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Question Assalam-o-Alaikum, meri umer 23 sal h, KHUDA se mohabat krna chahta hn bt meri nafs itni buri hy k mera hr wakt jinsi talk bnany ka dil krta hy, lakin shahdi nai hui isly majborn hand practice krna prd jati. agr na karn to aurtn se bad nazri krny ka dil krta h or uthty bethy mind main vohi chalta hy, aik lardki mery sath nikah krny ko razi b hy. lakin umer meri km hony ki vja se mere ghar waly nahi manty, mai unhain apni majbori bta b nahi bata. or bs din rat kabi achi kam to kbi bury bht tang hn mai shehwat ki waja se. 
Answer Apni biwi k sath sex krne k elawa kisi or tarike se mani kharij krna ya phir Istimna(musht zani) karna haram hai.(ref. jaded fiqi masail aqa sistani pg no. 253 masla #462) Jo shak shadi na hone ki waja se fale haraam me mubtela hota ho is per wajib ha k shadi kar le. (Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2407)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye). sub se shermindagi ka ehsaas karain or Allah se maghfirat talab karain or khud se ehed or wada karain k is gunah ko dobara anjaam nahi dain gay, or hameshah yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko daikh raha hay, or is gunah ko anjaam day ker aap shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na-fermani ker rahay hain.aap koshish karain k khuch mufeed kamo main khud ko masroof ker lain jaisay sport, parhaie waghaira, or har os cheez se bachain jo aap ki jinsi khahish ko ubharay ya baydaar karain. Agar aap khud par qabo nah paa saktay hoon to roza rakhain q k roza ghunahoo k muqabilay mai dhal ka kaam karta hai. (E-mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: Sep 27, 2010). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)  

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