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1)Istimna ya hand pratics (kise tariqe se mani kharij) karna haram hai. Aur ghuna kabira hai.(ref. jaded fiqi masail aqa sistani pg no. 253 masla #462) aur minhajus sualeheen , aqa sistani, part no 1 , masla no:30)
2)Sub se pehlay shermindagi ka ehsaas karain or Allah se maghfirat talab karain or khud se ehed or wada karain k is gunah ko dobara anjaam nahi dain gay, or hameshah yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko daikh raha hay, or is gunah ko anjaam day ker aap shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na-fermani ker rahay hain.aap koshish karain k khuch mufeed kamo main khud ko masroof ker lain jaisay sport, perhai waghaira, or har os cheez se bachain jo aap ki jinsi khahish ko ubharay ya baydaar karain. Agar aap khud par qabo nah paa saktay hoon to roza rakhain q k roza ghunahoo k muqabilay mai dhal ka kaam karta hai. (E-mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: Sep 27, 2010).
3) jo shakhs shadi na krnay ki wajah sai apnay aap ko fail e haram sai na bacha sakay os par shadi krna wajib hai. (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Ayat ullaha Sistani d.b. Masla # 385,397 pg # 231,234) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).
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