Asalamualikum mera rasam hogaya aur mai mere hone wale shohar se bat kartiu aur hamare beech kabi kabi bhout behaz hojati char din achae rehte hum khushi khushi se but phr kuch aisi bat hoti k behaz hojati unku bhout gussa aata vo bhout gusse vale hai aur kuch aise bata boldete ki merku b bhout bura lagta aur gussa aajata to mai jawab dedetiu unku isme hamari ladayi aur badjati phr uno do teen din tak bat nai karte phn nai karte aur mai unku bhout chahtiu mai khona na chahriu unku uno gusse aake hamesha chordene ki bat karte har bar aisi karte mai kaisa bardash karna bhout jnsulting feel hota plz merku kuch rah batayiye plz . Masla # 53467


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Question	Asalamualikum mera rasam hogaya aur mai mere hone wale shohar se bat kartiu aur hamare beech kabi kabi bhout behaz hojati char din achae rehte hum khushi khushi se but phr kuch aisi bat hoti k behaz hojati unku bhout gussa aata vo bhout gusse vale hai aur kuch aise bata boldete ki merku b bhout bura lagta aur gussa aajata to mai jawab dedetiu unku isme hamari ladayi aur badjati phr uno do teen din tak bat nai karte phn nai karte aur mai unku bhout chahtiu mai khona na chahriu unku uno gusse aake hamesha chordene ki bat karte har bar aisi karte mai kaisa bardash karna bhout jnsulting feel hota plz merku kuch rah batayiye plz
Answer	Jins e mukhalif se dosti kerna (jesa larke or larki ka apas men dosti krna) jaiz nahi hai koun k gunah men mubtilla hone ka khoaf majood hai.(Ref : Kitab nigah aur libaas ques # 106 , pg # 69). (Jesa k apne btaya k ap us larke se mohabbat krti hen to is qism k taluqat rakhna ya isi ghrz se bat chit krna haram hai hatta k apk mangetr se bat krna bhi) agr lazzat k irade or gunah men mubtala hone ka khoaf ho to jaiz nahi hai ( q k wo (shadi se pehle) ap k liye na_mehram hen or na_mehram se is qism k taluqat rakhna jaiz nahi hen.(Ref : Aqai Sistani(d.db), Nigah or Libaas 10 Marajaye k Fatawa k Mutabiq, 1st Edition, Page#57-58, Ques# 76-77-78)
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