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Question asslam alaikum,umeed hay aap khairiat say hon gay.may aap say kuch msaail puchna chahti hun. 1)may bht choti umer say musht zani ker rhi hun.musht zani kernay k baad shdeed ahssas e gunaah hota hay my phir toba kerti hun lakin kuch dino baad dobarah kr leti hun.may is gunaah ko chor dena chahti hun.please koi hal btain? 2) ak to shaadi k baad shohar k sath humbistri hoti hay na.lakin kia shadi k baad biwi shoher say keh skti hay k tm meri sharmgaah ko hath lgao or may tangain (legs)jor k musht zani kerti hun?mukhtasir yay k kia shadi k baad humbistri k saath musht zani ki ja skti hay? 3)computer pay gndi gndi pictures dekhnay ka kia gunaah hay? 4)mujay 6 saal ho gay hain zehni preshani ka shikaar huay.mujay lgta hay insaan apni zindgi may 4 kaam kerta hay 1)ibadat 2)entertainment 3)sleeping 4)work. may har roz decide kerti hun k may is may say her cheez may kia kia krun gi jesay k entertainment may sirf dramas dekhun gi koi song nae sunun gi.rest krun gi to sirf 4 ghantay.ibadat may nmaaz,quran,zikir krun gi.lakin kuch dino k baad may isay follow nae ker paati.or ajeeb tension ka shikaar ho jati hun phir zehan may yay khyaal b ata hay Allah nay Quran may insan ko sub bta dia hay to may aisa kyun ker rhi hun.may bht kashmaksh ka shikaar hun.please mujay koi hal btain.islam aisi surat e haat k baray may kia kehta hay. please maray har swaal ka jwaab dijiay ga. Wasslaam.  
Answer 1)Istimna(kise tariqe se mani kharij) karna haram haiaur ghuna kabira hai.(Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30,eidition 2009), 2) Mani kharij hone se ghusl janabat wajib ho jata hai. (Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 344 ) 3) Jo shak shadi na hone ki waja se fale haraam me mubtela hota ho is per wajib ha k shadi kar le. . (Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2407)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye). 4) jo istimna karta hai wo sub se shermindagi ka ehsaas karain or Allah se maghfirat talab karain or khud se ehed or wada karain k is gunah ko dobara anjaam nahi dain gay, or hameshah yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko daikh raha hay, or this gunah ko anjaam day ker wo shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na-fermani ker rahay hain.wo koshish karain k khuch mufeed kamo main khud ko masroof ker lain jaisay sport, perha,e waghaira, or har os cheez se bachain jo wo ki jinsi khahish ko ubharay ya baydaar karain. Agar wo khud par qabo nah paa saktay hoon to roza rakhain q k roza ghunahoo k muqabilay mai dhal ka kaam karta hai. (E-mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: Sep 27, 2010). 2) insaan k lie apne hatho se istimna karna haram hai. laikin biwi apne hatho se shoar ki mani nikaal sakte hai. ( ref: sistani .org , English, hand practices, que: 1) 3) Ethiat e wajib k toor per fahash filmoo (porn movies) aur tasveeron (porn pictures) ko dekhna haram he agar chahah shak aur lazzat k bagair dekha jay. (Ref: Jaded Faqhi Masayl Ayat ullaha Sistani d.b. Masla # 463 pg # 254) 4) shoar aur biwi k ilawa kise aur tariqe se jinse lazzat hasil karna kerna gunah e kabira hay . .(Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30), (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).  

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