Meri engagement ho chuki hai pr mere hone wale shohar ko sex krne ka bahot dill hota hai..or wo mujhe bahot bar kehte hai k hum kar lete hai or 1-2 bar kr bhi liya hai masla aise hai k hum shadi nhi kr pa rhe hai kyuki unhe khud ka ghar Lena hai or wo jb tk nhi hota shadi nhi kr sakte or wo sex k liye bhi sabar nhi kr pa rhe hai or mai mana krti hu to mujhe dar hai k kahi unka pyar khatam na hojaye meri ek sister ka aisa hi hua hai isliye....ab mujhe samjh nhi aata kya karu or mere shohar ka abba bhi ghar jaldi nhi le rhe hai kyunki thoda paiso ka masla hai..mai mushkil me padh gyi hu kru to kya.. . Masla # 61174


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Question	Meri engagement ho chuki hai pr mere hone wale shohar ko sex krne ka bahot dill hota hai..or wo mujhe bahot bar kehte hai k hum kar lete hai or 1-2 bar kr bhi liya hai masla aise hai k hum shadi nhi kr pa rhe hai kyuki unhe khud ka ghar Lena hai or wo jb tk nhi hota shadi nhi kr sakte or wo sex k liye bhi sabar nhi kr pa rhe hai or mai mana krti hu to mujhe dar hai k kahi unka pyar khatam na hojaye meri ek sister ka aisa hi hua hai isliye....ab mujhe samjh nhi aata kya karu or mere shohar ka abba bhi ghar jaldi nhi le rhe hai kyunki thoda paiso ka masla hai..mai mushkil me padh gyi hu kru to kya..
Answer	Mangiter namehram he(q k mangni ki share`at men koi hesiat nahi hai lehaza wo abhi ap k shohar nahi hen to un se is qism k rawabit rakhna haram or gunahe kabeera hai)(ref : Mujtahid se pouchey gay sawalat part # 3, ques # 115, pg # 57)(Ref : Mujtahid se pochay gaey sawalaat, part # 4, sawaal # 127,pg # 66) (Ref:nigha aur libas pg: 31 eidition 1) shoar aur biwi k ilawa kise aur tariqe se jinse lazzat hasil karna kerna gunah e kabira hay.(Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30), Jo shaks shadi na hone ki waja se haraam kamon me mubtela hota ho is per wajib ha k shadi kar le.(Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2407)
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