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Question sir i am a girl and i am a just 14 years old.... in this age every girl is fly in a sky....sir main facebook bhi buhat use kartti thi larkon or larkiyun buhat sy main baat bhi kartti thi ik din ik larky nain mujhy kaha k main ap ko like karta hun...to main na kaha k main hi ap ko like kartti hun ...phir hum donoun batain karny lagy ...marry ghar walon ko is bary main kuch bhi ni pata ....lakin ab main buhat gilt feel kar rahi hun aisa lagta hai k main buhat galt kar rahi hun khud k sath bhi aapny parents k sath bhi main ab yeh sub nhi karna cahatti ab ap hi batain main kiya karun main buhat giltty feel kar rahi hun...plz ask me what i am now doing? 
Answer 1)Jinse mukhalif sai is had tak dosti karna k mohabbat ki had tak pounch jay, ye jaiz nahi hai Q k ghunnah mai mubtila honay ka khof mojoud hay. (Ref : Nigah aur libas, Mafhoom e sawal # 106 pg # 69) 2)Sab se pehlay tu aap ko apnay is gunah per nidamat honi chahiay or Allah se istighfaar or tauba talab kerni chahiay or apnay aap se ehed or wada kerna chahiay k is ghunah e azeem ko phir kabhi anjaam nahi dain gi.or hamaisha yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko har waqt daikh raha hay or aap is gunah ko anjaam day ker shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na fermani ker rahay hain.aap koshish karain k aap khud ko dosri mufeed kaamo main masroof ker lain jaisay khail, perhae waghaira waghaira or har os cheez se perhaiz karain jo aap ko in kaamo ki janib ubhaaray. (E-mail Rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b) Sep 27, 2010). Update on dated 02-07-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).  

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