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Question kya shaadi se pahlay boy n girl romatic talk kar sakat hain n mein yeh poochna chati hoon ke mera mangater every weekend raat ko phone pe meray sath sex talk karta hai n during talk woh apnay penis ko massag karta hai n mujeh kehta hai ke meray se dirty talk karo mein aur woh dirty talk kartay hain n woh apnay penis ko massage kar ke orgasm get kar leta hai kya aisa karna allowed hai cus woh kehta hai ke pehlay woh akaley mein kar leta tha bt ab woh meray saath during talk kar ke haapy hota hai . i know ke humein shaadi kar laini chaiya bt problem yeh hai ke meray parents abhi meri shaadi nahi karna chatay jab ke mein bhi shaadi karna chati hoon jo ke mein apnay parents se nahi bool sakti. thnx 
Answer Mangeter namehram hai aur nemehram aurat k jism ko dhekna aur use touch karna haram hai.( Laikin us se nikah ho skta hai). (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31st edition, maslah #2397, ) Shohar aur biwi k ilawa kise aur tariqe se jinse lazzat hasil karna kerna gunah e kabira hay . .(Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30), Jo shaks shadi na hone ki waja se fale haraam me mubtela hota ho is per wajib ha k shadi kar le.(Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2407) Nikah sahi nahi hoga kunke nikah mai shrt ye hai k kawari (virgin) lerki os waqt tak nikah nahi ker sakti jab tak k lerki ka wali (Baap ya Dada) larki ko nikah ki ijazat nahi deden.or yehi hokum ehtiyaat e wajib ki bin (base) per os sorat main bhi hay k jab larki khud mukhtar or baligh bhi ho. agar lerki kawari nah ho tu os k liay baap ya dada ki ijazat ki zororat nahi hay.(yahaan kawari nah honay say muraad sirif ye hay k aisi lerki jo talaaq yaafta ho ya baywah ho or oskay shohar nay oskay saath hambistari /jima(intercourse) kia ho or oskay kawaraypan ko khatam kia ho or oski iddta bhi khatam ho chuki ho.agar zinaa ya aisay hi kisi kaam say oska kawaraypan khatam hoa ho tu ye kawari hi kehlaay gi). (Ref : Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2341,2342). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).  

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