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Is tarha ki mohabbat o dosti jaiz nahi hai.(Ref : Nigah aur libas sawal # 106 pg # 69).Or ager ap ke waldain ap se mohabbat ki waja se wahan shadi karne ki waja se inkaar kar rahe hain (jo ziyada ter esa hi hota hai) or ap ki na-farmani se un ko takleef hoti ho to ap ka un ki baat na-maanna haraam hai. (Ref : Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail , edition # 31 , maslah # 1387).
Is ke bawajood is wazife par amal karian or Allah Taala ke faisle per bharosa rakhain, Sura e Ahzaab (sura # 33) ko hath say likh kar ik dabbay(box) mai band kar ke apne ghar may hifazat say rakh dain aur is surah ko har rooz ik bar parh kar dua mangain. (Ref : Naway e salaheen pg # 352 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai). |