu.,kya ladki k baap ya dada ki ijazat zruri h ??  
      Country  lucknow - india
      Answer Wssalam o alykum, G han, baap ya dada ki ijazat zarori hai or ijazat k bger nikah jaiz nahi hai. (Ref : Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2341,2342 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 3  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 61232

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      Question Sallam, maira sawal ya hy k mairi shaadi ko 3 saal ho gaya hay mairi wife ko baby nahi ho raha hay, mairi wife chati hay k mai us ki sister say shaadi karlu laykin mai apni wife ko nahi chorna chata hu, koi haal baya mai kia karu? do behno say nikha ho saqta hay? shukria.  
      Country  Karachi - Pakistan
      Answer Agar koe shakhs kisi aurat se nikah kare tu chahae wo nikah daimi ho ya ghair daimi jab tak wo aurat is ki mankohah(bivi) hay oski behen k sath nikah nahi ker sakta. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2355 ) Agar koi darj zail asmae husna ko talab e aulad ki niyat sai 40 roz tk har namaz k baad bila-nagah 40 martba prhay to wo sahib e aulad ho ga. Asma e husna ye hain “ ﯿﺎﺍﻭﻞ ﯿﺎﺑﺎﺮﺉ ﯿﺎﻤﺻﻮﺮ ﯿﺎﺨﺎﻟﻕ ﯿﺎﻤﺑﺪﺉ ” (Ref : Naway e Salaheen pg # 401) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 1  
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      Ques. ID 56755

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      Question Assalam walekum mera sawal hai ki kya koi musalmaan ladki kisi Hindu ladke se sex kiya ho to kya vo ladki kisi musalmaan ladke se shadi kar sakti hai plzz jawab de dijye  
      Country  delhi - india
      Answer Wssalam o alykum, G hank r sakti hai. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2364 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 4  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 61225

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      Question Assalam-u-Alaikum... Qibla mera nikah ho chuka hai magar abhi shadi nahi hui aur meri wife apnay parents kay ghar hai. Kia is soorat mein apni bv kay sath sohbat kar sakta hoon. Aur agar aisa karta hoon to ye gunah consider ho ga ya nahi? Rehnumai farmaye. Allah ap ko sehat aur lambi zindagi ata karay. Ameen  
      Country  Lodhran, Punjab - Pakistan
      Answer Nikah ka baad mard aur aurat aik dosere per halaal ho jaate hai. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul beore masail 31st edition, maslah #2328 ) Agar Riwaj yahi ho k jab tak rukhsati nahe hoti is waqt tak larki apnay aap ko apnay sohar k0 (jima) k lie paish nahi karti, is tarah sai k ise aik zimne shart samja jata ho to phir aurat k lie nikah k bad rukhsati se phelay sohar k lie apne aap ko paish karna wajib nahi hai. (Ref : Mujtahid se pochay gaey sawalaat, part # 4, sawaal # 149, pg # 72). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid 4  
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      Ques. ID 61217

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      Question assala o alaikum meri beti syed he or uska rishta gher syed larke se aya hoa he larka bht namaazi parheez gaar he mola ka sacha a azadaar he us larke ki maa syed hen baap iraani hen gher syed me kia me apni beti ki shadi us larke se karsakti hun jaaiz he?? plzzz answer de dijie me apki taqlid me hun  
      Country  karachi - pakistan
      Answer syedah shia aurat ka nikah ghair syed shia mard k saath ho sakta hay (Ref : Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Minhaajus saliheen Part # 3, Maslah # 221). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 4  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 61213

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      Question Salam. jnab agr pehli b.v sy ijazat liey baghair aur apne khandan se chori dosri shadi karna jaiz hai?  
      Country  Layyah - Pakistan
      Answer Mard k lie aik se ziyada musalmaan aurat se shadi karna riwayat ki roshni me mustahab hai. Aur dosre shadi karna makrooh nahe hai. Aur phele biwi se ijaazat ki zarorat bhi nahe hai. (Ref : Mujtahid se pouchey gay sawalat part # 3, ques # 105, pg # 53) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 1  
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      Ques. ID 9791

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      Question mjy yeh puchna hai k kya kisi chat room my agr koi do frnd ik dusry ko yeh keh day k han kabool hai.i mean mazak my yeh kahy k han yeh rishta kabool hai tou kya nikaah ho jata hai?  
      Country  lahore - pakistan
      Answer G Nahi.(Ref : Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail , edition # 1414 , maslah # 2335 , 2341 , 2342 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid  
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      Ques. ID 9816

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      Question Mera Masla ye hai k main ek Hindu Larke ce peyar karta hun aur us ce shadi karna chahta hun magar mere mumy dady nahi man rahi hai aur me bahot pareshan hun. Khuda ke waste mere madad karo aur muje kuch wazaif batao main us larke ke bena nahi reh sakta  
      Country  delhi - india
      Answer Allah Taala ki di hoi Shariat e Muqaddasa main uske musalmaan hone se pehle us se shadi karna jaiz nahi hai.(Ref : aqa sistani,Jadeed faqhi masail , masala # 393 , eidition # 5 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid  
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      Ques. ID 9813

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      Question mei ak lrkay sa pyar krti hon hum na ak dinbeth k Allah or nabi pak ko apna gahwa bana k nikah kr lia. mene arbi mei pucha k mei tm ko khud py mehram krti hon us na kaha qabolto kia hmra nikah ho gaya?  
      Country  faisalabad - pakistan
      Answer Ager ap ke walid ya dada zinda hai or wo is shadi se razi nahi the to ye nikah sahi nahi hai. (Ref : Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2341 , 2342 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid  
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      Ques. ID 9825

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      Question AGAR LARKI KO SHAADI SE PEHLE MEHAR ADA KAR DIYA JAYE TO KYA US SE SHAADI SE PEHLE HUMBISTARI JAYEZ HAI.  
      Country  MUMBAI - India
      Answer G nahi nikah se pehle jaiz nahi. (Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30,eidition 1430 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 9883

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      Question mutth marna galat h.aur biwi ki sath phone sex kar sakte h??  
      Country  jaipur - india
      Answer Musht-zani (muth) haraam o guhnaah e kabeera main se hai. or bivi ke sath phone-sex kar sakte hain.(Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30,eidition 1430 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid my que.  
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      Ques. ID 9882

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      Question shadi ki pahli raat mai agar shauhar sohbat mai makam ho jata hai to kya uska walima jayez nahi hai  
      Country  lucknow - India
      Answer Is main koi harj nahi hai.(Ref : Kitab Islam aue Jinsiaat pg # 157 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 9874

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      Question as-salamualaikum..mere ye sawal hai ki biwi apne shohar ki penis ko munh me le skti hai ki nhi....ye sawal maine dawateislami.net pe poocha tha to unhone ise haram bataya hai...kya aap mere is sawal k jawab hadees k mutabiq batayege tafseer se plz mai apka shukr guzar rahunga  
      Country  Lucknow - Uttar pradesh
      Answer Wssalam o alykum, jaiz hai, lekin uuz e tanasul se nikalne wali ratobat ko pena haraam hai.(is liye miyan biwi apas men har qism ki lazzat hasil kr sakte hen)(Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Istiftaat I-2,I-15 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid  
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      Ques. ID 10014

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      Question Ya ali madad mera swal hai k agar shadi shuda larki k sath zinha kiya jaye to keya uski talaq ke bad us k sath nikha jaiz hai  
      Country  Hafizabad - Pakistan
      Answer Ehtiyaat e wajib ke madd e nazar jaiz nahi hai.(Ref : Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail , edition # 31 , maslah # 2367 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid Ayat ullah sistani sab  
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      Ques. ID 10094

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      Question Kia biwi ko barhana dekh sakte hain?  
      Country  Hyderabad - India
      Answer G han miyan biwi ek dusre k pure jism ko dekh sakte hen.(Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2400 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 61281

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      Question Mugh sy ak bhoat bra gunah ho gaya ha me bhoat pershan hu plz Sir me ny apni wife ki back side use ki h kia mera nikah tooth gaya h mughy kia krna chahyia Allah pak sy mughfrat ki dua h k mughy muf farmay me ap k answr ka muntazir hu  
      Country  karachi - pakistan
      Answer Ehtiyaat e lazim k taur per aurat ki pust ki janib se mujamiat (intercourse) ki janib se mujamiat haram hay khah wo haiz ho ya nah ho.(Ref : Ayatullah khoe(r.h) Tauze ul masael, maslah # 456. (Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid 2  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 61282

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      Question Assalamo alaikum....mujhe ye btaen k kya hm virgin ladki se mutta kr sakte hain...agr hm vigin ladki se muta kr len to koi gunah to nai hoga...mutta kis tarah se hoga..plz reply soon.  
      Country  Amroha - India
      Answer Wssalam o alykum, ager niche di gaae sharaait mojood hon to kanwari(virgin) lerki se muta kerna jaiz hai, 1 – ager larki kawari ho or us ke baap ya dada ya pardada zinda hon to ye is nikah se razi hon, 2 – mard o orat izdiwaaj per razi hon, 3 – jo siga phar raha ho zarori hai ke wo aaqil ho, or ager apne liye siga phar raha ho to balig hona bhi zarori hai, 4 – siga pharne wale ke nazdeek mard o orat muayaan hon , 5- ehtiyaat e wajib ki bina per nikha ka siga arabi main para jaae, 6 – mard o orat ya in ke wakeel jo siga phar rahe hon wo nikha ke sige ke zarye se mard o orat ke dermiyaan izdiwaaji rishte ko qaaim karne ki niyat rakhte hon. (Ref : Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail , edition # 1414 , maslah # 2335 , 2341 , 2342 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 4  
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      Ques. ID 61299

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      Question Aoa, i am a depression patient and have some psycho problems . My parents are saying me for marrying but i don't want to spoil life of any by marrying her. what islam says about that.what should i do for my sexual desire, getting away from sins.  
      Country  Karachi - Pakistan
      Answer Shadi karna un mustahabat mai sai hai jin ki islam mai bohat ziada takeed ki gae hai is lie Rasool e Akram s.a.w.w. nai farmaya hai k “Jo shakhs shadi kar leta hai wo apna adha deen bacha leta hai.” is k alawa aur bhi be-shumar hadees moujood hain jin mai shadi karnay ki takeed ki gae hai laikin Jo shakhs shadi na krnay ki wajah sai fail e haram mai mubtila hota ho os par shadi krna wajib hai. (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Ayat ullaha Sistani d.b. Masla # 385 pg # 231) (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2407)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 4  
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      Ques. ID 56213

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      Question mera sawal ye hy keh haiz ka khun husband dekh sakta hy kia ????? plzzzz mujhe jaldi ans de dein  
      Country   - pakistan
      Answer koi harj nahi hai (is aytbaar se k miyan biwi dono ek dusre se har qism lazzart hasil kr sakte hen or ek dusre ko dekh sakte hen). (Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30,eidition 1430 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid 1  
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      Ques. ID 56217

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      Question Agar shohar Bv ko ignore kray aur Bv k baar bar bulanayat per b usk qareeb na aye,even mahinay say zada sex k liye b na aye tou Bv ko kya krna chahiye aur shohar ko gunnah hay ya nai  
      Country  islamabad - pakistan
      Answer Jab jab ap apne shohar ke saamne aain to ya waliyo or raat ko bawazoo ho kar bistar per leetne se neend aane tak ya manioo (“oo” ka arabi talaffuz arabi ke een se karain) ka wird kijye. (Ref : nawaa e saleheen , pg # 292 , 298 , ALLAH TAALA hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid 4  
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      Ques. ID 56224

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      Question If a boys sucks breasts of a girl but no milk comes out can they marry eachother later?  
      Country  srinagar - India
      Answer Yes he can, but this act is haraam and guhnaah e kabeera so do toba.(Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30,eidition 1430) , (Ref : Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail , edition # 31 , maslah # 2364 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 1  
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      Ques. ID 56230

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      Question bivi ko pyar karte waqt kuch word bolna jaise chodna ,land ,chut. kya yeh sahi hai ya nhi. pls rely.  
      Country  Bhadohi - India
      Answer Manqolah Hadees main Imaam Jaffer o Sadiq (a.s) se marvi hai ke Ager jima ke waqt baat ki jaae to khoof hai ke bacha goonga peda ho.(or riwayat k mutabiq walden ki bolchal ka asar hone wale bachhe per hota hai)(Ref : tehzib ul islaam , baab # 4 , topic # mubashirat ke aadaab , pg # 130 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid 1  
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      Ques. ID 56236

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      Question Assalamu alaikum mera sawal ye hai ke mujhe Apni Sagi Maami ( maamu's wife) ki sister se pyar ho gaya hai kya islam is rishte me shadi karne ka ijazat deta hai..?  
      Country  delhi - india
      Answer Wssalam o alykum,Agr apki mami ki behn kisi aytbar se apki mehram na ban rahi hon to phir apk liye shadi krna jaiz hoga.(Ref : Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail , edition # 31 , maslah # 2349 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 1  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 56274

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      Question Aslam janab maine bahut se question ask kiya par koi question ka jawab nahi mila Mera question hai kya biwi ko bathroom main Sohbat Karna jayej hai ya nahi Agar biwi raaji Ho to Janab ye important quuestion please mere mail par iska jawab jarur bheje Apke jawab ka hame behat intajaar rahega Email ID mnnafisahmad@gmail.com  
      Country  lucknow - india
      Answer Wssalam o alykum,G han jaiz hai. (Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30,eidition 1430 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid 2  
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      Ques. ID 61774

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      Question sir mene apni wife k sath piche se sex kar liya hai kya is ki mafi hai  
      Country  karachi - pakistan
      Answer Biwi k peechay(back) ke maqam(maqam e pakhana) main jimaa(intercourse) krna biwi k raazi na honay ki sorat men ethiyaat-e-wajib ki bina pr haram hai,agr biwi razi ho tu jaiz hay lekin shadeed makrooh hay.(Ref: Ayatullah Seestani(D.B) Al-masail e mutakhaba, maslah # 67). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid 2  
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      Ques. ID 57894

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      Question agr me apne piyar k sath bhag jao maa baap se bina poche nikah kro molvi mera nikah pare to mera nikah hoga maa bap k bina  
      Country  makkah - saudia
      Answer G nahi kunwari larki ka wali(bap ya dada) ki ijazat k bger nikah nahi hosakta.(Ref : Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail , edition # 1414 , maslah # 2335 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 1  
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      Ques. ID 14668

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      Question I am a shia syed girl. Can i marry with sunni syed boy His name is Nadir Hasan Rizvi  
      Country  Delhi - India
      Answer It is lawful for a shia boy to marry with non-shia girl except nasibi(enemy of 12 imam A.S), like this, it is lawful for a shia girl to marry with non-shia boy except nasibi but with abominate(makhrooh), But when shia girl or shia boy feels fear of astray from deen then this marry will be unlawful. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Minhajus saliheen, part#3, maslah #215 ). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 4  
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      Ques. ID 61805

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      Question BE PARDA AOURAT SE NIKAH JAIZ HA? USE PARHANA DAKHA HO TO KIYA KARA JAY?  
      Country  KARACHI - PAKISTAN
      Answer Be parda ourat se nikah jaiz ha.Laikin Mard ko chaye ke aisi ourat se shadi kare jo pak daman, shareef-ul-asl or naik ho or dunyawi or okhravi mu’amilaat me os ki madadgar sabit ho.(Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Masla # 386 pg # 232). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 1  
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      Ques. ID 61855

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      Question Me shiya nahi hu me sunni but agar aap mujhe bata sakte he ki feb me qamar dar aqrab me nikaah kyo nahi kar sakte he soo plzzz its important.  
      Country  indore - india
      Answer 1)Imam Jafer Sadiq a.s se manqool ha k jo sakhs qamar-dar-aqrab me nikah kare ga wo is nikah main khair nahi pay ga. (Ref: Tehzeeb-ul-islam, pg # 127) 2)Qamar dar aqrab main nikah kerna makhrooh hay. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Minhajus saliheen, part#3, maslah #3 ). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye) Note: is din nikah kerna faqat makhrooh hay haram ya najaiz nahi.  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 4  
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      Ques. ID 61825

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      Question Asslam ali kum sir mera ye swal he k mere parents mere zbrdsti shadi krwana chathi he uno ne mje bht mjbor kr dya he ab koi rasta nh mje shadi krne he huge lkn me kbi apne husband k hq pore nh kr pauge plz mje btae mje kia krna chaiye agr parents k hq nbate hu to husband k hq me pore nh hu pauge plz help me  
      Country  Badin - Pakistan
      Answer 1)Jab bhi waaledain ki taraf se koi hukum ya rok tok mohabbat ki wajah se ho aur os ki mukhalafat se onhein azeeyat hoti ho to aulaad ke liay on ki mukhalafat karna haraam hai.(Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31st edition, Maslah # 1387 ) 2)Jis aurat ka daimi nikah ho jay is k lie haram he k sohar ki ijazat k begair ghar se bahir nikle chahae is ka nikalna sohar k haq k manafi nab hi ho. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31st edition, maslah # 2376) 3)Bivi k liay zarori(wajib) hay k jab bhi shohar os say jinsi lazzat(sex) hasil kerna chahay tu oski khahish pori karay or shar’e uzr(any Islamic reson,i.e:in periods) k baghair shohar ko hambistari say nah rokay. (Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2376). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye) Note: Lihaza munasib yehi ha ke waldain ko pyar muhabbat se apni baat pe razi kiya jay or koi aisa kaam na kiya jay jo unki azyat ki waja banay.  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 1  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 61817

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      Question Agar koi larki pregnant ho or jis ka bacha ho us larkey se nikah kr le to kya is halat men nikah ho jata ha?  
      Country   -
      Answer 1)Agar koe shaks kisi aisi bay shohar aurat k sath zina kare jo iddat main nah ho to ehtiyat e wajib ki bina wo shaks is(aurat) k tauba kerne se pehle is se shadi nahi ker sakta.(Ref:Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31th edition,maslah #2364) 2) Ehtiyaat e mustahab ye hay k agar koe shaks zina kaar aurat se jis se khud os ne ya kisi doosre ne monh kala kia ho( zina kia ho) shadi kerna chahay tu haiz aane ka sabr kare or haiz aane k baad os k sath shadi kerle. (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Tauzee hul masail, maslah #2364) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 1  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 61418

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      Question kya hindu ldka muslim ldki se saadi kr sakta hai?to kya kya jroori hai plz btao? ldki b raazi h?  
      Country  chandigarh - india
      Answer Musalman aurat ka nikah kafir(maslan Hindo) mard se nahi ho sakta . (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31st edition, maslah # 2362) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye). Note: agar lerka musalman ho jay tu musalman lerki se nikah ho sakta hay.  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 1  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 61437

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      Question Assalam-O-Alikum mera sawal ye hai ke mera nikah mere khala zaat bhai ki beti se ho sakta hai ????  
      Country  karachi - pakistan
      Answer khala zaat bhai ki beti se nikah jaiz hai. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31st edition, maslah #2349 ) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 1  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 61439

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      Question Mera sawal h ke ager mere mamu ki joh saali h kia un ke sath mera nikal jaiz hai  
      Country  Rahim Yar Khan - Pakistan
      Answer Maamo ki saali se nikah jaiz hai. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31st edition, maslah # 2349,2354,2355) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 1  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 61456

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      Question A.o.a mera sawal ye hai k m ek larkai ko bht pyar karti hn m Nai apnay ghar walo se chup k nikah Karelia h tou kya mera nikah jaiz h??? Aur hum logo ka bht jhagra hota hai ab ek bar mere shohar nai mjy gussa m mjy bola m tumhai talaaq daita hun sirf ek br bola call pa m Nai ye alfaz suntai he call katdi phr unho Nazi my shemafi mangi  
      Country  karachi - pakistan
      Answer 1)Nikah main sigah (nikah k bool) perhna zarori hai (chahay phone par ho ya samnay beth kar)aurat aur mard ka faqat razi hona aur isi terh nikah nama likhna ehtiyat e wajib ki bina par kafi nhi hai. Aqd e nikah ki kuch shrait hain jin mai sai kuch ye hain k:- 1). Ehtiyaat e wajib he nikah ka sigah sahih arabi me parha jaay,or agar khud merd or aurat sighah arbi main nah perh saktay hon tu arbi k alawa kisi dosri zaban main perh saktay hain or kisi ko vakil banana lazmi nahi hay. 2. sigha parhne wala aqal mand ho or agar apne lie perh raha ho to baligh hona bhi zurari he . 3. ye k merd or aurat or uska vakil sigha parhte waqt qasd e insha(nikah ka irada) rakhte hon. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2328+2335) 2)Kunwari(virgin) lerki os waqt tak nikah(daimi / mutah) nahi ker sakti jab tak k lerki ka Baap ya Dada lerki ko nikah ki ijazat nah day day.or yehi hokum ehtiyaat e wajib ki bina(base) per os sorat main bhi hay k jab larki khud mukhtar or balig bhi ho. agar lerki kawari nah ho tu os k liay baap ya dada ki ijazat ki zororat nahi hay.(yahaan kawari nah honay say muraad sirif ye hay k aisi lerki jo talaaq yaafta ho ya baywah ho or oskay shohar nay oskay saath hambistari /jima(intercourse) kia ho or os kay kawaray pan ko khatam kia ho or oski iddat bhi khatam ho chuki ho. agar zina ya aisay hi kisi kaam say oska kawarapan khatam hoa ho tu ye kawari hi kehlaay gi. isi terah agar baap ya dada os merd k sath osay shadi kernay ki ijzat nah daitay hon jo sharan(Islam ki nazar main) or urfan(mea’ashay ki nazar main) os k brabri(equal) ka ho tu ijazat ki zarorat nahi, isi terah baap ya dada maujood nah hon ya kisi doosri wajah say ijazat laina mumkin hi nah ho or lerki ka nikah kerna bohat zarori ho tab hi baap ya dada say ijazat laina lazmi nahi hay jis jagha aurat k lie baab ya dada se ijazat lena zarori hai agar wo ijazat lie beghair nikah kare to us ka nikah batil hai laikjn agar baab baad me ijazat de de to nikah sahe ho jaay gha. . (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2341,2342) )(ref: sistani.org,arbi, )Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 1  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 61488

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      Question Salam, Agha Sahib, sb sy pehly ham Rab e Kareem sy Doa Goo hy k apko iss Azeem kam k krny pr ajr e Azeem Ata Farmayee. Ameen. Molana sahib mera ak question hy kindly jawab jald sy jald send kr dena ap ki mehrbani hoo gii ta ham islam pr amal pera hoo sky. Agha Sahib mera swal ye hy k kia ak insan jis ka nikah hoo chuka hoo magr abi Rukhsti na howi ho matlb abi Shadi na howi hoo aur us ki wife abi apny Parents k gaar ho to kia woo walden parents sy chup kr rat ko ya kisi bi waqt donoo mill skty hy maa baap ko dhoka dy kr ku k abi hamry moshara to uny milny ki ijezaat ni deta ku k abi un ki shadi ni howi just nikah howa hy ? kindly jawab zaroor de dy jald sy jald. kia agr wo donoo chup kr milly aur just kiss hug etc kry to koi gunha to ni hy ku k un k parents to abi ye bardasht ni kry gy naa ? plz give me the answer with detail. Allah paak apki Tofeiqaat mein Izafa farmayee ameeen.  
      Country  Lahore - Pakistan
      Answer 1)Sigah nikah k zarie mard aurat per aur aurat mard per halal ho jate hai(yani mian biwi wale talukat qaim ker sakte hai) (Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) before Masla # 2328) 2)Agar riwaj yehi ho k jab tak rukhsati nahi hoti is waqt tak larki apnay aap ko apne sohar k lie pash nahi karti is tara se k ise aik zimne sart samja jata ho to phir aurat k laye nikah k baad rukhsati se phele shohar k lie apnay aap ko pesh karna wajib nahi hai.(Ref : Mujtahid se pochay gaey sawalaat, part # 4, sawaal # 149, pg # 72) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid 4  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 61489

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      Question As salam o alikum mera sawal yeh ha kay mein 22 age ma ek larkay se bat krti thi or hum interestd thy,hum fone pe bat kar rahy thy ek book rakhi thi mere pass jo Kay ab muje nhi mil rahi, us book ma likha tha ky agar larki larka yeh parhle unka nikkh hojaega, mein ne wo qurani ayat parhli or usko bhi parha di 3 dafa or phir yeh kam kar kay mein bhool gae kuin kay ma ne yeh bat serious nhi li thi or us larkay ne bola bhi kay waqi nikkah hogaya ha per ma ne serious nhi liya.Ab bataen humhara nikkah hogya yeh nhi? Mera kuch months phele nikkah hoa ha proper moulana ne sejhe parhe signture hoye ha mere father ki razamandi se wo koi or ha. Muje achanak yeh bat yad agae kay me ne aisa kara tha Ab samjh nhi araha kay konsa nikkh h konsa nhi Mujhe as ghalati se bahar nikalne ma madad kijiye.  
      Country  Karachi - Pakistan
      Answer Nikah faqat irade ya dua perhne se nahi ho jata balkeh o ski khuch sharait hain jo ye hain: 1)Nikah chahay daimi ho ya ghair daimi(yani muta) is main seeghah (nikah k bool) perhna zarori hay.aurat or merd ka faqat raazi hona kafi nahi, or isi terah (nikah naama) likhna ehtiyaat e wajib ki bina per kaafi nahi hay. Aqd e nikah ki khuch shara,it hain jin me se khuch ye hain k:- 1)Ehtiyaat e wajib he nikah ka seeghah sahih arabi me parha jaay,or agar khud merd or aurat sighah arabi main nah perh saktay hon tu arbi k Alawa kisi dosri zaban main perh saktay hain or kisi ko vakil banana laazimi nahi hay. 2) sigha parhne wala aqal-mand ho or agar apne lie perh raha ho to baligh hona bhi zurari hai . 3)Merd or aurat or uska vakil sigha parhte waqt qasd e insha(nikah ka irada ) rakhte hon. (ref : tauzeeh e ul masayl ayat ullaha sistani (d.b.) masla # 2328+2335) Agar merd or aurat khud ghair daimi nikah(muta) ka seegah perhna chahain to, nikah ki muddat aur meher taay karney k baad pehlay aurat kahay k (زوجتک نفسی فی المدۃ المعلومۃ علی المھر المعلوم)(Zauwajtoka nafsee fil muddatil ma’loomati alal mahril ma’loom) Or os k baad merd furan kahay (قبلت)(qabilt) tu nikah ho jaay ga. (ref : tauzeeh e ul masayl ayat ullaha sistani (d.b.) masla # 2334).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 4  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 61490

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      Question kya bibi ka chuchi aur chut peene se nikah toot jata hai  
      Country  gujrat - india
      Answer Shohar or biwi aik dosray ki sharamgaah ko monh(mouth) laga saktay hain,magar ye k sharamgaah say nikalnay wali ratoobat Halaq mian nah jaay.Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Istiftaat I-2,I-15) 2)Shohar biwi ki breast suck(choos) ker sakta hay,leikin agar shohar biwi ke breast ko suck karey aur moo mai doodh aa jaye, toh ehtiyaat wajib ye hay k biwi ka doodh nah piaya jaay(yaani halaq say neechay nah utara jaay.)(Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), E-Mail from Answers@najaf.org).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid 1  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 61494

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      Question Salam.. mera sawal yi ha ki ma aik larky si muta karna chahta ho likin us ny 2 bar sex kia howa ha already apny boyfriend ki sath. isky liya usky father se ijazat liny zarori ha ya nahi... likin ijazat lina bhot mushkil baat ha.... ha aur larky kamaty be ha (job karty ha ) larky ahli sunnat si talooq rakty ha.plz bht jaldi reply dy.... thanks  
      Country  jakarta - Indonesia
      Answer Kunwari(virgin) lerki os waqt tak nikah(daimi / mutah) nahi ker sakti jab tak k lerki ka Baap ya Dada lerki ko nikah ki ijazat nah day day.or yehi hokum ehtiyaat e wajib ki bina(base) per os sorat main bhi hay k jab larki khud mukhtar or balig bhi ho. agar lerki kawari nah ho tu os k liay baap ya dada ki ijazat ki zororat nahi hay.(yahaan kawari nah honay say muraad sirif ye hay k aisi lerki jo talaaq yaafta ho ya baywah ho or oskay shohar nay oskay saath hambistari /jima(intercourse) kia ho or os kay kawaray pan ko khatam kia ho or oski iddat bhi khatam ho chuki ho. agar zina ya aisay hi kisi kaam say oska kawarapan khatam hoa ho tu ye kawari hi kehlaay gi. isi terah agar baap ya dada os merd k sath osay shadi kernay ki ijzat nah daitay hon jo sharan(Islam ki nazar main) or urfan(mea’ashay ki nazar main) os k brabri(equal) ka ho tu ijazat ki zarorat nahi, isi terah baap ya dada maujood nah hon ya kisi doosri wajah say ijazat laina mumkin hi nah ho or lerki ka nikah kerna bohat zarori ho tab hi baap ya dada say ijazat laina lazmi nahi hay jis jagha aurat k lie baab ya dada se ijazat lena zarori hai agar wo ijazat lie beghair nikah kare to us ka nikah batil hai laikjn agar baab baad me ijazat de de to nikah sahe ho jaay gha. . (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2341,2342) )(ref: sistani.org,arbi, )  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 4  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 61510

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      Question mje pochna ha k meri bari bahan ki 2 betia ha or uske husband ki death hogai ha uski idat k bad uske or mere beach sex hua ha hala k ye galat ha but hogya ab kia koi tarika ha jis se mara us se nikkah jaiz ho jae plz jawab zaroor di jiye ga bcz wo pregnet ho gai or mje smjh nii aa raha k ma kia karo wo b bht tension ma ha urgent masla ka hal batye ga or toba ka tarika b  
      Country  lahore - pakistan
      Answer Insaan ki behan us ki mehram hoti hai aur us k sath shadi karna jaiz nahi hay. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31st edition, maslah #2349 ) Zina krna gunah e kabeera hai . (Ref : Minhaj us salaheen Ayat ullah sistani d.b. part # 1, masla # 30) shoar aur biwi k ilawa kise aur tariqe se jinse lazzat hasil karna kerna gunah e kabira hay . .(Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30), Jo shaks shadi na hone ki waja se fale haraam me mubtela hota ho is per wajib ha k shadi kar le.(Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2407) Jis insaan se ghuna hoya ho wo Sub se pehlay shermindagi ka ehsaas karain or Allah se maghfirat talab karain or khud se ehed or wada karain k is gunah ko dobara anjaam nahi dain gay, or hameshah yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko daikh raha hay, or is gunah ko anjaam day ker aap shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na-fermani ker rahay hain.aap koshish karain k khuch mufeed kamo main khud ko masroof ker lain jaisay sport, perhai waghaira, or har os cheez se bachain jo aap ki jinsi khahish ko ubharay ya baydaar karain. Agar aap khud par qabo nah paa saktay hoon to roza rakhain q k roza ghunahoo k muqabilay mai dhal ka kaam karta hai. (E-mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: Sep 27, 2010). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 1  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 60717

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      Question kya shadi ki pahli rat ko orat or mard ko apas my mubashrat karna zarori ha?  
      Country  Gujranwala - pakistan
      Answer Shadi k pehli raat hambistari kerna wajib nahi hay. (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), email rcvd) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid 1  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 60757

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      Question Assalamo alikum sir. Sir agr kese ke mangne howe ho or larke ka gar say rohsate na howe ho or wo ph0ne pe ek dosary say baton mai laraye ho gaie o 3 bar talaq de mbile pe to kaia ye talaq h0 gaie. Or agr ho gaie to sa ka saza kaia hai or sa ka g0naha ka magfi kayse mangne chahe plz sir tafseal say batayen.  
      Country  swabi - pakistan
      Answer Mangi kerne se nikah nahi ho jata is liay talaq kehne se talaq nahi hogi, talaq nikah k baad kehna durust hoti hay os se pehle nahi. (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Tauzee hul masail, maslah# 2462 to 2464 & pg#460) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 1  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 11446

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      Question a.s. Me ek ladki ko chahta hu mene uske sath nikah krliya h, hmare nikah ke bare me sirf 4 log jante he, hum dono or hamare 2 dost, jinke samne humne nikah kiya tha. Nikah me humne phle apne ap us ldki se ijajt li or usne mere nikah me ane ki ijazt dedi or fir humne usko nikah me rkhna kabool kr liya. Bakayda is bat ko hmare dono dosto ne hum dono k same sari bato ko suna bi or wo nikah k gawah h. aor na hamare ghr wale, aor na ladki k ghr wale hamare nikah k bare me jante h. aor hum dono insah allha ekk sath jindagi gujarne ka irada bi kiya h. aor hum dono k ghr wale ek am tarike se hamai vidai kr de iski dua krte he. chahte h ki hmare gh walo ko pta na chale aor hamara bat krna bi jayiz ho jaye, Kya hum is nika ke jariye jo bate krte he ye gunah to nai he?  
      Country  lucknow - india
      Answer 1)Nikah chahay daimi ho ya ghair daimi(yani muta) is main seeghah (nikah k bool) perhna zarori hay.aurat or merd ka faqat raazi hona kafi nahi, or isi terah (nikah naama) likhna ehtiyaat e wajib ki bina per kaafi nahi hay. Aqd e nikah ki khuch shara,it hain jin me se khuch ye hain k:- 1)Ehtiyaat e wajib he nikah ka seeghah sahih arabi me parha jaay,or agar khud merd or aurat sighah arabi main nah perh saktay hon tu arbi k Alawa kisi dosri zaban main perh saktay hain or kisi ko vakil banana laazimi nahi hay. 2) sigha parhne wala aqal-mand ho or agar apne lie perh raha ho to baligh hona bhi zurari hai . 3)Merd or aurat or uska vakil sigha parhte waqt qasd e insha(nikah ka irada ) rakhte hon. (ref : tauzeeh e ul masayl ayat ullaha sistani (d.b.) masla # 2328+2335) Agar merd or aurat khud ghair daimi nikah(muta) ka seegah perhna chahain to, nikah ki muddat aur meher taay karney k baad pehlay aurat kahay k (زوجتک نفسی فی المدۃ المعلومۃ علی المھر المعلوم)(Zauwajtoka nafsee fil muddatil ma,loomati alal mahril ma,loom) Or os k baad merd furan kahay (قبلت)(qabilt) tu nikah ho jaay ga. (ref : tauzeeh e ul masayl ayat ullaha sistani (d.b.) masla # 2334). 2) kawari(virgin) lerki os waqt tak nikah nahi ker sakti jab tak k lerki ka Baap ya Dada lerki ko nikah ki ijazat nah day day.or yehi hokum ehtiyaat e wajib ki bina(base) per os sorat main bhi hay k jab larki khud mukhtar or baligh bhi ho. agar lerki kawari nah ho tu os k liay baap ya dada ki ijazat ki zororat nahi hay.(yahaan kawari nah honay say muraad sirif ye hay k aisi lerki jo talaaq yaafta ho ya baywah ho or oskay shohar nay oskay saath hambistari /jima(intercourse) kia ho or oskay kawaraypan ko khatam kia ho or oski iddta bhi khatam ho chuki ho.agar zinaa ya aisay hi kisi kaam say oska kawaraypan khatam hoa ho tu ye kawari hi kehlaay gi. isi terah agar baap ya dada os merd k saath osay shaadi kernay ki ijzat nah daitay hon jo sharan(Ismlam ki nazar main) or urfan(maa,aashay ki nazar main) os k brabari(equal) ka ho tu ijazat ki zarorat nahi, isi terah baap ya dada ki maujood nah hon ya kisi doosri wajah say ijazat laina mumkin hi nah ho or lerki ka nikah kerna bohat zarori ho tab hi baap ya dada say ijazat layna laazmi nahi hay. (Ref : Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2341,2342).( aur jagha aurat k lie baab se ijazat lena zarori hai agar aurat ijazat na le to ehteyate wajib k bina per nikah batil hai( ref: sistani.org, urdu ) per jo kohe Shi nikah k bagair hambistri krna haram hai. q k wo zina ho jae ga aur zina gunah e kabeera mai shumar hota hai. (Ref : Minhaj us salaheen Ayat ullah sistani d.b. part # 1, masla # 30,eidition,2009) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid shadi  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 11444

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      Question i have done mutta with a virgin girl without her fathers permission it is a sin?and what is its kafaaraa?  
      Country  lahore - pakistan
      Answer kawari(virgin) lerki os waqt tak nikah nahi ker sakti jab tak k lerki ka Baap ya Dada lerki ko nikah ki ijazat nah day day.or yehi hokum ehtiyaat e wajib ki bina(base) per os sorat main bhi hay k jab larki khud mukhtar or baligh bhi ho. agar lerki kawari nah ho tu os k liay baap ya dada ki ijazat ki zororat nahi hay.(yahaan kawari nah honay say muraad sirif ye hay k aisi lerki jo talaaq yaafta ho ya baywah ho or oskay shohar nay oskay saath hambistari /jima(intercourse) kia ho or oskay kawaraypan ko khatam kia ho or oski iddta bhi khatam ho chuki ho.agar zinaa ya aisay hi kisi kaam say oska kawaraypan khatam hoa ho tu ye kawari hi kehlaay gi. isi terah agar baap ya dada os merd k saath osay shaadi kernay ki ijzat nah daitay hon jo sharan(Ismlam ki nazar main) or urfan(maa,aashay ki nazar main) os k brabari(equal) ka ho tu ijazat ki zarorat nahi, isi terah baap ya dada ki maujood nah hon ya kisi doosri wajah say ijazat laina mumkin hi nah ho or lerki ka nikah kerna bohat zarori ho tab hi baap ya dada say ijazat layna laazmi nahi hay. (Ref : Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2341,2342). Jis jagha per aurat k lie baab se ijazat lena zarori ho agar aurat baab se ijazat na le to nikah batil hai laikin agar aurat ka waalid baad me ijazat de de to nikah sahe hogha.(sistani.org,arbi,oliyahe aaq,que:1) Shi nikah k bagair hambistri krna haram hai. q k wo zina ho jae ga aur zina gunah e kabeera mai shumar hota hai. (Ref : Minhaj us salaheen Ayat ullah sistani d.b. part # 1, masla # 30) Toba karein Parwar digar ne quran me wadah kia he k wo toba karney walon ki toba ko qabool karta he aur aisa hargiz nahi ho sakhta he k wo apne wadeh per amal na karey. Aur ghuna se bachney k lie mazboot irada chahiea. (Ref : sistani.org ques # 1 , toba) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid shia  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 11476

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      Question kia aurat k peche sex karne se us ko hamal ho sakta  
      Country  gujranwala - pakistan
      Answer 1)Jee nahi is se hamal nahi hota. (ref: Ayatullah Seestani(D.B) Al-masail e mutakhaba, maslah # 67). Is silsi;le me docter se ruju kare. 2)Biwi k peechay k maqam(maqam e pakhana) main hambistari kerna biwi k raazi nah honay ki sorat main ethiyaat e wajib ki bina per haram hay, agar biwi raazi ho tu jaiz hay laikin shadeed makrooh hay.(Ref : Ayatullah Seestani(D.B) Al-masail e mutakhaba, maslah # 67). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 11469

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      Question Assalam O Alykum Sir Mera Sawal Yeh Hain ke Biwi Ko Peechey Kerne Se Nikha Batil Ho Jata Hai.  
      Country  Karachi - pakistan
      Answer Biwi k peechay k maqam(maqam e pakhana) main hambistari kerna biwi k raazi nah honay ki sorat main ethiyaat e wajib ki bina per haram hay, agar biwi raazi ho tu jaiz hay laikin shadeed makrooh hay.(Ref : Ayatullah Seestani(D.B) Al-masail e mutakhaba, maslah # 67) Is se nikah nahe toota. (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid Ayatullah Sistani  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 11489

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      Question Islam mien mohabbet ki shadi jaiz hai ya nahi ager larka aur larki apis mien aik dusry ko dil o jaan say pasand karty hon aur gher waly na manty hon to phir kia karna chahiye? Jb k haqieqet yai hai k hum donon aik dusry k bina nahi rah sakty hamien koi rasta bataien  
      Country  Peshawar - Pakistan
      Answer Jins e mukhalif sai is had tak dosti karna k mohabbat ki had tak pounch jay, ye jaiz nahi hai q k ghunnah mai hubtilla honay ka khof mojoud hay. (Ref : Nigah aur libas sawal # 106 pg # 69) Kunwari(virgin) lerki os waqt tak nikah(daimi / mutah) nahi ker sakti jab tak k lerki ka Baap ya Dada lerki ko nikah ki ijazat nah day day.or yehi hokum ehtiyaat e wajib ki bina(base) per os sorat main bhi hay k jab larki khud mukhtar or balig bhi ho. agar lerki kawari nah ho tu os k liay baap ya dada ki ijazat ki zororat nahi hay.(yahaan kawari nah honay say muraad sirif ye hay k aisi lerki jo talaaq yaafta ho ya baywah ho or oskay shohar nay oskay saath hambistari /jima(intercourse) kia ho or os kay kawaray pan ko khatam kia ho or oski iddat bhi khatam ho chuki ho. agar zina ya aisay hi kisi kaam say oska kawarapan khatam hoa ho tu ye kawari hi kehlaay gi. isi terah agar baap ya dada os merd k sath osay shadi kernay ki ijzat nah daitay hon jo sharan(Islam ki nazar main) or urfan(mea,ashay ki nazar main) os k brabri(equal) ka ho tu ijazat ki zarorat nahi, isi terah baap ya dada maujood nah hon ya kisi doosri wajah say ijazat laina mumkin hi nah ho or lerki ka nikah kerna bohat zarori ho tab hi baap ya dada say ijazat laina lazmi nahi hay. (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2341,2342) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 11483

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      Question kya apni biwi pet main ker sakhtay hai  
      Country  faisalabad - pakistan
      Answer Biwi k peechay k maqam(maqam e pakhana) main hambistari kerna biwi k raazi nah honay ki sorat main ethiyaat e wajib ki bina per haram hay, agar biwi raazi ho tu jaiz hay laikin shadeed makrooh hay.(Ref : Ayatullah Seestani(D.B) Al-masail e mutakhaba, maslah # 67). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 11518

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      Question mere age 21 year hai aur mai jis sai nikah krna chahta ho wo mujh sai 24 sal bri han,,hum dano ik dosry ko bhot chahty han,hum gunah nhe krna chahty kia hum nikah kr sakty han?  
      Country  islamabad - pakistan
      Answer Musalmaan mard apne se bare umar wali musalmaan aurat se nikah karsakta hai. Muslman, muslman ka kafo(barabar,manind) hai aur momin mard momin aurat ka kafo hai. (Ref : Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Minhaajus saliheen Part # 3, Maslah # 221). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 11517

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      Question shadi ki phli raat ko agr peechay say ho jay bivi ko nikah toot jay ga kia?light na honay ki wajah say mard 2uh nahi dekh paya or orat bhe kamsin ya phir atna shaorr nahi yeah smjh laian in short dono ko pta bad main chala k pechay ho gaya ...thori roshni dalain ...plzz  
      Country  sialkot - pak
      Answer Biwi k peechay k maqam(maqam e pakhana) main hambistari kerna biwi k raazi nah honay ki sorat main ethiyaat e wajib ki bina per haram hay, agar biwi raazi ho tu jaiz hay laikin shadeed makrooh hay.(Ref : Ayatullah Seestani(D.B) Al-masail e mutakhaba, maslah # 67). Note:(Is se nikah nahe toota.) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 11543

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      Question sir mera question yeh hay k periods main wife sath humbistari jaiz hay .aour kin halat main avoid karna chaheya .plz reply  
      Country  lahore - pakistan
      Answer Halat e haiz or nifaas mai jima aurat ki agli ki sharamgaah me jima krna mard aur aurat dono k lie haram hai. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 448). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid yes  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 11534

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      Question sir, mera sawal ye he k apni bivi ko skun punchane k liay us ki breast mu me chosna jaez he k nahen? aor agar bivi bachey ko dod pilati ho aor breast chosne k doran dod shohar k mu me chala jay to kya karna chahiay? please mere sawal ka jawab e.mail per he send karen shukria.  
      Country  Peshawar - Pakistan
      Answer Shohar bivi k breast suck(choos) ker sakta hay,laikin agar shohar biwi ke breast ko suck karey aur moo mai doodh aa jaye, toh ehtiyaat wajib ye hay k bivi ka doodh nah piaya jaay(yaani halaq say neechay nah utara jaay.).(Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), E-Mail from Answers@najaf .org). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)Note : wo suck kar saktay hain magar doodh halaq mai na jae.  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 11523

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      Question AULAD KAY LIYE KYA TARIKA HY HAMBISTARI KA  
      Country  KARACHI - PAKISTAN
      Answer 1)Bivi k saath jima (intercourse) ka islami tariqa ye hai k jima k waqt mustahab hai k bismillah perhi jaay, or baa wuzu hon khaas taur per jab biwi haamla ho,or jima k waqt jo kaam makrooh hain un main say kuch ye hain 1.soraj or chaand gerhan ka hona,2. zawaal e aaftab ka hona siwaay jumeraat k din k, 3. groob e aaftaab k waqt ka hona, 4.chand ki aakhri 3 raaton main jima kena, 5.fajar k baad soraj nikalnay say pehlay, 6.islami mahinay ki pehli taarikh siway Ramazan ki pehli raat(Chaand raat)main , 7. islami mahinay ki darmiani or aakri taarikh main jima kerna, 8.qiblay ki taraf rukh ya pusht kerna, 9.berhana (naked) halat main jima kerna, 10.ehtilaam k baad baghair wuzu k jima kerna, 11.jima k waqt bivi ki sharamg ko dekhna makrooh hai. (Ref : Minhaj us salaheen Ayat ullah sistani d.b. part # 3 masla # 5 ) Shohar ko chahiay k jima se pehlay masaas(orgasm) kare, yaad rakhna chaiay k masaas or dastbaazi k is amal main merd khososi tawajjah rakhe, yani wo piyaar o muhabbat ki baato k sath sath aurat ko good main lay , boos o kinaar kare, pistano(brest) ki niple ko masle, pistano ko dhere dhere dabae,honto ya zabaan ko ahista ahista chosay, baghal, guddi, raan waghera main ungliyaan phere, sharamgaah k ander ungli dakhil ker k halke hlake harkat day , apna uzo e tanasul(penis) aurat k hath main day takeh wo ose dhere dhere dabae or inteshaar(yani uzu e tanasul main tanao) paida hone per apne jazbaat or khahishaat ko os waqt tak qabo main rakhe jab tak aurat ki saansain ukharhni nah shuru ho jain, is k baad jab jima shuru kia jaay tu jab jima k doran aurat k munzil hone (discharge) k bilkul qareeb ho yani wo baytabana harakaat karay, merd se chumtay, liptay, apne hatho ya taango se merd ko kas ker daba,ay. Tab merd bhi jaldi jaldi dkhool(inserting of penis) or ikhraaj(emiting of penis) ker k farigh ho jaay, agar ittefaaq se aurat is waqt tak munzil nah ho or wo apne haatho ya taango se merd ko kas k daba rahi ho takeh merd alag nah ho tu merd ko chahiay k is waqt tak apne aala e tanasul(penis) ko aurat ki sahramgaah se bahar nah nikalay jab tak k aurat munzil nah hojaay, phir khuch dair baad penis ko nikaal ker merd aahistagi se aurat se alag hojaay. .(Ref:Islam or jinsiyaat, mu,allif doctor muhhammed taqi ali abdi, pg#150-151). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 60872

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      Question Mera 1 Question hai...main ny bht kuch parha is baary me but main yaqeen nai kr skti jab tak main Quran Pak me Na parh lun..mujhy ye bt poochni hai k syed larki agr kisi Nonsyed sy pyar krti h aur vo larka b bht pyar krta and 2no shadi krna chahty hain to kya ye shadi ho skti h..hamary khandan valon k mutabiq ye h k syed larki ka nikah non syed sy jayiz nhi Infact Gunah hai..plz Quran ki roshni sy Detail btai jaye plzzz its very Important...  
      Country  Karachi - Pakistan
      Answer Mujtahideen k diye howe 1 hukum ko samajne k liye kafi Uloom ko phar kar samajna zarori hai (maslan Mantiq, Ilm e Usool, Ilm e Fiqh, Ilm e Rijaal ect) pas is wajah se is hokum ki illat o sabab ko yahan bayaan karna or ap ka samajna mushkil hai, keh Syed Shia larki ka nikah Shia larke se jaiz hai, chahe ye larka syed ho ya nah ho. (Ref : Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Minhaajus saliheen Part # 3, Maslah # 221 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 1  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 60897

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      Question Mai 1 Syed shia larki hn. 10 saal se 1 shak mje muhabat krta hai par ab wo kehta hai k mai tm se tbi shadi krn ga, jb tm apna fika chor do auR sunni ho jao. mai asa ni kr skti kyn k mai 14. MASOMMAIN A.S se bohat pyar krti hn mai ne har mumkin khosih ki k wo samaj jaye usy majalis b sunwain mgar us ka dil ni badla. mera us se koi zahiri jismani taluaq ni, mgr wo phone pe mje se baat krta tha aur mje anpi biwi manta tha. wo muje phone pe pyar krta tha, mai bohat ghabrati ti, mgr wo kehta tha k kuch ni hota mai uski biwi hon, gunah ni milta, mgar ab wo shaks badal gia hai. mai us k sath isi ly thi ta k usko IMAM HUSSAIN a.s ki pehchhan karwaon magar us ko hidayat ni ani mai ab us se alag hona chati hn. muje ALLAH pak se bohat dar lagta hai aur is baat ka b sachay dil se ahssas hai. bus mai yai chati hn k Allah pak mje maaf kr dy aur IMAM HUSSAIN a,s mje se razi ho jain muje aur kuch ni chaiye. mai depression mai chali gia hn bohat bimar hn, mje lagta hai zindgi khatam ho gia. ap please meri rehnumai krain mje is masalay ka haal aur kafra batain k mai kia kron mai hath jorti hn meri madad krain. agr mai is shak ko chor k kisis aur insan se shadi krti hn to kia mje usy pehly apni suchai batani hogi? kyn k mai kisi momin se jhoot bhoolna ni chati ap meri rehnumai kr k mje mere masalay ka complete haal batain  
      Country  lahore - pakistan
      Answer 1)Agar shia aurat ko apne shia mazhab k tabdeel na hone ka khouf nah ho to sunni mard se shadi kar sakte hai .Laikin phir bhi aurat k liay shadi karna makhroh hai, aur agar shia mazhab k tabdeel ho jane ka khouf ho to jaiz nahi hai (Ref : Minhaj us salaheen Ayat ullah sistani d.b. part # 3 masla # 215,eidition4th) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye). (Ref : Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail , edition # 31 , maslah # 01) , (Ref : Mujtahid se pochay gaey sawalaat, part #1 , sawaal #134, pg # 70). 2) Doosro k saamne gunah ka iqraar kerna jaiz nahi hay. (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), mujtahid se pochay gay sawalaat, part#2, maslah #223) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 4  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 60923

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      Question agar koi larki apni marzi say shadi na karay to is ka koi guna hai  
      Country  lahore - pakistan
      Answer Rasool Allah (s.a.w) se marvi hadees ke mutabiq ager Rasool Allah (s.a.w) ki itaat ki chahat hai to shadi karni chahiye. (Ref : Aqa Sistani,Jadeed faqhi masail , masala # 385 , eidition # 5 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 1  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 57955

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      Question mera sabaal ye hai ki.aksar log bibiki sak kartai hai aur bibi sohar kovi..kya aisa karna gunah hai yah kya hai plz yeska answer chaiye  
      Country  bhairahwa - nepal
      Answer Shohar or biwi aik dosray ki sharamgaah ko monh(mouth) laga saktay hain, magar ye k sharamgaah say nikalnay wali ratoobat halaq mian nah jaay. (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Istiftaat I-2,I-15 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid 2  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 10829

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      Question a.a sir me and my friend want do nikah without permission of our parents.our age is 26 each..plz tell me how can we do nikah with Islamic rules???with out court mer rage...and can we do telephonic nikah?  
      Country  islamabad - pakistan
      Answer Wssalam o alykum, ye nikah jaiz nahi hai(Or Islamic nikah men larki k wali(walid ya dada) ki ijazat zaruri hai).(Ref : Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail , edition # 1414 , maslah # 2335 , 2341 , 2342 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid about nikah  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 10872

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      Question As salam alaykum hambistari ki dua bataye please  
      Country  Aurangabad - India
      Answer Wssalam o alykum, Bivi k saath jima (intercourse) ka islami tariqa ye hai k jima k waqt mustahab hai k bismillah perhi jaay, or baa wuzu hon khaas taur per jab biwi haamla ho,or jima k waqt jo kaam makrooh hain un main say kuch ye hain 1.soraj or chaand gerhan ka hona,2. zawaal e aaftab ka hona siwaay jumeraat k din k, 3. groob e aaftaab k waqt ka hona, 4.chand ki aakhri 3 raaton main jima kena, 5.fajar k baad soraj nikalnay say pehlay, 6.islami mahinay ki pehli taarikh siway Ramazan ki pehli raat(Chaand raat)main , 7. islami mahinay ki darmiani or aakri taarikh main jima kerna, 8.qiblay ki taraf rukh ya pusht kerna, 9.berhana (naked) halat main jima kerna, 10.ehtilaam k baad baghair wuzu k jima kerna, 11.jima k waqt bivi ki sharamg ko dekhna makrooh hai. Hambistari ki dua: Mustahabb hai k hambistari say pehlay apna haath biwi ki peishani k baal (hair of forehead) par rakhay aur ye dua perhay: ﺍﻠﻠﻬﻢ ﻋﻠﻰ ﻛﺘﺎﺑﻙ ﺘﺰﻮﺠﺘﻬﺎ ﻮ ﻔﻰ ﺍﻤﺎﻨﺘﻙ ﺍﺨﺬﺘﻬﺎ ﻮ ﺑﻛﻠﻤﺎﺘﻙ ﺍﺴﺘﺤﻠﻠﺖ ﻔﺮﺠﻬﺎ ﻔﺎﻦ ﻘﻀﻴﺖ ﻠﻰ ﻔﻰ ﺮﺤﻤﻬﺎ ﺷﻴﺌﺎ ﻔﺎﺟﻌﻠﻪ ﻤﺴﻠﻤﺎ ﺴﻮﻴﺎ ﻮ ﻻﺘﺠﻌﻠﻪ ﺸﺮﻚ ﺍﻠﺸﻴﻄﺎﻦ (Alla humma alaa kitaabeka tazwwajtoha, wa fee amanateka akhaztoha, wa bekalematekastahlalto farajaha, fa in qazayta lee fee rahmeha shyan fajalhoo musliman saweeyyan wa laa tajalahoo shirkashshaitan) Tarjuma: Yaa Allah main nay teri kitaab k mutabiq is say nikah kia or teri amanat mai is ko lia hai or teray kalimaat k zarie sai is ki sharam gaah ko halaal kia, pas agar tu nai is k raham mai meray lie koi cheez ka faisla kia hay to is ko musallam aur kaamil qarar dai aur is main shitan ki shrkat na qarar dai. (Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Minhaajus saliheen Part # 3,maslah # 4 ,5) Note : Hambistri karne ka Islami tareeqa maloom krnay k lie aap kitab islam aur jinsiaat mai sai parh saktay hain. ( Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid Mujtahid  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 10861

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      Question assalamualaikum main ne ek ladki ke saath sex kiya aur ab mein us ke saath shaadi karna chahata hoon uske baare mujhe kuch bataiye  
      Country  hyderabad - india
      Answer Wssalam o alykum, ehtiyaat e wajib ki bina per jab tk wo larki toba na krle ap dono nikah nahi kr swakte, lehaza dono Allah Taala se apne bure kaam ki waja se toba karain. (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Ayat ullaha Sistani d.b. Masla # 403 pg # 235 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 10857

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      Question Aslam o Alaikum.. mera sawal yeh haai k agr larka aur larki shadi krna chahty hain chup k aur sari umer nibhana b chahtye hain is rishty ko. aurrishty ko halal tareeqy se nibhana chahty hain mtlb dosti naai rkhty q k allah ny manah kia hua.. to agr gawah aur wali k bagair allah ko hazir nazir jaan k nikah parh laen khud e to kia nikah ho jata haai??? aur unko gunnah k ho jany ka andesha b ho to kia us se bachny k lye nikah jaiz ho ga aisa???  
      Country  Gujrat - +92
      Answer Wssalam o alykum,G nahai ye nikah Batil hai.(Ref : Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail , edition # 1414 , maslah # 2335 , 2341 , 2342 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 10846

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      Question kia apne husband ko aisee mails likhna jis se usko jinsi sukoon hasil ho wo likh kar bhaijna or usko web cam par aisa kuch dikhana jaiz hai jis se ke usko jinsi sukoon hasil ho.  
      Country  Karachi - pakistan
      Answer kiya apne husband ko aisee mails likhna jis se usko jinsi sukoon hasil ho wo likh kar bhaijna or usko web cam par aisa kuch dikhana jaiz hai jis se ke usko jinsi sukoon hasil ho. Answer G han jaiz hai.(Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30,eidition 1430 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 10888

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      Question salam,mera sawal ye hai ke me ak larki ko pasand kerta hoo ar wo bi bht kerti hai me shiya ho r syed hoo ar wo syeda hai mager sunni hai tw hamara nikah jaiz hai ar us ke abu nahi maan rahey hai ar keh rahe hai ke nikah jaiz nahi hai tw aap bta sakte hai ke nikah kis tarike se hona chaiye ya sunni tarike se ya shiya tarike se plzzz is ka jaldi koi hal btade ar dosra sawal ye ke sunni r shiya ke nikah me farak kya hai?  
      Country  karachi - pakistan
      Answer Wssalam o alykum,Ap ka us larki se nikah krna jaiz hai lekin ager is shadi ki waja se ap ke Deen o Iemaan main tabdili ka imkaan ho to phir jaiz nahi hai.(Ref : Mujtahid se pochay gaey sawalaat, part #1 , sawaal #134, pg # 70).Or larki k walid ki ijazat ke bageer nikah krna ehtiyaat e wajib ke madd e nazar sahi nahi hai.(Ref : aqa sistani,Jadeed faqhi masail , masala # 394 , eidition # 5).or zarori hai ke nikah main niche di gaae tamaam sharait hon, 1 – ager larki kawari ho or us ke baap ya dada ya pardada zinda hon to ye is nikah se razi hon, 2 – mard o orat izdiwaaj(shadi) per razi hon, 3 – jo siga(nikah) phar raha ho zarori hai ke wo aaqil ho, or ager apne liye siga phar raha ho to balig hona bhi zarori hai, 4 – siga pharne wale ke nazdeek mard o orat muayaan hon , 5- ehtiyaat e wajib ki bina per nikha ka siga arabi main parha jaye,6 – mard o orat ya in ke wakeel jo siga phar rahe hon wo nikha ke sige ke zarye se mard o orat ke dermiyaan izdiwaaji rishte ko qaaim karne ki niyat rakhte hon.(Ref : Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail , edition # 1414 , maslah # 2335 , 2341 , 2342 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid sistani  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 10877

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      Question kya islam me shadi krna frz he. iski frziyat detail se bta deyn plz sir.me shadi ni krna chahti.pr merey maa baap ko meri shadi ki bht jaldi he .me shadi ni krna chahti ..  
      Country  lahore - pakistan
      Answer Islaam main shadi ik esa mustahab amal hai jis ki bohat ziyada takeed ki gaae hai, yahan tak ke Rasool Allah (s.a.w) se marvi Hadees hai ke jo shaks meri sunnat ki peravi karna chahta hai to meri sunnat main se ik shadi bhi hai (yani wo shadi kare) lehaza ap shadi karain.(Ref : aqa sistani,Jadeed faqhi masail , masala # 385 , eidition # 5 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).Or insan shadi na krne ki waja se Haram kaam men mubtala hojaye us per to shadi krna wajib hai.(Ref : aqa sistani,Tozih ul Masaail, Masla#2407)(Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai)  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah
      Mujtahid shadi  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 10916

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      Question i am newly married. i want to know about "hum bistar ki dua" and more about married life.kindly help me out.  
      Country  hyderabad - india
      Answer Bivi k saath jima (intercourse) ka islami tariqa ye hai k jima k waqt mustahab hai k bismillah perhi jaay, or baa wuzu hon,or jima k waqt jo kaam makrooh(na-pasandeedah) hain un main say kuch ye hain 1.soraj or chaand gerhan ka hona,2. zawaal e aaftab ka hona siwaay jumeraat k din k, 3. groob e aaftaab k waqt ka hona, 4.chand ki aakhri 3 raaton main jima kena, 5.fajar k baad soraj nikalnay say pehlay, 6.islami mahinay ki pehli taarikh siway Ramazan ki pehli raat(Chaand raat)main , 7. islami mahinay ki darmiani or aakri taarikh main jima kerna, 8.qiblay ki taraf rukh ya pusht kerna, 9.berhana (naked) halat main jima kerna, 10.ehtilaam k baad baghair wuzu k jima kerna, 11.jima k waqt bivi ki sharamg ko dekhna makrooh hai. Hambistari ki dua: Mustahabb hai k hambistari say pehlay apna haath biwi ki peishani k baal (hair of forehead) par rakhay aur ye dua perhay: ﺍﻠﻠﻬﻢ ﻋﻠﻰ ﻛﺘﺎﺑﻙ ﺘﺰﻮﺠﺘﻬﺎ ﻮ ﻔﻰ ﺍﻤﺎﻨﺘﻙ ﺍﺨﺬﺘﻬﺎ ﻮ ﺑﻛﻠﻤﺎﺘﻙ ﺍﺴﺘﺤﻠﻠﺖ ﻔﺮﺠﻬﺎ ﻔﺎﻦ ﻘﻀﻴﺖ ﻠﻰ ﻔﻰ ﺮﺤﻤﻬﺎ ﺷﻴﺌﺎ ﻔﺎﺟﻌﻠﻪ ﻤﺴﻠﻤﺎ ﺴﻮﻴﺎ ﻮ ﻻﺘﺠﻌﻠﻪ ﺸﺮﻚ ﺍﻠﺸﻴﻄﺎﻦ (Alla humma alaa kitaabeka tazwwajtoha, wa fee amanateka akhaztoha, wa bekalematekastahlalto farajaha, fa in qazayta lee fee rahmeha shyan fajalhoo musliman saweeyyan wa laa tajalahoo shirkashshaitan) Tarjuma: Yaa Allah main nay teri kitaab k mutabiq is say nikah kia or teri amanat mai is ko lia hai or teray kalimaat k zarie sai is ki sharam gaah ko halaal kia, pas agar tu nai is k raham mai meray lie koi cheez ka faisla kia hay to is ko musallam aur kaamil qarar dai aur is main shitan ki shrkat na qarar dai. (Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Minhaajus saliheen Part # 3,maslah # 4 , 5) Note : Hambistri karne ka Islami tareeqa maloom krnay k lie aap kitab islam aur jinsiaat mai sai parh saktay hain.(Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 57697

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      Question aslkm:-meri age 28 hai,mai meri khala ki beti se mohabbat karta hu lekin wo mujh se 8yrs choti hai,kya mai us ladki se shadi karsakta hu.  
      Country  hyd - india
      Answer G han shadi kr sakte hen lekin jab tk us larki ki umar 9 saal ko na pohnch jaye us se pehle us se mujamiat(intercourse)nahi kr sakte.(Ref : Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail , edition # 1414 , maslah #2474, 2335 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 1  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 60950

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      Question Asalam O Alaikum! Qibla me yeh pochna chahta hon k ek baligh aur rozgar wala larka pehli b.v aur apne tamam khandan se chup kar unhen bataey baghair dosri shadi kar lay to kia yeh shariat me jaiz h? Plz reply. Regards.  
      Country  Layyah - Pakistan
      Answer 1)Wssalam o alykum,Lerkay ko shadi k liay kisi ki ijazt ki zarorat nahi hoti. (Ref : Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail , edition # 1414 , maslah # 2335 , 2341 , 2342) 2) Nikah sahi nahi hoga kunke nikah mai shrt ye hai k kawari (virgin) lerki os waqt tak nikah nahi ker sakti jab tak k lerki ka wali (Baap ya Dada) larki ko nikah ki ijazat nahi deden.or yehi hokum ehtiyaat e wajib ki bin (base) per os sorat main bhi hay k jab larki khud mukhtar or baligh bhi ho. agar lerki kawari nah ho tu os k liay baap ya dada ki ijazat ki zororat nahi hay.(yahaan kawari nah honay say muraad sirif ye hay k aisi lerki jo talaaq yaafta ho ya baywah ho or oskay shohar nay oskay saath hambistari /jima(intercourse) kia ho or oskay kawaraypan ko khatam kia ho or oski iddta bhi khatam ho chuki ho.agar zinaa ya aisay hi kisi kaam say oska kawaraypan khatam hoa ho tu ye kawari hi kehlaay gi). (Ref : Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2341,2342). (Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 4  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 61042

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      Question agar larki ki enagement zabardasti ho ux ky parents ky khany py or larki razi no ho tou wo kia kry?  
      Country  lahore - pakistan
      Answer Nikah k sahi hone me aik shart ye bhi hai k aurat aur mard shadi per raazi ho aur raazi nahi to nikah sahi nahe hay. (Ref: Ayatullah khoie Tauzeehul masail 31st edition, maslah #2379 ) Jo koe kisi hajat k lie surah yaseen ki ayat no:40 ko 7 baar perhe to is ki hajar pure hoghe. ( ref: payaam shifa, pg: 249) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 2  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 57713

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      Question a.o.a sir mra sawal ye hey k agr lrki dbao m a kr nikah kre aur rukhsti na hoi ho to khula kesy lya jye. koi esa trika hey k khula raz hi rhy. koi trika bta Dan mra dosra swal ye hey k kya khuda ho hariz mane k kise ko khwand tasleem Karna apni mrzi se aur 3 br kehna k kbol hey to kya nikah ho gya  
      Country  sailkot - pakistan
      Answer Wssalam o alykum, ager larki nikah ke liye razi nahi hai to khula ki zarorat hi nahi kun ke ye nikah sahi nahi hai q k nikah k liye larke or larki ka razamand hona shart hai. or Allah ko hazir maan kar 3 baar qabool kehne se nikah nahi hota nikah ki or bhi sharten hen.(Ref : Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail , edition # 1414 , maslah # 2335 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 2  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 57718

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      Question sir , apni wife k saath back side se jama karne se nikah toot jata he k nahi ?  
      Country  peshawar - pakistan
      Answer Nahi tootta, lekin ager bivi razi na ho to ehtiyaat e wajib ke tor per back se karna haraam hai. (Ref : Ayatullah Seestani(D.B) Al-masail e mutakhaba, maslah # 67 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid 1  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 57723

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      Question ASSLAM O ALEKUM .YA ALI a.s MADAD kia mard apni bivi ki sharm gaah ko chom sakta hai ya chose sakta hai . agar chose le to gunah hai plz hilp me  
      Country  Multan - Pakistan
      Answer Wssalam o alykum, jee han choose sakta hai, mager sharam-gaah se nikalne wali ratobat ko pena (halq se neeche le jana) jaiz nahi hai.(Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Istiftaat I-2,I-15 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid 4  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 57730

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      Question main ghr walon se chup k nikkah krna chahti hn kia main or jise main psand krti hn hm 2no bgair ksi gawah k qurran pe hath rkh k Allah or us k Rasool ko gawah man k nikkah kr skte hain kia aise humara nikkah ho skta ha?  
      Country  islamabad - wah cannt
      Answer G nahi ye nikaah nahi hosakta q k larki k liye apne wali (bap ya dada) ki ijazat k k bger nikah nahi hosakta. (Ref : Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail , edition # 1414 , maslah # 2335 , 2341 , 2342 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 1  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 57738

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      Question agar kisi aurat ko talaq ho jaye to uska nikha kisi or sy ho par rukhsati na ho to talaq ho jaye to kiya us se pehla khawand dobara nikha kar sukta hai ?  
      Country  pindi - pakistan
      Answer G hank r sakta hai.(Ref : Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Minhaajus saliheen Part # 3, Maslah # 520 , eidition # 4th , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 1  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 57755

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      Question Aoa sir kya razai behn Bhai ka nikah ho skta h????  
      Country  islamabad - pakistan
      Answer G nahi. (Ref : Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Minhaajus saliheen Part # 3, Maslah # 106 , eidition # 4th , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 1  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 57795

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      Question I am going to marry a girl but she told me that she is not virgin and already did Sex with her old BF. I forgive her... what about Islamic point of it is OK to marry her ??? is any Sharih-e-Hadd for her ?? Please give me detail answer I am confused and she promised me she will never do it again. I need help to solve this question Salam Ali  
      Country  Karachi - pakistan
      Answer Yes, you can marry.(Ref : Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail , edition # 31 , maslah # 2364 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 4  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 57863

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      Question kya syed larki ka nikkah sunni larke se jaiz hy?  
      Country  karachi - pakistan
      Answer Ager is larki ke deen o imaan main tabdeli ka imkaan ho to jaiz nahi hai wrna jaiz hai. (Ref : Mujtahid se pochay gaey sawalaat, part #1 , sawaal #134, pg # 70 , ALLAH TAALA hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 1  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 57864

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      Question kya aek hi husband se do bar nikkah ho sakta hy?  
      Country  karachi - pakistan
      Answer Ager pehla nikah sahi hai to dosra nikah phar to sakte hain lekin is ke pharne ka koi faaeda nahi hai.(Ref : Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail , edition # 31 , maslah # 2339 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 1  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 57867

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      Question ASSALAM-OOALAIKUM sir,me ne apse sawal kya tha Question ID#57829 to apne kaha tha k kawari larki apne baap ya dada ki ijazat k bgair nikah nh kr skti ya agr wo krti ha to sahi nh ha to sir mera next question ye ha k jo larkian bagh kr ya court merriage krwati ha un me b larki ka baap ya dada agree nh hota to kya ye nikah nh ho ga jo court merriage ya bagh kr kya jaye or un k darmiyaan jo relationship yani intercourse ho ga wo halal ho ga ya haram zina me aye ga plzz tell me  
      Country  lahore - pakistan
      Answer Wssalam o alykum, jee han ye nikah bhi (court ya bhag kr ho) galat hai, (Ref : Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail , edition # 1414 , maslah # 2335 , 2341 , 2342).Ager larka o larki dono nahi jaante the ke nikah ke sahi hone main larki ke walid ki ijazat honi chahiye to maloom hone se pehle jitni baar bhi jima (intercourse) kiya hai wo halal shumaar ho ga, or in ke sabab peda hone wali olaad bhi halaal zada kehlaae gi.Or ager dono is shart ko jaante the ya shak main the ke nikah ke sahi hone main ye shart hai ya nahi to ye zina kelaae ga or peda hone wali olaad haraam ki olaad kehlaae gi.Or ager dono main se koi ik (masalan larki) is shart ke bare main nahi jaanta tha or dosra(masalan larka) jaanta tha ya mutaraddid yani shak main tha ke is ke sahi hone main ye shart hai ya nahi to larki ke liye jima or olaad halaal shumaar ho gi, or larke ke liye zina or olaad haraam ki olaad shumaar ho gi. (Ref : aqa sistani,Jadeed faqhi masail , masala # 439, eidition # 5) , (Ref : Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Minhaajus saliheen Part # 3, Maslah # 379 , eidition # 4th , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 1  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 57869

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      Question Assalam walekum ..sir mujhe ye puchna tha ki ek ladk aur ladki ka zina hua hai kisi wajah se wo dono ki shadi nai ho sakti to kya wo ek dusre k alawa kisi aur se nikah kar sakte hai ..kya wo dono ek dusre k alawa kisi se nikah nai kar sakte..plz ans its quiet urgent  
      Country  khed - india
      Answer Wssalam o alykum, Zina Guhnaah e Kabeera hai, lehaza un dono ko Rasool Allah (s.a.w) se marvi Hadees ke mutabiq Sura e Talaaq (Sura no 65) ki tilawat karte howe Allah Gafoor o Raheem ki Baargaah e Muqaddasa main toba o istigfaar karni chahiye. (Ref : Dunya Wa Akhirat ki 100 Pareshanion ka hal pg # 37) , (Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30,eidition 1430). Jee ye dono kisi or larke o larki se nikah kar sakte hain. (Ref : Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail , edition # 31 , maslah # 2364 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 1  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 57871

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      Question mera sawal yi hai ap se k mere wife bar bar mujhse talaq mangti hai  
      Country  karachi - pakistan
      Answer Ap (s.a.w) se marvi Hadees ke mutabiq Ager ap un ke sath apne rawaiye o aklaak (jese bolne ka andaaz, un ki zaroriyaat ki chezoon ka kayaal wageera) acha bana lain to wo ap se mohabbat karne lagain gi. (Ref : Nawadir ul Ahadees , jild # 1 , Topic # behtreen shaks ki nishaandahi , pg # 62 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid 1  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 57876

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      Question Assalam walekum mere sawal hai k shadi ko 11 saal hogaye hain or husband ne biwi ko khush rakha hai or chupke se 7 saal se afair chala rahe hain ab jab wo larki dosri gagah devorse le k agayi k shadi mai ap se hi karongi to husband ne biwi ko bata diya k muje gilt tha k afair hai ab mai us se nikah karna chahata ho to biwi ne ijazat nai di is doran mai husband ne biwi ko kaha k milna(sex) mana hai take teri tub khul jaye q k wo pregnant nai ho sakti.par biwi ko lagta hai k jis husband ne kabhi us ko pregnancy k liye nai kaha wo aj q kahe raha hai. Mera sawal hai k kya ye dosra nikah karne se pahele paheli biwi k sath milna (sex)nai karna chahiye kuch madad k liye? .or dosra sawal jab nikkah k liye nai mani to wo phir dhoka dene laga or biwi ghar chor k chali gayi.jab husband ne kalma-e-pak parh kar use chora to biwi wapis ayi to kya us admi par bharosa kya ja sakta hai? jisne itna dhoka diya ho?plz madad kijiye or ab biwi ki koi care nai pahele chupane k liye care karte thay  
      Country  karachi - pakistan
      Answer Wssalam o alykum, Dosre nikah se pehle bivi ke sath jima(sex) kar sakte hain. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 448, 504). Ye sahi hai ke Husband ne ik anjaan larki (namehram) se affair kar ke haraam kaam kiya, lekin ik musalmaan bivi ko apne shohar ko 2nd shadi karne se nahi rookna chahiye kun ke Riwayat ki roshni main mard ka ik se ziyada shadiyan karna Allah Taala ko pasand hai.(Ref : Nigah aur libas sawal # 106 pg # 69) , (Ref : Mujtahid se pochay gaey sawalaat, part # 4, sawaal # 215). Or ager wo bivi chahti hai ke apne shohar ke nazdeek us hi terhan mehboob ho or us ka shohar us ka us hi terhan kayaal rakhe to apne kirdaar o Aklaaq ko us terhan bana le jis terhan affair ke maloom hone se pehle tha balke us se bhi ziyada ache Aklaaq ka muzahira kare. (Ref : Nawadir ul Ahadees , jild # 1 , Topic # behtreen shaks ki nishaandahi , pg # 62 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid 1  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 57885

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      Question A-s-a sir meri shadi ko 2 saal hony ko hn or ak byti b hy 10 mah ki magar mery husband hm sy juri ko zimmay-dari pori nae karty garh ma b hr waqat larayn rahti hn meri sas b in larayn ma barpoor kirdaar ada karti hn mera wahn rahna mushkil ho gaya hy or ak mah pahly meri ami mujy apny garh ly a e the or a b tak koe lyny nae aya jb k mery husbnd ny kaha tha ma aon ga or ab ma wahn jana nae chah rae asal ma mujy ye janna hy k mery liay kaya theek hy ???????? Plz help me ma us garh ma nae jana chahti par ma apny husbnd ko chorna nae chahti plz help me  
      Country  gujranwala - pakistan
      Answer Wssalam o alykum, Hadees main manqool hai, jis main ka baaz ye hai ke arz(ik orat ne) kiya, ya Rasool Allah! Shohar ka haq zoja per kya hai (ya bivi per kya kya cheezain farz hain)? Farmaya, lazim hai ke us ki itaat kare, kisi waqt or kisi hal main us ki nafarmaani na kare, jis waqt wo mubashirat ka irada kare inkaar na kare chahe wo unoot ki pusht per hi kun na sawaar ho, phir us(orat)ne arz ki, ya Rasool Allah! Mard per kis ka haq sab se bara hai? farmaya, baap ka, arz ki (orat ne) orat per sab se bara haq kis ka hai? farmaya, shohar ka, arz ki (orat ne) shohar per mera haq itna nahi hai(jitna mere per shohar ka hai)?farmaya, nahi. or ik dosri Hadees main manqool hai ke (orat per farz hai ke )kisi raat is halat main na sooe ke us ka sohar us se naraaz ho, us orat ne arz kiya, ya Rasool Allah! Chahe us orat ke shohar ne kitna hi zulum kiya ho? Farmaya han chahe kitna hi zulum kiya ho. (Ref : tehzib ul islaam , baab # 4 , topic # hoqooq e zojain , pg # 140 , 141). Note in manqool hadeesoo ko bayaan karene ka maqsad ye hai ke ap ke ik Musalmaan orat hain to ap per lazim hai ke ALLAH o RASOOL(s.a.w) ke bayaan karda hokum per amal kar ke apne koobsorat se ghar ko ghar ja ke or ziyada kobsoorat banane ki koshish karain yahan tak ke ap apni in tamaam zehmatoo ka ajar ALLAH TAALA se hasil karain jannat main. (ALLAH TAALA hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid 1  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 5700

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      Question As Salaam-u-alaikum.Mufti Sahab mera sawaal ye he ki agar ladka or larki k maa baap shaadi k liye raazi na ho or ladka ladki baligh ho to kya wo nikah kr skte hain...??  
      Country  JAIPUR - INDIA
      Answer kawari(virgin) lerki os waqt tak nikah nahi ker sakti jab tak k lerki ka Baap ya Dada lerki ko nikah ki ijazat nah day day.or yehi hokum ehtiyaat e wajib ki bina(base) per os sorat main bhi hay k jab larki khud mukhtar or baligh bhi ho. agar lerki kawari nah ho tu os k liay baap ya dada ki ijazat ki zororat nahi hay.(yahaan kawari nah honay say muraad sirif ye hay k aisi lerki jo talaaq yaafta ho ya baywah ho or oskay shohar nay oskay saath hambistari /jima(intercourse) kia ho or oskay kawaraypan ko khatam kia ho or oski iddta bhi khatam ho chuki ho.agar zinaa ya aisay hi kisi kaam say oska kawaraypan khatam hoa ho tu ye kawari hi kehlaay gi. isi terah agar baap ya dada os merd k saath osay shaadi kernay ki ijzat nah daitay hon jo sharan(Ismlam ki nazar main) or urfan(maa,aashay ki nazar main) os k brabari(equal) ka ho tu ijazat ki zarorat nahi, isi terah baap ya dada ki maujood nah hon ya kisi doosri wajah say ijazat laina mumkin hi nah ho or lerki ka nikah kerna bohat zarori ho tab hi baap ya dada say ijazat layna laazmi nahi hay. (Ref : Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2341,2342).( aur jagha aurat k lie baab se ijazat lena zarori hai agar aurat ijazat na le to ehteyate wajib k bina per nikah batil hai( ref: sistani.org, urdu ) per jo kohe Shi nikah k bagair hambistri krna haram hai. q k wo zina ho jae ga aur zina gunah e kabeera mai shumar hota hai. (Ref : Minhaj us salaheen Ayat ullah sistani d.b. part # 1, masla # 30,eidition,2009) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 5593

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      Question kia koe syed sunni larki kisi sahi sunni larkay say shadi kar sakti hay k nhe.plz give me answer in urdu and with the refernce of QURAAN AND HADITH. AND ALSO GIVE ME ANSWER IN URDU. THANKS  
      Country  Islamabad - pakistan
      Answer Shia mard ko agar apne shia mazhab k tabdeel ho jane ka khouf na ho to wo sunne larki se shadi kar sakta hai aur agar shia mazhab k tabdeel ho jane ka khouf ho to jaiz nahe hai (Ref : MinhajusSalaheen Ayatullah Sistani d.b. Part #3 , masla # 215,200,4th eidition) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 5616

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      Question bivi se humbistri ka tarika  
      Country  moradabad - india
      Answer Shohar ko chahiay k jima se pehlay masaas(orgasm) kare, yaad rakhna chaiay k masaas or dastbaazi k is amal main merd khososi tawajjah rakhe, yani wo piyaar o muhabbat ki baato k sath sath aurat ko good main lay , boos o kinaar kare, pistano(brest) ki niple ko masle, pistano ko dhere dhere dabae,honto ya zabaan ko ahista ahista chosay, baghal, guddi, raan waghera main ungliyaan phere, sharamgaah k ander ungli dakhil ker k halke hlake harkat day , apna uzo e tanasul(penis) aurat k hath main day takeh wo ose dhere dhere dabae or inteshaar(yani uzu e tanasul main tanao) paida hone per apne jazbaat or khahishaat ko os waqt tak qabo main rakhe jab tak aurat ki saansain ukharhni nah shuru ho jain, is k baad jab jima shuru kia jaay tu jab jima k doran aurat k munzil hone (discharge) k bilkul qareeb ho yani wo baytabana harakaat karay, merd se chumtay, liptay, apne hatho ya taango se merd ko kas ker daba,ay. Tab merd bhi jaldi jaldi dkhool(inserting of penis) or ikhraaj(emiting of penis) ker k farigh ho jaay, agar ittefaaq se aurat is waqt tak munzil nah ho or wo apne haatho ya taango se merd ko kas k daba rahi ho takeh merd alag nah ho tu merd ko chahiay k is waqt tak apne aala e tanasul(penis) ko aurat ki sahramgaah se bahar nah nikalay jab tak k aurat munzil nah hojaay, phir khuch dair baad penis ko nikaal ker merd aahistagi se aurat se alag hojaay. .(Ref:Islam or jinsiyaat, mu,allif doctor muhhammed taqi ali abdi, pg#150-151). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 5618

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      Question kia mard apni biwi ki shrngah chatt skta h?  
      Country  dera ghazi khan - pakistan
      Answer Shohar or biwi aik dosray ki sharamgaah ko monh(mouth) laga saktay hain,magar ye k sharamgaah say nikalnay wali ratoobat Halaq mian nah jaay.Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Istiftaat I-2,I-15) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 5620

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      Question salam alaikum.janab mera sawal ye hai ki kya money ki majboori ki wajah se ghar na ja pata ho.jab ki bivi bar bar bulati ho to kya shauhar gunahgar hai aur agar bivi koi galat kadam utha le to iski gunah kiske uper jayegi.main saudi mein rahta hon aur do sal se pahle ghar nahi ja sakta hon.thanks.  
      Country  jaunpur - india
      Answer Shohar apni jawaan bivi say 4 mahinay say ziyada muddat(time period) k liay hambistari(intercourse) tark nahi kersakta magar ye k(except) hambistari os k liay nuqsandah ya ziyada takleef ka sabab(reason) ho ya oski bivi khud 4 mahinay say ziyada muddat k liay hambistari tark kernay par raazi ho ya nikah kertay waqt nikah k zimn(agreement) main 4 mahinay say ziyada muddat k liay hambistari tark kernay ki shart rakhi gae ho. Laikin is se nikah nahi batil nahi hota.(tauzeehul masail,ayatollah Seestani,maslah #2382) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid sayyed ali sistani  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 59778

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      Question meri bivi meri baat nahi sunti hamesha zagda ka rukh apnati hai koe gulti ki to toke to zagda karti hai mere 3 ladke hai 17 sal '14 sall'aur 8 saal main hamesha pareshan rahta hun maine to uska zina tak maaf kar diya lekin main use talak nahi dena chahta kyonki mere bachon ko usne aapne controlme pyar ke zaal me rakha hai main dusri shadi mentaly phisicaly suport ke liye karna chahta hun main sarkari mulazim hu pl aisi surat me kya main pahle bivi ke raja mandi ke bagair dusri shadi kar sakta hun shariyat kya kahti hai  
      Country  Gadchiroli - India
      Answer G han kar sakte hain.(Ref : Mujtahid se pochay gaey sawalaat, part # 3 , sawaal # 105 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 1  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 59839

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      Question woman is death Hasband is Mehram & Na-Mehram  
      Country  karachi - pakistan
      Answer Mehram.(Ref : Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail , edition # 31 , maslah # 548 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid 4  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 59841

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      Question kya ik shai larky ka esi lrki se nikha krna jo suni ho or shadi k bad bi sunniyo ki he numaz ada kry sahe ho ga  
      Country  lahore - pakistan
      Answer G han jaiz hai albatta (chahe shia larka ho ya larki)agr apne mazhab ke tabdeel ka imkaan ho to phir jaiz nahi hai.(Ref : Mujtahid se pochay gaey sawalaat, part #1 , sawaal #134, pg # 70 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 1  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 59842

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      Question agr larki ka bap ya dada zinda na ho to wo bagir kisi ki ijazt k nikha kr skti hai  
      Country  lahore - pakistan
      Answer Ager bap o dada dono or na hi par-dada (or jitna ye silsila dada ke etibaar uper chala jaae) zinda hon to kar sakti hai. lekin ager koi bhi 1 ho to ijazat lena zarori hai. (Ref : Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail , edition # 1414 , maslah # 2335 , 2341 , 2342 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 1  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 10540

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      Question ASLAM O ALIKUM molana sahib ap say mujy sohagrat ki dua ka puchna ha ap mujy who dua bata dain Jazaq Allah  
      Country  Haroonabad - pakistan
      Answer Hambistari ki dua: Mustahabb hai k hambistari say pehlay apna haath biwi ki peishani k baal (hair of forehead) par rakhay aur ye dua perhay: ﺍﻠﻠﻬﻢ ﻋﻠﻰ ﻛﺘﺎﺑﻙ ﺘﺰﻮﺠﺘﻬﺎ ﻮ ﻔﻰ ﺍﻤﺎﻨﺘﻙ ﺍﺨﺬﺘﻬﺎ ﻮ ﺑﻛﻠﻤﺎﺘﻙ ﺍﺴﺘﺤﻠﻠﺖ ﻔﺮﺠﻬﺎ ﻔﺎﻦ ﻘﻀﻴﺖ ﻠﻰ ﻔﻰ ﺮﺤﻤﻬﺎ ﺷﻴﺌﺎ ﻔﺎﺟﻌﻠﻪ ﻤﺴﻠﻤﺎ ﺴﻮﻴﺎ ﻮ ﻻﺘﺠﻌﻠﻪ ﺸﺮﻚ ﺍﻠﺸﻴﻄﺎﻦ (Alla humma alaa kitaabeka tazwwajtoha, wa fee amanateka akhaztoha, wa bekalematekastahlalto farajaha, fa in qazayta lee fee rahmeha shyan fajalhoo musliman saweeyyan wa laa tajalahoo shirkashshaitan) Tarjuma: Yaa Allah main nay teri kitaab k mutabiq is say nikah kia or teri amanat mai is ko lia hai or teray kalimaat k zarie sai is ki sharam gaah ko halaal kia, pas agar tu nai is k raham mai meray lie koi cheez ka faisla kia hay to is ko musallam aur kaamil qarar dai aur is main shitan ki shrkat na qarar dai. (Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Minhaajus saliheen Part # 3,maslah # 4 , 5)  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid Dua  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 10544

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      Question kia 2 gawahoon ki moujoodgi mein nikah ho skta,agar ho skta he to larki ka dosra nikah ho jaye ga pehley nikah ko khatam kiye baghair agar ho skta he to pahley wala talaq de deta he to dosra nikah barqarar rahe ga plz jawab zroor send krna ap ko ALLAH ka wasta kia wo guneh gar honge jinhon ne dosra niakah krwaya he  
      Country  Mana wala - Pakistan
      Answer Nikah ke sahi hone ya galat hone main Sharan gawahoon ki koi haisiyat nahi hai, pas ager nikah main niche di gaae sharait mojood hain to nikah sahi hai, Nikah ki sharaait 1 – ager larki kawari ho or us ke baap ya dada ya pardada zinda hon to ye is nikah se razi hon, 2 – mard o orat izdiwaaj per razi hon, 3 – jo siga phar raha ho zarori hai ke wo aaqil ho, or ager apne liye siga phar raha ho to balig hona bhi zarori hai, 4 – siga pharne wale ke nazdeek mard o orat muayaan hon , 5- ehtiyaat e wajib ki bina per nikha ka siga arabi main para jaae, 6 – mard o orat ya in ke wakeel jo siga phar rahe hon wo nikha ke sige ke zarye se mard o orat ke dermiyaan izdiwaaji rishte ko qaaim karne ki niyat rakhte hon. (Ref : Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail , edition # 1414 , maslah # 2335 , 2341 , 2342). Or shadi shuda orat ke liye dosre se nikah karna jaiz nahi hai. Bad men hone wala nikal batil or galat hai.(Ref : Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail , edition # 31 , maslah # 2366 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 10519

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      Question Meri pasand ki shadi 2sal phle mre husband se hui thi.pr un k ghar wale mghe khas pasnd nh krte the,shadi k 3month m hi hmare jhagre shru hugae,or waqt guzrta gya Allah k bhrose duaen mang mang k,fr mra shohar mg p hath b utha ne lge apne ghar walon ki bat p or bad m ro ro k mafi mangte or m maf krdti ,even hum dono bht phare likhe hain.ab hum Abroad agae or Allah k karm se hum dono bht achi job p hain lakin aj b whi halat hy mre husband wo mre sath ho k b mre pas nh hote choti choi bat p jhagre,hmare bete p in baton ka asar parta hy,jb m un se khti hn mg chorden m sakoon chati hn,to wo kuch nh khte,m apne ghar ko bachana chati hn,apne shohar bete ko ksi kemat p khona nh chati.please mg koi wazefa btaen jo apne ghar ko acha krsakon,apne husband ko acha krsakon.  
      Country  Kowloon - abroad
      Answer Jab jab ap apne shohar ke saamne aain to ya waliyo or raat ko ba-wazoo ho kar bistar per leetne se neend aane tak ya manioo (“oo” ka arabi talaffuz arabi ke een se karain) ka wird kijye. (Ref : nawaa e saleheen , pg # 292 , 298). Or apne shohar o bacho ke sath ache aklaak se pesh aain. (Ref : Nawadir ul Ahadees , jild # 1 , Topic # behtreen shaks ki nishaandahi , pg # 62 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 10522

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      Question Asalam o Aleikum mei aik shadi shuda hoon.Aur meri shadi love marriage ke sath hogya hai.Kya mei apni bivi ke sath nanga sex kar sakta hoon plz reply me what should I do?  
      Country  Quetta - Pakistan
      Answer Wssalam o alykum, kar sakte hain, lekin makroo hai. (Ref : Minhaj us salaheen Ayat ullah sistani d.b. part # 3 masla # 5 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid Sistani  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 56630

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      Question Assalamu alekum, Maine galti se meri biwi ka doodh piliya ab iska kya kaffara hai and me humbitari me bht jald free ho jata hu  
      Country  mumbai - india
      Answer 1)Ehtiyat-e-Wajib ye hay k Biwi ka doodh nah piya jaye is ka koi kaffara nahi albatta tauba karlay. (Ref: Ayatullah Seestani(d.b),E-Mail from Answers@najaf.org)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye) 2)Imam a.s. farmatay hein k jis ka nutfa kam ho ya kamzoor ho os k chahaea k sab se pehlay khuda ki bargah me istegfar karay aur is k bad anday(egg) aur piaz kasrat se khaien. (ref : kitab tib e islam pg # 54) 3)Homoeopathic Medicine damiana pentarkan drops(Made in Germany Dr. willmar schwabe karlsruhe) subah, dopeher, raat 10 qatray aik ghoont pani main daal ker istemaal karain insha allah jald hi tamaam jinsi bimariyan khatam ho jay gi. (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid 1  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 10574

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      Question biwi to peechay say karsaktay hain or biwi ki jaga ko suck karsaktay hain or biwi ko mou may day saktay hain  
      Country  karachi - Pakistan
      Answer G han biwi se har qism ki lazzat hasil kr sakte hen, lekin peche se jima karna bivi ki razamandi per moqoof hai yani agr wo razi na ho to is surat men jaiz nahi hoga, isi tarah sharamgah se nikalne wali ratubat kom gale se neeche lena jaiz nahi hai. (Ref : Ayatullah Seestani(D.B) Al-masail e mutakhaba, maslah # 67) , (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Istiftaat I-2,I-15 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 10565

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      Question salam!!! my problem is my husband, he doesnt ever want sex with me, he chats to other women all day, he dnt give me the love n respect a husband shouldgive his wife, i am already reading ya wadoodu... any sujesions on reading something for him to want me to have sex withme...  
      Country  birmingham - united kingdom
      Answer Wssalam o alykum, jab jab ap apne shohar ke saamne aain to ya waliyo or raat ko bawazoo ho kar bistar per leetne se neend aane tak ya manioo (“oo” ka arabi talaffuz arabi ke een se karain) ka wird kijye. (Ref : nawaa e saleheen , pg # 292 , 298). Or behtar se behtar aklaaq ko kirdaar ka muzahira karain. (Ref : Nawadir ul Ahadees , jild # 1 , Topic # behtreen shaks ki nishaandahi , pg # 62 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid  
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      Ques. ID 56616

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      Question Salam, Agha Sahib, sb sy pehly ham Rab e Kareem sy Doa Goo hy k apko iss Azeem kam k krny pr ajr e Azeem Ata Farmayee. Ameen. Molana sahib mera ak question hy kindly jawab jald sy jald send kr dena ap ki mehrbani hoo gii ta ham islam pr amal pera hoo sky. Agha Sahib mera swal ye hy k kia ak insan jis ka nikah hoo chuka hoo magr abi Rukhsti na howi ho matlb abi Shadi na howi hoo aur us ki wife abi apny Parents k gaar ho to kia woo walden parents sy chup kr rat ko ya kisi bi waqt donoo mill skty hy maa baap ko dhoka dy kr ku k abi hamry moshara to uny milny ki ijezaat ni deta ku k abi un ki shadi ni howi just nikah howa hy ? kindly jawab zaroor de dy jald sy jald. kia agr wo donoo chup kr milly aur just kiss hug etc kry to koi gunha to ni hy ku k un k parents to abi ye bardasht ni kry gy naa ? plz give me the answer with detail. Allah paak apki Tofeiqaat mein Izafa farmayee ameeen.  
      Country  Lahore - Pakistan
      Answer ye dono nikha k baad hasband o wife hain, lekin ager riwaaj ye ho ke jab tak ruksati nahi hoti us waqt tak larki apnea p ko apne shohar ke liye pesh nahi karti, is terhan ke is ko goya ik zimni shart samjha jata ho to phir orat per apne is shohar ki is muaamle main itaat wajib nahi hai. (Ref : mujtahid se poche gaae sawalaat , part # 4 , masala # 150 , ALLAH tofiqaat main izafa farmaae).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid 4  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 10558

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      Question hazrat me ye janna chahta ho k agar shadi se pehle sex ho jai to kiya baad me nikah nahi hota ya nikah haram ho jata he and agar Larka or larki milte ho par sex (Jama) na kiya hua to is k bare me kya hukum he and kya nikah k liye lazmi he k gawah mojod ho kya esa mumkin he k bina Qazi or Gawaho k nikah kiya ja sake  
      Country  Karachi - Pakistan
      Answer Ager zani shakhs zaniya orat se shadi karna chahe to ager zaniya orat is fail e zina per nikah se pehle Allah Qadir o Tawana ki Bargaah e Muqaddasa main toba kar le to nikah sahi hai, or is hi terhan jima ke bageer nikah se pehle larki o larke ka dosti o mohabbat karna haraam hai lehaza toba karni chahiye albatta is k bad nikah sahi hojayega. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2364) , (Ref : Nigah aur libas sawal # 106 pg # 69). Ager niche di gaae tamaam sharait nikah hote waqt hon to nikah sahi hai. Nikah ki sharaait 1 – ager larki kawari ho or us ke baap ya dada ya pardada zinda hon to ye is nikah se razi hon, 2 – mard o orat izdiwaaj per razi hon, 3 – jo siga phar raha ho zarori hai ke wo aaqil ho, or ager apne liye siga phar raha ho to balig hona bhi zarori hai, 4 – siga pharne wale ke nazdeek mard o orat muayaan hon , 5- ehtiyaat e wajib ki bina per nikha ka siga arabi main para jaae, 6 – mard o orat ya in ke wakeel jo siga phar rahe hon wo nikha ke sige ke zarye se mard o orat ke dermiyaan izdiwaaji rishte ko qaaim karne ki niyat rakhte hon. (Ref : Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail , edition # 1414 , maslah # 2335 , 2341 , 2342 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai)  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 10555

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      Question AS SALAM-O-ALYKUM JANAB me apni wife se 2 years se dur hon mujhy. kya itne time alag hone se nikkah tootta hai? aur please sahi explain karke batayega. thanks  
      Country  congo - africa
      Answer Wssalam o alykum, abhi tak Sharan wo apki zoja hain or chahe kitna hi arsa guzr jaye is se nikah nahi toot`ta. (ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Tauzee hul masail, 31st edition, maslah # 2462 to 2472 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 10554

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      Question Mera ap se ye sawal hy k bivi ka doodh q ni p skty agr bivi ka dhoodh halaq se neechy utaar lia jaye yani p liye jaye to wo gunah hy ya nikah toot jata hy detail se batain  
      Country  Karachi - Pakistan
      Answer Allah Taala ki di hoi Shariat e Muqaddasa main mana kiya gaya hai, lekin nikah nahi toota. (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), E-Mail from Answers@najaf .org) , (Ref : Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail , edition # 31 , maslah # 2438 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 10664

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      Question I am a married man and i am having an affair with a married woman to the extent that we have already had sexual relation. We want to get married once my new partner is divorced from her husband. I will not divorce my wife as she has nobody to look after. So what is the ruling on this. Plz reply asap.  
      Country  Mumbai - India
      Answer you can not marry with this girl forever, and except this you can marry with without giving divorce the first wife. (Ref : Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail , edition # 31 , maslah # 2367 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid Agha Seestani  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 10699

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      Question AOA.meri biwi meray na chahtay huway apni marzi sy apni ammi k ghar chali gi hy.jab k koi larai bhi nahi huwi.hum ne 10 din pehlay jimma kia tha.ab main jimma karnay k liay bahot pereshan hoon.mujhe batain k main kia karoon.  
      Country  multan - pakistan
      Answer Wssalam o alykum, ache aklaak ka izhaar karte howe un ke ghar ja kar un ko le kar aa jaain.(Or islam men ek biwi k kiya ahkamat hen wo unhen btaen)(Ref : Nawadir ul Ahadees , jild # 1 , Topic # behtreen shaks ki nishaandahi , pg # 62 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid seestani sahib  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 10729

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      Question A.S.W MERI BIWI SHADI SEE PHELE HINDU BRHAMAND THI JISE MAIN NE ISLAM ME LAYA HU. AAP DIYE GAEY EK BHAI KO JAWAB ME AAP NE KAHATHA KI HAME GER MAJHB YANI HINDU SEE SHADI NAHI KARNA CHAIYE, AUR WHO APNE GHAR WALO SE AGAR MILNA CHAHE TO KIYA HUKUM HAI. AKHIR KAR MAINE KISIKO ISLAM ME HI TO LAYA HAI. MUJHE AAP MOHMMED S.A.W KE HAWALE SE JAWAB DE MAIN EK SUNNI MUSLMAN HU BARHE MEHAR BANI MUJHE SAHI JAWAB DE WARNA ME AAP AKHIRAT MEPAKDUGA. ALLHA HAFIZ  
      Country  MUMBAI - INDIA
      Answer Wssalam o alykum, Ager wo shadi se pehle musalmaan hogaae thi to nikah o shadi sahi hia (lekin agr nikah k wqt wo hindu thi to phir wo nikah sahi nahi hoga) or wo apne waaldain se mil sakti hai lekin shari ehkamaat – jese khane pene main o nijasat o taharat main – ka khiyaal rakhna hoga.(Ref : Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail , edition # 1414 , maslah # 2335 , 2341 , 2342 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 10725

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      Question ASLAM O ALIKUM KYA NET PAR SKYPE PA NIKAH HO SAKTA HA?  
      Country  nottingham - england
      Answer G han hosakta hai.(Ref : Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail , edition # 1414 , maslah # 2335 , 2341 , 2342 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 10751

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      Question Kin cheezon se nikah toot jata hag.  
      Country  Islamabad - Pakistan
      Answer Talaaq ke zarye ager is main tamaam sharait mojood hon to. (ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Tauzee hul masail, 31st edition, maslah # 2462 to 2472 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 59667

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      Question Mai ne pochna hay k.. Aftr marrige jab miyan biwi k drmyan iktilaf a jai aur miyan k liyai bohat nafrat q k ush ki activities aise hay k nafrat dil mai bohat parh gai.. Aur woh sex just chata hy aur buwi ka dil nai pass janai ko b tw yeh haram hu jata hay amal.. Biwi srf bachu ki vaja sai guzara kar rae hay... Ap k khyal mai yeh kia hu ga.. Aur buwi kia karay.. Aziyat mai hay biwi kaisay khatm karay yeh aziyat..  
      Country  Abbottabad - Pakistan
      Answer Hadees manqool hai, jis main ka baaz ye hai ke arz(ik orat ne) kiya, ya Rasool Allah! Shohar ka haq zoja per kya hai (yani bivi per kya kya cheezain farz hain)? Farmaya, lazim hai ke us ki itaat kare, kisi waqt or kisi hal main us ki nafarmaani na kare, jis waqt wo mubashirat ka irada kare inkaar na kare chahe wo unoot ki pusht per hi kun na sawaar ho, phir us(orat)ne arz ki, ya Rasool Allah! Mard per kis ka haq sab se bara hai? farmaya, baap ka, arz ki (orat ne) orat per sab se bara haq kis ka hai? farmaya, shohar ka, arz ki (orat ne) shohar per mera haq utna nahi hai(jitna mere per shohar ka hai)?farmaya, nahi. or ik dosri Hadees manqool hai ke (orat per farz hai ke )kisi raat is halat main na sooe ke us ka sohar us se naraaz ho, us orat ne arz kiya, ya Rasool Allah! Chahe us orat ke shohar ne kitna hi zulum kiya ho? Farmaya han chahe kitna hi zulum kiya ho. (Ref : tehzib ul islaam , baab # 4 , topic # hoqooq e zojain , pg # 140 , 141). Note in manqoolah hadeesoo ko bayaan karene ka maqsad ye hai ke ap ik Musalmaan orat hain to ap per lazim hai ke ALLAH o RASOOL(s.a.w) ke bayaan karda hokum per amal kar ke apne koobsorat se ghar ko or ziyada kobsoorat banane ki koshish karain yahan tak ke ap apni in tamaam zehmatoo ka ajar ALLAH TAALA se hasil karain jannat main.(Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid 1  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 59670

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      Question Jis sy zina kia ho usi sy shadi ho jay & Zina Sy Toba Kasy ki jay main apni ek czn ko pasand karta hun ur usy main ny purpose shadi karny ki niat sy kia hy us ny b mara sath dia. Shadi ki bat b chal rai hy lakin main us k sath zina karta raha hu. ab main us k sath sub kuch kar chuka hun jo shadi k bad kia jana chaiye tha. kia jb main shadi us sy kar loon ga tu ya jo kuch hum ny apas main kia kia ya zina main aya ga. abi hum ny zina chor dia hy q k ab humari shadi hony wali hy. plz mjy batian k is ka kia ans hy ur agar shadi k bad b ya sub jo hum ny apas main kia zina hy tu is ki mafi kasy mily ge.  
      Country  wahcantt - pakistan
      Answer Ager wo larki jis ke sath ap ne zina kiya hai Shadi se pehle toba na kare to ehtiyaat e wajib ki bina per nikah batil hai. pas dono apne is guhnaah ki waja se Allah Taala se toba karain. (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Ayat ullaha Sistani d.b. Masla # 403 pg # 235 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 1  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 59676

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      Question main aik syed zadi hun our mari shadi aik gair syed sy hoi ha kia mara nikkah sahi ha ya nahi plz must replay  
      Country  karachi - pakistan
      Answer Agr nikaah ki tmam sharten mojood thin to theek hai.(syed ki gher syed se shadi jaiz hai)(Ref : Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Minhaajus saliheen Part # 3, Maslah # 221 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 4  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 56642

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      Question Sir mujhy yehi pochna tha k agr kisi lrki k sath zinah kiya ho, usi se phr nikah krne ja rhe hon to kch requirements hoti hain ya straigh away nikah kr sakte hain..?  
      Country  Dubai - UAE
      Answer Agar koe shaks kisi aisi bay shohar aurat k sath zina kare jo iddat main nah ho to ehtiyat e wajib ki bina wo shaks is(aurat) k tauba kerne se pehle is se shadi nahi ker sakta.(Ref:Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31th edition,maslah #2364) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 1  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 56637

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      Question Assllam O Allekum sir mera ye sawal he k agr ek shadi shuda larki se shadi ki jaye or woh umar ma bari ho to kya shadi jaiz he or kya shadi shuda larki se shadi kar skten hen...plz tell me in details.thankss  
      Country  sukkur - pakistan
      Answer Shadi Shuda Aurat se shadi karna jab k wo kisi k nkah main haram hai. Or agar wo bewa ya talaq yaafta ho tu os se iddat pori hone k baad shadi kerna jaiz hay. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 33rd Edition,Maslah#2366)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein Izafa farmaye)  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 2  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 59691

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      Question Plzzz mery question ka ans dai kai girl or girl shadi karsaty ha k nhr or nails bary honay se namz hojati ha ya nhe  
      Country  Lahore - Pakistan
      Answer Ye shadi jaiz nahi hai. (Ref : Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Minhaajus saliheen Part # 3, Maslah # 01 , eidition # 4th). Jee Bare nails se masla nahi, namaaz ho jati hai. (Ref : Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail , edition # 31 , maslah # 1113 to 1142 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 1  
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      Ques. ID 59695

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      Question jis aurat ko talaq ho jaye us aurat ko kitney dino baad shadi karni chahiey  
      Country  kashmore - pakistan
      Answer Iddat ki muddat men nikah nahi kiya ja sakta.agr talaaq ke waqt is orat ki umar 9 saal se kam thi ya yaisa thi to koi iddat nahi hai.agr talaaq ke waqt 9 saal pure hon chuke hon or yaisa bhi na hon or shohar ne hambistari na ki ho to koi iddat nahi hai. Or ager jima kiya ho to ager is ke 2 haiz ka darmiyaani fasaila 3 mahino se kam ho to jab sahi talaaq ke baad tesri baar haiz aaye ga to iddat katam hojaae gi. Us k bad nikha kr sakti hai, Or ager 2 haiz ka dermiyani fasila 3 mahine ke barabar ya is se ziyada ho ya haiz hi na aata ho lekin umar haaezah orato ki umar jisi ho to 3 qamri mahine ke barabar iddat hai. Or ager hamila ho or ye hamal talaaq dene wale shohar ka ho to iddat ki muddat waz e hamal ya isqaat e hamal hai.(Ref : Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail , edition # 31 , maslah # 2474 to 2478 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 1  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 11554

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      Question ager mard or urat kahi asi jaga ho jaha na koi masjid ho na koi molvi wo nikha kerna chahte hoo to kesy kere gey.ager un ke pas quran majeed majood hoo to kya tariqa hai nikha kerne ka kya quran ko gahwa banye gay ya quran may koi aisi surat majood hai jis ko donoo pehre lay to nikha ho jay ga .molvi ke bagher quran ke mojdgi may nikha kase ho ga .  
      Country  multan - pakistan
      Answer 1)Nikah chahay daimi ho ya ghair daimi(yani muta) is main seeghah (nikah k bool) perhna zarori hay.aurat or merd ka faqat raazi hona kafi nahi, or isi terah (nikah naama) likhna ehtiyaat e wajib ki bina per kaafi nahi hay. Aqd e nikah ki khuch shara,it hain jin me se khuch ye hain k:- 1)Ehtiyaat e wajib he nikah ka seeghah sahih arabi me parha jaay,or agar khud merd or aurat sighah arabi main nah perh saktay hon tu arbi k Alawa kisi dosri zaban main perh saktay hain or kisi ko vakil banana laazimi nahi hay. 2) sigha parhne wala aqal-mand ho or agar apne lie perh raha ho to baligh hona bhi zurari hai . 3)Merd or aurat or uska vakil sigha parhte waqt qasd e insha(nikah ka irada ) rakhte hon. (ref : tauzeeh e ul masayl ayat ullaha sistani (d.b.) masla # 2328+2335) Agar merd or aurat khud ghair daimi nikah(muta) ka seegah perhna chahain to, nikah ki muddat aur meher taay karney k baad pehlay aurat kahay k (زوجتک نفسی فی المدۃ المعلومۃ علی المھر المعلوم)(Zauwajtoka nafsee fil muddatil ma,loomati alal mahril ma,loom) Or os k baad merd furan kahay (قبلت)(qabilt) tu nikah ho jaay ga. (ref : tauzeeh e ul masayl ayat ullaha sistani (d.b.) masla # 2334). kawari(virgin) lerki os waqt tak nikah nahi ker sakti jab tak k lerki ka Baap ya Dada lerki ko nikah ki ijazat nah day day.or yehi hokum ehtiyaat e wajib ki bina(base) per os sorat main bhi hay k jab larki khud mukhtar or baligh bhi ho. agar lerki kawari nah ho tu os k liay baap ya dada ki ijazat ki zororat nahi hay.(yahaan kawari nah honay say muraad sirif ye hay k aisi lerki jo talaaq yaafta ho ya baywah ho or oskay shohar nay oskay saath hambistari /jima(intercourse) kia ho or oskay kawaraypan ko khatam kia ho or oski iddta bhi khatam ho chuki ho.agar zinaa ya aisay hi kisi kaam say oska kawaraypan khatam hoa ho tu ye kawari hi kehlaay gi. isi terah agar baap ya dada os merd k saath osay shaadi kernay ki ijzat nah daitay hon jo sharan(Ismlam ki nazar main) or urfan(maa,aashay ki nazar main) os k brabari(equal) ka ho tu ijazat ki zarorat nahi, isi terah baap ya dada ki maujood nah hon ya kisi doosri wajah say ijazat laina mumkin hi nah ho or lerki ka nikah kerna bohat zarori ho tab hi baap ya dada say ijazat layna laazmi nahi hay. (Ref : Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2341,2342).( aur jagha aurat k lie baab se ijazat lena zarori hai agar aurat ijazat na le to ehteyate wajib k bina per nikah batil hai( ref: sistani.org, urdu ) per jo koe Shi nikah k bagair hambistri krna haram hai. q k wo zina ho jae ga aur zina gunah e kabeera mai shumar hota hai. (Ref : Minhaj us salaheen Ayat ullah sistani d.b. part # 1, masla # 30,eidition,2009) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid  
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      Ques. ID 59699

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      Question  
      Country  India - hasan.kazmi.5209@facebook.com
      Answer G han jaiz hai, lekin is se nikalne wali ratobat ko pena jaiz nahi hai. (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Istiftaat I-2,I-15 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid 4  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 59707

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      Question  
      Country  India - hasan.kazmi.5209@facebook.com
      Answer Sharan halat e haiz o nifaas ke ilawa jima kiya ja sakta hai.(Albatta moharram k dino men jima(sex) krna ya na krna ap k aqeede or ehtraam se taluq rakhta hai.(Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 448, 504).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid 4  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 59720

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      Question Moharram mn kitny dinno tk biwi k sth humbistari nhn kr saktry?? aur woh kon kon sy hain??  
      Country  karachi - pakistan
      Answer Sharai tor pe to halat e haiz o nifaas ke dino k elawa jima kiya ja sakta hai (Albatta Moharram ul Hram k mahine men jimaa ko tark krna apke apne aqeede or ehtrram se taliq rakhta hai).(Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 448, 504).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid 4  
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      Ques. ID 59725

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      Question kia lrki baap ki marzi k baghair nikah kr skti hy? isky sharai ahkamaat kia hyn?  
      Country  lahore - pakistan
      Answer G nahi larki apne wali (bap ya dada) ki ijazat k bge nikha nahi kr wakti.(Ref : aqa sistani,Jadeed faqhi masail , masala # 394 , 439 , eidition # 5 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 1  
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      Ques. ID 59733

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      Question Salam 110. Main nay pehlay b question kia tha. Dobara araz kr raha ho. Meherbani ferma kr jald jawab they. Takay mai kissi gunah ka murtakib na ho jao. Youm e ashora k bad mai apni b.v k sath humbistri kr sakta ho ya nhi. Aur agar nhi u kitni dair tuk mamaniat hai. Jub k meri shad b moharam say 1 hafta pehlay hui hai  
      Country  lahore - pakistan
      Answer Wssalam o alykum, G han jaiz hai. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 448 , 504 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid 1  
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      Ques. ID 11626

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      Question mara sawal ye ha kia islam ma apni bewi ke bhanje se neka jaiz ha jab ke wo bhai ke bewa b how  
      Country  islamabad - pakistan
      Answer Insan apni biwi ki ijazat k baghair us ki bhanji ya bhateji sai shadi nahi kar sakta hai. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2357 (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid  
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      Ques. ID 11653

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      Question kia koi shia larki agr ksi sunni larky ko pasand krti ha aur wo dono shadi krna chahty hen to kia shia larki us se shadi kar sakti ha? agrchay usk shia khandaan ma se bhi rishty a chuky hen.. phir kis ko wo tarjeeh day? aur shadi k baad bucho ko unki marzi ka mazhab ikhteyar krny ko kaha ja skta ha?  
      Country  Rawalpindi - pakistan
      Answer Agar shia aurat ko apne shia mazhab k tabdeel na hone ka khouf nah ho to sunni mard se shadi kar sakte hai .Laikin phir bhi aurat k liay shadi karna makhroh hai, aur agar shia mazhab k tabdeel ho jane ka khouf ho to jaiz nahi hai (Ref : Minhaj us salaheen Ayat ullah sistani d.b. part # 3 masla # 215,eidition4th) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid Aitula seestani  
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      Ques. ID 11650

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      Question Kia main Anal Sex Kar sakta hoon bivi ke sath agar wo menses me hai.  
      Country  Karachi - Pak
      Answer 1)Haiz ( manses) k ayyaam (days) main aurat (women) ki farj mein jima karna mard aur aurat dono k liay haram hai, chahay dukhool sirf supari(paishab ki nali ka shuru ka chikna hissa) ki had tak hi ho aur mani bhi kharij na ho, balkah ehtiyaat-e-wajib yeh hai k supari se kam miqdar main bhi dukhool na kia jae. Albetta ye hokum aurat sai dubr mai jima k lie nhi hai laikin dubr mai jima, aurat k razi na honay ki surat mai ehtiyat e wajib ki bina par jaiz nhi hai chahae wo haa,iz ho ya na ho. 2)Wo aurat jo haiz ki halat mai ho os sai jima k alawa doosri lutf-andozio maslan bas o kinar ki mumaneat nhi hai. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 448-451)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid  
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      Ques. ID 11649

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      Question Mein apni wife ka vagina choom sakta hoon aur kia wo mera penis suck kar sakti hai. Ham bohat chahte hain ye karna  
      Country  Karachi - Pak
      Answer Shohar or biwi aik dosray ki sharamgaah ko monh(mouth) laga saktay hain,magar ye k sharamgaah say nikalnay wali ratoobat Halaq mian nah jaay.Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Istiftaat I-2,I-15) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid  
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      Ques. ID 11685

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      Question shabe juma humbistari karna mustahab kyun kaha hai  
      Country  abudhabi - u.a.e
      Answer Agar koe mard shabe jumma apne biwi se jima(humbistri) karta hai to jo baccha paida ho gha wo fasahat e bayaani aur sheeri zabaan me mashoor ho ga or koe khateeb oski hamsari nah ker sake ga. (ref: tehzeeb ul islam, allama, baqir majlese, pg: 134) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid agha sistani  
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      Ques. ID 11684

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      Question jab wife ko husband sex k liey bolay aur wo na jay to farishtay lanat krtay hain wife pay keya husband wife k pas sex k liey na ay to husband py b lant hoti hai  
      Country  silakot - pakistan
      Answer 1) Bivi k liay zarori hay k jab bhi shohar jinsi lazzatain hasil kerna chahay tu oski khahish pori kare or share majbori(maslan periods) k baghair shohar ko hambistari se nah roke.Agar koi aurat hambistri aur jinsi lazzat k silsilay me shohar ka sath na day kar is ki khuwaish puri na karay to phir shohar par bhi bivi ki roti,kapray aur makaan ka zimadar nahi hai Agarchay wo shohar kay paas hi rahay.(Ref: Tauzeehul Masail Ayatullah Sistani (d.b), Masla# 2376-7) .(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye). 2) Shohar apni jawaan bivi say 4 mahinay say ziyada muddat(time period) k liay hambistari(intercourse) tark nahi karsakta magar ye k(except) hambistari os k liay nuqsandah ya ziyada takleef ka sabab(reason) ho ya oski bivi khud 4 mahinay say ziyada muddat k liay hambistari tark kernay par raazi ho ya nikah kartay waqt nikah k zimn(agreement) main 4 mahinay say ziyada muddat k liay hambistari tark kernay ki shart rakhi gae ho. Laikin is se nikah nahi batil nahi hota. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31st edition, maslah # 2382) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye). Note: in do fatwo ki roshni main aap per wazeh ho gaya hoga k shohar jab hambistari kerna chahay tu bivi ka mana kerna haram hay siwaay share majbori k lakin agar bivi hambistari ka mutalba kare tu shahor per wajib nahi hay wo har waqt o ski khahish ko pora kare. Haan 4 mahine se ziyada hambistari terk kerna shohar per bhi haram hay.  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid  
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      Ques. ID 60648

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      Question AsA mera swal hy kia shohar apni bewi pr pabandi lgay k wo apny maa baap sy na mily to kia bewi ko shohar ki baat mani chahiy jb k maa baap ka koi qadur bhi nahi aur jo shohr apni bewi pr hath uthay un ka kia anjam hy  
      Country  quetta - pakistan
      Answer Wssalam o alykum, Allah Taala ki di gaae Shariat e Muqaddasa main ap ka apne shohar ki mukhaalifat kar ke ghar se bhaar nikalna jaiz nahi hai, lehaza apne ap ko ache aklaak o kirdaar wala banaain, or un cheezo ko pehchaan kar jin se shohar ko gussa aata hai, un ko Allah Taala ki kushnudi ke liye chorne ki koshish karain yahan tak ke Allah Taala ap ke aklaak o kirdaar ki waja se un ko pori tarhan se ap se razi kar de. (Ref : Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail , edition # 31 , maslah # 2376) , (Ref : Nawadir ul Ahadees , jild # 1 , Topic # behtreen shaks ki nishaandahi , pg # 62 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid 4  
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      Ques. ID 11661

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      Question Salam agar shohar condom use karey or shehwat na jaey biwi k andaroni maqam me tab ghusul wajib hoga biwi per ya nhi? Or agar mukammal sex na karen sirf uper se pyar krny per shoher or biwi k muqamat se jo pani kharij hota hai us se kaprey napak ho jatey hain? Or ghusul wajib hota hai?  
      Country  Karachi - Pakistan
      Answer Ehtiyaat e wajib ye hai k ( comdom ) istemal karne se phele sohar apni biwi se ijazat li jay.(aqa sistani jaded fiqhe masail ,masla 465,pg # 254) Agar koe shakhs aurat se jimma(intercourse) karay aur azo e tanasul supari ki miqdar tak ya is se ziada dhakil ho jay to chahae ye dkhool fraj(agli sharamgaah) me ho ya pichlay maqam me aur chahae wo baligh ho ya na baligh aur chahae mani kharij ho ya na ho donoo junub ho jatay hein or dono per ghusl wajib ho jata hay.(aur donoo per ghusl e janabat wajib ho hata he.) (Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 348)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid All Islamic  
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      Ques. ID 60687

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      Question salam allqum mai muslim hu kay mai apna say badi larki say shadi kar sakta hu islam aaisa kuch hai kay  
      Country  delhi - india
      Answer Wssalam o alykum, jaiz hai. (Ref : Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail , edition # 1414 , maslah # 2335 , 2341 , 2342 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 1  
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      Ques. ID 60692

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      Question mera sawal yeh hai ky meri mangni bachpan say mery mamo ki beti say howe hai... meri umer 31 ki hai or us ki 22 ki hai. mai pehly usy oper oper sy sex karta tha or usi ky ander free ho jata tha...1 2 sal toh aisa he kiya pir aik din wo pregnat ho gae hala ky mai ny uss sy sahe wala sex b nahe kiya... pir us ka obortion karwaya... bohot taqleef daa marahil say wo guzri....pir mai ny or us nikha kar liya wo b iss trha ky hum ny quran ko samny rakha or us par hath rakh ky qasam khai ky mai usy qabol ho or wo mujy or hum ny aik page par b apny apny signature kiye...or usi ki choti behen b hamary sat thi....ab hum hamesha wife and husband wala sex karty hai....bataye yeh tek hai yah nahe mery gar waly meri shadi nahe karwaty jab tak meri job na ho jaye or muj say sabar nae hota...or wo aik yateem bachi hai... wo hamesha mujy mana karti hai par aksar mai us sy zabardasti kar jata ho bataye mai kya karo.....  
      Country  islamabad - pakistan
      Answer Shuru se ap tak ki sari ki sari harkatain haraam hain, or ye shadi bhi sahi nahi hai, ager wo larki toba kar le un tamaam harkatoo ki waja se or phir ap us se nikah ki niche bayaan karda tamaam sharait ke sath nikah kar lain to wo Islaami lehaaz se ap ki zojiyat main aa jaain gi. (wrna wo abhi apki biwi nahi hai) Nikah ki sharaait 1 – ager larki kawari ho or us ke baap ya dada ya pardada zinda hon to ye is nikah se razi hon, or ager baap o dada zinda na hon to maa o bhaiyoon o behnoo se ijazat lena zarori nahi hai 2 – mard o orat shadi per razi hon, 3 – ehtiyaat e wajib ki bina per nikha ka siga arabi main para jaae, 4 – mard o orat ya in ke wakeel (Molana) jo siga phar rahe hon wo nikha ke sige ke zarye se mard o orat ke dermiyaan izdiwaaji rishte ko qaaim karne ki niyat rakhte hon. (Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30,eidition 1430) , (Ref : Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail , edition # 1414 , maslah # 2335 , 2341 , 2342 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 1  
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      Ques. ID 11697

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      Question Sir i want to ask that, is anal sex with wife is allowed in islam ? coz some people say its haram.  
      Country  Lahore - Pakistan
      Answer Biwi k peechay (back) k maqam(maqam e pakhana) main jimaa(anal sex) krna biwi k raazi na honay ki sorat men ethiyaat-e-wajib ki bina pr haram hai,agr biwi razi ho tu jaiz hay lekin shadeed makrooh hay.(Ref: Ayatullah Seestani(D.B) Al-masail e mutakhaba, maslah # 67). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid islam  
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      Ques. ID 57528

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      Question Mera sawal ye hai k meri Biwi k ghar walon ka or mera bohat jhagra rehta tha, tung aa ker main nay apni biwi say kaha k main tumko talaq nahi dena chahta laikin ager tum khula chahti ho to lay sakti ho us ney do din sochnay k baad apnay ghar walon k dabao main aa ker mujhay likh ker de dia k wo alhaidgi chahti hai or apnay baap k sath chali gai. us waqt wo pregnent thi kuch mahino baad shariat board nay mujhey uski darkhwast per notice bheja or sulha kerwaney ki koshish ki. mager wapis anay k liey meri biwi ney wo sharaiat rakhin jo main poori nahi ker sakta tha. main ney un sharait ko mannay say inkaar kia or ye likh ker de dia k is ney mujh sey alhaidgi ka mutalba kia hai lehaza ager ye ana bhi chahti hai to main nahi rakhna chahta. us ney wahan kaha k meray shohar nay zabardasti likhwaya hai or main khula nahi chahti ager ye talaq dena chahtey hain to den. main ney kaha k ager ye khula chahti hain to lain main talaq nahi doon ga or main ney kabhi ye nahi kaha k main talaq dena chahta hon. taqreeban 6 mahinay baad meri beti paida hoi jis ki mujhey khabar nahi di gai. main ney apni biwi ko khat likha k main dusri shadi ker raha hon apna haq mehar lay lo or khula lay lo us ney likha main khula nahi chahti or usi khat main bataya k meri beti ho chuki hai 3 mahinay ki hai. ye sun ker main apni Bivi or bachi sey milnay us k ghar gaya mujhey milnay nahi dia gaya. phir main ney dusri shadi ker li. bohat mahinon hamara rabta nahi hwa main her 4 ya 5 mahinay bad khat bhejta tha k meri beti sey milnay do mager us ney na kabhi mujhey phone kia or na kbhi ghar ana chaha kyon k wo adalati bayan hotey they k main ana chahti hon. ab ye case court main hai us ko gay hway 4 saal ho gay hain main ab bhi us k ghar phone kerta hon mager wo baat nahi kerti. meray sawalat ye hain: wo haq e zojiyat ada nahi kerna chahti kyon k na us ney kabhi aney ki koshish ki na rabtey ki or na meray rabta kerney per koi musbat jawab dia sirf adalaton main ye kaha k wo ana chahti hai wo bhi sharait per. Kia mujh per us ka 4 saal ka naan nafqa wajib hai? adalat ney meray khilaf faisla dia hai k mujhey 4 saal ka naan nafqa dena hai. mujhey shariat ka jawab chahiey. kia wo sharai aitebar sey meri BiVi hai jab k 4 saal se hum alag hain. Meri beti sey milney per pabandi lagana ya meri merzi k khilaf naam rakhna un logon k liey jaiz hai kyon k main kuch or naam rakhna chahta hon unhon ney kuch or rakha, jab k main ney her jaga kaha k main apni beti ka maintenance amount deney per tayar hon. Shukria  
      Country  Karachi - Pakistan
      Answer Ab tak wo ap ki zojiyat main hain, agche un ka 4 saal ka naan o nufqa dena ap per wajib nahi hai, or ap ki beti un ki bhi beti hain to wo us ka naam rakh sakti hain lekin ap ko us se milne na dena jaiz nahi hai. (ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Tauzee hul masail, 31st edition, maslah # 2462 to 2472 , 2377 , 2422 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid 5  
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      Ques. ID 57531

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      Question Salam kya phoopi ki ladki se nikah kar sakte hai?  
      Country  mumbai maharashtra - mumbai maharashtra
      Answer G han bilkul kr sakte hen.(Ref : Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail , edition # 31 , maslah # 2349 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 4  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 57563

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      Question Agr koe kawara larka or larki bgair ksi ki ijazat k apas me nikah kr chuke hon to us nikkah k baary me kya hukum hai?  
      Country  karachi - pakisatan
      Answer Ager kawari larki ke walid ya dada is se razi nahi hai to nikah batil hai. (Ref : Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail , edition # 1414 , maslah # 2335 , 2341,2342 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai)  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 4  
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      Ques. ID 57569

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      Question Assalamualaikum mujhe ye puchna h ki do log apas me nikah krna chate h pr ldke k walid razi nhi h aur wo apas me contact bhi rakhte h to aise me un dono ko kya krna chahiye aur iska sbse zyada gunehgaar kun h  
      Country  sultanpur - india
      Answer Wssalam o alykum, kawari larki ke walid ya dada ki ijazat ke bageer ager nikah baqi tamaam sharait ke sath kar bhi liya jaae to batil hai. (Ref : Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail , edition # 1414 , maslah # 2335 , 2341 , 2342). Sura e Ahzaab (sura # 33) ko hath say likh kar aik dabbay(box) mai band kar ke apnay ghar may hifazat say rakh dain aur is sura ko har rooz aik bar parh kar dua mangain to hisb e manshah rishta distiab ho ga. (Ref : Naway e salaheen pg # 352). Wazifa batanay k sath aap ko aik fiqhi maslay ki taraf mutawajah kia jata hai: or is terhan ki dosti o mohabbat jaiz nahi hai. (Ref : Nigah aur libas sawal # 106 pg # 69 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai)  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 1  
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      Ques. ID 57571

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      Question Mera sawal yehy k meri pasand ki shading hui y 3 sail hoye hyn or 2bachy hay.mere shohar meri baat nae sunty na mujh se koi bat share krty hyn. Or apny ghar walo PR sab pesy kharch karty hyn.mjhy pesy nae deity na baat manty hyn. Me susral se ab alag hona chahte hun  
      Country  karachi - pakistan
      Answer Jab jab ap apne shohar ke saamne aain to ya waliyo or raat ko ba-wazoo ho kar bistar per letne se neend aane tak ya manioo (“oo” ka arabi talaffuz arabi ke een se karain) ka wird kijye. (Ref : nawaa e saleheen , pg # 292 , 298) Hadees manqool hai, jis main ka baaz ye hai ke arz (ik orat ne) kiya, ya Rasool Allah! Shohar ka haq zoja per kya hai (yani bivi per kya kya cheezain farz hain)? Farmaya, lazim hai ke us ki itaat kare, kisi waqt or kisi hal main us ki nafarmaani na kare, jis waqt wo mubashirat ka irada kare inkaar na kare chahe wo unoot ki pusht per hi kun na sawaar ho, phir us(orat)ne arz ki, ya Rasool Allah! Mard per kis ka haq sab se bara hai? farmaya, baap ka, arz ki (orat ne) orat per sab se bara haq kis ka hai? farmaya, shohar ka, arz ki (orat ne) shohar per mera haq utna nahi hai(jitna mere per shohar ka hai)?farmaya, nahi. or ik dosri Hadees manqool hai ke (orat per farz hai ke )kisi raat is halat main na sooe ke us ka sohar us se naraaz ho, us orat ne arz kiya, ya Rasool Allah! Chahe us orat ke shohar ne kitna hi zulum kiya ho? Farmaya han chahe kitna hi zulum kiya ho. (Ref : tehzib ul islaam , baab # 4 , topic # hoqooq e zojain , pg # 140 , 141). Note in manqoolah hadeesoo ko bayaan karene ka maqsad ye hai ke ap kun ke ik Musalmaan orat hain to ap per lazim hai ke ALLAH o RASOOL(s.a.w) ke bayaan karda hokum per amal kar ke apne khoobsorat se ghar ko or ziyada kobsoorat banane ki koshish karain yahan tak ke ap apni in tamaam zehmatoo ka ajar ALLAH TAALA se hasil karain jannat main.(Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai)  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid 1  
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      Ques. ID 57575

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      Question mere 3 bivi hai a jaiz hai ky  
      Country  bangalore - india
      Answer G han jaiz hai.(Ref : Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Minhaajus saliheen Part # 3, Maslah # 200 , eidition # 4th , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 2  
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      Ques. ID 57580

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      Question ASalam.o.alikum mujha yeh bataen mufti sahab k b.v ka dood pee na jaiz ha yan na-jain ha and agar hum kisi asi orat ka dood peeta hn jius k sath humhara nika nahi hova to asi surat ma shariyat kia kahati ha ?plz mujha aga karen  
      Country  rawalpindi - pakistan
      Answer Wssalam o alykum, ehtiyaat e wajib ke madd e nazar bivi ka doodh pina jaiz nahi hai. or esi orat jis ke sath nikah nahi howa is ka doodh pena haraam hai. (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), E-Mail from Answers@najaf .org) , (Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30,eidition 1430 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid 1  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 11695

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      Question shohar apni biwi ka doodh kyun nhi pi sakta hai  
      Country  bhopal - india
      Answer Shohar biwi k breast suck(choos) ker sakta hay, laikin agar shohar biwi ke breast ko suck karey aur moohn mai doodh aa jaye, to ehtiyat wajib ye hay k biwi ka doodh nah piaya jay(yaani halaq say neechay nah utara jaay.) .Aur is sai nikah batil nhi hota hai. (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), E-Mail from Answers@najaf .org). (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2335) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 11693

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      Question Sir mera sawal ye he ki mard apni zoja se 1 hafte me kitne den ham bistari kar sakta he or kon se konse din or ham bistari k foran bad ghusal krna zarori he kia Allah aap ko jazaye kher de (Ameen)  
      Country  karachi - pakistan
      Answer 1) Shohar apni jawaan biwi sai 4 mahinay sai ziada muddat(time period) k lie hambistari(intercourse) tark nahi kar sakta magar ye k(except) hambistari os k lie nuqsandah ya ziyada takleef ka sabab(reason) ho ya oski biwi khud 4 mahinay sai ziada muddat k liay hambistari tark karnay par razi ho ya nikah kertay waqt nikah k zimn(agreement) main 4 mahinay say ziyada muddat k liay hambistari tark kernay ki shart rakhi gae ho. Laikin is se nikah nahi batil nahi hota.(tauzeehul masail,ayatollah Seestani,maslah #2382). 2) Shaohar ka apni bivi se haiz or nifaas k khoon anae ka dino main hambistari kerna haram hay. Is k alawa baqi dino main jaiz hay. Bivi k saath jima (intercourse) ka islami tariqa ye hai k jima k waqt mustahab hai k bismillah perhi jaay, or baa wuzu hon khaas taur per jab biwi haamla ho,or jima k waqt jo kaam makrooh hain un main say kuch ye hain 1.soraj or chaand gerhan ka hona,2. zawaal e aaftab ka hona siwaay jumeraat k din k, 3. groob e aaftaab k waqt ka hona, 4.chand ki aakhri 3 raaton main jima kena, 5.fajar k baad soraj nikalnay say pehlay, 6.islami mahinay ki pehli taarikh siway Ramazan ki pehli raat(Chaand raat)main , 7. islami mahinay ki darmiani or aakri taarikh main jima kerna, 8.qiblay ki taraf rukh ya pusht kerna, 9.berhana (naked) halat main jima kerna, 10.ehtilaam k baad baghair wuzu k jima kerna, 11.jima k waqt bivi ki sharamg ko dekhna makrooh hai. (Ref : Minhaj us salaheen Ayat ullah sistani d.b. part # 3 masla # 5 )  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid Hujjat ul Islam Aqa Saistani  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 11689

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      Question as salam o alikum muhay apsay yeh poochna tha k bacha paida karnay ka kiya tareeka hai ku k na hi tu mujhay pata hai na meray husband ko  
      Country  london - england
      Answer Shohar ko chahiay k jima se pehlay masaas(orgasm) kare, yaad rakhna chaiay k masaas or dastbaazi k is amal main merd khososi tawajjah rakhe, yani wo piyaar o muhabbat ki baato k sath sath aurat ko good main lay , boos o kinaar kare, pistano(brest) ki niple ko masle, pistano ko dhere dhere dabae,honto ya zabaan ko ahista ahista chosay, baghal, guddi, raan waghera main ungliyaan phere, sharamgaah k ander ungli dakhil ker k halke hlake harkat day , apna uzo e tanasul(penis) aurat k hath main day takeh wo ose dhere dhere dabae or inteshaar(yani uzu e tanasul main tanao) paida hone per apne jazbaat or khahishaat ko os waqt tak qabo main rakhe jab tak aurat ki saansain ukharhni nah shuru ho jain, is k baad jab jima shuru kia jaay tu jab jima k doran aurat k munzil hone (discharge) k bilkul qareeb ho yani wo baytabana harakaat karay, merd se chumtay, liptay, apne hatho ya taango se merd ko kas ker daba,ay. Tab merd bhi jaldi jaldi dkhool(inserting of penis) or ikhraaj(emiting of penis) ker k farigh ho jaay, agar ittefaaq se aurat is waqt tak munzil nah ho or wo apne haatho ya taango se merd ko kas k daba rahi ho takeh merd alag nah ho tu merd ko chahiay k is waqt tak apne aala e tanasul(penis) ko aurat ki sahramgaah se bahar nah nikalay jab tak k aurat munzil nah hojaay, phir khuch dair baad penis ko nikaal ker merd aahistagi se aurat se alag hojaay. .(Ref:Islam or jinsiyaat, mu,allif doctor muhhammed taqi ali abdi, pg#150-151). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 57600

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      Question Sir mera swal ye hy k agr kisi larki k waliden uski shadi zbrdsti se krwai jae or bad me wo lrki talaq lea bghair apne pasnd pr shadi krne ki haq rakhti hy. Reply Must  
      Country  sanghar - sendcv97@gmail.com
      Answer Agr wo larki waqai shadi per razi na ho to is surat men ye shadi sahi nahi hai, lekin ager us ki pasand ki shadi per us ke walid or dada razi na hon to wo apni pasand ka nikah bhi nahi kar sakti, or ager nikah kar le to wo nikah batil hai, or ager walid ya dada main se koi ik bhi razi ho jaae to nikah sahi hai.(lekin agr walid or dada men se koi bhi zinda na ho to phir kisi or se ijazat lena zaruri nahi hia)(Ref : Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail , edition # 1414 , maslah # 2335 , 2341 , 2342 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 1  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 57604

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      Question Assalam o alaikum agar wife apny husband ko beta keh dy tu kia talaq ho jati ha yaa phir kuch nahi hota please jaldi answer chahiye  
      Country  Abu Dhabi - United Arab emirates
      Answer Wssalam o alykum, koi harj nahi hai.(Ref : Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Minhaajus saliheen Part # 3, Maslah # 639 , eidition # 4th , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid 1  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 57605

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      Question Assalamo alaikum sahab mera sawaal hai k ek ladka ek shadi shuda aurat se zina kiya hai jabke wo aurat aur uska shohar 1saal se alag rehte the kyunki un dono ke beech banti nahi thi aur wo aurat ne uske shohar se talaaq maanga tha magar uske shohar ne usko talaq nahi diya aur wo 1saal se alag reh rahe the tab ek ladke ne us aurat ke saath sex kiya dono ki razamandi ke saath aur ab us aurat ko apne shohar se talaq mil gaya hai to wo ladka aur aurat shadi karna chahte hai... kya ye dono shadi kar sakte hai?  
      Country  bangalore - india
      Answer Wssalam o alykum, ehtiyaat e wajib ke tor per nahi kar sakte ye orat is larke per hamesha k liye haram hogai hai. (Ref : Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail , edition # 31 , maslah # 2367 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 4  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 57606

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      Question Mera Shawal Ye hai ki meni Suna hai kiye Husband aur wife ko Sex kiye doran Bolna nhi chye agr wo bolyn to ise sye un ki Olad biye zuban piyda ho gye ise baat mn kitni Shachi hai Plz  
      Country  Gujrat - Pakistan
      Answer G han, Hazrat e Imaam Jaffer o Sadiq (a.s) se manqoolah hadees main warid hai, mager warid ye hai ke Ager jima ke waqt baat ki jaae to mumkin( imkan ) hai ke bacha gnooga peda ho ga zarori nahi hai k aysa ho. (Ref : tehzib ul islaam , baab # 4 , topic # mubashirat ke adaab , pg # 130 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid 3  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 57611

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      Question Penis & Vagina fucking allowed or not between husband and wife  
      Country  Karachi - Pakistan
      Answer (Allowed) jaiz hai. (Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30,eidition 1430 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid 5  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 58739

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      Question Kya husband apne biwi ko pechy ke turf sy hambistre kr skta ha ya nh?  
      Country  Rawalpindi - Pakistan
      Answer Biwi k peechay (back) k maqam(maqam e pakhana) main jimaa(intercourse) krna biwi k raazi na honay ki sorat men ethiyaat-e-wajib ki bina pr haram hai,agr biwi razi ho tu jaiz hay lekin shadeed makrooh hay.(Ref: Ayatullah Seestani(D.B) Al-masail e mutakhaba, maslah # 67). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid 1  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 58741

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      Question i want to know about the limits of shelter between husband and wife. 2. Can husband and wife see each other nacked, or its not allowed in islam.3. And what about kiss's limits, whole body or some area.4 can wife suck penis, or use to rub or catch by hand.thanks  
      Country  peshawar - pakistan
      Answer 1- Biwi k peechay (back) k maqam(maqam e pakhana) main jimaa(intercourse) krna biwi k raazi na honay ki sorat men ethiyaat-e-wajib ki bina pr haram hai,agr biwi razi ho tu jaiz hay lekin shadeed makrooh hay.(Ref: Ayatullah Seestani(D.B) Al-masail e mutakhaba, maslah # 67).Shohar or bivi aik doosray k badan ko berhana(Nacked) daikh saktay hain.Berhana(naked) ho ker jima kerna makhrooh hay.( Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),minhajus saliheen,part#, maslah #5+11) 2-Jima k doran baat kerna makhrooh hay.Shohar or bivi aik doosray se ye tamaam lazzaat hasil ker saktay hain. (( Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),minhajus saliheen,part#, maslah #5+11).Shohar or biwi aik dosray ki sharamgaah ko mon(mouth) laga sakte hain, mgr ye k sharamgaah say nikalnay wali ratoobat Halaq mian nah jaay.Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Istiftaat I-2,I-15)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid 5  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 58246

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      Question agr shohr job pr ho to 1 sal tk bivi wait krti hai to agr bivi munh se apna hq mangy to shoher ko kya krna chahiye mtlb shoher ko waps ana chahiye ya apna kam zroori smjna chahiye ye islam mein jaiz hai?  
      Country  lahore - pakistan
      Answer Biwi ki giza, libas, rehaish aur zandigi ki baqi zarooriat ka intezam shohar par wajib hai. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2376-78) Sohar apni jawan biwi sai 4 mahinay sai ziada muddat(time period) k lie hambistari(intercourse) tark nahi kar sakta magar ye k(except) hambistari os k lie nuqsandah ya ziyada takleef ka sabab(reason) ho ya oski biwi khud 4 mahinay sai ziada muddat k liay hambistari tark karnay par razi ho ya nikah kertay waqt nikah k zimn(agreement) main 4 mahinay say ziyada muddat k liay hambistari tark kernay ki shart rakhi gae ho. Laikin is se nikah nahi batil nahi hota.(tauzeehul masail,ayatollah Seestani,maslah #2382). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid 1  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 58241

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      Question Assalam o alaikum !! me chahti hu k mujhey koi aisa wazifa batahe jis se mere dad shadi k liye razi ho jahe mein our Ali ek dosre se boht pyar karte hai our shadi karna chahte hai us ka proposal bhi ayea hai mere liye magar mere dad nahi man rahe plz koi aisa wazifa batahe jis se woh razi ho jahe.  
      Country  Milan - Italy
      Answer Kunwari larki us waqt tak Nikah nahi kar sakti jub tak baap/dada Nikah ki Ijazat na day day. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail, Maslah# 2341) Surah-e-Ahzaab ko hath say likh kar aik dabbay(box) mai band kar k apnay ghar may hifazat say rakh dain aur is Surah ko har rooz aik bar parh kar dua mangain to hisb-e-Manshah Rishta dastiyaab hoga. (Ref: Naway-e-Saaleheen, pg #352)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 1  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 58264

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      Question Assalam.o.alaikum mera ye sawal ha k agar Court marriage kar li jay or kuch arsay k bad usi larki se agar gar walay man jayen tou dobar Nikah kia ja sakta larka be wahi or larki be wohi ho jinho ne pehlay court marriage ki ho? In short kia nikah pe nikah kia ja skta ha usi larki se jis se court ma be nikah kia ho? Main Or Larki Sunnii Hain. Please Ans me.  
      Country  Lahore - Pakistan
      Answer Note : Is Website per Fiqhae Jaffaria kay mutabiq Jawabaat diay jatay hein.  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 1  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 58751

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      Question 2 meri wife government job karti ha kia uski tankhaw mje haq bannta ha ya in?  
      Country  karachi - pakistan
      Answer Agar wife zinda ho to wife k salary (milkiyat) me shoar ka haq nahi hota. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31st edition, maslah #2607 )  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Shohar Biwi K Ahkam 2
      Mujtahid 4  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 58753

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      Question Kia ek syedzadi aur ek ummati ka nikah ho sakta hai? Plz Quran ki ayat k sath ans dy  
      Country  islamabad - pakistan
      Answer Agar shia aurat ko apne shia mazhab k tabdeel na hone ka khouf na ho to sunni mard se shadi kar sakte hai .laikin phir bhi aurat k lye shadi karna makrooh hai. aur agar shia mazhab k tabdeel ho jane ka khouf ho to jaiz nahe hai, albatta shia gher syed se shadi krna men koi harj nahi hai.(Ref : Minhaj us salaheen Ayat ullah sistani d.b. part # 3 masla # 215,eidition4th) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).  
      Topic Muamilaat >> Nikah >> Ahkam-e-Nikah
      Mujtahid 1  
      Answered By  Quran-o-Itrat Academy 
         
      Ques. ID 58754

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      Question Salam mera sawal ye hai k larki agr Shia Syed zada ho aur larka shia ghair e sadat ho tu kia shia syed larki se shahdi karna jaez hai agr hai tu please koi reference dan q k yahan per logo ka concept bht he ghlt hai ka shia syed larki shia ghair-e-sadat se larkay se shahdi jaez ni hai  
      Country  Islamabad - Pakistan