Asalaamualaikum,hum bahaut hi zada mushibat mae hai actually ham ne kabhi ekh bf bana nhi caha tha per school mae hamara ekh bf bana and we just used to kiss and hugneach other and that boy was a bengali later he promised me that he will change his religion and marry me and we did lot more thing on the upper part of body except sex and all,later he left me,now i was i n college and a Christian boy loves me he knows everything about my past and i tried myself to be away from him lekin ho na saki aur dobara wahi kiya. Bus ab mae in sab cheezo se maafi maaangna cahti hu kya yeh Zina hai ya nhi aur iski maafi kaise hogi Please bataya hum jee nhi paa rahe kisi se samne eyes nhi mila paa rahe kuch bataya . Masla # 61443


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Question	Asalaamualaikum,hum bahaut hi zada mushibat mae hai actually ham ne kabhi ekh bf bana nhi caha tha per school mae hamara ekh bf bana and we just used to kiss and hugneach other and that boy was a bengali later he promised me that he will change his religion and marry me and we did lot more thing on the upper part of body except sex and all,later he left me,now i was i n college and a Christian boy loves me he knows everything about my past and i tried myself to be away from him lekin ho na saki aur dobara wahi kiya. Bus ab mae in sab cheezo se maafi maaangna cahti hu kya yeh Zina hai ya nhi aur iski maafi kaise hogi Please bataya hum jee nhi paa rahe kisi se samne eyes nhi mila paa rahe kuch bataya
Answer	1)zina ye hota hay k aik baligh or aqil merd(yani jo pagal nah ho) apne uzo e tanasul(penis) ko hashfe(glanspenis) ki miqdaar k baraber aik aisi aurat ki agli(vegina) ya pichli(anus) sharamgaah main daale jo is merd k liay halal nah ho. (Ref: Al-Lumatud damashqiyah,part#3,chepter kitab e hodood, pg#313) . (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye) 2)shoar aur biwi k ilawa kise aur tariqe se jinse lazzat hasil karna kerna gunah e kabira hay . .(Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30), 3)Jins e mukhalif sai is had tak dosti karna k mohabbat ki had tak pounch jay, ye jaiz nahi hai q k ghunnah mai mubtila honay ka khof mojoud hay. (Ref : Nigah aur libas sawal # 106 pg # 69) 4)Jis se ghuna hoya ho wo Suche dil se toba karni chahea. Parverdigar ne quran majeed me wada kia hai k wo toba karney waloo ki toba ko qabool karta he. Aisa hargis nahi ho sakhta k wo apne waday per amal na karay. (ref : website ayatullaha sistani d.b. ques # 1 , toba). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)
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