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Assalam-o-alaikum,
mera name M.Wasi Abbas,hai and mai ek shia family se belong krta hu.,
1 year before..,mujay handpractice( hath se mani nikalna)..ki ek boht buri adat lag gae..ye adat jaisay mera pechaa hi nae chor rahi..ALLAH PAK se kae dafa maafi mangi..or waaday b kiye mgr..mai phr se yahi harqat krte ja raha hu...is harqat se mai bht patla sukha hogya hu...kia kru kch smjh mai nae ataa...
Ye baat or kis se share karu..,
i am requesting u..ALLAH k wastay mujeh koi esi dua ya koi esi ayat bta dein..k jis se mai is buri or ghatia harqat se bch jaou..mera future barbaad hojaye ga...
Kindly koi aesa tareeqa bta dein k js se is harqat ka khayal mera fehmogumaan mai b nae aye...is se mera confidence se girta ja raha hai... |
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1)Istimna (kise tariqe se mani kharij) karna haram hai.(ref. jaded fiqi masail aqa sistani pg no. 253 masla #462)
2)Sub se pehlay shermindagi ka ehsaas karain or Allah se maghfirat talab karain or khud se ehed or wada karain k is gunah ko dobara anjaam nahi dain gay, or hameshah yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko daikh raha hay, or is gunah ko anjaam day ker aap shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na-fermani ker rahay hain.aap koshish karain k khuch mufeed kamo main khud ko masroof ker lain jaisay sport, perhai waghaira, or har os cheez se bachain jo aap ki jinsi khahish ko ubharay ya baydaar karain. Agar aap khud par qabo nah paa saktay hoon to roza rakhain q k roza ghunahoo k muqabilay mai dhal ka kaam karta hai. (E-mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: Sep 27, 2010).
3)Hazrat Rasool e Khuda s.a.w.w. irshad farmatay hain k: Jo shakhs surah e talaq surah no 65 ki tilawat karay ga Khuda os ki toba qabool karay ga jis mai ghunnah ki taraf dubara lotna na ho ga. (Ref : Dunya Wa Akhirat ki 100 Pareshanion ka hal pg # 37)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).
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